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July 9, 2025 67 mins

In this conversation, Keltie Maguire speaks with shawdeez, Ph.D. (he/they), a queer and trans parent, about their journey to parenthood and the transformative experiences that awaited them on the other side of having a child. 

shawndeez shares...

  • The impact of societal gender norms, both on shawndeez's feelings about parenthood and in how these norms can influence anyone making this decision. (1:27)
  • shawndeez's experience navigating the IVF process as a transmasculine person. (11:38)
  • The importance of creating a gender-open environment for children that fosters freedom and exploration. (45:54)
  • The spiritual awakening that can accompany parenthood, and insights into shawndeez's own spiritual journey through parenthood. (18:15)
  • The significance of connecting with nature, and the pursuit of joy and bliss in parenting. (49:54)
  • Self-worth and the need to challenge traditional narratives around family and identity.



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Find shawndeez online at:
shawndeez.com

Find shawndeez on Instagram:
instagram.com/drshawndeez/


About shawndeez:

shawndeez, Ph.D. (he/they) received their doctorate in UCLA’s Department of Gender Studies. While at UCLA, they created and led courses on Trans Magic, Queer & Trans Muslim Feminisms, and QTPoC Resistances while simultaneously serving on the Trans Wellness Team, a collective of medical doctors and mental health providers working to provide gender-affirming healthcare to trans students across the UC system. shawndeez’s dissertation research explored how queer, trans, and nonbinary individuals engage with the spiritual as a form of resilience, healing, and possibility. They are now a full time public speaker, spiritual guide, and workshop facilitator, offering spiritually-conscious spaces for queer/trans people to lean into their joys. (I can tweak if needed, let me know).

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