Originally published April 22, 2021. Our relationships impact every area of life—from emotional health to productivity. In this encore episode, Dr. Allen Lycka talks with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, about how to identify and break free from toxic relationship dynamics, especially with those she calls Hijackals®—people who manipulate and drain others for their own gain.
Learn how early life experiences shape the relationships we’re drawn to, how to stop enabling toxic behavior, and how to realign your life with your values. If you've ever felt stuck or unsure in a relationship, this episode offers clarity, tools, and hope.
Guest Bio Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care for relationships in crisis. Her mission is to provide the insights, information, and inspiration for clients and audiences to transform relationship with themselves and other humans to be honest, respectful, and safe in all ways. Even the United States Marines have sought her help! Dr. Shaler focuses on helping the partners, exes, and adult children of the relentlessly difficult, toxic people she calls Hijackals® to stop the crazy-making and save their sanity.
Author of sixteen books including Escaping the Hijackal Trap and Stop! That’s Crazy-Making, she hosts the internationally popular podcast, Save Your Sanity: Help for Toxic Relationships. Her YouTube channel, ForRelationshipHelp, has reached a half million views.
Social media links for Dr. Rhoberta Shaler:
- Website: https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com
- Podcast: SaveYourSanityPodcast.com
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rhoberta
- X: https://twitter.com/rhobertashaler
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rhobertashaler/
- Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.ca/rhobertashaler/_created/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drshaler/
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