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October 17, 2025 18 mins

If you’ve ever walked away from a sales call thinking, “Ugh, I sounded so unsure of myself,” you’re not alone. Every freelancer has been there. But here’s the truth: your confidence is your most powerful marketing tool. And it shows up long before your proposal does.

In this quick solo episode, I’m breaking down what really makes or breaks a sales call: your self-belief. This conversation is inspired by my brilliant friend Sarah Ashman, who said, “The first sale is always to yourself.” I’m sharing the story behind her feedback on interviewing virtual assistants, where the biggest red flag wasn’t lack of skills—it was lack of confidence.


We’ll dig into why today’s market demands that you show up certain, grounded, and clear about your value. 


Listen to learn more about:

  • Why confidence is the foundation of every successful sales call strategy for virtual assistants
  • What to say (and not say) on discovery calls that either builds trust or breaks it instantly
  • How to rewire self-doubt so you stop underselling your skills
  • The power of practicing with peers, mentors, and inside communities like the UDMA School
  • How to show up as a confident partner & collaborator, not a nervous applicant

You can have all the marketing skills in the world, but if you don’t believe in yourself, no client will either. This episode is your reminder (and pep talk) to stop downplaying your value and start selling from a place of self-trust. You got this!


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