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November 27, 2024 48 mins

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Are terms like "DTF" or "friends with benefits" shaping the swinger lifestyle, or are they masking deeper dynamics? 

Are swinger just hiding behind the safety of the "friends" label? In this video, we explore the complexities of forming friendships within the lifestyle, discuss the challenges and stigmas tied to "DTF" and "FWB," and uncover how labels impact relationships. Whether you're navigating ENM, curious about swinging, or just seeking insight, this episode has something for everyone.

🔑 Key Moments:

  • 00:00:00 - Introduction: Is "DTF" a bad thing?
  • 00:00:26 - Aren't we all DTF?
  • 00:03:00 - The stigma of being DTF in the lifestyle
  • 00:07:15 - Defining "friends with benefits" vs. true friendship
  • 00:08:43 - Stigma and Shame surrounding sex
  • 00:10:05 - Urban myths - They're muscles so exercise them!
  • 00:12:30 - Navigating challenges in FWB relationships
  • 00:18:45 - Are labels hiding deeper truths about swingers?
  • 00:24:00 - Practical tips for forming meaningful connections
  • 00:34:00 - The Friend Zone
  • 00:39:03 - Wrap Up and Questions For You

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