Being Social Is Back - SFTS78

=== SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT === After two back-to-back Ten-Plus Live intensives here in San Antonio, the guys meeting women in-field have determined the exact same thing I have: everyone is out there socializing again. Our 'social muscles' have been toned back up into shape, people have rediscovered self-awareness and best of all...women are actually bolder and more fun in certain ways than EVER before. Even nightlife as we know it has been subtly transformed, signaling that the 'new normal' is actually more about optimism than being stuck in the mud. Even women's attitudes toward life, the media and especially US as men have undergone a welcome and exciting transformation. Get all the details in this brief episode...and stop listening to ANY 'keyboard jockey' who hasn't gone out there IRL to meet women lately. Check out the brand new Substack at https://mountaintoppodcast.com/substack

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Episode Transcript

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You're listening to Snippets from the Summit with your host Scott McKay.
Alright gentlemen, this is your main man Scott McKay from X and Y Communications coming atyou again with another snippet from the summit.
Today's message is going to be a relatively brief one, but an all important one.
Gentlemen, over the past two weekends prior to me recording this to you on a Tuesdayafternoon, I have done back to back 10 plus live weekends with guys just like you.

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As a matter of fact, both the guys had a great weekend, met lots of women.
And we're thrilled to go back home and put their results to the test in the real worldback in their own neighborhoods and their own lives with real women.
If you're interested in a similar experience, write me at Scott at deservewhatchewant.comand let me know and we can talk about it.
But the point being after I do 10 plus lives with guys, I almost always have revelationsand having done two of them back to back, I have a really big one for you today.

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The much rumored new normal being really screwed up and people not having social skillsand even lacking self-awareness with everybody's social skills and social awareness skills
having atrophied after COVID.
Well, let me tell you what, I think we've come full circle.
I think as of right here, right now, women in particular are ready to be social again.

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They know how to be social again.
They are not being held back.
And everybody has pretty much bounced back at this point to being out there, being socialand not acting like hermits anymore unless they really want to.
So obviously this is great news for us as men because our conversations with women, youknow, just going out there and striking up a conversation with women, they're not going to

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be as stilted as they were even just a couple months ago.
You're not going to get blank stares from people like you did just a few months ago.
I think we really are back.
think people are sick of fighting over politics.
People are more optimistic than they have been in several years about the economy, aboutthe prospects of being social, and yes, even about men and women attracting each other.

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We did not meet a single woman who was offended that we were talking to her.
Matter of fact, just about every woman we talked to over the course of the past couple ofweeks.
was ready not to be offended by much at all.
Very open, very matter of fact, they could take jokes.
Some of them were telling jokes and being funny and being darned charming in the process.

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And above all, out at the night spots, going to the bars and to the clubs.
What we've noticed is first of all, clubbing as you know it, at least amongst anybody.
pretty much amongst everybody.
The older folks have outgrown thumping, smoky discotheques, and the younger people reallyhave never embraced it.
So clubbing as we've come to know it, the stereotype thereof as portrayed in books likeThe Game and any other old school representation of clubbing, is indeed pretty much dead

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as we know it.
People are going to these outdoor spaces at night that are kind of like parks that are litup where they have people on stilts and eating fire and playing cornhole.
All kinds of activities that are designed to make us social in a little bit better lightand without quite the loud thumping music that is, for lack of a better way to put it,

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designed to keep us from being social.
The barmaids and the waitresses are roaming around having conversations with people.
It is a much better environment at night for going up and talking to women than everbefore.
In last week's Snippet from the Summit, you'll remember that
I offer the preposterous notion that it's actually easy to open up a quote unquote set offour women and talk to them rather than just approach a single woman, one single woman

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standing there and strike up a conversation with her.
Well, you know what?
It's easier than it has been since 2020 to talk to just about any woman out there.
Those hashtag movements designed to keep men and women apart.
Gentlemen, people are wise to this.
You're wise to this.
Women are wise to this.
More so than ever before, men and women are talking to each other and you need to be apart of this.

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You need to get out there bravely and boldly and talk to women knowing that the new normalis, well, the old normal.
People are being social.
Women want you to talk to them.
It is not nearly as scary as you are imagining it to be.
As a matter of fact, both the guys who were here over the last two weekends respectivelywere absolutely shocked and appalled.

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at how friendly and wonderful women were even when we basically walked up to their groupand interrupted whatever they were doing.
They were inviting us to join them, they were being bubbly, fun, and playful.
Gentlemen, some women have more playful personalities, some women are more quiet and shythan others, but let me tell you something.

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Being social is back.
I'm all about it, you should be a part of it, and if you need any assistance whatsoever,
and getting the determination and certainly the preparedness to go out and get after it,give me a call because I'm excited and I'm here to help you because every man should have
this opportunity to get these kind of women into your life.

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And there has never been any time like the present.
Want to talk about this or anything else?
Scott at mountaintoppodcast.com.
Be good out there.
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