The Hilling Journey

The hosts speak with Julia Berg, LPC-Associate and Phoebe Coccetti, LPC-Associate about all things limerence. The term is used to describe fantasizing and obsessing over someone you don't have a relationship with or can never be with. These therapists began a support group to aid daters experiencing limerence. We cover everything from what it says about our attachment systems to Lindsay and Ilyse exploring why they might be prone t...

Forever hilling. Ilyse's divorce has been final for over a year and Lindsay's will be final any day now. After each being in their relationships for 13 years they have a lot to say on the topic of togetherness, seperation, and aloneness. More conversations, less stigma and shame please.

Some reading recs!

David Whyte: The House of Belonging

Lindsay's Substack essay: Gut health? Intuition Health Baby.

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Lindsay and Ilyse speak with activist and author of "Love in a Fucked Up World," Dean Spade on the healing power of relationships and how to have better ones. Dean shares all he has learned about relationships through his own hilling journey and being in activist spaces. They touch on each of their favorite topics including app culture, grief, attachment, and sexuality. You don't want to miss out on Dean's wisdom and Lindsay's tear...

As Lindsay is indisposed this week, Ilyse takes to the mic to yap about Attachment Theory. She gives a beginner's rundown of Attachment Theory and how it helps us understand ourselves in relationships. She can't drop a theory without a hot take. She calls out the tiktok dating coaches to bring to light what they're getting wrong iabout the anxious/avoidant dance in early dating and why we need to adjust how we understand attachment...

In this special earth day episode, Lindsay and Ilyse speak with the incredible Andres Sanchez, an Intuitive Plant Healer about the healing powers of nature. Through his gift, Andres connects his clients with "plant allies" to aid in their hilling. He speaks to them about utilizing plants for inner child work, his path to becoming a healer, and why others with healing gifts are particularly drawn to his work. The hosts speak about t...

Reading Love In a Fucked Up World, by activist and badass Dean Spade, got our wheels turning around the concepts: "romance myths" and de-centering romantic relationships. Questions and theories have been posed: should/could/would one person, your romantic partner, be your whole world? Is rigidity around that harmful? How harmful? How can we create more sustainable, rich, evolving relationships?

“Today, we turn to one person to prov...

Lindsay and Ilyse talk to therapist and author Amanda White, LPC about the hilling powers of Taylor Swift. They delve in to Amanda's journey with sobriety and how Taylor Swift has been with her along the way. They explore the impact of the Era's Tour and Ilyse shares how Taylor Swift can help weed out toxic men on dating apps.

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A dating episode from the divorce queens! This week, Lindsay reveals an announcement and the two besties call each other out on their bullshit like only besties can. Ilyse and Lindsay check in with each other on the topic of dating and share some of the things that are helping them heal when it comes to dating, relationships, and hooking up. Lunar eclipse, hitchhiking ghosts, and microdosing.

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As therapists, we know feelings are best felt and the painful ones often require extra support. Between our banter and bullsh*t, we are sharing some hacks for getting through different parts of grief. No, we don't subscribe to the 5 stages of grief. We talk about the beginning when everything is impossible, the part when you start feeling your feet on the ground again, and the part where you start grappling with your new reality. 

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On this episode Lindsay and Ilyse welcome their psychic medium in residence, Tara Bonner of Heartseed Healing and Lindsay's dead mom, who Tara brings right on through from the other side. The besties talk about how mediumship has helped on their grief journeys--whether gaining insight on their love lives, or connecting with a beloved family member or pet. Through Tara, they also get to interview their VIP guest, Karen Camp, whose e...

Ilyse and Lindsay sit down with grief activist, author, and podcast host Lisa Keefauver to talk about her journey through grief and her book, "Grief is a Sneaky Bitch: An Uncensored Guide to Navigating Loss." They dive in to the lack of grief support in western culture and what we ACTUALLY need when processing grief, of course touching in to the joys and whimsies.

Lisa Keefauver, MSW is a Grief Activist who transformed her personal...

In our first episode of The Hilling Journey Podcast you'll meet your hosts and learn what the heck 'hilling journey' means. Ilyse interviews Lindsay in a way only a bestie can--pulling out humor and tears. They'll orient you to time and place as you start to learn about the wacky shit they've been up to on their hilling journeys while delving in to the depths of grief after the passing of Lindsay's mom.

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As a wise poet once said at the beginning of an epic around the world arena tour... "it's been a long time coming." The Hilling Journey podcast is here!  In this teaser episode, Ilyse Kennedy, LPC-S, LMFT-S and Lindsay Camp, LMFT acquaint you with their best friendship and what they'll get up to on this season of The Hilling Journey. With a soft open of a message from the other side via their psychic medium, Tara. As well as a soft...