This episode is all about parenting plans, spousal support, and the biggest legal truths people miss when they're divorcing with kids. I'm joined by award-winning divorce attorney and My Next Chapter's legal expert, Renee Bauer, who brings over two decades of family law experience to this conversation.
We get into how courts are shifting toward shared parenting, why some parenting plans need two pages and others need fifty, and the real story behind modern alimony. We also talk about the legal roadmap inside My Next Chapter and why having good information early can save you time, money, and heartache.
✨ If you'd like to watch the video version of this episode, you can find it here.
What you'll hear about in this episode:
- How custody language has shifted from "visitation" to shared parenting and why that shift matters (3:23)
- What happens when someone demands 50/50 but can't follow through (8:18)
- Why parenting plans range from simple to extremely detailed and how to know what level your family needs (25:23)
- How My Next Chapter pulls legal, financial, and emotional guidance together so you're not navigating alone (30:23)
- The big things Renee wishes people understood before hiring a divorce attorney (35:08)
- How alimony has changed in recent years and why lifetime support is rarely on the table anymore (43:08)
Learn more about Renee Bauer: Renee Bauer is an award-winning divorce attorney, published author, and the legal expert at My Next Chapter. As the founder of Happy Even After Family Law in Connecticut, she's spent over two decades helping people navigate divorce with dignity and confidence. Renee is also a sought-after speaker and advocate for reshaping how we think about divorce — not as failure, but as a chance to rewrite your next chapter with intention.
Resources & Links:
Focused Strategy Sessions with Kate
The Divorce Survival Guide Resource Bundle
Phoenix Rising: A Divorce Empowerment Collective
Kate on Instagram
Kate on Facebook
Kate's Substack Newsletter: Divorce Coaching Dispatch
The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast Episodes are also available YouTube!
My Next Chapter - Use code DSG to receive $30 off your first month
Episode 342: From Uncertainty to Clarity with Tamara Frankfort Odinec and Shari Joseph of My Next Chapter
Renee's website
Renee on Instagram
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