Discipline is one of the hardest parts of parenting—and one of the most frequently asked-about topics from Wire Talk listeners. In this popular re-air, Karen breaks down discipline into three practical stages and shares wisdom from her book Survival Guide to Motherhood. Whether you're parenting toddlers, school-aged kids, or teens, grab your headphones and get ready to reframe your mindset with the powerful biblical principle: pain now equals peace later.
Episode Recap:
8:14 Discipline starts with your mindset
9:36 Pain now equals peace later
12:24 Discipline has to be consistent.
13:34 The three stages of discipline each require a different focus from moms
16:17 The “B”s of discipline with young kids are: Be Consistent, Be United, Be Clear
17:05 In the middle years it’s time to teach the “why” behind the no
18:11 You have to slow down and make time to teach your child
20:20 During the “coaching” stage, parents have to let consequences play out
Scripture for Reflection: Hebrews 12:11 (NIV)
“No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.”
Questions for Discussion:
- Are there any negative behaviors you see in your child now that you are tempted to ignore, thinking they will grow out of it?
- Karen mentioned the idea that "pain now will equal peace later" when it comes to parenting. Have you experienced this in your own life? How have you seen this in your parenting journey?
- Which stage of discipline are you in right now? (Laying the Foundation, Teaching the ‘Whys’, The Coaching Years)
- Do you think the pace of your life is preventing you from disciplining effectively? How so?
- Of the three “B”s (Be Consistent, Be United, Be Clear), which do you struggle with most?
- Have you ever prayed and asked for wisdom to know how to discipline your child? Pray together as a group today for the wisdom to discipline effectively.
Resources:
- Get your copy of Karen’s book Survival Guide to Motherhood: https://amzn.to/3I8jxNx
- Sign up for Soar at Sea: https://www.soaratsea.com
- More Wire Talk episodes on discipline: Laying the Foundation, The Middle Years, The Coaching Years
- Find ALL the episodes we’ve ever recorded on discipline HERE.
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