Episode 23: Me, Myself & I

Many times in life, we find ourselves trying to please others.  We dedicate our time and energy to trying to be what we think somebody else expects of us.  We silence our own dreams and desires, losing sight of the things that make us most happy in life.  This pattern often starts early in life, and by the time we finally arrive to adulthood, it is a well established pattern.    By sacrificing our own voice, we think we please others.  But,in the end, do we really please them? In denying our own desires, we slowly lose our drive and passion, and in the end...are we less effective?  Today, I share with you my own experiences in being somebody other than myself.  I recall a time in life that I let others guide me, and ultimately, lost sight of my own dreams. I lost myself, instead dedicating my life to what I thought others needed of me.  Living a hollow life became too much, and ultimately, I had to be true to myself.  Having found my passion, I realize how much more effective I am in all areas of my life.  Work never feels like a burden, because it is something I love.  I still can't believe it took me this long to get there!  It took 20 years to learn!  I can't help but think of how much else I could have done in those 20 years! As you listen today, think of all the dreams that you have that are yours?  Are you living YOUR life..or are you living the dreams of those around you?  How can you be the best version of yourself....if you are living for somebody else? Thanks, as always, for listening.  Episode 24 drops on October 1st!