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November 14, 2024 36 mins

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In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive into the nuances of "kissing and telling" within the swinger lifestyle. Explore the origins of this concept and how it contrasts between "vanilla" and lifestyle communities. We discuss social expectations, double standards, and when sharing experiences might actually serve a purpose—like building trust, creating safety, and helping others find compatible partners.

Discover the fine line between healthy disclosure and TMI, and learn why "kissing and telling" in the swinger community is often more than gossip. Join us as we tackle questions like:

  • Why might it be essential to share some details with trusted friends?
  • How does sharing sexy stories strengthen bonds in the lifestyle?
  • When should you stay silent to avoid unintended harm?

Highlights:

  • Origins & Social Standards: Why "kissing and telling" has been taboo since 1695.
  • Swinger vs. Vanilla Perspectives: How relationship dynamics shape our views on privacy and openness.
  • When to Share: Tips for safely navigating disclosure in tight-knit communities.
  • Public Service Announcements: When sharing can prevent harm or protect others.

Tune in to hear real-life examples and valuable advice to make informed choices in your relationships.

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#SwingerLifestyle #KissAndTell #EthicalNonMonogamy #Swingers #RelationshipAdvice #SexPositive #SwingerPodcast #SwingerUniversity

Highlight Summary

  1. Intro to "Kissing and Telling" - Ed and Phoebe discuss how "kissing and telling" impacts social dynamics in both the vanilla and swinger worlds.
  2. History and Double Standards - An exploration of how society's double standards affect men and women differently.
  3. Boundaries in Sharing - Understanding when it's okay to share details and when it's best to keep things private.
  4. Why Sharing Matters in the Lifestyle - Reasons why sharing can help create safety, trust, and better experiences within the swinger community.
  5. Public Safety Concerns - Examples of when sharing information serves the greater good.
  6. Practical Tips for Disclosure - Best practices

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