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November 12, 2025 53 mins
Welcome to a powerful edition of Women of Impact with host Lisa Bilyeu, joined by renowned couples therapist and attachment expert, Adam Lane Smith. Adam has spent over fifteen years helping thousands of couples and individuals overcome barriers to deep, meaningful connection… and today, he's here to unravel the hidden truths behind intimacy, sex, and relationship dynamics that most women have never been taught. In this first half, Adam and Lisa cut through popular misconceptions about intimacy, exploring why men and women seem to speak different emotional languages, especially when it comes to sex and bonding. They dive into the science of attachment, hormones, and brain chemistry, revealing practical strategies for triggering true emotional connection with men… both inside and outside of the bedroom. Whether you’re single, dating, or committed, this episode will challenge the myths holding you back and give you the tools to build trust, safety, and lasting partnership. Tune in for actionable advice, relatable stories, and an honest look at the pitfalls of modern dating. Show Notes Why Men and Women Don’t Speak the Same Language in Sex The Science Behind Sex, Trust, and Emotional Bonding Three Ways to Create Emotional Bonding During Sex The Four Levels of Male Safety Every Woman Needs Four Levels of Peace Women Bring to Relationships How to Spot Manipulative vs. Avoidant Men Narcissism, Contempt, and Behavioral Red Flags Excessive Need for Control: Avoidant vs. Manipulative Dynamics Shifting Blame: Insecurity vs. Deliberate Manipulation Boundaries: Violated Ethics and Core Goals When Men See You as an Object, Not a Partner Women of Impact listeners get a 10% discount on Adam’s programs at bundle.adamlanesmith.com with code: IMPACT10. Thank you to our sponsors: OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Adam Lane Smith: Website: https://adamlanesmith.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@attachmentadam  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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