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Stress-free Wedding Planning Podcast # 169: More Than Music! The DJ & MC’s Secret to Transforming Your Wedding
Host: Sal & Sam
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00:00 Introduction to More Than Music! The DJ & MC’s Secret to Transforming Your Wedding
01:00 Podcast Overview and Goals
02:45 Understanding the DJ and MC Dynamic
04:15 The DJ's Role: More Than Just Music
07:30 The MC's Role: The Voice of the Evening
10:30 Wedding Tip Wednesday: Copy of the Ceremony
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15:00 Tips for Choosing the Right DJ and MC
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(00:01):
A wedding DJ's not, someone justhits a play button and starts music.
And an MC is not justsaying a bunch of words.
Together, they set the tone, control theflow, and create the atmosphere that turns
your wedding from nice to unforgettable.
In this edition, we pull back thecurtain on the real impact that
(00:22):
DJ and MC have on your big day.
We'll share how theykeep the energy alive.
Guide your guests seamlessly fromone moment to the next, and make sure
you can focus on celebrating insteadof worrying about what comes next.
I'm Sal of After HoursEvents of New England.
Welcome to another edition of our podcast.
(00:42):
Hi, I'm Sam from Atmosphere Productions.
How does a DJ and MC work togetherto create the perfect flow?
What's the difference betweena good DJ and a great one?
Why does the MC style matter justas much as the music they select?
How can the right team keep youstress-free on your big day.
(01:03):
If you want your wedding to feeleffortless, fun, and full of energy,
then this edition is for you.
So listen now, learn about the DJ andMC secret, of transforming your wedding.
These are wedding Insider secrets fora stress-free, fun, and memorable day.
Our podcast helps engage couples navigatethe complexities of wedding planning
(01:26):
while addressing family expectations.
We'll guide you through the journeyof creating the perfect wedding
day without unnecessary stress.
By the end of this edition, you'llget concise tips on budgeting,
wedding party management, ceremony,reception planning, and more.
Perfect for anyone planning awedding all in 30 minutes or less.
Trust us, you don't wanna miss this.
(01:49):
Welcome to Stress-free WeddingPlanning, the podcast that will
transform your wedding planningjourney from chaotic to enchanting.
Sal and Sam bring over 80 years ofcombined wedding expertise and exclusive
insider information to the table.
If you're recently engaged, feelingthe pressure of wedding planning.
Struggling with family expectations, butstill dreaming of a joy-filled wedding.
You've come to the right place.
(02:10):
Get ready to unveil thebest-kept wedding secrets.
Discover practical tips andstrategies and learn life-changing
lessons for a stress-free wedding.
Your unforgettable wedding day awaits.
We're here to take you on a transformativejourney of love, laughter, and memories.
So don't miss out on the podcast,that just might change your life.
This is the Stress-free WeddingPlanning Podcast with Sal and Sam.
(02:33):
Thanks again for listening and becauseof you, we are now ranked number
15 in the Top 60 Wedding Planningpodcast by million podcast.com.
On today's podcast, we'll explain the DJand MC secret to transform your wedding.
I'm Sam from the award-winningAtmosphere Productions.
(02:53):
Wedding Entertainment with expertknowledge and the difference in quality.
Specializing in live ceremonymusicians and cocktail hour
string musicians plus lighting.
And an elegant, an classy presentation,we have exactly what you need.
Visit us at Atmospherehyphen Productions dot com.
That's Atmosphere hyphenProductions dot com.
(03:15):
Learn more about our experienceand the journey to help you with
stress-free wedding planning in thetrailer or pilot of this podcast.
Keep in mind a wedding DJ isn't justsomeone that's playing music, and an MC
is more than just making announcements.
Together they transform your weddingatmosphere, set the tone, and keep
everything flowing seamlessly.
(03:37):
I'm Sal of After HoursEvents of New England.
The experts in creating a stress-free,unforgettable wedding experience.
We bring energy, professionalism,and a passion to making every
couple's big day truly special.
Visit us at After HoursEvents Of N.E dot com.
Again, that's After HoursEvents Of N.E dot com.
(04:00):
Just wanna say congratulationsto McKenna and Joe, who are
getting married next Septemberat Aria in Prospect, Connecticut.
They listen to the Stress-freeWedding Planning Podcast, and it
helps them plan their wedding.
All the best to you, McKenna, and Joe.
Let's get this thing started.
It's more than just music, everyone.
Now, when most couples think abouthiring a dj, the first thing that
(04:23):
comes to mind is music, right?
That's a natural thing to think about.
The playlist, the dancing, the party.
Exactly.
But here's the thing.
A great DJ and MC areso much more than that.
A DJ, you gotta remember, a DJplays the music, so they have
to know what's coming up next.
The next five songs, they'vealready got it planned and
(04:45):
programmed, so they keep a flow.
An MC is somebody who knows howto speak and get your attention,
and keeps the evening flowingby telling you what's happening.
They're the ones setting theatmosphere, guiding the flow of the
day, and keeping guests engaged.
It's about creating energy, not justplaying songs and announcing names.
(05:07):
That's right, and it starts evenearlier than people realize from the
moment the guests enter the ceremonyspace or cocktail hour, the music
and announcements set the mood.
Is it warm and welcoming?
Is it elegant and formal?
Is it upbeat and fun?
Those choices don't happen by accident.
And the best part, Sal, is thatwhen it's done really well, guests
(05:31):
don't even think about it or notice.
They just feel it.
They're relaxed.
They know where to go.
They know what to do.
They know when the dance flooropens and knows when to party.
That's the invisible magica professional brings.
Look an MC/DJ you could think of them asbeing the quarterbacks of the reception.
(05:51):
They keep things on track, introductions,toast, special dances, cake cutting.
All those little transitions couldfeel clunky, if not managed well.
A strong DJ and MC pair make thosetransitions smooth so your wedding
feels seamless instead of stop and go.
And let's be honest, when thingsdon't flow well, people notice.
(06:15):
You know, it's like having a song endand then you hear nothing for three
seconds and then music starts up again.
Well, a bad DJ or MC, that's theirM.O. You'll probably be at a wedding
where no one knew what was happening.
Most of the time when sound I do weddings,there is no dead air, there is no space.
(06:35):
Most of the time the guests justhear the music, and they know what's
happening, and because of the MC skills,they know what's about to happen.
A great DJ prevents these gaps.
So YOU stay stress-free andyour guests stay in the moment.
Just as a reminder, joinus on our YouTube channel.
Just search for the Stress-free WeddingPlanning Podcast with Sal and Sam.
(07:00):
Like, comment, subscribe,and get it first.
Alright, let's break this down.
The DJ is focused on the sound, the vibe,and the technical aspects of the music.
Good DJs are reading the room,adjusting their energy, and ensuring
every moment has the right soundtrack.
(07:21):
Exactly Sam, the DJ's the behind thescenes strategists, mixing songs,
building energy, and ensuring thevolume and timing are just perfect.
But if no one tells yourguest what's happening, even
the best music can fall flat.
That's where the MC comes in.
That's right.
The MC is the voice of the evening.
(07:42):
Now, sometimes the DJ andthe MC are combined into one.
That's what I do.
I do the DJing and the MC.
So, an MC, their priority is making theannouncements, introducing the wedding
party and keep the guests informed.
Like when the cake cutting'shappening, when the first dance is
(08:02):
happening, when the bride's gonnadance with her dad, they set the tone.
A confident and friendly MC makes yourevent feel polished and professional
while a nervous or over the top, MCcan completely throw off the vibe.
That is so true.
The MC is like the host of your wedding.
(08:23):
They're the bridge between thecouple, the vendors, and the guests.
They ensure that everyone inthat room is on the same page and
knows exactly what's gonna happen.
When those two roles workseamlessly; it feels effortless.
It's not forced.
The day flows naturally.
(08:44):
No one's wondering what'shappening or what's coming up next.
Everyone stays engaged.
And here's the beauty of it.
When the DJ and MC are insync, they can pivot quickly
if something unexpect happens.
Whether it's a delay in the kitchen, amissing speaker, or sudden weather change.
They can adjust the energy andkeep things moving without anyone
(09:06):
realizing there was a hiccup.
That's right.
That's the difference between justhaving music and having a professional
who will manage your event.
A lot of people think that theycan just play Spotify and it
will run the entire wedding.
Well, who's going to MC?
Who's going to keep forward progress?
(09:27):
Who's going to keep the music going?
It's more than music.
It's about creating theexperience from start to finish.
Now let's take a quick recap.
Remember, a DJ isn't just pushing play,they're setting the atmosphere, guiding
the flow, keeping guests engaged,and the MC, they're the voice of the
evening, making sure everyone knowswhat's happening while setting the tone.
(09:51):
When those two roles work together,your wedding feels seamless,
stress-free, and unforgettable.
Coming up next, we'll share some real-lifeexamples of how this plays out, including
the wins and the lessons learned.
But first, if you have a questionor concern, go now to Facebook and
join us on the Stress-free WeddingPlanning community, and now in the
(10:11):
Connecticut Wedding Advice Community.
You can also join uson our YouTube channel.
Just search for the Stress-free WeddingPlanning Podcast with Sal and Sam.
Like, comment, subscribe,and get it first.
This is the Stress-free WeddingPlanning Podcast with Sal and Sam.
A podcast for engaged couples concernedabout wedding planning and family
(10:31):
expectations, but who want a stress-free,fun, and unforgettable wedding.
Wedding Tip Wednesday is availableon the Stress-free Wedding Planning
Facebook group page every Wednesday.
Join the group for free.
Now it's time for our favorite segment.
It's Wedding Tip Wednesday time.
But first, remember when you are right.
No one remembers when youare wrong, no one forgets.
(10:54):
Isn't that the truth, Sam?
Oh my goodness.
Oh!
I have a wedding tip here foryou that's close to my heart.
Something I say to every single couple.
Keep a copy of yourceremony on your cell phone.
Make sure your best person has one too.
Just in case something goes wrong, likeyou're wedding officiant not making
(11:14):
it, and someone else has to stand in.
Now they have the script andthey can keep things going.
And that's another weddingtip from Sal and Sam.
Wedding Tip Wednesday is availableon the Stress-free Wedding Planning
Facebook group page every Wednesday.
Join the group for free.
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Welcome back to the discussion, the DJMC secret to transforming your wedding.
(12:22):
I'm Sal After Hours events of New England.
And I'm Sam from Atmosphere Productions.
We've already discussed how DJs andMCs have their own roles to create
the vibe, keeping your guests in theknow, and keeping things flowing.
Let's talk about what happenswhen things aren't done well.
We've all been to the wedding wherethe DJ is basically a playlist on
(12:45):
shuffle and no one knows what's next.
The energy starts and stops, and youcan feel the guests losing interest.
Yeah.
So of course the couple is leftto direct things on the spot.
"Hey, it's time for the toast." "Shouldwe do the cake now?" This kills the
whole vibe, and this adds stress becausesuddenly the couple is managing the
(13:07):
timeline instead of enjoying the moment.
That's what an MC will do.
He'll make sure that allthose bumps are smoothed out.
You know, Sam, on one of those rareoccasions that I was actually able
to go to wedding and didn't actuallyhave to DJ it, I remember attending
this wedding where there was noclear MC after dinner, half the
(13:28):
guests were still at their tables.
Others were at the bar, and no one knewthat the first dance was about to start.
By the time people realize they'dalready missed half of it; that's
a memory you just can't getback, and you just can't redo it.
Yes.
And you also have the samething for the, the cake cutting.
If you suddenly just have the couple dothe cake cutting and nobody knows, by the
(13:52):
time they're halfway through, people arejust realizing, "oh, they're doing the
cake." That's why I always recommend tomy couples at least, announce the cake
cutting, even if you're not gonna do it.
People love to take a picture of that.
Now, on the flip side, when youhave a professional DJ and MC team,
the difference is night and day.
(14:12):
I've worked weddings wherethe catering was running late.
So instead of just letting the guestssit and wait, we did a dance set.
I got on the mic, got the energyup, got the guests on the dance
floor, and we danced for 15 to 20minutes until the food was ready.
Then we had 'em sit down.
See, everybody thought that was partof the planning, except it wasn't.
(14:33):
We were covering for the caterers.
That's the magic.
Your guests know where to be, when tocheer and when to hit the dance floor.
And from there, our couple getsto actually relax , knowing
someone is handling the flow.
They get to live in the momentinstead of worrying about schedule.
Bottom line, Sal, a great DJ andMC, they will save you stress.
(14:57):
They elevate your whole celebrationand they make sure every moment
feels intentional and not accidental.
If you're planning a wedding,here are a few things to keep in
mind when choosing your DJ and MC.
First and foremost, askabout their MC style.
(15:18):
Do they match the energyyou are looking for?
Perhaps you're looking for somethingfun and upbeat, or maybe you want
something classy and elegant.
Not every MC can switch gears, soensure that their personality aligns
with the vibe of your wedding.
That's a great point, Sal.
I've seen couples hire a DJ MC,who's technically skilled, maybe
(15:40):
like a radio or nightclub dj, butwhose personality doesn't match.
Imagine wanting a romanticlow-key atmosphere, but your MC
is cracking jokes and yelling intothe mic as if it was a nightclub.
A total mismatch.
Agreed.
Next.
If these are two separatepeople, look for the teamwork.
(16:01):
Some DJs handle both roles themselves.
Just like you do, Sam.
While others work as part of a team.
Either approach can be greatas long as they're comfortable
balancing those responsibilities.
Ask how they divide the roles sonothing slips through the cracks.
And of course, don't forgetabout how you handle transitions.
If you, you mix beat to beat or yousegue, you want somebody who can read
(16:27):
the crowd but also read the music,and we do what I say, weave in between
the music so that everything flows.
You don't want awkward silencesas we mentioned before, you don't
want your guests standing aroundunsure what's gonna happen next?
A pro will tell you howthey guide the night.
When they cue the toast, how they bringthe energy back up after dinner, and
(16:50):
how they keep the dance floor full.
That's the difference between anokay night and an unforgettable one.
Another biggie is reading the crowd.
It's really difficult to teacha DJ this, but a good DJ doesn't
just let the playlist flow.
The list that you gave theDJ, he shouldn't be just
(17:11):
playing 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7.
They should be mixed.
So if you've got like for instance, anineties vibe going, then lean into it.
Keep going.
If you've got a club mix going andeverybody's partying on the dance
floor, you should be able to readthe crowd and follow on from that.
And finally, here's the mostimportant tip, something you
(17:33):
think that may be common sense.
Make sure you actually like them.
You're spending one of the biggestthings of your life with this person.
If you feel comfortable with them, if theylisten to you, if you feel like they get
your vision, that's half the battle won.
Ain't that the truth?
Because at the end ofthe day, your DJ and MC.
(17:56):
Aren't just behind the DJ booth, they'repart of the heart of your celebration.
We've just explained more thanmusic, the DJ and MC secret
to transforming your wedding.
At the end of the day, the DJand MC are more than music.
They're memory makers, and stress busters.
When they do their job right, youwon't even notice the little things.
(18:19):
They just flow and you'll get to do whatyou're supposed to do at your wedding.
Celebrate and enjoy every moment.
Now as you spend the next week planningyour wedding, if you want me, Sal, or our
community of stress-free engaged couplesand wedding experts to answer any wedding
related questions, then join us in theStress-free Wedding planning Facebook
(18:39):
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Once you're in, go ahead and shareyour concerns and worries, and
we'll let you know if you are onthe right track or if there are.
Things you need to work on.
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go to Facebook and search for thestress-free wedding planning community.
Remember to do something nice forsomeone today, and if you can't,
then do something nice for yourself.
(19:01):
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(19:22):
Atmosphere Productions in associationwith After Hours Events of New England.
A wedding DJ's not, someone justhits a play button and starts music.
And an MC is not justsaying a bunch of words.
Together, they set the tone, control theflow, and create the atmosphere that turns
your wedding from nice to unforgettable.
In this edition, we pull back thecurtain on the real impact that
(00:22):
DJ and MC have on your big day.
We'll share how theykeep the energy alive.
Guide your guests seamlessly fromone moment to the next, and make sure
you can focus on celebrating insteadof worrying about what comes next.
I'm Sal of After HoursEvents of New England.
Welcome to another edition of our podcast.
(00:42):
Hi, I'm Sam from Atmosphere Productions.
How does a DJ and MC work togetherto create the perfect flow?
What's the difference betweena good DJ and a great one?
Why does the MC style matter justas much as the music they select?
How can the right team keep youstress-free on your big day.
(01:03):
If you want your wedding to feeleffortless, fun, and full of energy,
then this edition is for you.
So listen now, learn about the DJ andMC secret, of transforming your wedding.
These are wedding Insider secrets fora stress-free, fun, and memorable day.
Our podcast helps engage couples navigatethe complexities of wedding planning
(01:26):
while addressing family expectations.
We'll guide you through the journeyof creating the perfect wedding
day without unnecessary stress.
By the end of this edition, you'llget concise tips on budgeting,
wedding party management, ceremony,reception planning, and more.
Perfect for anyone planning awedding all in 30 minutes or less.
Trust us, you don't wanna miss this.
(01:49):
Welcome to Stress-free WeddingPlanning, the podcast that will
transform your wedding planningjourney from chaotic to enchanting.
Sal and Sam bring over 80 years ofcombined wedding expertise and exclusive
insider information to the table.
If you're recently engaged, feelingthe pressure of wedding planning.
Struggling with family expectations, butstill dreaming of a joy-filled wedding.
You've come to the right place.
(02:10):
Get ready to unveil thebest-kept wedding secrets.
Discover practical tips andstrategies and learn life-changing
lessons for a stress-free wedding.
Your unforgettable wedding day awaits.
We're here to take you on a transformativejourney of love, laughter, and memories.
So don't miss out on the podcast,that just might change your life.
This is the Stress-free WeddingPlanning Podcast with Sal and Sam.
(02:33):
Thanks again for listening and becauseof you, we are now ranked number
15 in the Top 60 Wedding Planningpodcast by million podcast.com.
On today's podcast, we'll explain the DJand MC secret to transform your wedding.
I'm Sam from the award-winningAtmosphere Productions.
(02:53):
Wedding Entertainment with expertknowledge and the difference in quality.
Specializing in live ceremonymusicians and cocktail hour
string musicians plus lighting.
And an elegant, an classy presentation,we have exactly what you need.
Visit us at Atmospherehyphen Productions dot com.
That's Atmosphere hyphenProductions dot com.
(03:15):
Learn more about our experienceand the journey to help you with
stress-free wedding planning in thetrailer or pilot of this podcast.
Keep in mind a wedding DJ isn't justsomeone that's playing music, and an MC
is more than just making announcements.
Together they transform your weddingatmosphere, set the tone, and keep
everything flowing seamlessly.
(03:37):
I'm Sal of After HoursEvents of New England.
The experts in creating a stress-free,unforgettable wedding experience.
We bring energy, professionalism,and a passion to making every
couple's big day truly special.
Visit us at After HoursEvents Of N.E dot com.
Again, that's After HoursEvents Of N.E dot com.
(04:00):
Just wanna say congratulationsto McKenna and Joe, who are
getting married next Septemberat Aria in Prospect, Connecticut.
They listen to the Stress-freeWedding Planning Podcast, and it
helps them plan their wedding.
All the best to you, McKenna, and Joe.
Let's get this thing started.
It's more than just music, everyone.
Now, when most couples think abouthiring a dj, the first thing that
(04:23):
comes to mind is music, right?
That's a natural thing to think about.
The playlist, the dancing, the party.
Exactly.
But here's the thing.
A great DJ and MC areso much more than that.
A DJ, you gotta remember, a DJplays the music, so they have
to know what's coming up next.
The next five songs, they'vealready got it planned and
(04:45):
programmed, so they keep a flow.
An MC is somebody who knows howto speak and get your attention,
and keeps the evening flowingby telling you what's happening.
They're the ones setting theatmosphere, guiding the flow of the
day, and keeping guests engaged.
It's about creating energy, not justplaying songs and announcing names.
(05:07):
That's right, and it starts evenearlier than people realize from the
moment the guests enter the ceremonyspace or cocktail hour, the music
and announcements set the mood.
Is it warm and welcoming?
Is it elegant and formal?
Is it upbeat and fun?
Those choices don't happen by accident.
And the best part, Sal, is thatwhen it's done really well, guests
(05:31):
don't even think about it or notice.
They just feel it.
They're relaxed.
They know where to go.
They know what to do.
They know when the dance flooropens and knows when to party.
That's the invisible magica professional brings.
Look an MC/DJ you could think of them asbeing the quarterbacks of the reception.
(05:51):
They keep things on track, introductions,toast, special dances, cake cutting.
All those little transitions couldfeel clunky, if not managed well.
A strong DJ and MC pair make thosetransitions smooth so your wedding
feels seamless instead of stop and go.
And let's be honest, when thingsdon't flow well, people notice.
(06:15):
You know, it's like having a song endand then you hear nothing for three
seconds and then music starts up again.
Well, a bad DJ or MC, that's theirM.O. You'll probably be at a wedding
where no one knew what was happening.
Most of the time when sound I do weddings,there is no dead air, there is no space.
(06:35):
Most of the time the guests justhear the music, and they know what's
happening, and because of the MC skills,they know what's about to happen.
A great DJ prevents these gaps.
So YOU stay stress-free andyour guests stay in the moment.
Just as a reminder, joinus on our YouTube channel.
Just search for the Stress-free WeddingPlanning Podcast with Sal and Sam.
(07:00):
Like, comment, subscribe,and get it first.
Alright, let's break this down.
The DJ is focused on the sound, the vibe,and the technical aspects of the music.
Good DJs are reading the room,adjusting their energy, and ensuring
every moment has the right soundtrack.
(07:21):
Exactly Sam, the DJ's the behind thescenes strategists, mixing songs,
building energy, and ensuring thevolume and timing are just perfect.
But if no one tells yourguest what's happening, even
the best music can fall flat.
That's where the MC comes in.
That's right.
The MC is the voice of the evening.
(07:42):
Now, sometimes the DJ andthe MC are combined into one.
That's what I do.
I do the DJing and the MC.
So, an MC, their priority is making theannouncements, introducing the wedding
party and keep the guests informed.
Like when the cake cutting'shappening, when the first dance is
(08:02):
happening, when the bride's gonnadance with her dad, they set the tone.
A confident and friendly MC makes yourevent feel polished and professional
while a nervous or over the top, MCcan completely throw off the vibe.
That is so true.
The MC is like the host of your wedding.
(08:23):
They're the bridge between thecouple, the vendors, and the guests.
They ensure that everyone inthat room is on the same page and
knows exactly what's gonna happen.
When those two roles workseamlessly; it feels effortless.
It's not forced.
The day flows naturally.
(08:44):
No one's wondering what'shappening or what's coming up next.
Everyone stays engaged.
And here's the beauty of it.
When the DJ and MC are insync, they can pivot quickly
if something unexpect happens.
Whether it's a delay in the kitchen, amissing speaker, or sudden weather change.
They can adjust the energy andkeep things moving without anyone
(09:06):
realizing there was a hiccup.
That's right.
That's the difference between justhaving music and having a professional
who will manage your event.
A lot of people think that theycan just play Spotify and it
will run the entire wedding.
Well, who's going to MC?
Who's going to keep forward progress?
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Who's going to keep the music going?
It's more than music.
It's about creating theexperience from start to finish.
Now let's take a quick recap.
Remember, a DJ isn't just pushing play,they're setting the atmosphere, guiding
the flow, keeping guests engaged,and the MC, they're the voice of the
evening, making sure everyone knowswhat's happening while setting the tone.
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When those two roles work together,your wedding feels seamless,
stress-free, and unforgettable.
Coming up next, we'll share some real-lifeexamples of how this plays out, including
the wins and the lessons learned.
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Oh my goodness.
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Welcome back to the discussion, the DJMC secret to transforming your wedding.
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I'm Sal After Hours events of New England.
And I'm Sam from Atmosphere Productions.
We've already discussed how DJs andMCs have their own roles to create
the vibe, keeping your guests in theknow, and keeping things flowing.
Let's talk about what happenswhen things aren't done well.
We've all been to the wedding wherethe DJ is basically a playlist on
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shuffle and no one knows what's next.
The energy starts and stops, and youcan feel the guests losing interest.
Yeah.
So of course the couple is leftto direct things on the spot.
"Hey, it's time for the toast." "Shouldwe do the cake now?" This kills the
whole vibe, and this adds stress becausesuddenly the couple is managing the
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timeline instead of enjoying the moment.
That's what an MC will do.
He'll make sure that allthose bumps are smoothed out.
You know, Sam, on one of those rareoccasions that I was actually able
to go to wedding and didn't actuallyhave to DJ it, I remember attending
this wedding where there was noclear MC after dinner, half the
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guests were still at their tables.
Others were at the bar, and no one knewthat the first dance was about to start.
By the time people realize they'dalready missed half of it; that's
a memory you just can't getback, and you just can't redo it.
Yes.
And you also have the samething for the, the cake cutting.
If you suddenly just have the couple dothe cake cutting and nobody knows, by the
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time they're halfway through, people arejust realizing, "oh, they're doing the
cake." That's why I always recommend tomy couples at least, announce the cake
cutting, even if you're not gonna do it.
People love to take a picture of that.
Now, on the flip side, when youhave a professional DJ and MC team,
the difference is night and day.
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I've worked weddings wherethe catering was running late.
So instead of just letting the guestssit and wait, we did a dance set.
I got on the mic, got the energyup, got the guests on the dance
floor, and we danced for 15 to 20minutes until the food was ready.
Then we had 'em sit down.
See, everybody thought that was partof the planning, except it wasn't.
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We were covering for the caterers.
That's the magic.
Your guests know where to be, when tocheer and when to hit the dance floor.
And from there, our couple getsto actually relax , knowing
someone is handling the flow.
They get to live in the momentinstead of worrying about schedule.
Bottom line, Sal, a great DJ andMC, they will save you stress.
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They elevate your whole celebrationand they make sure every moment
feels intentional and not accidental.
If you're planning a wedding,here are a few things to keep in
mind when choosing your DJ and MC.
First and foremost, askabout their MC style.
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Do they match the energyyou are looking for?
Perhaps you're looking for somethingfun and upbeat, or maybe you want
something classy and elegant.
Not every MC can switch gears, soensure that their personality aligns
with the vibe of your wedding.
That's a great point, Sal.
I've seen couples hire a DJ MC,who's technically skilled, maybe
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like a radio or nightclub dj, butwhose personality doesn't match.
Imagine wanting a romanticlow-key atmosphere, but your MC
is cracking jokes and yelling intothe mic as if it was a nightclub.
A total mismatch.
Agreed.
Next.
If these are two separatepeople, look for the teamwork.
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Some DJs handle both roles themselves.
Just like you do, Sam.
While others work as part of a team.
Either approach can be greatas long as they're comfortable
balancing those responsibilities.
Ask how they divide the roles sonothing slips through the cracks.
And of course, don't forgetabout how you handle transitions.
If you, you mix beat to beat or yousegue, you want somebody who can read
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the crowd but also read the music,and we do what I say, weave in between
the music so that everything flows.
You don't want awkward silencesas we mentioned before, you don't
want your guests standing aroundunsure what's gonna happen next?
A pro will tell you howthey guide the night.
When they cue the toast, how they bringthe energy back up after dinner, and
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how they keep the dance floor full.
That's the difference between anokay night and an unforgettable one.
Another biggie is reading the crowd.
It's really difficult to teacha DJ this, but a good DJ doesn't
just let the playlist flow.
The list that you gave theDJ, he shouldn't be just
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playing 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7.
They should be mixed.
So if you've got like for instance, anineties vibe going, then lean into it.
Keep going.
If you've got a club mix going andeverybody's partying on the dance
floor, you should be able to readthe crowd and follow on from that.
And finally, here's the mostimportant tip, something you
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think that may be common sense.
Make sure you actually like them.
You're spending one of the biggestthings of your life with this person.
If you feel comfortable with them, if theylisten to you, if you feel like they get
your vision, that's half the battle won.
Ain't that the truth?
Because at the end ofthe day, your DJ and MC.
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Aren't just behind the DJ booth, they'repart of the heart of your celebration.
We've just explained more thanmusic, the DJ and MC secret
to transforming your wedding.
At the end of the day, the DJand MC are more than music.
They're memory makers, and stress busters.
When they do their job right, youwon't even notice the little things.
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They just flow and you'll get to do whatyou're supposed to do at your wedding.
Celebrate and enjoy every moment.
Now as you spend the next week planningyour wedding, if you want me, Sal, or our
community of stress-free engaged couplesand wedding experts to answer any wedding
related questions, then join us in theStress-free Wedding planning Facebook
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group.
Once you're in, go ahead and shareyour concerns and worries, and
we'll let you know if you are onthe right track or if there are.
Things you need to work on.
The link to join us is in theshow notes of this edition, or
go to Facebook and search for thestress-free wedding planning community.
Remember to do something nice forsomeone today, and if you can't,
then do something nice for yourself.
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Until next time, it's.
TTFN,
Tah-tah For Now.
Thank you for listening to this edition.
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We'll catch you then.
Ciao!
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