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Speaker 1 (00:02):
By Joe in the Morning Shows number eight for foremot
Joe Live texts nine five five zero zero. I was
hanging out on Friday with uh Anna Rob. We uh
were watching some uh some sports and uh drinking and

(00:24):
hanging out.

Speaker 2 (00:25):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (00:26):
It was fun to be able to uh to hang
out with you. You uh you were in depth in
conversation with the ladies, so at to take it, which
is always interesting when women are talking and I always
want to know. This happens from time time. We'll be
done with the night and I'll ask Chelsea, so, what
did you guys talk about it? And it's always like, well,

(00:47):
it's always it's always relationship stuff, like especially around two
women that are married.

Speaker 3 (00:53):
And Chelsea promised me she wouldn't tell you, so she did.

Speaker 1 (00:57):
No, she didn't. That's why I'm asking, what did you
guys talk on?

Speaker 4 (01:00):
What was it?

Speaker 1 (01:00):
What were you talking about?

Speaker 3 (01:02):
We were talking about my dating life because Ryan was like,
get your man up here, get your man up here.
So dating stuff got brought up. And what man exactly?
For those of you who don't know Ryan Kessler, Mojo's
friend played hockey, so his wife who's been with him.

(01:23):
I found I found out for a very long.

Speaker 1 (01:25):
Time high school. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:26):
Yeah, So she gave me a lot of great advice
when it comes to athletes. She's like, I heard about
the athletes. I was like, oh gosh, here it comes.
And she told me not horror stories of her relationship,
but being around athletes because that's who she's with. She
had given given me some great insight basically, don't date athletes.

(01:47):
So that was the first thing that I learned.

Speaker 1 (01:49):
Really, what was the reasoning why.

Speaker 3 (01:51):
She just said she's seen some crazy things. I'll lookt
at that and I was like, I get it, Like
I think they're sketchy. Anyways, and then Chelsea, I was
telling her.

Speaker 1 (02:02):
She dates an athlete too, a radio jock, that's right.

Speaker 3 (02:07):
Anyways, Chelsea was talking to me. She was like, uh,
they kept saying, bring your man, bring your man. I
was like, I don't have a man, and they're like,
that's not true, which it's not true. So there's a
guy that I would call a situationship. We have known
each other since I moved to Detroit. We started messing
around and it was really like unseerious because I was

(02:28):
in a very unseerious phase of my life and because
of that, we It's just it's never been anything, but
recently I've felt like it was starting to develop into
something a little.

Speaker 5 (02:42):
More for you, or for both year for both of us.

Speaker 3 (02:44):
Like the way he's been talking to me, the way
I've been talking to him. We've been having more serious conversations.
We've always had an insane like chemistry together. He probably
knows more about me than anyone that I've that I've
talked to recently, because he's been with me through it all.
But after talking to Chelsea and Andrea, they essentially told

(03:05):
me like why now? And I was like, you're right,
and they're like, why is he just starting to take
you serious now?

Speaker 6 (03:12):
Is it because you got a job on the radio?
Is it?

Speaker 1 (03:15):
Like?

Speaker 3 (03:15):
What what changed that suddenly he's interested in you? And
I was like, you know what, that's a good question.
So when I left and I was drunk, I went
and saw him and.

Speaker 5 (03:24):
I, ye, well did you ask him that question? Why now?
Because I'd be curious.

Speaker 3 (03:29):
Yeah, And he just kind of like blows it off, like, oh,
like you like you weren't. You weren't ready for that,
You weren't ready for that. So then I give him
the benefit.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
Again, just so you know this. We left the bar
at two in the morning. So can you imagine being
a guy getting a phone call at two o'clock in
the morning from a girl that you've been talking to.

Speaker 5 (03:50):
For a while, and you think it's gonna be one thing.

Speaker 1 (03:51):
A situation ship she calls it and yes, you think,
you know, two o'clock in the morning. This and this
poor bastard has to realize that I was hanging out
with two married when he was also drunk.

Speaker 6 (04:06):
It was a mess, but my and then I kept
saying to him like I did. I was like, come
say hi to Mojo and Chelsea, like they want to
say what's up? And he wouldn't do it. So I
was like, that's another thing. I don't like you for that.

Speaker 1 (04:16):
So was he afraid of? What was he afraid of?
He's afraid of you afraid of.

Speaker 6 (04:20):
Me because you bring things up on the air and like,
we're just not ready for that.

Speaker 1 (04:24):
Did you tell him that I was pretty much sleeping
in the booth and the fire, like I wasn't even
a coherent.

Speaker 3 (04:29):
And that's also why I haven't brought him into this yet,
because I was like, if it does become something, I
don't want to talk about it too soon. But we
connected again yesterday when we were sober, and I had
the conversation again with him, like a more serious conversation,
and it didn't end well.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
So how did What do guys think when uh and
this guy obviously has been somebody that you've known for
a while. What does he think when he finds out
though that there are these guys like that Pittsburgh Steelers guy,
there's the guy in New York. Well he listen, he's
got to hear from the radio stuff, don't you think
or does he not have a radio?

Speaker 7 (05:04):
But if he's scared of if he's scared of his
business being brought up, this is because he's heard other
business brought up.

Speaker 3 (05:11):
Like we never because I'm I know he's been seeing
other people too. But it was always like whenever something
went wrong, like we always go back to each other
because we we just have like this connection. I don't know,
you go back, let's get let's get your relationship.

Speaker 1 (05:29):
Like what in particular, what do you think that she
should do with the situationship of this guy that that
has not say, that has not given her any uh
any love until recently?

Speaker 8 (05:41):
Was did we already ask what's the reason. Why is
it just a timing.

Speaker 6 (05:44):
Thing or why he hasn't why it hasn't been more.

Speaker 8 (05:48):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (05:48):
Like I genuinely think I wasn't ready, and like he's
seen me do some of the craziest things that I've
ever done in my life, So I don't think he
has taken me serious until I started taking myself serious,
if that makes sense.

Speaker 8 (06:02):
And you're ready to see what that future looks like
with him.

Speaker 3 (06:04):
Yeah, And I've expressed that to him and he gives
me some reassurance.

Speaker 1 (06:08):
But like not enough.

Speaker 3 (06:10):
And that's why I'm like, I can't keep telling you
what I want and you not giving me what I want.

Speaker 1 (06:16):
So it's over, you know, is so off?

Speaker 9 (06:18):
Like I feel like two people could be really great
for each other, perfect for each other, but if your
timing is not matched up correctly, it doesn't it won't want,
it won't work.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
Yeah. You know what I think, though, it is interesting,
is that it reminds me everything goes back to do
you remember middle school crushes? When you would have a
middle school crush on somebody, all you wanted was that
crush to actually recognize you or notice you, And so
what did you do to make yourself noticed. You hung
out with other people.

Speaker 5 (06:49):
That you thought that person hung out with.

Speaker 1 (06:51):
That you thought they would be jealous of too, right,
it was always kind of like you always you didn't
do that at all. I would do that. But it's
kind of interesting, Like I think, like this guy is
starting to come around again to Anna because maybe he
is hearing about these other guys. Maybe he's hearing about it.

Speaker 3 (07:09):
I tell him too, Like we have a very open relationship.
Like I'm like, oh, I'm going to New York to
go on a date.

Speaker 1 (07:14):
Like that would drive me crazy, But I know now, Okay,
you guys were just friends.

Speaker 6 (07:21):
Yeah, we were f buddies.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
F bodies. Oh he's an F boy.

Speaker 8 (07:26):
Different.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
Why didn't you say that? Now I know what the
deal is. He's an F boy. Here's the other question.
Here's a question. Can F boys ever become relationships? I
don't know if they can.

Speaker 7 (07:36):
I mean, I don't know if you can take people
serious like that. You can't start, like to a husband.
It's almost like whenever you meet someone, whatever your introduction is,
that leaves a lasting impression, and it's harder to work
yourself out of that and work yourself.

Speaker 3 (07:50):
Into something and he has a really bad view of me,
if that's what he's going off of when we first met.

Speaker 1 (07:56):
The problem is too. I hate to say it, but
sometimes you actually, you know, you're more fun with the
F boy than you are with a relationship.

Speaker 8 (08:02):
And sometimes you was only meant to be a F boy.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
Yeah, that's what I'm thinking.

Speaker 7 (08:05):
You trying to give more than that and that's not
the role that you're supposed to play.

Speaker 1 (08:10):
F Boys for Life eight four four Mojo Live eight
four four six sixty five six five four eight. I'd
love to know, fact we need that. I would love
to know comments on this one here. First off, uh
Anna calling the guy at two o'clock in the morning
to say what are we I mean that poor guy.
And then secondly, I'd like to ask this question of

(08:30):
can an F boy ever turn into a relationship. I'd
love to know what your your perspective is on that one.
Corey wants to make something up there. What's up, Corey?
What do you want to say?

Speaker 4 (08:39):
Yeah? I want to say that, why right now with you?
Why you didn't want to take the relationship serious until now?

Speaker 1 (08:48):
Yeah? I why why you want to that?

Speaker 3 (08:52):
It's different like I always would have taken like I
always would have been with him if he was okay
with it.

Speaker 4 (08:57):
But but you never presumed saying he was just a boy,
So you didn't want to take you serious. He didn't
want to take you seriously. Now both of you, out
of the blue, decided to take you serious. And that
was why he decided to Why didn't you why didn't
you push you?

Speaker 1 (09:13):
Yeah? Why did you not say you know what I
want more than just this?

Speaker 6 (09:18):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (09:18):
He just never treated me in ways that made me
feel like he was interested in that.

Speaker 4 (09:23):
So once the game, it's the mands.

Speaker 1 (09:25):
Well that's true. Well, we get blamed for everything. What's up, Mo?
How you doing? Hey Mojoe, how's it going good? I
like that guys are the first to call up on
this one. Here, what's going on? Uh No, I just
I guess anna, congrats by the way, i'm the relationship.
I guess Oh, thanks, you're welcome.

Speaker 10 (09:46):
I just I think sometimes men just don't want to
be used.

Speaker 1 (09:49):
I think he has a really.

Speaker 10 (09:50):
Good career for himself, and because a sport and he's
in a high level he's in a high level sport,
and you know, we don't necessarily like.

Speaker 1 (10:01):
By the way. I'm just as confused with the guys
that Ana is in a relationship with like you probably are.
But no, we're talking about a totally different guy than
the than the the guy that plays for the Steel.

Speaker 6 (10:11):
But he does have like a he's pretty well known
in the city.

Speaker 1 (10:16):
Oh really, well, I guess I guess it all like intertwines, right.

Speaker 10 (10:19):
It's like he's got a really good career and he
just doesn't want to be used, I think.

Speaker 8 (10:23):
And you know, guys don't want to be hurt.

Speaker 10 (10:24):
They want to focus on their their career, want someone
to help support it. But also they they respect the
fact that a woman can, you know, take a job
on and be herself and be independent.

Speaker 1 (10:35):
Hey quick question for you, mo, have you ever been
an f boy before for any girl? Yeah? I was
when I was like nineteen in Canada. Okay is that
legal in Canada? That's okay. Do you think f boys
can ever turn into relationships. I don't think so.

Speaker 10 (10:58):
No. I've that they're always they just they're just they're
just they just they like they like what they got
going on and they don't want.

Speaker 1 (11:06):
To change it. They don't like change. It's funny because
I feel like f boys feel like, uh, you know,
they can't be around like family and friends. They can
only be meeting in illicit areas. You know. It's just listen,
what's up? Rick? How you doing?

Speaker 11 (11:22):
Good morning?

Speaker 1 (11:23):
Molda, how you doing good man? What's up?

Speaker 10 (11:26):
What? So?

Speaker 4 (11:27):
Going with your question can you turn an boy into husting?
It goes with the saying can you turn a home
into a.

Speaker 1 (11:35):
House like you know, freak? Yeah, what do you think
can you do either?

Speaker 7 (11:42):
I don't think so, but have been with some holes
and trying to turn him in the house wise and
it ain't work.

Speaker 1 (11:47):
It doesn't work.

Speaker 4 (11:48):
Nah, it's not gonna work.

Speaker 3 (11:50):
I think he met me when I might have been
a quote unquote ho. But like that's not it anymore.

Speaker 1 (11:56):
He wants a whole always.

Speaker 8 (11:59):
Lor handlery, just being honest.

Speaker 1 (12:03):
What's up versus you know what?

Speaker 2 (12:06):
I think? This is my first time ever calling in
on a radio basis. I want to tell you that
all boys down and self work and knowing your value,
your price is worth more than rubies and gold. And
once you realize who you are, you're never you'll never, never,

(12:26):
ever settle for lessons than what you deserve.

Speaker 1 (12:31):
We need you, We need you as the voice of
reason when we're talking a lot of stuff like that,
thank you.

Speaker 2 (12:36):
You got this girl. You better look in the mirror
and say I am beautiful, strong and worthy smart.

Speaker 1 (12:48):
Hold on voices, guys. Initial A, what's up? A?

Speaker 12 (12:53):
I think that it doesn't work good. I had for
like the least of years and we try to get serious,
and it was just because all we knew was just
like we.

Speaker 1 (13:05):
Have and why why did it not work?

Speaker 12 (13:09):
It just wasn't like we just we have to sext
and that's what it was, so trying to cross ours
my life. He just was like, this is not like.

Speaker 1 (13:17):
What we do. I think F boys can't take up
the responsibility of being there for more than just sex.
I think sometimes they're just there. Yeah.

Speaker 12 (13:30):
I think females were always in our feelings day. It's
like we're over looking things. So I was like, he
may not even think about that, but I am thinking
about that because I don't want my mind.

Speaker 1 (13:40):
Yeah now, man, you know, Plus, honestly, uh, in a
lot of cases, you can't look at an f boy
seriously anymore because all you're doing is looking at him
like your your family's house or hanging out with friends,
and all you're thinking about is ething. It could be that.

Speaker 7 (13:55):
I just think sometimes in certain relations in all relationships,
sacrifice is necessary. But when you're dealing with somebody that
you met in a certain way and you want to
change them into something else, you got to be willing
to sacrifice some things because they're not going to just
completely turn into this new person. Yeah, like you met him,
how you met him, That's how they're gonna be. For Bruno,
last comment here please.

Speaker 11 (14:16):
More than everyone. Yeah, So what I was gonna say
is sometimes the way it starts is the way he hands.
Anna said to herself that it was that is more
like a situation ship type of thing. So sometimes, like
for a guy when you start up with a girl
that you know that all we're doing is just snashing,

(14:38):
and at some point maybe one person decides for like,
you know, text to the next step. It could be
a little bit difficult because in his mind, when we
started this, this is what we'll do. Like we just smashed.
We just connect whenever, you know, we're feeling some type
of way. So I feel like this is probably what's
going on, you know, for him, you know, he just
can't really get past that the fact that all we

(15:01):
you know all you guys do was your smash?

Speaker 1 (15:04):
Yeah what you said I was. I wasn't paying attention.
I don't know. I got lost like a couple of
calls ago. Can you turn a housewife in or a
hoe into a housewife? I don't know. That guy that
called up I and shar you know, given her she said.

Speaker 5 (15:23):
She ended it. Yeah, listen, she said that.

Speaker 1 (15:29):
Can you ended it at two o'clock in the morning,
yes yesterday.

Speaker 6 (15:33):
And we had a more serious conversation.

Speaker 1 (15:35):
Okay, I'll believe it when it lasts more than a week.
No offense.

Speaker 3 (15:39):
But I'm going out of town for a little trip
at the end of the month, and unfortunately he will
also be.

Speaker 1 (15:47):
We'll see how that is gonna be fun. No, you
think she ended it? Called shower back.
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