Shownotes
Why the archetype of successful women is often unsuccessful in love
The hardest thing about keeping things sexy as a mother
Why rewiring ourselves for healthy love means being available to be chosen
How the feminine archetypes impact dating and relationships
Why we choose the love that feels comfortable to us, even if it hurts us
Mel’s best advice for anyone who is worried about dying alone
Bio
Mel Wells is a world-renowned 7-figure love and leadership mentor for successful female entrepreneurs. She empowers women to create the love lives and intimacy they deeply crave by fully understanding and embodying their feminine power, unlocking their wild magnetism and irresistible energy. Mel also mentors ambitious, spiritually driven women to scale their businesses by harnessing the power of their feminine energy and unique superpowers. Through her work, Mel helps women thrive in both love and leadership, embodying their most authentic and radiant selves.
Timestamps
00:01:33 - Guest introduction
00:04:29 - The archetype of successful women is often unsuccessful in love
00:07:34 - Why we think of feminine energy as less powerful
00:08:04 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com
00:09:56 - Mel shares about the relationship that sent her into a deep portal of reflection
00:13:22 - If his energy isn’t pursuing you, he’s disqualified
00:16:32 - Discover MOOD™ Sex Magic
00:17:16 - Mel and Layla drink MOOD SEX MAGIC
00:20:25 - Men go after what they want
00:21:38 - If he’s not moving towards you, it’s not your job to figure it out
00:25:47 - Rewiring ourselves for healthy love means being available to be chosen
00:26:02 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples
00:28:34 - We choose the love that feels comfortable to us, even if it hurts us
00:31:40 - Mel explains the feminine archetypes and how they impact dating
00:35:33 - Why it’s important to listen deeply to your universal path
00:39:23 - Fall in love with your body and unlock outrageous orgasms with Obliss
00:43:04 - Finding delight in wherever you are on your dating journey
00:46:40 - Never discount the possibility of being fully chosen at every stage in your life
00:48:19 - You can be a female entrepreneur AND be filled with life and magic
00:51:10 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification
00:54:18 - When you mother your partner, he will show up as a child
00:54:54 - The hardest thing about keeping things sexy as a mother
00:57:46 - Mel’s advice for anyone who is worried about dying alone
01:00:47 - A practice for switching from the Huntress archetype to the Queen
01:02:01 - A practice for shifting from the Mother archetype to the Lover
01:03:27 - Conclusion
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