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October 23, 2025 58 mins
  • Gay sexuality is often described in terms of roles — top, bottom, dom, sub, masc, femme — but what happens when those labels feel more like performances than authentic expression? In this episode, the hosts unpack how desire, attraction, and identity get tangled up with performance — from the bedroom to the bar to the apps.
  • Where do our sexual performances come from?
  • How much of our sexual role is natural vs. narrative?
  • The “masc4masc” phenomenon and its roots in performance and insecurity.
  • Lukas Gage says he killed off the flamboyant sides of his life for years....can we relate?
  • The crazy things people say on Grindr...we share
  • Advice: Bottoms: How long do you want a top to last?
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