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August 14, 2025 44 mins
We’re back for Part 2 of our powerful conversation with world-renowned relationship expert Dr. Julie Gottman. If you’ve ever felt stuck in repetitive conflict, uncertain if your partner will ever change, or wondered what science actually says about lasting love—this episode is your essential roadmap. Lisa and Dr. Julie dig deep into the anatomy of relational disaster versus mastery—naming the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, sharing the six breakthrough questions couples need to ask in gridlock, and breaking down how the first three minutes of a fight can predict your relationship’s future six years out. Plus, Dr. Julie shares practical rituals that power her own 38-year marriage, the biggest mistakes even therapists make, and how to reconnect from even the deepest moments of distance. This episode is packed with science, lived wisdom, and hope for every relationship stage. SHOWNOTES38:20 The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, Stonewalling47:09 The Power of Compassion in Conflict54:45 The Importance of Daily Gratitude & Small Gestures61:45 High-Risk Moments for Cheating & How to Protect Your Marriage71:05 How to Heal After Regrettable Incidents FOLLOW DR. JULIE GOTTMAN:Website: https://www.gottman.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/gottmaninstituteTwitter: https://twitter.com/gottmaninstFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/gottmaninstitute CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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