Ever catch yourself thinking: “Why would they like me? What’s wrong with them for wanting me?”
This sneaky belief keeps so many late bloomers stuck in self-doubt, playing small, and avoiding the very love they crave.
In this episode, Lily gets personal about how this thought showed up in her own love life—even when she met her now-husband—and shares the powerful mindset shifts and tools you need to bust through this myth for good.
Inside:
✨ Why this belief is so common for late bloomers
✨ How it blocks you from trusting healthy connection
✨ The ACK tool to start rewiring your brain for worthiness
✨ Real-life reframes to help you believe, “Of course they like me!”
Listen now and start stepping into your main character energy—for love, dating, and beyond.
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