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You're listening to Snippets from the Summit with your host Scott McKay.
All right, gentlemen, how's it going?
This is your main man, Scott McKay, coming at you again with another snippet from thesummit as part of the mountaintop podcast from X and Y communications.
Today, we're going to talk about a sticky topic.
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It's not a very pleasant topic, but it's one that every one of us as men must reckon with.
I gave it a rather admittedly click baity title of Would You Already Be in Jail?
And let's face it, guys, I know
Almost every one of you guys listening to this is an upstanding citizen.
If you've spent a night or more in jail in the past, it was because of a mistake thatyou've probably done the self work to get over.
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You guys are always top notch guys, high quality men who want to get better as men andwith women.
So what is it I'm talking about today?
Well, what I want to do is I want to give you a reckoning with the double standard thatoften presents itself with regard to behavior.
on the part of women versus that of men.
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Listen, here's the first thing you need to know before I get into anything else.
The rule of law, at least here in the United States of America and most of the Westernworld as we know it, is designed so that whether a man or a woman, or for that matter
anyone who identifies either way, is subject to the same exact laws of this land aseverybody else.
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That means if a woman breaks the law,
or you break a law, the consequences should be exactly the same.
Well, why do I need to record a podcast episode like this?
Well, it's very simple.
A lot of you guys are finding yourself in situations where the woman is being absolutelyincredibly terrible to you.
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Matter of fact, downright evil towards you and you're excusing it because it's a womancommitting this breach or in many cases, this crime against you.
or it's a woman committing this crime against your family or your friends or your lovedones.
Where does this phenomenon especially rear its ugly head?
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Well, when we're having relationship disputes.
Key among those say an ugly divorce that's going on.
All right, the two of you are getting divorced.
You both have lawyered up, but she is doing horrible things.
Perhaps she's slapped a restraining order against you.
with the rubber stamp of a judge for something you haven't even really done.
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And yet when you go to court, you feel like you're made out to be a criminal or thatyou're guilty until proven innocent.
Well, first of all, guys, here it is.
A judge will grant a restraining order to almost anybody who asks for it because there'sno way to really litigate right there in person whether or not the claim being made
against this person who is to be restrained is justified or not.
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And no judge wants blood on their hands.
So just because there's a restraining order doesn't mean you're a bad person.
A lot of guys are also refraining from the restraining order that they should slap on awoman when she's being nasty to him.
Look, if a woman lays hands on you, brandishes a weapon towards you, be that a knife or agun, let alone shoot you or stab you or throw objects at you, any intent to hurt you on a
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woman's part is a crime.
You would already be in jail if you did that to a woman.
But the law is no different in either case.
Some of you guys are coming to me with cases where someone has hidden recording devices intheir house or even in their parents' house or their best friend's house or a house that
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they share with roommates.
And when it comes to light, you simply say to yourself, well, she's a chick and that'sjust how they are.
That is a crime.
In many states it's a felony, and if you let her get away with it, I can assure you shewouldn't have let you get away with it.
And if you were dragged into a court of law with a charge against you, chances are ifproven guilty, you would face a stiff fine or even jail time.
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And here's another factor to consider here.
If she cheats on you, someone may say, well, you know, when a woman cheats on a man, it'sbecause he was a bad husband or he was violent or he scared her.
or wasn't loving her, he wasn't providing or protecting, but when you cheat on her, you'rethis terrible, awful cheater.
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And well, you know what?
That's the way men are.
They're all cheaters.
They can't keep it in the holster.
Gentlemen, it's time to give the double standard, the heave ho.
We live in the year 2025.
Women wanted empowerment.
They got it.
Now that they're empowered, they can also face similar consequences any man would
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when accused and convicted of a crime, be that a misdemeanor or a felony, and even whenthere's cheating going on or misbehaving going on within a relationship.
Take this to the bank, guys, it's the truth.
If you would have already been in jail for something she did to you if the shoe were onthe other foot, it's time to stop being Mr.
Nice Guy, man up, and take action to get that bad behavior to stop.
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And that goes double if you're facing divorce proceedings.
Guys, here's what I know about men in divorce court who are Mr.
Nice Guy.
The more you let her get away with, the more she is going to push the envelope, the moreshe's going to try to harm you, bury you, get rid of you, do what she can to make you
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hurt.
She's not gonna be satisfied.
A little bit isn't going to be enough.
She's going to keep hitting you until you finally stand up for yourself.
And then there's this part.
Men who are Mr.
Nice Guy not only lose everything in court, their ex is probably not going to be the onewho gets it all anyway, even after all that hassle and perhaps even especially because of
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that hassle.
The lion's share of the money that's lost is going to end up going to the divorceattorneys.
Of that you can be assured.
Stop being Mr.
Nice Guy, man up,
When someone does wrong to you or anybody else, be they male or female, there should belegal consequences regardless of who that person is.
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Want to talk about this or anything else?
Scott at mountaintoppodcast.com.
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All right, I'll talk to you next on the full episode coming later this week, and it's agood one.
Be good out there.
As always, visit mountaintoppodcast.com.
Love you.