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January 22, 2025 18 mins

Have you ever felt trapped between the hope of a fresh start and the fear of an uncertain future? January isn’t just the start of a new year—it’s also the peak of what legal experts call "divorce season."

The aftermath of the holidays often brings clarity, pushing many to make life-altering decisions about their marriages. But is leaving really the answer, or is there still a path to healing? In this episode, we break down the emotional, financial, and psychological realities of divorce—before, during, and after the process. Whether you're contemplating a split, struggling with the fallout, or desperately seeking clarity, this conversation will challenge your perspective and give you the tools to navigate the hardest choice of your life. Because the truth is, divorce isn’t just an ending—it’s a beginning, and how you approach it will define what comes next.


While the holidays might bring temporary peace, the stark reality of unresolved issues often leads to decisions that can reshape lives in the new year.” - Pat

 

Key Takeaways For You- 

  • Understanding Divorce Season Dynamics: Gain an in-depth understanding of why the first quarter of the year, known as the 'divorce season,' sees a spike in divorce filings. From the financial reset offered by a new year to the emotional aftermath of the holidays, discover the complex factors that lead many to reevaluate their relationships.
  • Analytical vs. Emotional Decision-Making: Explore the importance of balancing emotional responses with analytical thinking when considering significant life changes. I discuss how making a list of pros and cons can provide clarity and help you approach such a major decision with a clear mind, avoiding impulse actions based on temporary emotions.
  • Navigating Post-Divorce Challenges: Discover some often-overlooked consequences of divorce. This insight helps set realistic expectations for what life post-divorce can look like, emphasizing the need for a support system and professional guidance.

 

Would you like more information about the exercises or strategies mentioned in the episode? Sign up for the waitlist and be the first to get the deets about my new book: “Rebuilding Your Life After A Gray Divorce: A Path to Healing, Joy, and Significance” available soon. https://www.patfenner.me/rebuildyourlifewaitlist


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