The Bankrupt Millionaire

This week I get into the last of the 4 agreements. When reflecting I realized that I was only focused on half of what the word assumption really means. Here I discuss forgetting that assumptions can be overly negative OR positive as well as you could have a habit of assuming risks or responsibilities that aren't yours as well. We shouldn't be assuming ANYTHING. I referenced "clarity isn't crystal clear, it's the lack of confusion" ...

This week I dive into the 3rd agreement & how we get distracted and out of alignment and into confusion by being focused on doing THE best versus being and doing OUR best. I discuss why we struggle with doing our best as well as why we have difficulty expressing and cutting off things that aren't the best for us.

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Moving on to the next of the four agreements. In this episode we go into ways that I meausure what impeccable means to me. Is it honest, respectful & consistent and not just with me but do you uphold that standard in your own life and do you require that of those who are around you? 

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This is a convo that I revisit often. Often times we follow the path that seems crystal clear that shows the next 10 steps but it may not be the path with the most clarity or lack of confusion. I went bankrupt following a plan that was crystal clear. But there was rarely any clarity, I was constantly confused. 

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I've been a lover of the Four Agreements for a while but as I'm starting over and auditing my life figuring out where I went wrong and understanding how I overcommitted myself and was consistently creating a sturdy case for burnout ... I had to go back and ask myself what did i miss and did I really integrate the principles entirely? Yes we change often but we aren't just talking about a mistake we are talking bankruptcy. So far go...

Co-creating with the universe means you'll never know. All you can do is what you believe is right and if nothing else ask does this align with my soul. Detach from the outcome & give yourself permission to go with the flow. It doesn't have to be perfect but you do have to start. Hey suga's we'll talk soon xoxo

This week I answered the question: How Am I ok going from a millionaire to bankrupt 

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To my Not Just Another Sex Podcast Family, on this 75th & Final Episode of NJASP (Please add dramatic tone) 

You can't really end something that was created in love, it simple evolves. Not Just Another Sex Podcast served & will continue to serve a purpose-- creating a safe space for growth, healing, and real conversations no matter where you are & most importantly furthering the community I've been building for 7 years. I'm endless...

Y'all I enjoyed this episode so much, this sit down with Candyys Love was just as amazing as her book "Remember Who the F*ck You Are" this entire show has been dedicated to my healing journey & so there was no better way to close out this journey than with a guest who makes it known that she takes her healing journey very seriously. Candyys journey started with her navigating & understanding her grief. After a prayer asking God to ...

If you've been listening to this show or following me then you know how special of a sit down this was for me. My first check came from writing with XONecole and here we are years later. Necole has built brand after brand and has been sharing her stories of success and lessons but her current business is one that women have needed. MyHappyFlo her women's wellness brand has been tackling fibroids and other menstrual and hormonal iss...

Sitting down with Paul was a great time you may know him on social media as @Pauls.Law serving up raw diets, healing advice and a completely unique look on bringing awareness to sickness that is right under our noses! Paul's spiritual awakening kind of hit him out of no where one minute his life was fine and the next he was painfully aware that this wasn't the life he wanted and thats when change began. Paul's straight forward appr...

Ever wonder why people accept religion but reject spirtuality? Is it the level of accountability that spirtuality takes? I got a chance to sit down with the Critical Thinking Advocate also known as Jasmine's Garden on all your favorite socials and we recived gem after gem as well some insight into her path into spirtuality. Jasmine has taken her viral posts & not only created community but a platform for herself not only teaching h...

From JujuMama to the Progressive Love Academy this couple has been in the Poly space for over 20 years, they've built their careers around teaching others the tools needed to build a foundation for any type of relationship that they consent to having. In this interview I got a chance to ask Kenya & Carl questions about their teachings and what I loved was the steps being taught are things that should be addressed in any relationshi...

I've been wanting to do a conversation with all women something a little different and so I decided to call some of the girls that I've sat down with before that I share similar work background with and open the floor to some girl talk! This episode had lots of laughs and a way for us to open the floor to what different types of women are expereincing in the bedroom currently. We also discussed how we've changed and whats new and t...

I got chance to speak with the founder of the Women in Radio conference Meaghan Taylor, despite putting on this conference for 9 years this is her first podcast interview! Not only did we discuss how sometimes it's our need for community that drives us to create something new but she also was so kind to share some inimate parts of her journey as well. For the S*x tip of the day we decided to discuss a different side, health. After ...

We often discuss the problems of being the first in your family to do something but I wanted to dig deeper and talk to someone who doesn't understand the concept of starting from scratch & what better person to do that with than Lauren Miller a 2nd generation business owner who spares no details in her upbringing. Lauren was a knee deep world traveler when she was one day required to stop everything & care for her father but before...

Picking up where we left off! Be sure to checkout announcements below! In this episode I got a chance to sit down with Brittany Rogers, LCPC. Brittany takes a new age approach to counseling, mental health & reaching our community with the support that it needs. Being the owner of Be The Change Therapeutic Services, Author, Viral thought leader & Reoccurring voice on the Tonight's Conversation Podcast she has been making her way to ...

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