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September 28, 2025 18 mins

In today's episode, Gina discusses how to use the technique of pausing and responding to stress with more equanimity than our often more common reaction of anxiety and anger. There are a number of practical ways to implement "the pause" and these are examined in this episode. Listen in for tips on how to use your breath in this regard, as well as an in-the-moment body-scan reset. These tips will have you mastering the technique of "the pause" in response to stress before you know it!


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Chapters

0:26 Welcome to the Pause

7:40 Creating Your Personal Pause

13:00 From Reactivity to Intentional Action

14:49 Progress, Not Perfection

16:19 Living with Greater Peace


Summary

In this episode of the Anxiety Coaches Podcast, I delve into a transformative concept that can serve as an invaluable tool for managing anxiety and anger: the power of the pause. Drawing from my experiences as a coach, I encourage listeners to consider how often they may have reacted impulsively in tense situations, wishing they could retract their words or emotions once the dust has settled. Together, we explore the potential to respond differently by implementing a brief moment of pause, which can radically alter our emotional landscape.


I reflect on a powerful quote by James Allen: "Self-control is strength. Calmness is mastery." This resonates with the idea that our instinctual emotional responses often feel overwhelming and uncontrollable, leading us to act in ways that later induce regret. I explain how our biology, particularly the amygdala and its rapid response mechanism, can hijack our ability to consciously process emotions. Understanding that these automatic reactions are part of our biological makeup empowers us to seek alternative paths that promote emotional resilience instead of defeat.


Central to our discussion is Viktor Frankl’s profound insight: "Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response." By recognizing this pivotal moment of choice, we can foster a sense of growth and freedom, allowing ourselves to respond with intention rather than reacting out of habit or impulse. I guide listeners to visualize that pause as a 'pause button'—a space where clarity can replace chaos and awareness can replace automatic reaction.


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