The Alpha Male Coach Podcast

In this powerful episode, Kevin breaks down the core “game” we’re all playing as human beings — the game of life — with clarity and passion. Brothers, Kevin reminds us that everything we truly desire in life ultimately comes from one source: energy, consciousness, or “light.” He challenges the common beliefs rooted in the matrix or “beta condition” — the illusion that we’re here just to pursue wealth, family, legacy, health, travel...

In this powerful episode, Kevin takes you on a deep dive into the true nature of reality and the fundamental rules of the game we call life. Most people live trapped inside what Kevin calls the “Matrix” — the small, visible portion of reality that we can see, hear, touch, taste, and smell. But this matrix makes up less than 1% of all that exists. The other 99% is the endless realm — an invisible energetic dimension of consciousness...

In this episode, we dive deep into one of the most transformative spiritual practices: doing the opposite of what your ego tells you to do. This teaching isn’t just about being contrarian—it’s about understanding that the opponent, the ego, is a force that contracts your consciousness and diminishes your vessel. And just like any force—like gravity—it can be resisted. Not with hatred or struggle, but with awareness, with repetition...

In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the nature of the “opponent” — the ego-driven force within us that perpetuates selfishness, pain, and separation. The core message revolves around how this opponent continuously pushes us into patterns of egocentricity, fear, doubt, jealousy, and suffering, keeping us trapped in a cycle of repeated pain and ignorance. But the good news? The Sou...

In this multi-part episode, we go deep into the game of life — not as it appears on the surface, but as it truly is in the unseen world of consciousness, energy, and soul design. This isn’t about philosophy or religion. It’s about remembering. It’s about returning. It’s about rising.

In Part 1, we begin with the “who” — who you truly are beneath the illusions. You are not the body. You are not your thoughts. You are not your bet...

Life, as we experience it, isn’t random. It’s a game. And here’s the catch: we’re not just players; we signed up for this. We agreed to step into these bodies, with all the limitations and struggles, because we knew that the deeper our experience, the closer we would get to the light we all seek. That light is our true nature — pure, endless, radiant energy. But there’s a catch: we don’t just get to have it handed to us. We have to...

In this powerful and illuminating episode, Kevin takes listeners on a journey into the heart of what he calls “the game of life”—not as a metaphor for competition, but as a spiritual blueprint for awakening. With his signature clarity and energy, he unpacks what the game truly is, how it works, and most importantly, why we’re playing it.

At its core, the point of the game is expansion. Not just intellectual growth, not just material...

In this powerful, raw, and transformational episode, Kevin shares the intimate story of his recent "death" — not physical, but spiritual — and the profound rebirth that followed. After closing down the Academy and retreating from his public role as the Alpha Male Coach, Kevin faced a deep and necessary ego death, navigating through the darkness of a Portland winter and the heavier shadows of the soul. This episode is both a confess...

Brothers, today I want to give you a big-picture view of what this podcast has been about, where we've been, and why we've been here. Over the past six years, we've explored some of the deepest concepts around the mind, energy, and the nature of reality, all with the goal of elevating your alpha. Now, it's time to summarize it all, and let me tell you, it boils down to three main points.

First and foremost, this podcast has been...

In this episode, we're diving deep into one of the key aspects of Human Design: the difference between skills and systems. Now, as many of you know, I’m a projector, and this really shapes how I’ve experienced life, especially when it comes to learning new things. I’ve spent years living in different countries, totally immersed in the culture, working hard to learn languages like Spanish and Chinese, and yet—I still don’t speak the...

In this episode, we take a deep dive into two critical concepts: compassion and pity—and why understanding the difference between them is essential for your spiritual journey. On the surface, these two ideas may seem similar. Both involve recognizing someone else's suffering and taking action, but the energy and vibration behind them are completely different. Brothers, this is where the real work begins.

Let’s break it down. Com...

Elevate Your Alpha: Embrace the Now and Forgiveness

In this transformative episode of Elevate Your Alpha, we delve into the importance of maintaining a high vibration and embracing the present moment. Our host emphasizes letting go of past regrets and the negative impact of holding onto self-judgment and resentment. By focusing on forgiveness and love, we can elevate our energy and lead a harmonious life.

This episod...

Hey brothers, I want to dive deep into a concept that might sound counterintuitive at first: the idea that depression is actually an upgrade for the human species. I know it sounds crazy, but stick with me here. When we start to move from our conditioned beta state towards neutrality and beyond, we begin to pierce the shell of our ego, our "I-ness." This initial breakthrough can feel like entering a dark, cloudy, and rainy world wh...

Brothers, today I want to share a journey that transcends the surface of our daily struggles. This is not about acquiring more, but about transcending the very need to seek and cling. Our minds, if left unmanaged, lead us into cycles of suffering. They trick us into chasing pleasure and avoiding pain, keeping us trapped in a perpetual state of dissatisfaction.

Recognize the Source of Suffering

The first step on this journey is recogn...

Brothers, the journey to true self-understanding is profound and multifaceted, spanning three distinct levels: devotional, intellectual, and actual understanding. Let’s explore each level deeply and clearly.

1. Devotional Understanding: This is where most people start, accepting knowledge from authorities without personal inquiry. Think of the flat Earth belief or following health guidelines without question. In terms of self-knowle...

Alright, listen up, brothers. Today, I’m breaking down something crucial for your journey—whether it’s a literal trip from Portland to Seattle or your personal path to enlightenment and success. Imagine trusting someone like Kevin, a well-traveled guy, to guide you from Portland to Seattle. You might start with faith in his directions, but real understanding comes when you take the trip yourself. This is a metaphor for our spiritua...

In this enlightening podcast episode, we journey through profound spiritual teachings to uncover the wisdom of impermanence and the intricacies of manifestation. Our host delves into the Buddhist concept of the five aggregates—form, sensation, perception, mental formations, and consciousness—highlighting their ever-changing nature and how this constant flux defines our existence. By recognizing the impermanence of these aggregates,...

Language shapes our perception of reality and keeps us within a limited framework. By constantly using the word "I", we reinforce the illusion of a separate self. Some Buddhist or Hindu monks avoid using "I", saying "your monastery" instead of "my monastery" to emphasize that everything belongs to everyone. This practice challenges the notion of ownership and self-identity.

Feelings, like thoughts, are patterns of conditioning. ...

Brothers, I want you to listen closely because what I'm about to share is something that can truly transform your life. It's a pattern I've seen over and over again, and it's critical to understand if you want to break free from suffering. Let’s talk about the four quadrants of attachment and how they govern our experience.

When you have what you want—money, relationships, status—you're attached. You fear losing these things. Th...