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October 11, 2025 25 mins

Episode Overview

Ever buy something you couldn’t wait to get—and then let it sit in the box for days (or weeks)? You’re not alone. Guest host Morgan Ward joins Ryan Hamilton to explore why we often love the pursuit of products more than the possession of them.

From unopened tools and “someday” sweaters to the viral Stanley Cup craze, they unpack the psychology of anticipation, dopamine, and why the thrill fades once the package arrives.

This episode reveals what’s really driving that “add to cart” impulse—and how brands can design experiences that move customers from wanting to using.

 Quote of the Episode

“Apparently, the most appealing part of consumption for me is the buying—not the using.” — Dr. Morgan Ward

🔑 Key Takeaways

  1. Anticipation feels better than ownership. Dopamine spikes during the chase, making the search itself deeply rewarding.
  2. “Maybe later” kills momentum. Adding something to a wish list or cart often satisfies the craving—so we never come back to buy.
  3. Trends have expiration dates. When products are tied to social signaling (like the Stanley Cup craze), they must be used now or lose their power.
  4. Experience is the new product. Pop-ups, fittings, and even unboxing rituals add emotional value that can’t be postponed.
  5. Design for immediacy. Products that promise instant results or gratification inspire customers to open—and love—them right away.

📚 Resources Mentioned / Referenced

  • The Stanley Cup phenomenon as a case study in social inclusion and urgency
  • Discussion of anticipatory utility and the hedonic treadmill in consumer behavior

  • Norton, Michael I., Daniel Mochon, and Dan Ariely. "The IKEA effect: When labor leads to love." Journal of consumer psychology 22, no. 3 (2012): 453-460.

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