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June 9, 2025 13 mins

Do you keep “doing the work” yet see little-to-no results from the Law of Attraction?

In this episode, I expose the single biggest mistake that sabotages more manifestations than any other: constantly looking for evidence that your desire has arrived. This habit, shared by beginners and coaches alike, flips the Law of Attraction into reverse, keeping you locked into the very circumstances you’re trying to escape.

I draw on the farmer-and-seed analogy, reveal why your subconscious programming trumps “positive thinking,” and show you how to stay on the frequency of the life you want, even when the outside world hasn’t caught up yet.

Tune in to stop killing your manifestations and start nurturing them into reality.

In today’s episode, we discuss:

  • The subconscious “manifestation killer” hidden in your daily routine

  • Why checking bank balances, order numbers, or follower counts stalls your goals

  • How to develop unwavering faith and embody the identity of your future self

  • The difference between planting seeds and digging them up too soon

  • Practical steps to hold the frequency of money, clients, and opportunities you desire

Ready to let your manifestations grow? Press play and learn how to stay aligned until the harvest arrives!

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The Mindy Paul Show is a podcast to help business owners and entrepreneurs grow your business fast, attract clients and increase profitability by tapping into the power of your mindset and business manifestation. We dive deep into the secrets of business manifestation, the Law of Attraction in business, and proven strategies to make more sales, boost profitability, and scale your company.

Discover how industry leaders like Tony Robbins, Steven Bartlett, Alex Hormozi, Bob Proctor, Grace Beverley, and Grant Cardone use these success principles to build thriving empires. Learn how to overcome limiting beliefs, reprogram your subconscious mind, and manifest the business growth and success you want.

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(00:00):
The biggest mistake I seea lot of people making,
this includes coaches out there,
people that are tryingto teach manifestation.
Over the years, I've been in thisindustry since twenty sixteen.
And I've come across this somany times from people that are
working with me, people thatare not working with me.
And what this one thing is,
this is probably the mostcommon thing that I probably

(00:20):
come across is I'mdoing the work,
but I'm not seeing the results.
I've been studying, butI'm not seeing the results.
I've been doingmy visualization.
I've been doing everythingthat you told me,
or I've been doingx, y, and zed,
and I'm not seeing any results.
Now the law of attraction.
Let's just really thinkabout how this works.
A lot of people think that thelaw of attraction is simply

(00:41):
just something likeautosuggestion,
suggesting a suggestion toyourself like an affirmation,
doing a visualization,
positive thinking,
and maybe, you know,
creating vision boards andstuff and just staring at them,
doing meditations,
and all the morning routinesthat go along with it.
There's so many differentroutines that people talk about.
And they do these routines.

(01:01):
They spend a considerableamount of time applying such
such, such routines,reading lots of books,
try studying something,and trying to apply that.
And, you know, week goesby, two weeks go by,
six weeks go by,six years go by,
still say I'm notseeing any results.
Not not my clients. We'renot talking about my clients.
Right?
Like, even some of the someof the clients do, right,

(01:22):
when they first come in or sometimeswhen they're six months in.
This is the worst thing that you cando is go looking for your results.
Now the thing is the law ofattraction responds to who you are.
Now you probably haveheard that before,
but what does that mean?
The law of attractionresponds to who you are.
Now the law of attractionactually responds to your beliefs.
It doesn't respond to whatyou want. It doesn't respond.

(01:43):
Now this is, like,kinda contradicting.
It doesn't respond towhat you visualize.
Now it doesn't respond towhat you visualize. Right?
Let's just get that straight.
You know, people say I'mI'm really visualizing.
I've got thiscrystal clear image.
I I know exactly what it is.
And when I'm in thatvisualization, I can feel it.
I can really feel theenergy, and it feels so real,
and I get emotional.
I have tears going down my eyes.
And yet, you know, I've beendoing this, but my results,

(02:05):
my bank balance isstill showing negative.
I'm not I'm still notgetting the clients.
I still haven't got this.I still haven't got that.
Now why does that happen?
Now law of attraction respondsto who you are energetically,
who you are subconsciously.
Like, what's in your subconsciousmind is what the universal
intelligence responds to.
Right? That's whatyou're gonna attract.
So now I wanna reallygive you a harsh warning.

(02:26):
Do not go looking for somethingthat you want to manifest.
Do not go and look at theevidence whether it's there or
not because what you're gonnado is you're gonna start to
reverse what you're doing becausewhat your wish is my command.
Right?
You like whatever's on theinside shows up on the outside.
You gotta have faith. A lotof people don't have faith.
They can't I used to dothis in the early days.
I'm I'm doing this.
I'm going checkingmy bank balance,

(02:47):
going checking my orders.
Let's just say you got anecommerce business or you're
you're looking atyour invoicing.
Have I been paid?
Looking at your bank balance,looking at your lifestyle.
I'm still here. Ican't believe it.
And my partner's beensaying, this is all you do.
It doesn't work.
The law of attractionstuff doesn't work.
But what these people don't realizeis they're doing it all wrong.
So when you let's justsay I've got a plant here.
Some of you can't see thisbecause you're not on video.
Now I've got a plant here. Yes.
It it's a but it's actuallyreal. Let me just put it out.

(03:08):
Right? See the soil. Right?
This is this plant apparentlyis called succulent.
Sounds like a piece of chicken.
Right? Succulentpiece of chicken.
Shall we see howsucculent this is?
Should I take a bite out of it?
Now you're gonna do that.Might get stuck to my teeth.
Now imagine this. There was aseed, right, that was planted.
Right? In this soil, somebodyplanted a seed in that soil.
Right?
They planted seed in that soil,
and what they did is theywent on to water this plant,
put it out in sunlight, tookcare of it, nurtured it,
really like, treatedit like a baby.

(03:29):
Right? Make sure it's fed.
Make make sure it'slike, got nutrition,
water is not dehydrated,it's not dried out.
And listen, before that shotthrough the, soil, it was growing.
Right?
Beneath the surface,beneath the soil,
there was something germinating.
This plant was actually growing.
Right?
Until it got to a point whereit's gonna come through the soil.
Now maybe you couldrelate to yourself.
Maybe you've ever plantedsomething yourself.
Right? Then you watered it.You couldn't see something.
Did you ever questionwhether that's growing?
What did you carry in wateringit? Course it's growing. Right?

(03:50):
Because you have some faith.
Now why do people not have thesame level of faith when they
work towards a goal?
They they're trying to plantthe seed by doing all the
visualizations, youknow, doing all their,
routines or whateverit is they're gonna do.
Now they planted theseed. That's the goal.
That's what they want. They'veidentified what they want.
Right?
They've written down on a gold cardor they journal that, hey, listen.
I wanna earn twentyfive thousand bucks.
Then what happens is, threeweeks go by, four weeks go by,
six weeks go by, and you'renowhere near the twenty five k.

(04:12):
Your income's still atlike thirty five hundred.
You in fact, it mighthave gone down a bit.
Then you think, why is it goingdown? I'm doing all this work.
But why am I resultsreversing? Why?
This isn't working. No.No. What's happening?
The reason why it's notworking because you're constantly going
out looking for evidence of yourgoal like it's already happened.
But here's the realthing. This is the secret.
You're supposed to reallyimagine yourself and feel
yourself that you are alreadyin possession of the good that
you desire becausewhat that does,
it puts you in analtered frequency.
Right now, you're in a state.
You're in your current stateof your current results. Right?

(04:32):
Let's just say that you'reearning five k month.
You're earning ten k month.
And your natural restingstate is ten k month.
Sometimes you'll get hyped up.
You'll you'll start to seeyour income starts increasing.
You might really like beon a different level of frequency.
Sometimes you mightelevate yourself.
You might feel really good fora week or a couple of weeks,
and you start seeing thatyour results start going up.
Then what happens is yourresults start coming down.
Then what happens is you becomeaware of your current results.
You come become aware that, hey,
this is not notmy goal right now.
The whole thing is that you'resupposed to be imagining

(04:52):
yourself that you're readyat your freaking goal.
You're supposed to beembodying that person.
You're supposed to beusing your imagination.
Acting like.
I'm not just walking talkingabout acting when you're
walking about, like,acting like, you know,
you are the personyou're really there.
Not that I'm a millionaire.
I'm really there walkingaround like that in your mind.
Not that.
But how you actually conductyourself in your business.
How you actuallygo to that meeting?
How you shop to that Zoom?
How you write thatemail content?
How you actually write an email?
How you actually writean inbox out to someone?
You've got to really embodyenergetically that you're already there.

(05:13):
You gotta do this over andagain through repetition.
That's the only way you'regonna change the condition.
Otherwise, it'snot gonna change.
So don't go out looking aroundto looking for evidence that is
this working becauseright there you cut away.
You basically what you're doingis that seed that you planted,
but dig into the soil and you'repulling out and chucking away.
Then what happens?
You ask yourself, well, whyam I not manifesting anything?
Why is that seednot manifesting?
It's not manifesting becauseyou disturbed it. Right?
Think about it. Youdon't mess about with it.
Once you think a farmer thatgoes out and plants, you know,

(05:34):
acres and acres of land.
Just imagine this. Right?
You're a new farmer and you'vegone you've got like, you know,
hundred acres of land andyou've been out there for like,
you know, two weeks, threeweeks with your crew,
and you've planted aload of seeds of corn.
Right?
Now you've planted all theseseeds of corn there literally
that you know that the cornthat you planted is gonna
equate to like hundredsof thousands of dollars.
Now would you would it be wisemove for you to go out looking
every day after you watered it,
looking around at thecornfield and say, well,
I can't see anything here.

(05:55):
You walk up and downthe hundred acres.
You go this way. You askyour buddy over, hey.
Have you seenanything there? No.
What about you? Have you seenanything? He's gone for you.
Oh, nothing over here, sir.
No. Nothing over here,sir. Right? And guess what?
You do that againand again and again.
You carry on watering it.
Now would you as a farmer,say, you know what? Fuck this.
Let's just dig thesefreaking things out.
It's not working.
Would you just, like,start to redo your do your,
what do you call it?
Rotivate your farmlandor your land, the soil,
and plant some newseeds in there?
No.

(06:15):
You freaking wouldn't.So why do you do that?
Why do you not have faith?
Then you've gotta belike the farmer here.
You gotta, like, plant the seed.
Once the seed is planted,you don't go looking for it.
Don't question it.
All you have to do iscarry on nurturing it,
and you have to maintainyour energy of already having what
you wish to desire.
And you might say,well, how do I do that?
Use your imagination.
You really like tofigure out, okay,
if let's just say right now,
you wanted to earna hundred thousand.
A lot of my plants come to me.
Their goal is ahundred thousand.
They sometimes they'reonly only five thousand,
ten thousand, twentythousand, twenty

(06:36):
So I we do lots ofexercise inside of our inner circle.
We do a lot of, like, deepermanifestation side of things.
Right?
We do we really golike beast mode.
And especially my lead coaching,
that's just a wholeanother level.
And what we do in there is weshow these people the exact
formula of whatthey've gotta be doing.
Now you'll see if you look lookat some of my client results
out testimonials, you'll seethe people that really win.
And they'll say you have to listento what Minnie telling you to do.
Not half. You gotta reallylike plug in and do the work.
Now this is how we make sure that seedthat you planted is taken care of.

(06:59):
It's protected.
So now that goal that you have,
what whatever it is thatyou want to manifest.
Right?
You want to get toyour first ten k,
twenty k month or whatever.
You must protectthe energy of that.
You must protect thesoil that you planted in.
In other words, yoursubconscious mind.
Then your subconscious mindcan't accept or reject an idea.
So now the whole purpose,
the whole idea of manifestingis really really creating that
goal first of all andreally implanting it,
impregnating that intoyour subconscious mind and
protecting it andnot allowing outside
conditions, circumstances toaffect you or or your result.

(07:20):
You can't be entertainedwith what you don't want.
This is where peopleget caught up.
Over and over again, you know,
I'm doing the workeighteen results.
I'm doing the workeighteen results.
I'm doing the workeighteen results.
The mouth of emailshaven't had in the past.
And sometimes westill get them now,
but I'm saying that yougot to listen to me.
You know, you youdon't have any faith.
You gotta have faith.
You gotta live by faith because whenyou don't have faith, you have fear.
And fear comes from uncertainty.
Now you gotta be imagine thatyou're already experiencing the
goal, and that's when theuniversal intelligence responds.
That's when the law ofattraction responds to you.
Because what you're doingsubconsciously is sending out a

(07:42):
signal into the universe.
Right?
And based upon howyou're feeling.
How you're feeling and whatyou're feeling is exactly what
you're gonna attract.
Now if you're feelingthat you don't have x y z,
and if you're feeling poor,if you're feeling inferior,
if you're feeling thatyou're not successful,
that's the only thingthat you're gonna carry on
attracting into your life.
So I want you to reallythink about this, right?
Think about the farmer. Nowthink of yourself as a farmer.
Now you have this idea,you have a goal, right?
You have this dreamgoal that you want.
You've got emotion involvedthat you've written it down.
This is what I want. Now youcan't be having opposing force.

(08:03):
Now you gotta juststart to imagine that.
You know what?
You're planting that goldinto your subconscious mind.
Now you're not gonna godigging into your subconscious mind and
moving around with the sword tosee that seed is is is germinating.
Right?
It's actually manifesting.
Now you probably have thestory about the bamboo.
The was it Chinese bamboo?
So the bamboo does alwaysgrowing beneath the ground.
Right? And thenit just shoots up.
Now imagine rightnow, you have a gold,
and you're on the verge.
You're like three days awayfrom that gold actually like

(08:23):
shining through manifestingitself where you can actually
see a big part of it show up.
But three days beforethat's about to happen,
you start to questionwhether, say,
you start digging up the seed andyou start to that wasn't happening.
It's gonna die. Right?The seed's gonna die.
This is what most people do.And it's it's freaking crazy.
Even people that teach mindset andpeople that teach manifestation.
I've spoken to,like, over the years,
I've had so many people likelaw traction coaches with,
like, who like to work withus and ask questions like,
you know, I'm teachinglaw of attraction.

(08:44):
I'm I'm an NLP person.I'm a hypnosis person.
I've got masters in x, y,zed, and I'm an NLP master.
I'm a hypnotherapist.
I've got this qualification,that qualification.
And we're talking about results becausewhy are you not able to
get your results?
If you're a hypnotherapist,
if you're in you're amanifestation coach,
if you're into NLP,
whatever else you're into Njust tapping free the Feet
tapping and allthat kind of stuff.
Why are you not getting results?
A lot of time people can'treally answer the question.
Why?
Because again, you're notfollowing the process of formula.

(09:04):
You know?
Again, it goes back down to someof the other podcasts I've done.
What happens is people puttogether like manifestation
like a twelve week course or whatevermanifest this that and the other.
And they turn it into anacademy where you can actually
qualify to be a certifiedlaw of attraction coach.
What happens?
You go pay your two nine sevento someone who doesn't really
know what they're talking about.
Anyway, the person you paytwo nine seven to gets rich.
Alright?
Gets lots of people, lots ofdumbfools then paying the money.
Right?
Because they haven't evenchecked that person's results
of what who they've helped.
They go pay thisperson two nine seven.
The person two nineseven enrolls, like,

(09:25):
five hundred people.
Next week, you see the person withtwo nine seven who's been landing
in their account.
They've got this brand new card,
lifestyle showing itall off on social media.
And then you think, well, thatperson's manifesting. Look.
That person understands whatthey've done. Here's the thing.
I remember BobProdigy say, look.
If you want certain results,
you should go to someone who'sdemonstrate they know what
they're talking about.
They've got themselves results,
and they've also helped otherpeople get themselves results.
So going back tothis accreditation,
so you become a lawof attraction coach.
Right?
And you go trying to teachsomething that this person just

(09:47):
knocked up in, like,a couple of hours,
and and it doesn't work.
And and other peoplego follow you.
You teach it to other people thisformula that's supposed to work.
Then all of a sudden, allthese people come back,
so this doesn't work.
This doesn't work.
And what happens? Theythink, you know what?
The law of attractionas a whole doesn't work,
but that's not true.
The most people don't reallyunderstand how it really works.
Right? So you've gotto have faith. Right?
You've got to plant that seed,and you got to see yourself,

(10:11):
feel yourself to be there toexclusion of all other things.
Sometimes you're gonnaquestion yourself.
You're gonna have that doubt,
but you've gotta learn howto control your imagination
because your imagination iswhere you create good and bad.
Your imagination is likea paintbrush. Right?
You can create a horribleimage or a good image.
You can create something reallybad or something really good.
It's how you're usingyour imagination.
And do you have self control?

(10:31):
That's the other thing. Yougotta have self control.
You gotta have discipline.
So you gotta get intothe right kind of habit.
So I want you to always thinkabout next time you go doubting
whether something'sworking for you,
how do you knowit's not working?
Maybe the things arestarting to pop up.
They're gonna start to pop up.
But before that,you've had the doubt,
and doubt is whatkills your dreams.
You you had this doubt.The doubt turns into fear.
And then what happens isthat dream fizzles out.

(10:53):
Right? Then you go backfor that same cycle.
Are you guilty of this?
I want you to really think aboutwhat we're speaking about here.
But it's reallyimportant. Right?
You've got to really imagineyourself that you're ready there.
You've got to start to seeyourself over and over again.
Listen. It's not gonnabe easy at the beginning.
It's like a mentalmuscle. Right?
You got to practiceover and over again.
Then what happens with thatpractice, with that repetition,
your subconscious mind startsto accept that this is true.

(11:14):
This is real.
And then your subconsciousmind talks to infinite intelligence.
And infinite intelligencethat activates.
Right?
And it gives you it producesall the stuff that you want in
your third dimensional world.
Right?
So you go inside of the fourd, in the fourth dimension,
and you bring it backinto the physical,
the three d which we live in.
So I hope this, podcasthas really helped you.
Hope it's, made somesense to you. Right?

(11:35):
But it's really,really important.
The foundation to this isreally like not going out and
looking for something.
Like when you planted aseed, you leave it, you set,
let it germinate, makesure you nurture it,
make sure you water it.
Right? Don't doubt it.
Because guess what?
When you doubt, you youyou're drying it out.
Is you're gonna killthe dream. Right?
So listen.
If you found this,podcast valuable,
I'd love for you to share itwith someone else who's really,

(11:56):
like, trying to manifest.
Someone's into themanifestation side of things,
and they want abit more clarity.
So guess what happens is whenyou share something really cool
with someone and it'sreally valuable, guess what?
They're gonna thankyou for that. Right?
Because it puts you up on their,
intelligence list really high.
So think of five people that youcould share this podcast with today.
I'd really appreciate your help.
You know, I wannahelp more people.
And I wanna get the confusionout of, like, manifestation,

(12:17):
how it really works.
So I feel over the years,
the industry has been tarnishedby people that don't really
understand what they're doing.
They get rich themselves.
But I really wanna help youand and share the awareness and
understanding to amuch wider audience.
I'd really appreciate it if youcould just send this to five
people that you know that areinto law of attraction and that
you would love to see them win.
Now on the other hand,if someone sent you this,

(12:37):
they really want to see you win.
So they really care about you.
You said make sure that yousay thank you to them. Right?
So I'll see you next time.
Remember, you gotta reallybelieve that's already there.
Don't go disruptingthe seed. Right?
Nurture it, waterit, protect it.
See you on the nextone. Take care.
Thanks for tuning in to thisepisode of the Mindy Paul show.
If you'd like to keepthe conversation going,
be sure to check out theshow notes where you can find

(12:58):
helpful links to learn howto reach your personal and
professional success.
Thank you again.Until next time.
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