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July 23, 2025 58 mins

In this conversation, Keltie is speaking with mom, essayist, and author, Elissa Strauss, about her book 'When You Care: The Unexpected Magic of Caring for Others'.

Hear her and Keltie discuss:

  • Elissa's personal experience with motherhood, including the parts she was most afraid of.

  • The complexities of caregiving, particularly in the context of motherhood. 

  • How to navigate the challenge of maintaining self-identity while parenting.

  • How social media is shaping perceptions of motherhood — and the messiness of real-world care.

  • Why we need a broader understanding of care that transcends traditional roles and highlights the transformative potential of caregiving experiences.

  • The magic of caring for others — and how we can experience this, no matter what we ultimately choose.

As mentioned in the show:

Elissa is online at www.elissastrauss.com

Pick up a copy of When You Care: simonandschuster.com/books/When-You-Care/Elissa-Strauss/9781982169275

Read Elissa's Substack at elissa.substack.com/

The piece Elissa's husband wrote about the impact of not breastfeeding their kids is here:  https://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/23/opinion/sunday/formula-breastfeeding-fatherhood.html

Tune into the How the Wise One Grows episode featuring Elissa: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5IHtrBPfmBMO55I7Mz9sKm

Tune into the How the Wise One Grows episode featuring Keltie: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1Iw67drKUnzd1q1WjuzhUW?si=wCPBHC4vRa2Uwc-CGLO9dQ



Find Elissa on social media:

@elissaavery on IG

facebook.com/elissa.strauss.7

linkedin.com/in/elissa-strauss-742720112/

About Elissa: 

Elissa Strauss is the author of When You Care: The Unexpected Magic of Caring for Others. She is a journalist, essayist, and opinion writer, and contributes to publications like the New York Times, The Atlantic, Glamour, and elsewhere.

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