#263 Ask Emily: How to Handle Negative Client Feedback as a Freelancer

A client you admire tells you you’re not worth your rate… Ouch, right? That kind of feedback can rock your confidence and make you question everything, especially when you’re trying to grow your freelance business. But here’s the truth: no one else gets to decide your worth.

In this Ask Emily Anything episode, I’m answering a powerful listener question from Nai, an operations assistant, who asked: “How do you keep momentum and show up confidently after receiving discouraging feedback from someone you look up to?”

Listen to learn more about:

• The truth about negative feedback and why it’s about THEIR lens, not your worth
• Practical ways to articulate your value so you attract clients who happily pay your rate
• What to do when outcomes and client expectations don’t match up
• Using this situation as a learning moment, not a confidence killer 

If you’ve ever felt knocked down by a client, a mentor, or even your own inner critic, this episode will give you the pep talk, strategy, and encouragement you need to stand tall. Keep building the business YOU want!

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Links Mentioned in the Show: 

• FREE live training: 7 Ways to Land Clients as a Freelancer. Join us on October 15 to learn real strategies freelancers are using right now to book clients, market their skills, and grow their businesses. No more guessing how to land clients. Grab your seat here!
• Got a burning question about freelancing, digital marketing, or navigating this wild business journey? Ask Emily Anything! Leave a voicemail here: https://www.speakpipe.com/unicornsunite 
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