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In today's episode, I talk with Lee Povey, a former professional cyclist turned executive coach, to delve into the complexities of men's emotional health and societal roles. Lee shares his personal journey from cycling, influenced by a narcissistic father, to becoming a successful coach and advocate for men's mental well-being.
Lee's story begins with his early years in Brighton, England, where he bonded with his father through cycling, despite his father's narcissistic tendencies. This relationship shaped Lee's understanding of masculinity and drove him to seek therapy and join men's groups, which became pivotal in his emotional development. Lee discusses the challenges men face today, from societal expectations to the rising rates of middle-aged male suicides, and emphasizes the importance of community and emotional intelligence.
The conversation also explores Lee's coaching philosophy, which focuses on helping individuals—regardless of gender—become better versions of themselves. He shares practical tools for managing emotions and setting life goals, highlighting the significance of curiosity, intentionality, and self-awareness in personal growth.
Whether you're interested in men's mental health, personal development, or effective leadership, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable advice. Lee's approach to coaching and life is a testament to the power of self-reflection and continuous improvement.
Episode References
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Asana (Project Management Tool)
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