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September 18, 2025 13 mins

You’ve been calling it “safety,” but let’s be real, Queen… What you’re actually living in is numbness. The steady paycheck, the stable relationship, the predictable routines… they look fine on the outside, but inside? Your body is restless, disconnected, and screaming for more. And here’s the kicker: your nervous system has been tricking you into believing that just enough is all you get.

 

Today, I’m exposing the toxic illusion of comfort that keeps high-achieving women trapped in survival. Comfort feels familiar, but it’s not pleasure. It’s not intimacy. And it sure as hell isn’t overflow. We’re diving into why your nervous system sabotages the very things you desire, how to stop confusing stability with desire, and what it actually takes to embody the feminine way of overflow. 

 

Queen, if you’re tired of circling in “fine” and ready to claim your Fuck Yes frequency, this episode will crack you wide open. It’s time to stop surviving and finally feel alive.

 

What you’ll learn from listening today:

✨ Comfort keeps you in survival, not overflow.

✨ Your body sabotages expansion to protect you.

✨ Safety is created in the body, not the mind.

✨ The feminine way makes overflow sustainable.

✨ You attract who you are, not what you want.

✨ Pleasure rewires your nervous system for more.

 

"Your body doesn’t sabotage because it hates you — it sabotages because it loves you.” — Jaime Pallotolo

 

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