From Silence to Strength: How Jennifer Found Her Voice After Domestic Violence

From the depths of silence, women who have endured domestic violence are rising to reclaim their power and find their voices. This journey of empowerment is not just about breaking free from abuse but about rediscovering one's strength, worth, and resilience. Through support networks, self-care practices, and advocacy, survivors are transforming their pain into purpose. They are learning to trust themselves again, make their own decisions, and rebuild their lives on their own terms. By sharing their stories, these women not only heal themselves but also inspire and empower others. 

 

In this episode of the That's Where I'm At Podcast, Laura Richards welcomes Jennifer Peterkin, an avid traveler, a lover and collector of stories, and the host of the podcast The Human Experience - a platform that seeks to elevate stories, empower the storyteller, and invite the listener into a place of validation, understanding, and compassion. Through her personal story, she illuminates the path from silence to strength, exploring how survivors of abuse can rediscover their worth and resilience. Jennifer discusses the crucial role of support networks, therapy, and self-reflection in her healing process, as well as the red flags she overlooked in her marriage. The conversation delves into societal conditioning that often silences women, the importance of telling one's own story, and the healing power of sharing experiences. Tune in to get insights on recognizing narcissistic abuse, the challenges of marriage counseling in abusive relationships, and practical steps toward healing and empowerment.

 

Timestamps

[02:13] Why Jennifer started her podcast

[04:04] Were some of Jennifer’s friends sharing their experience of divorce?

[08:52] Jennifer’s therapist and friends were her biggest validators through divorce

[13:50] What made Jennifer wait before launching her podcast

[18:10] Red flags Jennifer ignored in her marriage

[19:25] Did Jennifer’s parents contribute to her being in this toxic marriage?

[23:55] How Jennifer got some clarity of who she really was after her divorce

[33:02] How young girls are trained not to ruffle up the feathers

[36:04] The things that helped Jennifer heal

[46:22] Marriage counseling and therapy

 

Notable Quotes

• “When you are going through domestic violence, everything in your mind is turned upside down.”
• “Everybody deserves to tell their own story from their own perspective in their own voice.”
• “Most of the times narcissists are not going to leave because they have to play the victim.”
• “We all have moments in our lives that make us stop and do a 180.”

 

RESOURCES:

MARRIED TO A “NICE” GUY: GETTING OVER NARCISSISTIC ABUSE: SHOP HERE

PRIVATE FACEBOOK SUPPORT GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/groups/marriedtoaniceguy/

FOLLOW THE PODCAST: http://www.thatswhereimatpodcast.com

BOOKS & JOURNALS: https://www.amazon.com/author/laurarichards

RESOURCES FOR YOUR HEALING: https://www.thatswhereimatpodcast.com/resources

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