480: Helping Kids Thrive in Middle and High School

School today looks a lot different than when we were kids, and moms often feel stuck between supporting their children and not piling on more pressure. In this episode, Karen and Emily sit down with longtime educator and principal Jerome Huff to share how parents can help their kids thrive during their middle and high school years. We loved the reminder that your child’s school still needs you! Your prayers and presence can make a lasting impact, not only on your child but on the entire school community.

Episode Recap:

• “Principal Coach” Jerome Huff joins us today to talk about helping our middle and high schoolers thrive (2:20)
• How coming from a single parent home influenced the way he ran his schools (5:45)
• How schools have changed over Jerome’s time as a principal (8:30) 
• What do you wish more parents understood about what teachers are dealing with day to day? (16:30)
• High schools need parent volunteers as well! Ask, “what can I do?” (23:18)
• The role the Holy Spirit played in Jerome’s approach to being a principal (26:45)
• What are you most proud of from your career? (30:12)

Scripture: Philippians 4:6–7
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God…”

Discussion Questions:
1. How do you balance encouraging your child to do their best but not overwhelming them with pressure?
2. Jerome mentioned the importance of letting kids advocate for themselves—what opportunities could you give your child this week to practice independence?
3. Jerome emphasized the role of balance (school + outside interests) in thriving kids. How can you help your child find that healthy balance this year?
4. What’s one way you can support teachers or administrators at your child’s school in a tangible way this semester?
5. How can you begin praying more intentionally for your child’s school, teachers, and classmates?

Resources:
- Grab a pad of Lunchbox Notes to start your year off strong! https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/gifts/products/lunch-box-notes
- Reach out to https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speak to have Karen come speak in your community
- Join our private FB group, BOAW Moms: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms