BKP #355 [EN] Theo Niculae, Goodbye Shanghai

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(00:07):
hey everyone, I have Theo here with me
this is kind of like your goodbye to everyone podcast
I'm a little sad that you're leaving
something like that
yeah after 10 years I decided okay there are some other things I can do
yeah why are you leaving？
what's the story？
it is

(00:27):
how to say
I kind of realized my heart is not here anymore
as it used to be
and there was
there was some things that happened and I realized
I'm not really as balanced as I wanted to be
and my priorities are not where they should be

(00:48):
like for example
they were
there was one thing
that really bothered my reaction bothered me so much
so about one and a half two years ago
my friend's wife she kind of killed herself
oh
she jumps from the window and she yeah
that I say everybody says it's postpartum

(01:10):
they had a kid
and I was like you know it was it was really tragic
and um
it was really bad and
in my mind was
oh I need to finish this deadline
so I was in my mind was like
oh
this happened my mom was crying
she called me

(01:31):
and all I could think about was
oh I need to change the colors to this
I said I need to
I'm an architect for people who don't know
yeah and
we had this stupid deadline
and
my boss was pushing the client was pushing yeah
we we finished the deadline and the client said
oh good work we need to
we got some knowing for

(01:52):
we need to change everything now
oh I was like you mother fucker
yeah can I say fuck yeah you mother fucker
and it didn't so at on the moment I didn't really react
I was like I was kind of focused on my own thing and
it hit me later on I was like what what am I doing
what the hell am I doing what way

(02:12):
I'm
working my ass off
I'm doing overtime for this stupid thing
that doesn't matter
yeah and the things that actually matter
I don't care about it
I don't
I become very not immune I become numb numb to it
and immediately after that
my mom called me again
my cat got ripped to shreds he went on the streets

(02:34):
and some dogs
and some some dogs really
did a number and
got killed and like
and that
combined with with my friends lost really hit hard
and yeah what the hell am I
and then I decided okay
let's see what's important to me
and I decided okay my grandparents are old

(02:55):
I don't want to
remember them I was like oh
I could have said some things to them I could have
and I just want to go there
spend some time in the countryside
plant some I don't know wheat
I think it's really important
post Covid I think a lot of people understood that

(03:15):
that friends are important family is important
yeah this kind of stuff that
we
forgot about in Shanghai because Shanghai is just work
it's a work city
right really fast
and everyone is just like
yeah
whenever you ask someone in Shanghai
how are you today
do you know the No. 1 answer I hear

(03:36):
busy busy
yeah it's always busy it's never I'm doing great
I feel happy yeah
never hear that you almost always hear I'm busy
yeah and I'm like
I think your priorities are wrong
if you're always busy and you're not happy
if you're busy doing something that makes you happy
then that's okay sure
but if you're busy

(03:59):
for the sake of being busy then
maybe not and I think a lot of people
even if they're not busy they just say they're busy
that's even worse
they're just like oh
because they think it's the right thing to say
they want to feel like
I'm busy I have value
and that's not your value
your value is not how much you can
bring to this company

(04:19):
you're a human like be happy
and I think a lot of people just peg their value
on their work
so don't do that I was at
me neither
I was at the farewell party not long ago
and
around 10 or 11 in the evening
I said I'm feeling sleepy I'm going home to sleep

(04:41):
yeah so what do you mean we're going to party
no I'm I'm sleepy
I went home went to sleep
woke up the next day early and did my things
okay now learn to value my my personal time yeah
I think it's a boundary thing that you
get when you get older
yeah
when you're young

(05:02):
I think you get really
easily influenced by your friends
they're like oh
you know
after party and you're like I don't want to go
you want to go Chris yeah
so a lot of people push you to do things
you don't want to do
yeah but once you get older you're just like
nah this is it I'm done
I don't care
yeah I don't care
I have I have my my things

(05:23):
oh actually last night I was supposed to
oh I forgot
I was supposed to go to a bar opening or something
I was like no I'm going to Mai Thai
yeah so I went to I went to Mark Modi
did Mai Ti got punched in the face
and then I went home and I forgot about everything
and I just remembered sorry
but it's okay like I feel like

(05:44):
when we're kids or when we're in our 20s right
when you're in your 20s everyone is just like
let's do this let's do that
and you don't really have
you don't set your boundaries
like now my close friends know
by 10 I'm probably gonna be at home
yeah don't call me don't bother me
by around 10 10:30
I'm not gonna respond

(06:05):
yeah and if we're out we're gonna have dinner
and if you guys wanna go party
great I'm gonna go home and I'm gonna go sleep
yeah like I that's my schedule
and that's why if it's a good friend you'll say
okay see you tomorrow bingo
exactly what I was gonna say
but I don't like when people say come on
it's just a drink come on it's just like
no

(06:26):
I'm sorry that's my boundary
I'm not gonna do this yeah
oh cool
a lot of us are like that now
and I feel like it's good to respect your own time
more than it is to be like hey guys like
I'm gonna go out get hammered
ruin my entire next two days yeah you know hungover
like that just doesn't make sense

(06:46):
yeah
we're speaking like old people now
yeah back in my time when I was young ah
yeah but
we've already partied
we've already been there
and then we know that you know it's
fun sometimes this is not worth it now
yeah yeah
so now that you're reevaluating all your values yeah

(07:07):
what do you want to do like after this
after leaving Shanghai
I have no idea
no idea no idea
that's a great that's a great answer
I actually don't know and I've
talked to many people who went back to Europe
some very good friends of mine went back home
say there's nothing to do
and they're kind of regretting

(07:28):
and I think I'm gonna reach that point
at some point but
really I need to
I need to grow in some other ways yeah
I was thinking to just open a company and
do what I love most photography videography and design
yeah
in advertising let's see how let's see how that works
a lot of people know you as the photography got yeah

(07:49):
they actually don't know that you were an architect
yeah
most people are like oh Theos just
he's just an art he's just a photographer
yeah and you're known for you know
the
boxing events the Moitai events and stuff like that
and now you're with one
like all of these events that you do
that's what you're known for
and most people are like

(08:10):
I don't even know what Dio actually does
I do love photography I love architecture
I've done I've done it for
10 year no
I've worked in architecture for 12 years yeah
college for six years so I love design
but whenever someone ask me hey what do you do
I just say um

(08:31):
I'm a photographer yeah
because it's it's funky it's like
you can navigate in different mediums okay
yeah and
you don't think you can do that with arch
with architecture
I don't know it depends on the
crowd okay it is a bit pretentious yeah I mean it's
a little bit
yeah
I mean when people ask you what are you an architect

(08:53):
also what do what do you design what
what things did you do you need to
show them say this and that is
is pretty hard
and to get
uh not feedback to get satisfaction architecture
it's so hard hmm so
first you have the competition
I mostly did competitions
so you have the competition you win it you're happy yes

(09:15):
and then the grinding starts and the client says oh
actually we don't have the budget for that
yeah we want to change this
we want to change this we want to change that we want
more of this less of that at the end if
I don't know 20 percent of your original concept is
in the building then
already pretty good it's pretty good

(09:35):
and you can see the building
I don't know six eight to eight years later yeah
so they said and
until then is like you just want to get it over with
okay what lights do we need to what
how to say what color what RGB what
and it's

(09:57):
you memorize colors you memorize the the codes
the toilets and everything
and it kind of takes the charm away
with photography I do it today
tomorrow it's done publish
yeah
you think that it's because
it's such a long process for architecture

(10:18):
because it's eight years later let's say right
where the building actually
shows up and it's actually done
for me something that I did eight years ago to me today
seems almost cringe
like I don't even want to look at it I'm just like
yeah I was so stupid eight years ago
to think that you know

(10:38):
I would look at it
eight years later
I'm just like
I don't even want to look at that thing anymore
I want to do me now
yeah and so maybe photography for you is like that
or it's just this is my
work now like you can get it immediately right now
quick results quick results yeah
yeah that's actually
that's actually the case

(10:59):
and
when I was when I was in college when I was young I was
a bit naive and I was thinking
oh when I'm gonna be a grandfather I want to
I want to take my grandson my grandchild
walk down the street and say hey
I build that I build that
and he would be full of pride yeah
that's what I was thinking but now I'm thinking

(11:20):
he's gonna be on his phone he's not gonna care
I mean what the hell
so you did that old thing
yeah you did that that everybody's complaining about
what the hell am I doing what am I
projecting on such a long period of time
just have fun live it and that's it
so what did you get out of
your 10 years here in China

(11:42):
like what do you what do you feel like you
grew into
from an architecture point of view I think I matured
when I when I finished college
some of my colleagues went straight to
they want to do their doctorate yeah
and to do your doctorate you need to
to be an assistant and you need to teach

(12:02):
students sure
you cannot do that if you don't have any experience and
I love teaching I love talking about concepts and
I love talking about someone else's project
and helping them grow giving them directions ideas
but I decided
not to do that at that time
because I didn't have the experience okay
so I just wanted the experience

(12:23):
the the working experience
talking to clients taking ideas
figuring out how to navigate
the different meetings
and I think it helped me a lot so I'm much more mature
than
10 years ago when I came here when I actually know much
I just finished college two years before that and

(12:45):
I didn't know much I had
one thing that
helped me
get employed here first
was the competitions yeah
I always like to compete yeah
so even during college for my fourth year
I started applying to
architecture competitions design competitions winning

(13:05):
and I had a good portfolio
yeah for coming here
and I was like oh this guy let's compete
let's bring him here and see right
see what he does
10 years later still here
do you think that the competitions
help you become more creative or
yeah why
because it's
short term you have like one month or two months

(13:27):
and you get the brief see okay do this
you get all the ideas you get brainstorming
it's usually not alone
you need to find the team
you need to find someone that
you can resonate with
and bounce ideas around
see okay we do this
and it's with competitions

(13:48):
you cannot really fail I mean
it's usually fast work cheap
you just sketch something redo the fast 3d model
and you play dollar 3
see what happens
but it's incomplete work
that's what I'm saying right
because I've seen a lot of these I guess

(14:09):
art competitions where you have to do
something on the fly
go
especially for architecture like it's it's just a
an idea it's not complete
there's you don't even know
if this thing will necessarily stand
but this
the clients the one that the clients want the idea
the clients
need that original spark

(14:30):
yeah it's like that inspires them and say oh okay
this can work direction this direction can work
and you need to
make it in such a way that's very easy to understand
by clients yeah and that's my job
I love storytelling and I
do storytelling in architecture and

(14:51):
in photography
this is what I'm
very good at and that's why we won so many competitions
I get that I had a
world class bartender on
a while back
and he said the exact same thing I asked him
what are the best bartenders in the world good at
and he said storytelling

(15:11):
he said it's not about
you know the
exact percentages
and you can measure everything out to the gram
and build this drink
but anyone can do that a robot can do that
yeah but it's about you telling the story
about this particular alcohol mixed with
these particular botanicals
to create this story to impress everybody else

(15:34):
it's the story behind the actual drink
making the drink is
not necessarily that important
it's it's your base level
like you need to everyone can make the drink yeah
and it's really about the storytelling
yeah I mean in architecture there's
for each site there's one

(15:57):
ideal building that goes there yeah that can have
multiple shapes
and you just need to find out okay what works here
what is the story
sometimes it's something very
simple
but very powerful or maybe it's very mad
you could do something that's very organic and very mad

(16:18):
but at the core it's
let me give you the example of the Shanghai Tower
sure
so Shanhai Tower from the outside looks really cool
right it has the spiral
twisting
volume inside it's a normal cylinder
yeah
and it doesn't really work very well
oh yeah

(16:39):
why it's one of the worst towers
because so there
there the ideas behind it were really good so they have
this cylinder
yeah and then they have this shell right yeah
and they said we have 10 atriums
and we're gonna put
vegetation is gonna be like a garden
yeah around
it they never did that because it's costly

(17:01):
and because they have this double shell
it's very dark inside
because the light doesn't pass through
and because the light doesn't pass through it's they
need to have the lights on all the
time
and because it's so tall
structure is very thick
and the area
in the Shanghai in one level in Shanghai Tower

(17:21):
it's less than in
the bottle opener
okay
so the I think the Bottle Open is one of the best tours
okay I've worked in it for
four years yeah
and it's really well made really good mm hmm and
I think
and I have people that worked in the Shanghai turrency
it's not funny it's kind of empty yeah yeah

(17:44):
I've heard
yeah
it's funny you say that because
my favorite ones the Jing Mao right
the one
I think it's beautiful yeah
I like the really sharp
top it looks kind of like a crown
pagoda yeah
I think that's my favorite tower yeah if I were to
but I
it's an older tower
it's been there for much much longer

(18:05):
and I think a lot of the new stuff in Shanghai
it's just poorer quality
I think a lot of a good example is
in xinxiandi there is there they have the xinxiandi
one of the office buildings
and it was brand new at the time we go in and
even like the paper towel kind of

(18:29):
they're just cheap
they
feel they feel very cheap they feel that like they're
about to break they look pretty yeah
but they're all like about to break
and so everything just doesn't feel great
and to me that's a lot of the new architecture here
I remember in one of the meetings the clients
we proposed some materials

(18:49):
and the clients said I want this one I said
this one is very expensive I said
just find something that looks like this one but
cheap yeah
make it look expensive but make it cheap yeah
and that's right
and that hurts you
like as a designer you're like you're cheapening
my design
but that that
chips away in your in your mind is like

(19:11):
and at some points like ah
Jesus Christ okay let's just get rid of it
yeah because you also need the money
and the clients will just keep
grinding and grinding and finding ways to
to not pay and say yeah but
we want
can you change the color just a little bit and then
postpone for a week and you have a new option and say
oh yeah
maybe the previous one was good but can you change

(19:34):
yeah
it really messes up with your mind
and at some point you just get pissed and say dude
what the hell we did that already
I remember there was a project in Chongqing
it's one of my favorite cities by the way
I really like Chongqing
I have so my project the first project I
we ever worked in in the company was enchanting Mixi

(19:58):
face 2 and it finished last year
and it's really cool and
I like the clients because everything
I proposed they implemented yeah
I mean there was a back and forth
but they were very open to it
we were happy they were happy
very nice
mix c it's mix c
yeah
I work in a mixed C building right now

(20:21):
really it's in Hongcha they
oh yeah they
they do good projects like the shopping mall projects
they're nice
they're nice they're really good
they have good designers and really good design
I used to I used to design several
shopping malls for them
very good clients
yeah good job mixie yeah
advertising here
but I did another project for another client

(20:45):
in trenching I did 60 options into you 6 0 6 0
that's so many
but it was not my it was not our fault every
every Friday
we would do a presentation and be like oh good
this looks good
and then on Monday they'll be like hey
we want to add this lot yeah

(21:05):
or we want two towers now or we want one big one
yeah or can we make
here like this
or the area is too much can you make it half
or can you do this this and that
and so many stupid options
and at some point like hey
dude what the hell is going on here
yeah and after two years like
we're not satisfied with the design
of course not

(21:25):
this is like going to a restaurant
and saying hey I want
what takes a long time to make Gourdome Blue sure
alright I want Gourdome Blue
and then every five minutes you go to the kitchen
and you tell the chef yeah but
can you use this
spice and that spice and this and that and that right
and then at the end he brings you what you wanted like

(21:46):
it's not what I wanted
it's not what I wanted yeah you dumb motherfucker yup
I know exactly what you what you're saying yeah and
I think there
and I don't know if this is you
who is in charge of this
but at some point
the product manager needs to tell you
these are your options we need to choose
because I think a lot of people once they

(22:08):
are allowed too much freedom
they don't know what they want anymore
and that's that's a huge problem right now in society
is that you have so many choices
you ask any of your friends
what do you want to eat tonight
oh nobody knows immediately there are too many choices
and so nobody knows if you want to ruin your night

(22:29):
ask your dates what
what what do you want to eat yeah yeah
never ends well never
and it's easier just to be like hey guys
this is what we're eating tonight and
you're just gonna have to trust me
this is I know I've been to this place
this is good
and if you say that to people
they're like all right yeah I trust you

(22:50):
and then you go
and you don't give anyone any choices you're like
this is what's best for tonight
and if you say it with enough
you know commanding tone
usually it's accepted and people are like yes
I'm going to listen to you and trust you
and you're taking all of the responsibility if this
night goes badly

(23:11):
but you seem like you know what you're doing
do you know the amount of
balls you need to have in architecture
to tell a client that
you need to be
Richard Meyer Norman Foster you need that kind of level
to tell the client this is what we're doing
here in China I Learned very quickly that

(23:33):
the first interaction with the client
you just need to show their muscles yeah
we're gonna
we're the best we're the best we're doing
this crazy thing the client is
wow
wow but can we make it half budget turn it down
and then the next meeting we just show some boxes
so this is what I wanted

(23:54):
what the hell we had the first meeting for
yeah
yeah
I don't miss those meetings yeah
but I do think that having a little bit of balls
in the beginning just being like
this is it like I promise you you're gonna like this
that kind of

(24:14):
belief is so rare now
you know I think it's a lot of people are like
no the client is always right
uh
that was that was something that was said in America
long time ago right
the consumers always right
nothing not that's not true I don't believe that no
yeah no
sometimes the chef is right
like yeah you're wrong
yeah don't mess with the recipe yeah yeah

(24:36):
it's been good there for 20 years it's probably
still pretty good
yeah you know if you don't like it
maybe you should go somewhere else
yeah we cannot say that
I know you want that or
we can rearrange the kitchen and we can come with it
it's like yeah because you want
you need the client
yeah but that's that's kind of what bothers me about

(24:59):
I'll give you a good example it bothers me about
the martial arts environment right now
I think a lot of the martial arts places are
struggling or doing
okay but not great
yeah and I remember
when a friend of mine opened a jujitsu Jim

(25:20):
and he had a very
troublesome
person that bought a very long membership
and in the end
he refunded the membership
because he realized that this person was not good for
the gym
right the person what did he do

(25:42):
don't give names just something
was just
asking for more than what should have been provided
so it was a G to Jim
did he want more time what did he want
the point was that a lot of gyms won't do that
a lot of gyms if you've bought two years
that's a lifeline
yeah
that two year membership will pay for all of your rent

(26:04):
for a lot it will give you a lot
mm hmm and a lot of gyms will not
kick this person out
hmm because they need the money to survive
and then but in the long run I think that's poor
because I think the
point of having that gym
is to have control over what that gyms
culture looks like

(26:25):
and if you let other things infect that culture
you're left with something you're not happy with
and overall the other IM
other
members are also not happy with
that
depends a bit it depends who is in charge of the gym
sure is it the
the coach that's very passionate
or is it someone that's very

(26:46):
there to make it economically
they need an economic incentive
like I remember ringside
yeah
oh great example
when they opened a lot of gyms they got
the ideas behind they were really good they got
coaches from all around the world that are really good
and they started coaching
yeah like everything
but then they kind of diluted everything

(27:08):
I only bought the membership
to get the free food
you know
oh I remember this is the best deal in Shanghai
it was the best deal so I you paid
I don't know 8 000 for one year
food every day and you could eat
every day yep
I think I
ate for 20,000 or something like you gotta be right
and it's like yeah
and
all the coaches also did that

(27:28):
I still say hey
didn't see you in a long time
what are you doing here just eating
when you're coming to train nope nope
just here for food
just here for food and yeah and then what happened
yeah
so I think they overstretched a bit
hmm
you you think that they overstretched on how many

(27:48):
gyms they opened
I don't know I think they
don't know what's there I
there was something mischievous okay so yeah
what I interviewed one of the guys
um when they opened hmm
and he told me something
that I immediately knew that this was not gonna work
he said whatever the clients want we're gonna make

(28:11):
and he said we're also going to do
manicures and we're gonna do movie theater
and whatever the clients want
we are going to build it in
and I was immediately like that's not gonna work
fuck it if you
dilute your business into
now it's a movie theater manicure boxing gym

(28:31):
what are you you no longer have an identity
you have lost your identity
and you've sold it to these
consumers who don't really know what they want
and that's I think that's the big problem
you forgot who your main audience is
and your main audience was the
or the boxers in Shanghai
yeah you know and as you dilute that
it gets worse and worse

(28:52):
and I think that was a bunch of what was wrong
and there also
many of the coaches were my friends
because I was shooting
I was shooting the fight knights
and I was shooting the guard members
those are fun
those are fun days and they were kind of miserable
they were not happy because it was kind of
running a corporate way
they had to be there at that time
if you were late five minutes you would get a penalty

(29:15):
you need to stay there all the time
you couldn't do anything
like we need to bring more people but you can
you can only do it on your free time
what the hell yeah
does it work if
your coach has a PT now and a PT 5 hours later he has
stay in the in the gym
yeah doesn't make sense doesn't really make sense no

(29:36):
UFC Fit did the exact same thing
UFC Fit
said the exact same thing to their employees and their
their
coaches that you had to stay there for the eight hours
you are not allowed to leave
and you also had to be kind of sailsy and that's wrong
like that immediately is wrong
you cannot yeah

(29:57):
ask these people to stay there but also
be social in their off time and sell
like you pick one or the other yeah
like if these people if these people are your coaches
they can be sales y
but they also have to have the time
to go out and do that
but the U F C fit was run by
businessman Chinese businessman right

(30:19):
yeah it was not run by the UFC
no it was not all right it was a franchise
yeah it was a franchise they took the
they took the name
UFC fit but it has nothing to do with UFC
very minimal to do with UFC
okay okay
it was just it was not a well run
system
I remember Drovad was
working at UFC and everybody came to train with him

(30:42):
and then he went to
somewhere else and now he has his own gym and all the
I can
recognize everybody from UFC and they
they move with him that's that's that's a good coach
that's correct
yeah that is the sign of a good coach
yeah that your members trust you enough
to go where you go
yeah and they don't really care if it's UFC or
something wherever you're teaching I'm gonna go there

(31:04):
that's the best but
from a business perspective
I would find it very hard to hire Jawad
mm hmm because I know that if I don't treat Jawad well
mm hmm god forbid we get into some sort of argument oh
I lose all of my members
because those members are not loyal to my gym

(31:24):
they are loyal to the coach
yeah and so
it gives the coach a lot of power
which is great for me hmm are
great for the consumer
yeah but not great for the gyms that hire him
you know maybe they should negotiate better
maybe they should treat the coaches better
yeah this should be a contract
in the mutual agreement they say in a contractive

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one of the parties is happy then that's a bad contract
they should both be unhappy with the contract
if they're both unhappy with the contract
then that's a good contract
yeah
yes yeah that is the saying
but
ideally you want the contract so that everyone's happy
right yeah like you're both supposed to win
yeah just not win

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one side is not allowed to win too much
yeah I think that's what that's what we're going for
yeah fair enough
but it was very cool at the time to see
all of these members just follow Jiwad around the city
yeah yeah
like wherever Jiwad goes yeah I'll go there too
yeah
that was that was a lot of fun
now has his own gym
really nice yeah
I mean it's

(32:27):
a cool thing that he's doing like when I had him on
he talks a lot about community
yeah he talks a lot about
this is going to be
a core family and we're gonna do a lot of stuff
together whether it's the barbecue stuff
I think the video game thing is awesome
yeah
you know Street Fighter I think is a very cool idea
just to keep everyone

(32:47):
in this Social Circle
that's really what makes people happy
yeah last time when the barbecue happened
I
I I started the fire I started the barbecue nice
I was like yeah nice
he was running a little bit so
yeah I was I was playing with the BBQ
and then I pissed Eugene off a little bit
because I found hard

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I didn't know how to start the fire
so I just found
how to say a beer card
box yeah it was beer inside so I was like
okay just I need the cardboard so I started ripping it
and then he came who ripped this one
and I also stole on beer
yeah whatever

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you'll be fine
it's okay
I think yeah it's it's a great thing what he's doing
yeah I'm always worried that
gyms start out very small and very happy
and as they get bigger
they get worse and worse
yeah you know you see that a lot
no it's it's sometimes you
think too highly of yourself and you think

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you overestimate yeah
I mean if if you make some product that is good
you really need to think
do I want to take this one to the next level
am I ready for that
yeah and
if you're not you're just gonna
die that's it
if you stretch too much you're gonna pop yeah
so and this happened to many

(34:12):
unfortunately this happened to many gyms
many gyms
many gyms yeah
I mean the timing was really bad yeah
if you have something small
that works it's busy all the time
doesn't make too much money but you're comfortable yeah
you're happy you wake up in the morning
and then you go to sleep and say this was a good day

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I've had five people in the gym
but the maximum capacity is seven yeah
that's that's almost a full gym
yeah
yeah it's great
I really I really like gyms that kind of
stay small until and they only
kind of grow a little bit each time organically
yeah
organically correct
yeah it's not
you have a small gym that works and then you open

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five more
that's a mistake that's always a mistake
that's not really good yeah
and that's why I when I
speaking in photography I like doing things alone
and don't reach too much
I was like okay alone projects that
make me happy and
I can do exhibitions with them

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yeah it works
you when you go home
do you think the skills that you've done here
are still viable wherever you go next
actually I think
yeah I mean from a photography point of view I think
what I've Learned here and the speed I'm working here

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will be an advantage
sure
because let me give you an example
I attended a friend's wedding
they received the photos six months later
it's a long time
that's a longest that's a long time
and here if you deliver them 48 hours
it's too long
they want they want them immediately
yeah so five minutes
okay we can make a compromise

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and fast fast fast so I Learned I Learned to be
very fast and speedy processing and everything
and when I'm shooting the fight nights for one
for example
I'm the media photographer for Karate Bushido yeah
in France so when
any of the guys from makmudijim is fighting

(36:22):
I'm going there
I'm shooting
and I delivered the photos within two hours of the
of the event finishing yeah
everybody's happy
they post them later and this is me off everybody
because I got them too so fast
why don't you post them now
yeah
fast fast come on

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I think that is that is
the pace here is so different from like
most other cities it's so fast here
especially anything online
it's really fast
and it's just so much slower when I go back home
but I like that
you know
it's frustrating you need to you need to really

(37:05):
go
I mean I've been to waning
to my best friend and we we served with chill
waning very chill
yeah and so after after I finished work
I
after I parted ways with the company
I went there just to relax and the first few days were

(37:26):
what am I doing
I slowly went chill but in two weeks I was like
this is great
this is great
I was reading I
was
enjoying the waves
I was doing exercising get back into shape
yeah
all the things I didn't have time before
because I was too busy
now I could slow down and just take it easy

(37:48):
and I missed it
I didn't know I
needed that but apparently I did
I think most people leave China
because they need that and they don't understand
until it's too late
you're also afraid
you know you're kind of afraid of the unknown

(38:09):
yeah
and it's
I was yeah I was working for a long time and I was
sometimes I was unhappy
but I was thinking well
I have a stable job I have a stable income yep
and I didn't really think of
and don't mess with a good thing
yeah don't if it's not broke don't don't fix it
don't fix it sometimes

(38:31):
but you know it tweak it
you need to tweak it a bit
okay I agree with that yeah yeah
I right now
I've kind of figured out exactly what I need
I work Monday Tuesday Wednesday in the office
Thursday I work from home
and I'm off on Fridays it is the perfect amount of

(38:52):
I need a schedule to keep me honest
but also I need my own time
to kind of like do my own thing
and feel like I'm a human and not just
you know a piece of this machine
but this also can be beneficial in your career remember
I don't think there is

(39:14):
any project I have worked on
when the idea came to me in the office yep
it was usually I would just
took a walk and I saw a
leaf and I saw the patterns and I was like wow
this this can be implemented yeah right
I went to a museum and I got inspired by I don't know
Studio Ghibli or something
like that I saw the spaceships and I'm like whoa

(39:34):
okay that can be
that can be something yeah and
yeah
staying
in an office you don't get inspiration you don't never
you just you need to
be outside and dream and
when you're not thinking of
something that's when the idea is coming yeah yeah
it's why
and it's worse because when you're in the office

(39:57):
you're always on a phone
or you're always on your computer
it's when you leave
all of the electronics and all the screens
that you get inspired that when I get inspiration at
least
what do you use to distress
like when you're stressed
what do you use to release a bag I go to bag
yeah I go hit a bag archery yeah archery is great right

(40:17):
but it's a big stress release so there's
archery tech so we're shooting people and the thing is
when you're doing archery
you calculating you're doing
so it's when you have a target
yeah but then when you have people shooting at you
you cannot think of anything
you cannot think
I have a deadline in two weeks

(40:37):
I wonder what's what color the
ceiling will be
yeah no you need to be in the moment
and I love those youngs when it's in the most boring
yeah yeah if you think about anything else
get hit the face
hit in the face go immediately
hard
look
yeah man you were telling me about
tell me again how you shoot

(40:58):
tell the audience how you shoot for archery tag
because it's
to me it's the complete wrong way to shoot
but you seem to have some success with it
so wait can I move this one again
so when I usually you shoot like this you put
yeah you have the eye and you kind of see
I should I keep my anchor

(41:19):
right on my upper lip right here
this is my anchor
okay no when I'm when I really want to aim
uh huh I put it here
okay behind you I gotcha
so I can see Bem I yeah so I am okay yeah
okay aim I used to do archery before
uh I used to build my own bows and yeah

(41:41):
and cross bows and stuff like that
when I was younger in my grandparents house and
where was I going with this yeah and
now for archery tag you shoot completely differently
I shoot completely differently
first of all when
I injured my shoulder doing what
I was sleeping
you're getting old you're really getting old

(42:02):
no no no so I was sleeping like this yeah
and I would wake up I would
I would try to sleep normally but then I would
end up doing this I don't know why
and in the morning I would have terrible pain
shoulder pain it hurts so much yeah
so
and I couldn't shoot I couldn't shoot properly

(42:24):
so I decided
okay let's see what I can do so I keep my hand here
yeah
yeah and this one I didn't move
right
and
click the arrow and I used this one
and you would push the ball
yeah instead of drawing the string
yeah you push the ball and then let go of the string
yeah
and praise it

(42:45):
and it was eternity at the beginning it was weird
but
then I started aiming better
and I started shooting hard
and I'm shooting really hard now
this one and when I'm
when I want to shoot fast
this is what I do because I do it really fast
I can hold two or three arrows in my hand

(43:07):
right
and just and just shoot and that's it
that's incredible to me
and I really I'm dying to see this in person
yeah because in my head
it should not work
but it does it's very instinctive
yeah right your eyes are not like
looking at the arrow tip
you're not shooting like gapshooting

(43:29):
you're just purely instinctive
it's
roughly in that direction that's where I'm going
and you're getting good results
I'm I compare it do you play pool
yes I used to play pool a lot
so when you play pool I play pool and I put the Q here
under your chin
under my chin so I can see better
yeah but there are some people who

(43:51):
do it from here
yeah like this
so their head is way up
yeah I compare it to that
so when I see people playing pool like that I'm like
how do you aim yeah
it shouldn't work right but it works for them
so I think it's just experience
yeah I think it just takes time and repetition

(44:13):
yeah right your brain
kind of figures out where it's supposed to go
yeah and your body just does it
yeah
but it takes a lot of repetitions and I think
to me that's incredible
because I've been trying to learn that
I used to shoot my
my compound bow I'll show it to you later
oh yeah
my compound bow is very mechanical

(44:35):
it's very precise
you put your pins on you put that pin on the target
and let go
you mean the laser or what
no I have I'll show you it has a I have a sight on it
and as long as that pin
is where that target is and you know the distance
that arrow is gonna end up there

(44:56):
like there's there's very minimal room for error
and you learn that
after you shoot it for a couple years
it becomes very easy yeah it's almost too easy
and you're like well
it's
everything's being done for you
so that's when I switch to the
traditional bow my American long bow

(45:17):
you shoot with the with the other hand
yeah I shoot with the other hand
and but I'm learning archery all over again
because I no longer have a pin I don't know if a sight
everything is just
you got to learn how to shoot you got to learn
how to release everything's different
and it's like learning from zero again
and how your body is supposed to like

(45:38):
fit onto that bow
where my anchor points are everything's different
and it's really refreshing to learn it again
after so many years of doing the compound bow
the traditional bow now
is like being a child again like learning brand new
I've been a
I've been learning how to like

(46:02):
when I'm very passionate about something
I do research
and
do you know how the Indians shot
no
so they shot really fast because
three arrows in one second or something
really fast that's crazy
but they
so when you put the area you put it on this side
yeah they put it on the other side
on the other side Mongolians too
yeah and

(46:23):
yeah you load quick yeah
rather than this side and I tried it no
it doesn't I mean not with the bows were shooting
correct that's what I want to say
because they don't have a dual sided bow
the Indians don't they don't have a rack
yeah they
just use their hand
and so it's much easier to be

(46:45):
to shoot from either side
and the Mongolian bow does the same thing
but for most archery
I guess beginners the rack allows you a straight sight
yeah and then there's it's off to the side
so you have to compensate
it's much it's much harder to shoot that
hmm uh I haven't figured it out
and I'm not I'm not looking to do that just yet

(47:07):
yeah I'm very happy with the rack
and I know it's harder to reload
but I feel like I'm more accurate with it for now
we'll figure it out later
you try shooting around the corner
can you guys
there has to be a curve right
the bow does the arrow does swim
no so when you when you click the arrow yeah

(47:28):
you click it in the middle right yeah
if you put it horizontally and you move it up okay
and you should then it will
curve more
go like this and then it will
overcorrect and go around the corner
I've never tried it
but with the ball the ball
at the end it's really hard because it's not

(47:50):
doesn't go yeah
I'm gonna try when I'm going home
yeah
I'm gonna buy I'm gonna buy I want to buy a
compound bowl from here
so I'm gonna ask you which one is good
because I want to go hunting back home
yes so oh man me too
but my I mean my bow is very old
mm hmm my bow is got to be seven seven eight years old

(48:11):
still working still good
great I mean I was strong and recently
my I've played around with it a lot
mm hmm so it's it's taken a lot of like
my time to research all the pieces on it but I love it
mm hmm you know
it's I still have a couple of the original you know
parts to it but it
was nice great
yeah great bow

(48:32):
it lasted me forever
but I just target you again like I don't
I don't go hunting with it
it hasn't I haven't done a lot of
that kind of work with it and I would like to you
know that's that's on my list
you need to come to you need to come to cages and
play with us yeah you're gonna love it
I'm sure
I mean matteos also really asked me to go all the time

(48:53):
I just have to find the
time and put it in my calendar next week you know
next is correct
okay I'm in
it's on
it's on camera
and then we're gonna put some photos of you playing
is it yeah
I fucking love it
and the community is amazing hello is it
yeah it's amazing
it's at the beginning everybody loves each other

(49:14):
yeah hugs each other
the moment you say go
and you start playing you gotta kill each other
it's murder
and then when you shoot someone in the face
like sorry but deep inside you were like
yes got him
and I have
I have so many scars like on my sheens and this finger
I cannot really move because I try to catch one

(49:37):
oh and it's
yeah it was a stupid thing and it
banged your knuckle and went like this
he didn't broke I
went to the hospital and said no it's okay he's just
fucked up yeah so I it's really hard for me to do this
but yeah it's okay it's a memory
yeah
it's your left hand
so unless you're a lefty drawer you're probably

(49:59):
no I'm okay yeah
this is the this is the main one
that's the important hand
this is the important hand yeah
but uh it's a lovely community
I'm gonna miss them all of yeah
and I go I think
I feel the same way about the jujitsu community
oh right like
yeah and in fact any martial art where you have to spar
yeah like you go in and everyone's friends
you spar and you play lightly

(50:21):
but you do kind of try to kill each other
and then afterwards you're like oh this is fun
you know we're friends
I mean in my country this is a big conference you
first you hate each other then you fight
and then after the fighters like hey respect yeah
we're pretty good I'm pretty good
yeah okay let's be friends though okay that's it
the Romanian friendship that's how it starts

(50:44):
I don't know if I could survive
yeah
then he was like okay you can fight I can fight him
let's fight together again those guys
yeah yeah
it's funny I was listening to a friend of mine
and he was telling me the best way to
judge your friends is two questions

(51:05):
1
if I was banished from this city hmm
would you fight for me to come back
would you fight the authorities to be like
let me come back
that's the question one
would this person do it for me
wait so go to the circumstances
so let's say Arthur was banished from Shanghai

(51:28):
how do you finish
I don't know
let's free okay yeah
and with Theo
go to the Shanghai government and be like
I want Arthur back
that's question 1
mm hmm question 2 is would I want to go fight
a dragon with Theo
like those are my two questions I would ask myself

(51:48):
about my friends
and if
if you think about it those are the same people
like the people that I would go out and fight with
are the same people that would fight for me
if something bad happened to me yeah
like those are the same groups and if they
those people if you answer yes
it's probably a good friend yeah yeah
it depends did you do something illegal

(52:10):
like what did he do
what did he do
yeah so far I'm okay
who knows okay
give me another 10 years we'll see how it goes
yeah banishments
that's a word I didn't hear in a long time
I only hear when
when I watch anime or something like that
I mean got banished from the my friend
says it's more like cancel culture now right

(52:31):
if you are online and you get yelled at and bullied
would this person stand up for you
I'm all in the same
you know I'm all in yeah
I do love arguments oh me
I start so much shit and it's so it's not good for me
yeah so
let's say
let's say you go home for a little bit and relax

(52:51):
next step are you still looking to hang out in Romania
are you looking to
maybe go to Thailand to live for a little bit
what are the next steps
I didn't think so
that far
no I'm just gonna go home see how the family is doing
yeah
that's important
they're gonna annoy me at some point
yep
then I'm gonna start thinking okay I need to get away
what's again step right

(53:12):
the next step let's see
because you have
so much opportunity
a lot of your opportunities are located kind of in the
east yeah of Thailand you have you've China you've
a lot of your photography
obligations are here yeah to go home
you can't have to be here to do photography you know
actually back home I did

(53:34):
have
exhibition galleries with
and I have friends in the
to say the Olympic committee
and I know athletes I know fighters
I'm kind of in this community
if I if I go home I'm going to
reach out to people

(53:55):
and I think we can we can do some really cool projects
that's great to hear I'm not
in a hurry so I can just take my time and
do things proper yeah
yeah I think that's and I did
photograph like
Rugby games football games so
so I think I can I can do some stuff plus my uncle

(54:16):
shoots weddings
no yeah
that's good money
yeah
that's and I'm gonna try to see how things go
yeah yeah do you think of it
photographers are all mostly introverts
I'm convinced that most
photographers are very introverted
not really
that depends how much alcohol you put in them

(54:37):
like I was
I did a shooting with
my friend Chai Kam and she I was the model
and I realized it's not easy
it's like when you're behind the camera
you give directions and you're like
do this do this
but yeah taking direction is also hard
I saw the other side of the coin but
what's hard about it

(54:59):
you need to
pose it's all about images
you need to pose you need to know how to pose
and when you're
not experienced
if you experience it all comes natural
you know exactly what you need to do
but if you're not experienced as I was
you
focus on something but forget something else

(55:20):
like it's you
you're not in your element
you're not aware of what your body is doing
yeah so like hands out of the pockets yeah
legs like this
focus on the legs and then my face is all wrong right
and stuff like that
so
she tried to make me laugh and tried to do it naturally

(55:40):
I calm down a little bit and then it went it went okay
I hope
I just think that a lot of photographers end up
hiding behind their camera
they don't yeah they don't want to
they need a vehicle to kind of communicate to the world
and sometimes it's much easier to be behind the camera
where you have a little bit more control

(56:02):
you know especially at like weddings
hmm weddings are so social
and they all like want to talk to you
and it's nice to kind of hide behind the camera
give some direction
you're still interacting but you have this thing
that's like
in the way but also allows you a channel to be social
that depends on the photographer okay

(56:24):
honestly I mean you you can tell if a photographer
likes what he's doing
if he's going to a wedding and he's dressed
appropriately
interesting I've seen what do you mean
yeah I've seen so many photographers
that were dressed like I am now to a wedding
and I mean maybe he I mean here is the norm

(56:47):
hmm people just don't really
care so I came here and take photos that's it
but
for example it was the
Norwegian
there was a ball okay right
and I dressed like
bow tie with a shirt
yeah
black tie
everybody was it was like The Great Gatsby Thing

(57:08):
gotcha
so I was one of the guests with the camera and I was
feeling it I
had a little bit of wine
taking photos real nice
and there was another
another photographer track suit
yeah
you don't fit in what are you doing
yeah and
that's how I recognize a photographer that's really

(57:30):
that
loves what he's doing
and it's very easy for us all black
that's it can't go wrong
can't go wrong with all black
yep that's it
but yeah and also
it's a bit intimidating sometimes
because if there are many photographers
you're kind of thinking
wow
he looks more professional than

(57:50):
his camera is newer
his lenses are bigger
yeah something is something something is something else
and then you meant
I realized
doesn't matter
so I just focus on my
whenever I'm shooting
for Shanghai Fashion Week or some other event that has
like 20 photographers yeah
I just have my three cameras on me

(58:12):
I can hit three people at the same time
they mess with me
and I just shoot Bam and I don't care at all
that's it but to get
to the not caring part took a little
took a while yeah
because at the beginning was also kind of intimidating
like what's going on here yeah
do I have people are beautiful
like it's very intimidating

(58:33):
no it's like a professionally
oh look at that gear
look at this thing look at that
I was like hmm
am I in the right place am I doing this properly
am I capturing the right things right
and I just didn't care
and I just did my thing right
when you don't care and you do your thing
you can also interact with other people and say hey

(58:54):
smile Bam
that's right
yeah I mean
what you're known for is really like the boxing
and the action shots right
and it helps that you train
because if you don't train
you don't know what you're looking for
yeah yeah
takes a lot of you're in this like
much smaller niche

(59:15):
that you're kind of ideally suited for yeah
it started with the Golden Gloves
yeah you remember Golden Gloves that is so cool
that's how most of my
good friends I met in Golden Gloves
yeah it was such a tight community
training with barge and Ricky and
that's when I got my first camera started shooting

(59:38):
I look now at the pictures
shit
but
it was at the beginning
so I took some pictures the fighters loved it
better camera better lens better pictures and
it was
really lucky
so the my first shooting for one
you know tames
yes

(59:59):
so thanks to him
we were neighbors and we're like hey you hungry okay
there was a Muslim place
we went we went to eat something
and
I remember eating eating
eating and I was like what you doing later
I'm going to win championship
I'm one of the sponsors yeah
oh

(01:00:19):
cool yeah
like well
we're missing a photographer
we have the videographer
but we're missing a photographer
dude
yeah you're looking at one
you're looking at one
oh yeah okay come come tonight and got my gear
I went and that was it

(01:00:39):
that's how I started shooting and I started
that was my first experience and absolutely love it
so thanks
of course yeah I mean and
it's funny that
like we were talking about in the beginning
it's funny that
these gyms ask their people to go out and be
sales people yeah when you

(01:01:02):
lock them up in the gym
because that's what you need to do to be a salesperson
you just have to go
and be more social
yeah
and you have to spend your time outside of the gym
in order to bring things into the gym
don't know where the opportunity comes yeah
like it was just a lunch
yeah it was just lunch
we were in flip flops
actually that's it's way funnier than this because we

(01:01:25):
were eating garlic yeah
like real like oh we were eating that
like he started eating and
I'm like I'm not gonna be left behind
so I started eating too
and then at the end it's like
dude you have we have this event later on
yeah and we ate our breath smells Carol
we ate like one kilo of garlic and it was like
oh yeah you were right
dude but it's okay I didn't talk much yeah

(01:01:47):
you don't have to talk I bet you he has to talk
yeah you know
that was very funny it was
an interesting event loved it
and
yeah I still um I don't know if you remember Chris
yes
Chris from Golden Gloves
yes he is has awesome a new gym
yeah or he has his own gym yeah he has his own gym now

(01:02:09):
oh I'm gonna reach out just
recently maybe
not even half a year yet mm hmm
and it's called one more round
mm hmm and good name he got he got a he got a bare logo
one of his you know the students
and it's still just a bunch of Golden Gloves people
you know it's the still
kind of that old Golden Gloves Chinese crowd

(01:02:30):
that just followed him from gym to gym
it's the same thing
you know Chris
yeah he's a guy yeah hilarious
his classes are very good
yeah I'm still boxing there
I try once it's around a
hochazan the train station
oh that's far
yeah it's a little bit far from me so I don't always go

(01:02:50):
how can I can visit him yeah
you should definitely reach out I mean he's yeah
it's he used to have his great space
ah I miss it so much it used to be right next to
Nanjing East Road
and it was behind an art gallery
oh and so you would walk into this old building
go up to third floor

(01:03:12):
and you have to walk through an art
gallery and all of a sudden
through a door and it's a boxing chip
that's so cool
it was awesome
I was so happy boxing there
and it was so close for me
I would just ride a bike over
yeah
and now he's kind of moved into like a
more of an awesome building kind of area
there's no shower
it's okay

(01:03:32):
but the bop the coaching still very good so I still go
oh that's important
but the old gym used to be so much fun
like you would just be like
wow I can't believe I walked through this
you know artsy fartsy kind of place
everything looks so fancy and now it's just like a
boxing gym you know that was a lot of fun
this reminds me of a very cool shooting I did

(01:03:54):
two years ago
this coach
wanted to train
boxers to become like top athletes sure man
but he realized that rent is high and you need to
really need to push the sales to get the
you need money for it yeah
so what he did he rented the house

(01:04:17):
close to Suzhou
okay
run run down house yeah it was
the ring was in the
courtyard it was like
run down all the equipment was very used but
the rent was very cheap and the fighters can
come there and they
train there and one of them
and stay there and one of his peoples was No. 3 ranks

(01:04:40):
or something like this in China
and the kushing was good
he was training
once per day or his students were coaching yeah
and I was like whoa that's really he went really
conceptual on this one
what do I what I don't have I don't have money
yeah
okay we do nice
if I don't need the fancy fancy gym in Jinggan yeah

(01:05:03):
I can go somewhere in a village
it actually is a village with a river
it is actually quite cool
nice
and before every training they did the skateboarding
for the balance
that's really cool
that's really cool
when we're walking down the street and everybody
knew that they were the boxing guys
wow
it's funny I was talking to Alicia about

(01:05:24):
before she left
and she said something that really kind of hit me
she said boxing is no longer
a poor man sport
yeah
it used to be
boxing would allow you a career if you are
not very well off
to like grow into and that doesn't happen anymore

(01:05:45):
in fact
most sports now
are not from
poor communities
they're from actually very wealthy communities
where they pay for you know the best uh
I guess and brightest coaches
and it used to be
you know you would basically kind of live at the gym
you live or just spend a lot of time at the gym

(01:06:07):
and they would really you know hmm
grow you into a fighter
but that just it's so much rarer now
than it was maybe 10 20 years ago boxing
yeah
I think in Maitai in Thailand still still happening
correct in Waitai it's 100% happening
yeah because most of those
kids start their fights at well like 5 6

(01:06:28):
yeah and they grow into but that's like
that's the national sport
yeah right I think for boxing like in
you don't see a lot of like poor people
coming up in boxing
it from like the Bronx from like Parlem it does
it happens far less famous
yeah famous book
top boxers I think this still happens in Kuba

(01:06:49):
yeah and some other
other
countries where the economy is not doing very well
right so yeah but
in order to
stand out from the from that crowd
yeah we need to be need to be exceptional
you need someone who can
yeah
yeah
hard
yeah I like what's what's happening now in

(01:07:10):
Saudi Arabia with the Turkey
what's his name Turkey Turkey
I don't know
what are we doing the promoter from
who who promoted the
beevolve versus better beef
I didn't watch that fight and I wish I wish I watched
I heard it was really good
it was really good
yeah I heard it was really good it
was good
first one was good
this one was really good yeah

(01:07:32):
I have to watch it
you need to watch it yeah
they fought for 24 rounds unbelievable
yeah damn that's
and they were at the end they look like they could go
even more
I always wonder if those guys are on steroids
they gotta be right
in my head they are
it's just it's so
it's not human to be able to last that many rounds

(01:07:55):
like even small rounds yeah
I know
it's
crazy to me yeah
and that's got that's that kind of gas tank
is so superhuman
that I'm I it
I wanna I wanna feel like they're cheating
just to make myself feel better
ha ha you know because I know that
that's so far away from me

(01:08:15):
but they don't have to go to the office Monday yeah
that's the thing yeah
they have someone to tell them hey
you need to run you need to do some stuff you need to
yeah that's where the
money comes from correct
but wait there was another
fighter that was like
received a notice in 3 days and he fought Shakur

(01:08:37):
man I'm really bad with names
yeah so they it was like a very top fighter
I'm gonna
embarrass myself now that I don't know fighters boxers
and there was this guy who was
received a notice 3 day notice and he did actually
not bad
there are these fairy tales
there are these tales and she's he's
a painter or something like

(01:08:58):
his job is not boxing really
yeah
that's like Demetrius Johnson that's like Mighty Mouse
yeah
spent most of his career not actually being a fighter
yeah
and it's and then you receive a
chance just take admit it
yeah
that's all dreams are made of yeah
yeah
damn
I hope you get one of those

(01:09:18):
I hope you get one of those big
breaks because that's what I'm waiting for you
I'm stoic I'm really stoic I mean if something
good happens I'm like okay
yeah something bad happens like yeah
could be worse
yeah there's a there's a story about
an old king and he told his

(01:09:39):
subordinate yeah
find me a ring
that when I look at it when I'm happy it makes me sad
when I'm when I'm sad it makes me happy okay
and he went far and wide and
eventually after many years he found one
right back and it was a ring and it said
on the ring these two shall pass yeah
I've heard the story
yeah it's a great ring

(01:09:59):
and it's a it's like oh yeah this two shall pass
I'm not gonna be sad forever
I'm not gonna be happy forever
yeah so yeah it is what it is
it's good to be balanced in stoic
yeah
so hoping for the best yeah
we're gonna cut it there everyone
yeah again Theo I wish you the best
oh thanks so much I wish you the best
thank you for coming

(01:10:20):
thank you for having me yeah
all right take care
bye bye see you bye bye
嘿各位, Theo和我在一起
这有点像你对每个人的告别播客
你要走了我有点难过
类似吧
是的，10年后，我决定好吧，我还可以做一些其他的事情。
是啊你为什么要走？
故事是什么？
它是
怎么说
我意识到我的心已经不在这里了
就像过去一样
还有
发生了一些事我意识到
我没有我想要的那么平衡
我的优先事项不在他们应该在的地方
比如
他们是
有一件事
这真的困扰了我的反应，让我非常困扰。
大约两年半前
我朋友的妻子她自杀了
噢
她从窗户跳下来
我说每个人都说是产后
他们有个孩子
我就像你知道的，这真的很悲惨。
还有嗯
真的很糟糕
在我的脑海里
哦，我需要完成这个截止日期。
所以我在我的脑海里就像
噢
这发生了，我妈妈哭了。
她打电话给我
我能想到的就是
哦，我需要把颜色换成这个。
我说我需要
我是为不知情的人设计的建筑师
是啊还有
我们有一个愚蠢的截止日期
和
我的老板在推动客户在推动是的
我们我们完成了最后期限，客户说
哦，干得好，我们需要
我们知道一些
我们现在需要改变一切
哦，我就像你这个混蛋
是的，我能说操，是的，你这个混蛋吗？
当时我没有真正反应过来。
我好像有点专注于自己的事情
后来我突然想，我在做什么？
我到底在做什么？
我是
拼命工作
我在为这蠢事加班
那不重要
是的，还有真正重要的事情
我才不管呢
我不
我变得很不免疫我变得麻木麻木
紧接着
我妈又给我打电话了
我的猫被撕成碎片，他走在街上
还有一些狗
有些狗真的
做了一个数字和
被杀了，就像
还有那个
加上我的朋友丢失了，真的很受打击。
是的，我到底是什么？
然后我决定好吧
让我们看看什么对我来说是重要的
我决定好吧，我的祖父母老了。
我才不要呢
记得他们我就像哦
我本可以对他们说些我本可以说的
我只想去那里
在农村呆一段时间
种一些我不知道的小麦
我认为这真的很重要
后新冠病毒，我想很多人都明白这一点。
朋友很重要家庭很重要
是的，这种东西
我们
在上海忘记了，因为上海只是工作
这是一个工作城市
对，真的很快。
每个人都喜欢
是呀
每当你问上海的人
你今天好吗？
你知道我听到的第一个答案吗？
忙忙碌碌
是的，总是很忙，从来没有，我做得很好。
我觉得很开心耶
从来没有听说过你几乎总是听到我很忙
是的，我就像
我认为你的优先顺序是错误的
如果你总是很忙，你不开心
如果你忙于做一些让你开心的事情
那没关系，当然。
但如果你很忙
看在那时候很忙的份上
也许不是，我认为很多人
即使他们不忙，他们也只是说他们很忙。
那就更糟了
他们就像哦
因为他们认为这样说是对的
他们想感觉像
我很忙我有价值
这不是你的价值
你的价值不是你能做多少
给这家公司带来
你是人类，就像快乐一样
我认为很多人只是钉住他们的价值
在他们的工作中
所以不要这样做，我在
我也是
不久前我在告别会上
和
晚上10点或11点左右
我说我困了我要回家睡觉了
是啊，那你说我们要去派对是什么意思？
不，我很困。
我回家睡觉了
第二天早起做我的事
好吧，现在学会珍惜我的私人时间，是的
我认为这是一种界限
等你长大了
是呀
当你年轻的时候
我觉得你真的
容易被你的朋友影响
他们就像哦
你知道的
派对结束后，你说我不想去
你想去Chris yeah
所以很多人推动你做事
你不想做的
是的，但是一旦你长大了，你就像
不，就这样，我受够了。
我才不管呢
是啊我不在乎
我有我有我的东西
哦，实际上昨晚我应该
哦我忘了
我本来要去参加酒吧开业典礼什么的
我说不，我要去泰国菜。
对，所以我去了。我去了马克·莫迪那里。
麦提的脸被打了一拳吗？
然后我回到家忘记了一切
我刚想起来抱歉
但没关系就像我感觉的那样
当我们还是孩子或者20多岁的时候，对吧？
当你20多岁的时候，每个人都像
让我们做这个让我们做那个
你真的没有
你没有设定你的界限
就像现在我的密友知道
到10点，我可能会在家。
是的，不要打电话给我，不要打扰我
10点10分左右
我不会回应的
是的，如果我们出去了，我们会吃晚饭
如果你们想去派对
太好了，我要回家睡觉了。
是的，就像我一样，这是我的日程安排。
这就是为什么如果是好朋友，你会说
好吧明天见宾果游戏
正是我要说的
但我不喜欢人们说来吧
这只是一杯饮料，来吧，就像
不
抱歉那是我的界限
我不会这么做的
哦，酷
我们很多人现在都这样
我觉得尊重自己的时间是件好事
比嘿伙计们喜欢的还要多
我要出去喝个痛快
毁了我接下来的两天是的你知道宿醉
就像那没有意义一样
是呀
我们现在像老人一样说话
是的，回到我年轻的时候
是啊但是
我们已经狂欢过了
我们已经去过那里了
然后我们知道你知道这是
有趣有时这现在不值得
耶耶
所以现在你在重新评估你所有的价值观
在这之后你想做什么
离开上海后
我不知道。
不知道不知道
这是一个很好的答案
其实我也不知道
跟很多回欧洲的人谈过
我的一些好朋友回家了
说无事可做
他们有点后悔
我想我会达到那个程度
在某个时候但是
真的我需要
我需要以其他方式成长
我想开个公司
做我最喜欢的摄影摄影和设计
是呀
在广告中，让我们看看它是如何工作的。
很多人都知道你是摄影大师
他们其实不知道你是个建筑师
是呀
大多数人就像哦Theos只是
他只是艺术他只是个摄影师
是的，你以你知道的而闻名
这个
拳击赛事，Moitai赛事之类的
现在你和一个
就像你做的所有这些活动一样
这就是你出名的地方
大多数人都喜欢
我都不知道迪奥到底是干什么的
我非常喜欢摄影。我也喜欢建筑。
我已经做了，我已经做了
10年没有
我在建筑行业工作了12年
大学六年，所以我喜欢设计
但是每当有人问我嘿你是做什么的
我只是说嗯
我是个摄影师耶
因为它很时髦，就像
你可以在不同的媒介中导航，好吗？
是啊还有
你觉得你用Arch做不到吗？
有建筑
我不知道这取决于
人群好吧，这有点自命不凡，是的，我是说
一点点
是呀
我的意思是，当人们问你，你是建筑师吗？
还有做什么你设计什么
你做了什么事情，你需要
给他们看这个那个是
很难
并获得
呃，没有反馈以获得满意的架构
这太难了，嗯，所以
首先你有竞争对手
我主要参加比赛
所以你有比赛，你赢了，你很高兴，是的
然后开始打磨，客户说哦
事实上我们没有预算
是的，我们想改变这一点。
我们想改变这一点，我们想改变我们想要的
更多的这个，更少的那个，如果
我不知道你最初概念的20%是
在大楼里
已经很不错了很不错了
你可以看到大楼
我也不清楚，大概是6、8到8年后吧。
所以他们说和
在那之前就像你只是想结束它
好吧，我们需要什么灯？
怎么说什么颜色什么RGB什么
它是
你记住颜色，你记住代码
厕所和一切
这有点失去魅力了
用摄影，我今天就做。
明天就发布了
是呀
你认为这是因为
这对建筑来说是一个漫长的过程
因为这是八年后，让我们说对。
建筑物实际上在哪里
出现并实际完成
对我来说，我八年前对今天做的事情
似乎有点畏缩
就像我甚至不想看它，我就像
是啊八年前我太蠢了
认为你知道
我会看着它
八年后
我就像是
我都不想再看那东西了
我现在就想做我自己
是的，所以也许摄影对你来说就是这样。
或者只是这是我的
现在就工作，就像你现在可以立即得到它一样
见效快见效快耶
是的，那实际上是
实际上是这样的
和
当我在大学的时候，当我年轻的时候，我
有点天真，我在想
哦，当我要成为祖父时，我想
我想带我的孙子我的孙子
走在街上打个招呼
我建造那个我建造那个
他会充满骄傲
这就是我在想的，但现在我在想
他会打电话的他不会在意的
我是说什么鬼
所以你做了那件老掉牙的事
是的，你做了每个人都在抱怨的事情。
我到底在做什么？我在做什么？
在这么长的一段时间里
享受生活，仅此而已
那你从中得到了什么？
你在中国的10年
比如你是什么，你感觉像你吗？
成长为
从建筑的角度来看，我认为我成熟了
当我大学毕业的时候
我的一些同事直接去了
他们想攻读博士学位
要获得博士学位，你需要
成为一名助理，你需要教书
学生肯定
如果你没有任何经验，你就做不到
我喜欢教学，我喜欢谈论概念和
我喜欢谈论别人的项目
帮助他们成长，给他们方向和想法
但我决定
当时不要那样做
因为我没有经验好吧
所以我只是想体验一下
工作经验
与客户交谈接受想法
弄清楚如何导航
不同的会议
我认为这对我帮助很大，所以我更成熟了。
比
10年前当我来到这里的时候我其实知道很多
我两年前刚从大学毕业
我不知道我有多少
一件事
帮了我
先在这里就业
是比赛吗？是的。
我总是喜欢竞争
所以即使在我大学四年级的时候
我开始申请
建筑竞赛设计竞赛获奖
我有一个很好的投资组合
是的，谢谢你来这里。
我就像哦，这个家伙，让我们竞争
我们把他带过来看看对吧
看他怎么做
10年后还在这里
你认为比赛
帮助您变得更有创造力或
是啊为什么
因为它是
短期内，你有一个月或两个月的时间。
你会得到简短的信息，好的，这样做。
你得到了所有的想法，你得到了头脑风暴
它通常不是一个人
你需要找到团队
你需要找一个
你可以与
并激发想法
看好吧我们这样做
还有竞争
我是说你不可能真的失败
通常工作很快，很便宜。
你只是草图重做快速3d模型
你玩3美元
看看会发生什么
但这是不完整的工作
这就是我要说的，对吧？
因为我想我见过很多这样的人
你必须做的艺术比赛
飞行中的东西
走
尤其是对于建筑来说，它只是一个
一个不完整的想法
你甚至不知道
如果这件事一定会成立
但是这个
客户是客户想要这个想法的人
客户
需要那原始的火花
是的，这就像激励他们说哦，好吧。
这个可以工作方向这个方向可以工作
你需要
以一种非常容易理解的方式制作
客户是的，这是我的工作。
我喜欢讲故事
在建筑中讲故事
在摄影中
这就是我
非常擅长，这就是为什么我们赢得了这么多比赛
我知道我有一个
世界级的酒保
不久前
他说的和我问他的一模一样
世界上最好的调酒师擅长什么？
他说讲故事
他说这不是关于
你知道的
确切百分比
你可以用克来衡量一切
并制作这种饮料
但是任何人都可以做到，机器人可以做到。
是的，但这是关于你讲故事
关于这种特殊的酒精混合
这些特殊的植物
创造这个故事来打动其他人
这是真正饮料背后的故事
做饮料是
不一定那么重要
这是你的基本水平
就像你需要的那样，每个人都可以做饮料，是的
这真的是讲故事。
是的，我是说在建筑学中
每个地点都有一个
去那里的理想建筑，是的，可以有
多种形状
你只需要找出这里有效的方法
故事是什么
有时这是非常
简单
但非常强大，或者可能非常疯狂
你可以做一些非常自然和疯狂的事情
但核心是
让我给你举个上海中心大厦的例子
当然
所以山海楼从外面看真的很酷
对，它有螺旋。
扭
里面的体积是一个普通的圆柱体
是呀
而且效果不是很好
哦耶
为什么它是最糟糕的塔之一
因为在那里
这背后的想法真的很好，所以他们有
这个圆柱体
是的，然后他们有这个外壳，对吧？
他们说我们有10个中庭
我们要把
植被会像花园一样
是啊左右
他们从来没有这样做过，因为太贵了。
因为它们有双壳
里面很黑
因为光不通过
因为光不通过，所以它们
需要打开所有的灯
时间
因为它太高了
结构很厚
和面积
在上海在上海塔的一层
它小于in
开瓶器
好吧
所以我认为开瓶是最好的旅游之一
好吧，我在里面工作过
四年，对。
它做得很好，真的很好，嗯，嗯
我觉得
我有在上海工作的人
这不好笑，有点空虚，耶，耶
我听说了。
是呀
你这么说很有趣因为
我最喜欢的是景茂，对吧？
那个
我觉得那里非常漂亮。
我喜欢非常锋利的
上衣看起来有点像皇冠
宝塔耶
我想那是我最喜欢的塔，是的，如果我要的话。
但我
这是一座更古老的塔
它已经在那里很久了
我认为上海有很多新东西
只是质量更差
我认为很多很好的例子是
在新仙地有他们有新仙地
办公楼之一
我们进去的时候它是全新的
甚至像纸巾一样
它们只是便宜。
他们
觉得他们觉得自己很便宜，他们觉得自己很便宜
即将破裂，它们看起来很漂亮，是的
但它们都快碎了
所以一切都感觉不太好
对我来说，这就是这里的许多新建筑。
我记得在一次会议上，客户
我们提出了一些材料
客户说我想要这个，我说
我说这个很贵。
只要找到一些看起来像这个的东西，但是
便宜是啊
让它看起来很贵，但要便宜，是的
没错。
这伤害了你
就像作为一名设计师，你就像你在贬低
我的设计
但是那个那个
碎片在你的脑海里就像
在某些方面，比如
耶稣基督，好吧，让我们摆脱它
是啊，因为你也需要钱。
客户会继续
磨啊磨，想办法
不付钱，说是的，但是
我们要
你能稍微改变一下颜色，然后
推迟一周，你有一个新的选择，然后说
哦耶
也许之前的很好，但你能改变吗？
是呀
这真的让你头脑混乱
在某个时候你会生气，说伙计
我们已经做了什么？
我记得重庆有个项目
顺便说一下，这是我最喜欢的城市之一。
我非常喜欢重庆
我有所以我的项目第一个项目我
我们曾经在迷人的Mixi公司工作过
第2面，去年完成。
这真的很酷
我喜欢客户，因为一切
我提议他们实施是的
我是说有个来回
但他们对此非常开放
我们很高兴他们很高兴
非常好
混合c是混合c
是呀
我现在在混合C楼工作
真的是在红茶他们
哦，是的，他们
他们做的项目很好，比如购物中心项目。
他们很好
他们很好他们真的很好
他们有优秀的设计师和非常好的设计
我曾经设计过几个
他们的购物中心
非常好的客户
是的，干得好，混音，是的
广告
但我为另一个客户做了另一个项目
在挖沟时，我给你做了60个选项6 0 6 0
这么多
但这不是我的错，这不是我们的错
每周五
我们会做一个演示，然后说哦，太好了。
这看起来不错
然后周一他们会说嘿
我们想添加这个批次，是的
或者我们现在想要两座塔，或者我们想要一座大的。
是啊或者我们能不能
像这样
或者面积太大了，你能把它减半吗？
或者你能做这个这个和那个吗？
还有这么多愚蠢的选择
在某个时候，比如嘿
伙计这到底是怎么回事
是的，两年后
我们对设计不满意
当然不
这就像去餐馆一样
说嘿，我想要
什么需要很长时间才能让Gourdome Blue确定
好吧，我想要Gourdome Blue。
然后每隔五分钟你就去厨房
你告诉厨师是的但是
你能用这个吗？
香料和那个香料还有这个那个那个对吧
最后他给你带来了你想要的
这不是我想要的
这不是我想要的，是的，你这个愚蠢的混蛋，是的
我完全知道你在说什么
我觉得那里
我不知道这是不是你
谁负责这个
但在某些时候
产品经理需要告诉你
这些是我们需要选择的您的选项
因为我认为很多人一旦他们
被允许太多的自由
他们不知道自己想要什么了
这是现在社会上的一个大问题
你有这么多选择
你问问你的朋友
你今晚想吃什么
哦，没有人会立即知道有太多的选择
所以没人知道你是否想毁了你的夜晚
问你的约会对象什么
什么你想吃什么耶耶
永远不会有好结果永远不会
说嘿伙计们更容易
这就是我们今晚吃的
你只需要相信我
这是我知道我去过这个地方
这很好
如果你对别人这么说
他们说没事，是的，我相信你。
然后你就走了
你没有给任何人任何你喜欢的选择
这是今晚最好的
如果你说得够多
你知道命令语气
通常它被接受了，人们会说是的。
我会听你的相信你
如果这件事发生，你将承担所有责任
夜晚很糟糕
但你看起来很清楚自己在做什么
你知道数量吗？
你需要在建筑中拥有的球
告诉客户
你需要成为
Richard Meyer Norman Foster你需要那种水平
告诉客户这就是我们正在做的
在中国，我很快就了解到
与客户的第一次互动
你只需要展示他们的肌肉是的
我们要
我们是最好的，我们是最好的
客户这个疯狂的东西
哇
哇，但是我们能把预算降低一半吗？
然后下一次会议我们只展示一些盒子
这就是我想要的。
我们第一次见面到底是为了什么？
是呀
是呀
我不想念那些会议
但我确实认为有一点胆量
一开始就像
就像我保证你会喜欢这个一样
那种
现在信仰如此罕见
你知道，我认为很多人都喜欢
不，客户总是对的
额
那是在美国说的话
很久以前对吧
消费者永远是对的
什么都没有，那不是真的，我不相信，不
是啊不
有时候厨师是对的
就像是的你错了
是啊别弄乱食谱是啊是
它在那里已经好20年了，可能
还是挺不错的
是啊你知道如果你不喜欢
也许你该去别的地方
是啊我们不能这么说
我知道你想要那个或者
我们可以重新布置厨房，我们可以一起来。
就像是的因为你想
你需要客户
是的，但这就是困扰我的原因。
我给你举个让我困扰的例子
现在的武术环境
我想很多武术馆
挣扎或做
好吧但不太好
是的，我记得。
当我的一个朋友开了一个柔术吉姆
他有一个非常
麻烦的
购买了很长会员资格的人
最终
他退了会员费
因为他意识到这个人不好
健身房
正确的人他做了什么
不要给名字只是一些东西
只是
要求超过应该提供的东西
所以对吉姆来说是G
他想要更多的时间吗？他想要什么？
关键是很多健身房不会这么做
如果你买了两年，很多健身房
那是生命线
是呀
两年的会员资格可以支付你所有的房租
很多，它会给你很多。
嗯嗯，很多健身房不会
把这个人赶出去
嗯，因为他们需要钱来生存
但从长远来看，我认为这很糟糕。
因为我认为
拥有那个健身房的意义
就是控制健身房
文化看起来像
如果你让其他东西感染了这种文化
你只剩下你不满意的东西
总体而言，另一个IM
其他
成员们也不满意
那个
有点取决于谁负责健身房
当然，是
教练非常热情
还是某个非常
在那里使其经济
他们需要经济刺激
就像我记得拳击场一样
是呀
哦，很好的例子
当他们开了很多健身房时，他们得到了
他们背后的想法真的很好
来自世界各地的教练都很棒
他们开始指导
是啊就像一切一样
但后来他们有点稀释了一切
我只买了会员资格
获得免费食物
你知道的
哦，我记得这是上海最划算的交易。
这是最好的交易，所以你付了钱。
一年不知道8 000
每天都有食物，你可以吃
每天，是的
我觉得我
吃了20,000英镑之类的东西，你一定是对的。
就像是的
和
所有的教练也这么做了
我还是说嘿
很久没见你了
你在这里干什么只是吃饭
当你来训练的时候不不
只是来吃东西的
只是来吃东西的，然后发生了什么？
是呀
所以我认为他们有点过度了
嗯···
你认为他们过度扩张了多少
他们开的健身房
我不知道我想他们
不知道那里有什么
有一些淘气的东西，好吧，所以是的。
我采访了其中一个人
嗯，当他们打开的时候，嗯
他告诉了我一些事情
我马上就知道这行不通
他说客户想要什么我们就做什么
他说我们也要做
修指甲，我们要去电影院
以及客户想要的任何东西
我们要把它建进去
我马上就觉得这行不通。
去他妈的如果你
将您的业务稀释为
现在是电影院美甲拳击馆
你是什么你已经没有身份了
你已经失去了你的身份
你把它卖给了这些人
不知道自己想要什么的消费者
我认为这是个大问题。
你忘了你的主要受众是谁
你的主要观众是
或者上海的拳击手
是的，你知道，当你稀释它时
情况越来越糟
我认为这是一大堆问题。
还有
很多教练都是我的朋友
因为我在开枪
我在射杀格斗骑士
我向警卫开枪
那些很有趣
那些是有趣的日子，他们有点痛苦
他们不高兴，因为这有点
以公司的方式运作
他们当时必须在那里
如果你迟到五分钟，你将受到处罚
你需要一直待在那里
你什么也做不了
就像我们需要带更多的人来，但你可以
你只能在空闲时间做
什么鬼是的
它是否有效，如果
你的教练现在有一个PT，5小时后他有一个PT
呆在健身房里
是的，没有意义，真的没有意义，没有
UFC Fit也做了同样的事情
UFC飞度
对他们的员工和他们的
他们的
教练说你必须在那里呆八个小时
你不准离开
你还必须有点帆船，这是错误的。
像那样立即是错误的
你不能是的
要求这些人留在那里但也
闲暇时社交并销售
就像你选择一个或另一个一样，是的
比如如果这些人如果这些人是你的教练
他们可以是销售人员
但他们也必须有时间
出去做那件事
但是U F C的拟合是由
商人中国商人对
是的，它不是由UFC经营的。
不，这不好，这是特许经营。
是的，这是他们拿走的特许经营权。
他们拿走了名字
UFC适合但与UFC无关
与UFC关系非常小
好吧好吧
只是运行得不好。
系统
我记得Drovad是
在UFC工作，每个人都来和他一起训练
然后他去了
现在他有了自己的健身房
我可以的
认识来自UFC的每个人，他们
他们和他一起移动，那是那是一个好教练
没错。
是的，这是一个好教练的标志。
是的，你的成员足够信任你
去你要去的地方
是的，他们真的不在乎是UFC还是
不管你教什么我都要去
那是最好的但是
从商业角度来看
我会发现很难雇佣贾瓦德
嗯嗯因为我知道如果我对Jawad不好
嗯嗯上帝禁止我们发生某种争论哦
我失去了所有成员
因为那些会员对我的健身房不忠诚
他们忠于教练
是啊等等
这给了教练很大的权力
这对我来说很棒，嗯
对消费者来说很棒
是啊但对雇佣他的健身房来说不太好
你知道也许他们应该更好地谈判
也许他们应该对教练好一点
是的，这应该是一份合同。
在双方的协议中，他们在合同中说
一方很高兴，那就是一份糟糕的合同。
他们都应该对合同不满意
如果他们都对合同不满意
那就是一份好合同
是呀
是的，是的，这就是俗话说的。
但是
理想情况下，您想要合同，以便每个人都满意
对，就像你们都应该赢一样
是的，只是没有赢。
一方不允许赢太多
是的，我想这就是我们要做的。
是啊很公平
但当时看起来很酷
所有这些成员只是跟着Jiwad在城里转悠
耶耶
就像Jiwad去的任何地方一样，是的，我也会去那里。
是呀
那真是太有趣了
现在有了自己的健身房
真的很好，是的。
我是说这是
他做的很酷的事情就像我和他在一起时一样
他说了很多关于社区的事
是的，他谈了很多
这将是
一个核心家庭，我们会做很多事情
不管是烧烤的东西
我觉得电子游戏很棒
是呀
你知道街头霸王我认为是一个非常酷的主意
只是为了留住所有人
在这个社交圈
这才是真正让人快乐的东西
是啊上次烧烤的时候
我
我我开始生火我开始烧烤不错
我说，是的，很好。
他跑了一点所以
是的，我在玩烧烤。
然后我把尤金惹毛了
因为我发现很难
我不知道怎么点火
所以我刚刚发现
啤酒卡怎么说
盒子，是的，里面是啤酒，所以我想
好吧，只是我需要纸板，所以我开始撕开它。
然后他来了，撕开了这个。
我还偷了啤酒
是啊随便吧
你不会有事的
没事没事
我想是的，他所做的是一件伟大的事情。
是的，我总是担心
健身房一开始很小，很开心
随着它们变大
他们变得越来越糟糕
是的，你知道你经常看到这一点。
不，有时候是你
自视过高，你会认为
你高估了是的
我是说如果你做一些好的产品
你真的需要好好想想
我想把这个提升到一个新的水平吗？
我准备好了吗？
是啊还有
如果你不是，你就会
死就这样
如果你伸展得太多，你会弹出是的
所以这发生在许多人身上
不幸的是，这发生在许多健身房
很多健身房
很多健身房是的
我是说时机真的很糟糕
如果你有小东西
这很有效，它一直很忙。
赚不了多少钱，但你很舒服
你很高兴早上醒来
然后你睡着了，说这是美好的一天
我有五个人在健身房
但最大容量是七个，是的。
那是那几乎是一个完整的健身房
是呀
是啊太棒了
我真的很喜欢那种健身房
保持小，直到他们只
每次都有机地增长一点
是呀
有机正确
是啊不是
你有一个能用的小健身房，然后你打开
还有五个
那是个错误永远是个错误
那不太好，是的。
这就是为什么我当我
说到摄影我喜欢一个人做事
不要接触太多
我就像一个人没事的项目
让我开心
我可以和他们一起做展览
是啊管用
你回家的时候
你认为你在这里所做的技能
无论你下一步去哪里仍然可行
其实我觉得
是的，我是说从摄影的角度来看，我想
我在这里学到的和我在这里工作的速度
将是一个优势
当然
因为让我给你举个例子
我参加了一个朋友的婚礼
六个月后他们收到了照片
这是很长一段时间
那是最长的那是很长的时间
如果你在48小时内发货，就在这里。
太长了
他们想要他们立即想要他们
是啊所以五分钟
好吧我们可以折中一下
快，快，快，快，所以我学会了，我学会了成为
非常快速的处理和一切
当我为一个人拍摄战斗之夜时
例如
我是武士道空手道的媒体摄影师
在法国所以什么时候
任何来自makmudijim的人都在打架
我要去那里
我正在拍摄
我在两小时内交付了照片
活动结束是的
皆大欢喜
他们稍后会发布它们，这是我离开每个人。
因为我买得太快了
你为什么不现在就发货呢？
是呀
快快来吧
我想那就是那就是
这里的节奏和喜欢的太不一样了
大多数其他城市都很快。
尤其是网上的任何东西
真的很快
当我回家的时候，它会慢得多。
但我喜欢那样
你知道的
这很令人沮丧，你需要你真的需要
走
我是说我一直在衰弱
敬我最好的朋友，我们冷静地服务
非常寒冷
是的，所以在我完成工作后
我
在我和公司分道扬镳后
我去那里只是为了放松，头几天是
我在做什么？
我慢慢变得冷静，但两周后我就像
这太棒了
这太棒了
我正在阅读我
曾经是
享受海浪
我在做锻炼，恢复体形。
是呀
所有我以前没有时间做的事情
因为我太忙了
现在我可以慢下来，放轻松
我错过了。
我不知道我
需要那个，但显然我需要。
我认为大多数人离开中国
因为他们需要那个，他们不明白
直到为时已晚
你也害怕
你知道你有点害怕未知
是呀
它是
是的，我工作了很长时间，我
有时候我不开心
但我想得很好
我有一份稳定的工作，我有稳定的收入，是的。
我没有真正想到
不要搞砸一件好事
是的，如果它没有坏，就不要修理它。
有时不要修复它
但你知道它会调整它
你需要稍微调整一下
好吧，我同意，是的，是的。
我现在
我已经知道我需要什么了
我周一周二周三在办公室工作
周四我在家工作
我周五休息，这是完美的数量
我需要一个时间表来让我保持诚实
但我也需要自己的时间
有点像做我自己的事
感觉我是一个人，而不仅仅是
你知道这台机器的一部分
但这也可以有益于您的职业生涯记住
我不认为有
我参与过的任何项目
当我在办公室想到这个主意时，是的
通常我会
散步时我看到一个
叶子和我看到了图案，我就像哇
这这可以实施，是的，对。
我去了一个博物馆，我受到了启发，我不知道
吉卜力工作室什么的
就像我看到宇宙飞船一样，我就像哇
好吧那可以
那可能是一些东西，是的，而且
是呀
停留
在办公室里，你不会得到灵感，你永远不会
你只是你需要
在外面做梦
当你不去想
当想法出现的时候，是的，是的
这就是原因
更糟糕的是当你在办公室的时候
你总是在打电话
或者你总是在电脑上
就是你离开的时候
所有的电子设备和所有的屏幕
你会得到启发，当我得到启发时
最少
你用什么来苦恼
就像你有压力的时候
你用什么来释放一个包，我去拿包。
是的，我去射箭，是的，射箭很棒，对吧？
但这是一个很大的压力释放，所以
射箭技术，所以我们在射杀人，问题是
你射箭的时候
你在计算你在做什么
所以当你有目标的时候
是的，但是当你有人向你开枪时
你什么也想不出来
你不能认为
两周后我有最后期限
我想知道是什么颜色
天花板将是
是的，不，你需要在当下
我喜欢那些年轻人在最无聊的时候
是啊是啊如果你还想什么的话
打脸
打在脸上马上去
硬的
看
是的，伙计，你告诉我的。
再告诉我一遍你是怎么开枪的
告诉观众你是如何射箭的
因为它是
对我来说这是完全错误的射击方式
但你似乎取得了一些成功
等等，我可以再移动这个吗？
所以当我通常你这样射击时，你把
是的，你有眼睛，你有点看到
我应该保留我的锚
就在我的上唇这里
这是我的锚
好吧，不，当我真的想瞄准的时候。
嗯哼我放在这里了
好吧，在你后面，我抓住你了。
所以我可以看到Bem I，是的，所以我没事，是的
好吧，瞄准，我以前做过射箭。
呃，我曾经自己做过蝴蝶结，是的
还有十字弓之类的东西
我小时候在祖父母家
我要去哪里？是的，还有
现在对于射箭标签，你的射击完全不同
我拍的完全不一样
首先什么时候
我的肩膀受伤了，做什么？
我当时在睡觉
你老了你真的老了
不，不，不，所以我就这样睡着了，是的。
我会醒来，我会
我会试着正常睡觉，但我会
最终这样做，我不知道为什么。
早上我会非常痛苦
肩膀疼，非常疼，是的
所以
我不能开枪，我不能正常开枪。
所以我决定
好吧，让我们看看我能做些什么，这样我就可以把手放在这里了。
是呀
是的，这个我没有动。
对吧
和
点击箭头，我用了这个。
你会把球推出去
是的，而不是画线
是的，你推球，然后放开绳子。
是呀
并赞美它
一开始是永恒，这很奇怪。
但是
然后我开始瞄准得更好
我开始用力射击
我现在射得很用力
这个和当我
当我想快速射击时
这就是我所做的，因为我做得很快。
我手里能拿两三支箭
对吧
就这样开枪就这样
这对我来说太不可思议了
我真的很想亲自看看这个。
是啊因为在我脑子里
它不应该工作
但确实如此，这是本能。
是啊，对，你的眼睛不像
看着箭头尖端
你没有像裂口射击一样射击
你只是纯粹的本能
它是
大概在那个方向，那就是我要去的地方。
你会得到很好的结果
我在比较它，你打台球吗？
是的，我以前经常打台球。
所以当你打台球的时候，我打台球，我把Q放在这里。
在你的下巴下面
下巴下面，这样我能看得更清楚
是的，但是有些人
从这里开始做
是啊像这样
所以他们的头很高。
是的，我把它和那个比较一下。
所以当我看到人们那样打台球时，我就像
你怎么瞄准？
它不应该正常工作，但它对他们有用。
所以我认为这只是经验
是的，我认为这只需要时间和重复。
是的，对，你的大脑
有点弄清楚它应该去哪里了
是的，你的身体就这样做了。
是呀
但这需要很多重复，我想
对我来说，这太不可思议了。
因为我一直在努力学习
我过去常常拍我的
我的复合弓，我稍后给你看。
哦耶
我的复合弓很机械
非常精确
你把别针放在目标上
并放手
你是说激光还是什么？
不，我有，我会给你看它有，我看到了。
只要那个别针
目标在哪里你知道距离
那支箭会在那里结束
好像出错的空间很小
你学会了
在你拍了几年之后
这变得非常容易，是的，这几乎太容易了。
你就像
它是
一切都为你准备好了
所以当我切换到
传统蝴蝶结我的美式长弓
你用另一只手开枪
是的，我用另一只手开枪。
但是我又开始学射箭了
因为我不再有别针了，我不知道是否有瞄准镜。
一切都只是
你得学会射击你得学会
如何释放一切都不一样
这就像又一次从零开始学习
以及你的身体应该如何喜欢
适合那个蝴蝶结
我的锚点在哪里，一切都不一样了
再次学习它真的令人耳目一新
做了这么多年复合弓
现在的传统蝴蝶结
就像再次成为一个孩子，就像学习全新的东西一样
我一直是一个
我一直在学习如何喜欢
当我对某事充满热情时
我是做研究的
和
你知道印第安人是怎么开枪的吗
不
所以他们拍得很快，因为
一秒钟三支箭什么的
真的很快，这太疯狂了。
但是他们
所以当你把区域放在这边时
是的，他们把它放在另一边了。
另一边蒙古人也是
是啊还有
是的，你加载得很快，是的
而不是这边，我试过了，没有。
没有，我是说没有蝴蝶结。
正确这就是我想说的
因为他们没有双面蝴蝶结
印第安人没有，他们没有架子。
是啊他们
就用他们的手
所以更容易成为
从两边射击
蒙古弓也是如此
但对于大多数射箭来说
我想初学者的架子可以让你直视
是的，然后它在一边。
所以你必须赔偿
拍那个要难得多
嗯嗯我还没搞清楚
我没有，我现在还不想这么做。
是的，我对架子很满意。
我知道很难重新加载
但我觉得我现在更准确
我们以后再想办法
你试着在拐角处开枪
你们能不能
必须有一个曲线，对吧？
弓箭游
不，所以当你点击箭头时，是的
你点击中间的右边，是的。
如果你把它水平放，然后向上移动，好吗？
你应该这样做，然后它就会这样做。
曲线更多
像这样走，然后它就会
矫枉过正，拐角处
我从来没试过。
但是有了球，球
最后真的很难，因为事实并非如此。
不去是的
我回家后会试试的
是呀
我要买我要买我想买一个
复合碗从这里
所以我要问你哪个好
因为我想回家打猎
是的，所以哦，伙计，我也是。
但是我的意思是我的蝴蝶结很旧了。
嗯嗯，我的蝴蝶结一定是七七八岁了。
仍然在工作仍然很好
太好了，我是说我很强壮，最近
天哪，我经常玩它。
嗯嗯，所以花了很多时间
我花时间研究上面的所有作品，但我喜欢它。
嗯嗯你知道的
你知道，我还有一些原件。
零件，但它
很好，很棒。
是啊很棒的蝴蝶结
它永远伴随着我
但我只是再次瞄准你
我不会带着它去打猎
它没有，我没有做很多
这种工作，我想让你
知道那是在我的清单上
你需要来你需要来笼子和
和我们一起玩，是的，你会喜欢的
我敢肯定
我是说Matteos也一直让我去
我只需要找到
时间并把它放在下周的日历上，你知道的
下一个是正确的
好吧我加入
开始了
它在镜头前
然后我们会放一些你演奏的照片
是吗？
我他妈的爱死它了
社区很棒，你好，是吗？
是啊太神奇了
刚开始大家都很相爱
是啊互相拥抱
你说走的那一刻
你开始玩，你必须杀死对方
这是谋杀
然后当你朝某人的脸开枪时
就像抱歉一样，但在内心深处你就像
是的抓到他了
我有
我的光泽和手指上有很多伤疤
我真的不能动，因为我试图抓住一个。
哦，这是
是的，这是一件愚蠢的事情
撞了你的指关节然后就这样了
他没有打破我
去了医院，说不，没关系，他只是
搞砸了，是的，所以我真的很难做到这一点。
但是是的，没关系，这是一段记忆。
是呀
是你的左手
所以除非你是个左撇子
不，我很好，是的。
这是这是主要的
那是重要的手
这是重要的手
但这是个很不错的社区
我会想念他们所有人
我想我去了。
我对柔术界也有同感
哦对就像
是的，事实上，任何你必须打架的武术
是的，就像你进去和每个人的朋友一样
你打架，你玩得很轻
但你们确实想杀了对方
然后你会说，哦，这很有趣。
你知道我们是朋友
我的意思是，在我的国家，这是一个重要的会议
首先你们互相憎恨然后你们争吵
然后在战士们喜欢嘿尊重是的之后
我们很好我很好
是的，好吧，让我们成为朋友，好吧，就这样。
罗马尼亚友谊就是这样开始的
我不知道我是否能活下来
是呀
然后他说好吧，你可以打，我可以打他。
让我们再次并肩作战那些家伙
耶耶
有趣的是，我在听我的一个朋友
他告诉我最好的方法
判断你的朋友是两个问题
1
如果我被驱逐出这座城市
你会为我的归来而战吗
你会反对当局说
让我回来
这是问题一
这个人会为我做这件事吗？
等等，所以去看看情况。
假设亚瑟被驱逐出上海
你怎么完成
我不知道。
让我们自由好吧是
和西奥一起
去上海政府就像
我要亚瑟回来
那是问题1
嗯，问题2是我想去打架吗？
一条龙和西奥在一起
就像这是我会问自己的两个问题一样
关于我的朋友
如果
如果你仔细想想，那些是同样的人
就像那些和我一起战斗的人
是愿意为我而战的人
如果有什么不好的事情发生在我身上
就像那些是相同的群体，如果他们
那些人如果你回答是
可能是个好朋友yeah yeah
这要看你做了什么违法的事吗？
比如他做了什么
他做了什么
是啊到目前为止我还好
谁知道好吧
再给我10年看看进展如何
是啊放逐
我很久没听到这个词了
我只听到
当我看动画或类似的东西时
我是说被我的朋友放逐了
说现在更像是取消文化，对吧？
如果你在网上，你被吼和欺负
这个人会为你挺身而出吗？
我都一样
你知道我全身心投入
我确实喜欢争论，哦，我
我开始了这么多狗屎，这对我不好
是啊所以
比如说
假设你回家放松一下
下一步你还想在罗马尼亚闲逛吗？
你想
也许去泰国住一段时间
接下来的步骤是什么？
我不这么认为
那么远
不，我要回家看看家人怎么样了。
是呀
那很重要
他们总有一天会惹恼我的
是呀
然后我开始想好吧我需要离开
什么是正确的步骤？
下一步让我们看看
因为你有
这么多机会
你的很多机会都位于
泰国东部，是的，你有中国，你有
很多你的摄影作品
义务在这里是的回家
你不可能非得在这里拍照
实际上在家里我做到了
有
展览画廊
我有朋友在
说奥林匹克委员会
我了解运动员我了解拳手
我在这个社区里
如果我，如果我回家，我会
接触人们
我想我们可以做一些很酷的项目
很高兴听到我不是
匆匆忙忙，这样我就可以慢慢来
做事得当是的
是的，我想是的，我做到了。
像照片一样
橄榄球比赛足球比赛所以
所以我想我可以，我可以做一些事情，加上我叔叔。
拍摄婚礼
不，是的。
那是好钱
是呀
那是，我会试着看看事情进展如何
是啊是啊你想到了吗
摄影师大多都是内向的人
我相信大多数人
摄影师都很内向
不完全是
这取决于你往里面放了多少酒
就像我
我拍了一张照片
我的朋友柴锦和她我是模特
我意识到这并不容易
就像你站在摄像机后面
你指路然后你就像
这样做这样做
但是，是的，接受方向也很难。
我看到了硬币的另一面但是
这有什么难的？
你需要
摆出一切都与图像有关的姿势
你需要摆姿势你需要知道如何摆姿势
当你
没有经验
如果你经历过，一切都会变得很自然
你很清楚你需要做什么
但如果你没有我的经验
你
专注于某件事但忘记了另一件事
就像是你
你不在你的元素中
你不知道你的身体在做什么
是的，就像把手从口袋里拿出来一样，是的
像这样的腿
专注于腿，然后我的脸全错了，对吧？
诸如此类的东西
所以
她试图让我笑，并试图自然地做到这一点
我冷静了一点，然后就没事了。
我希望
我只是觉得很多摄影师最后
躲在他们的相机后面
他们不想，是的，他们不想
他们需要一种工具来和世界沟通
有时候躲在摄像机后面要容易得多
在那里你有更多的控制权
尤其是在婚礼上
嗯婚礼太社交化了
他们都想和你谈谈
躲在摄像机后面真好
给出一些方向
你还在互动，但你有这个东西
那就像
同时也让你有一个社交的渠道
这取决于摄影师，好吗？
老实说，我是说你可以看出一个摄影师
喜欢他正在做的事情
如果他要去参加婚礼而且还穿着衣服
恰如其分
有趣，我见过你的意思。
是的，我见过很多摄影师。
穿得像我现在参加婚礼一样
我是说也许他我是说这是常态
嗯，人们真的不知道
在乎，所以我来这里拍照，就这样。
但是
例如，它是
挪威语
有一个球，好吧，对吧？
我穿得像
带衬衫的领结
是呀
黑领带
每个人都像伟大的盖茨比一样
抓住你了
所以我是拿着相机的客人之一，我是
感受它
喝了一点酒
拍照真的很好
还有另一个
另一个摄影师运动服
是呀
你不适合你在做什么？
是啊还有
这就是我如何认出一个真正的摄影师
那个
喜欢他正在做的事情
对我们所有黑人来说都很容易
就这样，不会出错的。
全黑色不会出错
是的，就是这样。
但是，是的，而且
有时候有点吓人
因为如果有很多摄影师
你在想
哇
他看起来比
他的相机更新了
他的镜片更大
是的，有些东西是有些东西，有些东西是别的东西。
然后你的意思是
我才意识到
不要紧
所以我只专注于我的
每当我拍摄时
上海时装周或其他活动
比如20个摄影师是的
我身上只有三个摄像头
我可以同时打三个人
他们惹我
我就朝Bam开枪我一点也不在乎
就是这样，但要得到
到不关心的部分花了一点
花了一段时间是的
因为一开始也有点吓人
就像这里发生的事情一样
我有漂亮的人吗？
好像很吓人
不，这就像一个专业的
哦看那齿轮
看看这个，看看那个
我就像嗯
我在正确的地方吗？我做得对吗？
我是否捕捉到了正确的东西？
我只是不在乎
我只是做了正确的事
当你不在乎，你做你的事
你也可以和其他人互动，说嘿
微笑砰
没错。
是啊我是说
你出名的地方就像拳击
动作镜头是对的
这有助于你训练
因为如果你不训练
你不知道你在找什么
耶耶
需要很多你在这就像
小得多的利基
你是最适合的人
它始于金手套
是的，你还记得金手套，那很酷。
这就是我的大部分
我在金手套认识的好朋友
是的，这是一个如此紧密的社区
与驳船和Ricky一起训练
从那时起我的第一台相机开始拍摄
我现在看看照片
狗屎
但是
那是在开始的时候
所以我拍了一些照片，战士们很喜欢。
更好的相机、更好的镜头、更好的照片和
是的。
真幸运
所以我第一次拍一个
你知道tames
是的
所以多亏了他
我们是邻居，我们说嘿，你饿了吗？
有一个穆斯林的地方
我们去了我们去吃点东西
和
我记得吃东西吃东西
吃东西，我就像你稍后做的那样
我要赢得冠军
我是赞助商之一
噢
酷耶
喜欢井
我们少了一个摄影师
我们有摄像师
但我们少了一个摄影师
老兄
是的，你正在看一个
你正看着一个
哦，是的，好吧，今晚来拿我的装备。
我去了，就这样。
我就是这样开始拍摄的，我开始了
那是我第一次体验，绝对喜欢。
所以谢谢
当然是的，我是说
有趣的是
就像我们一开始说的那样
有趣的是
这些健身房要求他们的人出去
销售人员是的当你
把他们锁在体育馆里
因为这就是你成为销售人员需要做的
你只需要离开
并更加社会化
是呀
你必须把时间花在健身房之外
为了把东西带进健身房
不知道机会从何而来
好像只是一顿午餐
是的，只是午餐。
我们穿着人字拖
实际上比这有趣多了因为我们
我们在吃大蒜
就像真的一样，哦，我们正在吃那个。
好像他开始吃东西
我想我不会被落下的
所以我也开始吃
最后就像
伙计，你有，我们稍后有这个活动。
是的，我们吃了我们的呼吸气味卡罗尔
我们吃了一公斤大蒜，就像
哦，是的，你是对的
伙计，但没关系，我没怎么说话，是的。
你不必说话，我打赌他必须说话。
是啊你知道的
那很有趣
一个有趣的事件喜欢它
和
是的，我还是嗯，我不知道你是否记得克里斯。
是的
金手套乐队的克里斯
是的，他有一个很棒的新健身房。
是的，或者他有自己的健身房，是的，他现在有自己的健身房了。
哦，我要伸出手
最近也许
还不到半年，嗯嗯
这叫做再来一轮
嗯嗯，他有一个好名字，他有一个裸露的标志。
你知道他的一个学生
而且还是一群金手套帮的人
你知道这是静止的
有点像老金手套中国人
跟踪他从一个健身房到另一个健身房
这是一回事
你知道Chris的
是的，他是个男人，是的，很搞笑。
他的课很好
是的，我还在那里打拳击。
我试了一次，它在一个
Hochazan火车站
哦，那很远。
是的，离我有点远，所以我不总是去。
我怎样才能去看他？
你绝对应该伸出援手我是说他是
他以前有自己的大空间
啊，我太想念它了，它曾经就在旁边。
南京东路
它在一个美术馆后面
哦，所以你会走进这座旧建筑
上三楼
你必须穿过艺术
画廊突然间
穿过一扇门，这是一个拳击筹码
那太酷了。
太棒了。
我在那里打拳击很开心
对我来说是如此接近
我就骑车过去
是呀
现在他有点像
更像是一个很棒的建筑类型的区域
没有淋浴
没事没事
但是bop教练仍然很好，所以我还是去了。
哦，那很重要。
但是以前的健身房很好玩
就像你会说
哇，真不敢相信我经历了这些
你知道艺术放屁那种地方
一切看起来都很花哨，现在就像一个
拳击馆，你知道那很有趣。
这让我想起了我拍的一个很酷的照片
两年前
这个教练
想训练
拳击手肯定会成为顶级运动员
但他意识到房租很高，你需要
真的需要推动销售才能获得
你需要钱，是的。
所以他租了房子
靠近苏州
好吧
跑跑房子是的
戒指在
庭院就像
运行所有的设备都非常使用，但是
租金非常便宜，战士们可以
来到那里，他们
在那里训练，其中一个
呆在那里，他的一个民族是第三名
或者在中国这样的东西
库欣很好。
他在训练
每天一次，或者他的学生在指导，是的
我就像哇，他真的去了，真的
这个概念
我该怎么办？我没有，我没有钱。
是呀
好吧我们做得很好
如果我不需要京干的豪华健身房
我可以去村子里的某个地方
它实际上是一个有河的村庄
这实际上很酷。
很好
每次训练前他们都玩滑板
为了平衡
那真的很酷。
那真的很酷。
当我们走在街上，每个人
知道他们是拳击运动员
哇
有趣的是我和艾丽西娅谈过
在她离开之前
她说的话让我很受打击
她说拳击不再是
穷人运动
是呀
它曾经是
如果你是，拳击会让你有一份职业
不太富裕
喜欢成长，这不再发生了
事实上
现在大多数运动
不是来自
贫困社区
他们来自非常富裕的社区
他们付钱的地方你知道最好的呃
我猜最聪明的教练
它曾经是
你知道你基本上会住在健身房
你住在或者只是花很多时间在健身房
他们真的会你知道嗯
把你培养成战士
但那只是现在更罕见了
比10 20年前的拳击还要多
是呀
我认为在泰国的迈泰仍在发生
正确在Waitai，这是100%发生的
是啊因为大部分都是
孩子们在5点6分开始打架
是的，他们长大了，但那就像
那是国家运动
是的，没错，我想拳击就像在
你不会看到很多像穷人一样的人
拳击比赛
它来自布朗克斯，来自帕莱姆
它远没有那么出名
是啊名著
顶级拳击手我认为这仍然发生在库巴
是的，还有其他一些
其他
经济不太好的国家
对，所以是的，但是
为了
鹤立鸡群
是的，我们需要与众不同
你需要一个能
是呀
是呀
硬的
是的，我喜欢现在发生的事情。
沙特阿拉伯和土耳其
他叫什么名字火鸡火鸡
我不知道。
我们从哪里做推广？
谁推广了
比更好的牛肉
我没有看那场比赛，我希望我能看
我听说很不错
真的很好。
是的，我听说它真的很好。
很好
第一个很好
这个真的很好，是的。
我得看着它
你需要看它是的
他们打了24回合难以置信
是啊该死那是
他们在最后，他们看起来可以走了。
甚至更多
我一直在想那些家伙是不是用了类固醇
他们一定是对的
在我的脑海里他们是
只是它太
能坚持那么多回合不是人
就像即使是小子弹一样，是的
我就知道
它是
对我来说太疯狂了
这就是那种油箱
是如此的超人
我就是它
我想我想感觉他们在作弊
只是为了让自己感觉好些
哈哈你知道因为我知道
那离我太远了
但他们周一不必去办公室，是的
这就是问题所在，是的。
他们有人告诉他们嘿
你需要跑，你需要做一些你需要做的事情
是的，那就是
钱来自正确的
但是等等，还有一个。
像这样的战士
3天后接到通知他和Shakur打了一架
伙计，我真的记不住名字。
是的，所以他们就像一个非常顶级的战士
我就要
现在我不认识拳击手拳击手，这让我很尴尬
有一个人
收到通知3天通知，他确实收到了。
不错
有这些童话故事
有一些故事，她是他的
画家之类的
他的工作不是拳击真的
是呀
这就像德米特里厄斯·约翰逊，这就像强大的老鼠
是呀
他职业生涯的大部分时间都不是真正的战士
是呀
然后你会收到一个
机会承认吧
是呀
这就是所有的梦想
是呀
该死
我希望你能得到一个
我希望你能买一个大的。
休息，因为这就是我在等你的
我很坚忍我真的很坚忍我的意思是如果
好事发生了，我就像没事一样
是啊，坏事发生了，就像是
可能会更糟
是的，有一个关于
一个老国王，他告诉他的
下属耶
给我找个戒指
当我开心的时候看着它，它让我难过
当我难过的时候，它会让我开心，好吗？
他走得很远很远
多年后他终于找到了一个
就在后面，是一个戒指，上面写着
在戒指上，这两个应该通过，是的
我听过这个故事
是的，这是一个很棒的戒指。
这就像哦，是的，这两个会过去的。
我不会永远难过的
我不会永远快乐的
是的，所以是的，就是这样。
在坚忍中保持平衡是件好事
是呀
所以希望最好的是
我们要把它切到那里各位
是的，西奥，我祝你一切顺利。
哦，非常感谢，祝你一切顺利。
谢谢你能来
谢谢你邀请我，是的
好吧保重
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