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July 9, 2025 45 mins

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Ever wondered what red flags you should watch for in the swinging lifestyle? In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into real-life stories of dates gone wrong, rude behavior, mismatched expectations, and questionable consent. From couples who show a totally different side on a second date, to partners who don’t seem on the same page, we share the signs that made us question, “Is this really the couple for us?”

In this episode, you'll hear about:

  • A disastrous dinner date with an incredibly rude couple (seriously, who sends food back over a heating lamp?!)
  • Stories of awkward power dynamics where one partner speaks for the other
  • Consent concerns in situations where one person seems uncomfortable
  • The challenge of navigating mixed signals, unreciprocated flirting, and introvert/extrovert mismatches
  • Tips on spotting red flags before you end up in an uncomfortable or unsafe situation

We want you to enjoy the lifestyle safely, confidently, and drama-free! This episode is perfect for swinger newbies, experienced lifestylers, or anyone curious about navigating ethical non-monogamy and consensual swinging with respect.

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