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June 4, 2025 57 mins

We're back for another episode of our Dear Former Fence-Sitter series with mom, therapist, and former fence-sitter, Amanda E. White, where we're answering questions that include...

  • How do I reconcile the different parts of myself that both want and don't want kids? How can I finally decide? 
  • Is it selfish to create a child for my own satisfaction?
  • I'm scared that I'll only be happy on the childfree path if I can make all of my childfree dreams a reality. Am I living in fantasy — or is this me committing?
  • I decided I don't want kids so I got an I.U.D. Now I'm freaking out — what's causing all these doubts?
  • How do you maintain a feeling of closeness in my relationships, when one person has kids and the other is childfree? 


As mentioned in the show:

Listen to my original conversation with Amanda, where she shares her personal Kids or Childfree journey, here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4ir3CeSSRRLLh2PbVwQn1h

Find Amanda on Instagram: instagram.com/therapyforwomen

Read Amanda's Fence Sitter Substack: amandaewhite.substack.com

Listen to Amanda's Nuance Needed Podcast here: https://open.spotify.com/show/73G84FVO6k5lIAaRWhzlUi?si=39f1a6ffbd444408

Learning about Amanda's therapy practice, Therapy for Women Center: www.therapyforwomencenter.com


About Amanda:

Amanda E. White is a licensed therapist and the creator of the popular Instagram account @therapyforwomen. She writes a substack called Fence Sitter. She is the author of the book “Not Drinking Tonight” and its corresponding workbook. She is the founder of the group therapy practice, Therapy for Women Center, based in Philadelphia serving clients across the country. She has been featured in notable publications such as Forbes, Washington Post, Shape, Women’s Health Magazine, and more.  To learn more visit amandaewhite.com

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