In this heartfelt (and hilarious) episode of The Chaos Commanders Podcast, Annie and Katelynn dive into the magic of staying connected, no matter the chaos, the distance, or the busy schedules.
They explore how apps like Marco Polo (not the pool game, we promise) and others have helped them maintain deep friendships across miles and years. Whether you’re a military mom constantly relocating, a solo parent building community from scratch, or simply a mom trying to keep friendships alive during the madness of motherhood, this episode is packed with real-life strategies, relatable stories, and encouragement to stay connected.
You’ll hear about creative ways to make friendships work long-distance, how venting via video messages can actually command your chaos, and why finding little pockets of community matters more than ever.
If you're missing your people—or ready to strengthen your circle—you'll find practical tips, lots of laughter, and plenty of love in this conversation.
QUOTES
"Gone are the days where you just call someone and they have time to chat." - Katelynn
"Community is everything. Hang on to your people as long and as hard as you can." - Annie
TAKEAWAYS
1️⃣ Staying connected is a survival tool for moms. Apps like Marco Polo, Voxer, and voice messaging can bridge the gaps when life pulls us in a million directions.
2️⃣ You don’t have to be “camera-ready” to reach out. Imperfect connection > no connection.
3️⃣ Don't underestimate small gestures. A Marco Polo message or a voice memo could keep a friendship alive and thriving even across states, seasons, or time zones.
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FEATURED CHAOS ANTHEM
"Home" – Phillip Phillips
A perfect anthem for this episode’s theme.
Because home isn’t just a place—it’s the people who make you feel safe, seen, and loved, no matter where you are.
🎧 You can find it (and all our episode anthems) on The Chaos Commanders: Season One playlists available on Apple Music, Spotify, and Amazon Music.
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