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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So Lydia is going to do a topic this morning,
and this is one of those topics where you know
that Lydia is going to probably meant to start talking
and I'm going to ask her a bunch of questions
and she's going to feel like really nervous.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Isn't that all the time though?
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Pretty much? But this one deals with the fact that Lydia, again,
and this is the second or third time I think,
in the time that Lydia has been our executive producer,
has kept a relationship from all of us she is
secretly dating. But this time, wait to you hear who
she's dating, Lydia.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Okay, So for the past month, I've been seeing an
X of mine and as we know, I've been on
and off with gas station guy for probably like three years,
three or four years, and we kind of rekindled something
last month when I saw him at church and it's
been kind of a good thing ever since. And I
wanted to wait to tell all of you because my
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best friend and my mom didn't know for some time.
And this past weekend he had spent some time with
me and my best friend at church. We had a
church event and it went really well. So I thought
I could let more people know about it.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Gas Station guy is back.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
He is, Yeah, So remind everybody why you broke up
with him in the first place.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Well, he was breaking up with me because he didn't
see fit and oh that's getting married.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
He didn't know if he could match my timeline, and
we separated and I dated other people. He probably saw
other people during that time. I'm not really sure about
a full relationship because he told me he hasn't been
full on dating anybody. But now we are an item,
but we're not in a relationship because he has not
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asked me. He doesn't really think that asking.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
So what do you get? What do you guys call
each other?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Then we don't call each other anything.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
You're just hanging out at this point, just gas station game.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Yeah, but we're like exclusive.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Oh exclusive friends?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Can you play exclusive friends? No? Because he's not really
a boyfriend. You said, right, because he hasn't asked you.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
So he has the same mindset, is you Mojo that
he doesn't think that he has to ask a girl
in their late twenties to be their girlfriend or boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
I think I think that when once you first off,
I think that once you guys are together, and if
you're together and you're not going to see other people
you're together, you don't have to go. It's not like
gasking somebody to marry you. I don't think. I think
it's like, will you date me? That sounds like such
a middle school thing to do to me.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
It does, But I still want to have that conversation
of what we are.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
We need really clear, very clear understanding, because God forbid,
something happens and then they're like, oh, we weren't.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Really together, right, choking out? Do your parents know lydia?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
My mom knows, but my dad doesn't know.
Speaker 5 (02:42):
And his family are dagging a feel.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
I don't think he's going to be too happy. Yeah,
just because of the on and off stuff like. That's
also why I didn't say anything, because it's like when
you're on and off with someone so many times, everyone
around you, around you gets exhausted as right, They're like,
we don't want to hear about this anymore.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
So I thought, let me.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Just take some time think about what we're doing first
and then go from there.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
So did his timeline? Did he change this idea of
the timeline Because I know it is important to you
to get married, you want to start a family, and
if he wasn't into that, something must have changed.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
So during the time that we were apart, I think
he really realized, you know, how much I meant to him,
and I realized that too, with dating other people, this
is just the person that I love and Mojo, I
feel like you've always known that. Yeah, he is somebody
that I love. I've loved him for a really long time,
and he's someone who I've always wanted to be with.
I do think it took more time for him to
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realize that he wanted.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
To be with me.
Speaker 6 (03:37):
Is no.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
I Well, I was going to ask, what about the sister.
Is his sister okay with us? Because he's got to
get her sister?
Speaker 7 (03:44):
Sorry.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
When they were together before, the sister was not her friends.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
Her friends weren't really a fan of me. I think
there was some jealousy there. I'm going to be straight
up with that. I think that, you know, maybe they
had some feelings.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
To one of the friends.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Did Yeah, I mean they.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Listened to the show and they would send certain bits
to you know, other people and talk about me, and
it came back to me.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
So all right, I want to ask the question. I
got to do a solicit to the listeners because I
would like them to participate in this topic. I would
like to ask who hit a boyfriend the longest? I
think that could be one of them. We get to
ask that question, like how long did you hide? And
usually when you're hiding, you're hiding an axe. It's probably
for a reason. Why were you hiding the axe from
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everybody else? Eight four to four Mojo Live eight four
four six six five six five four eight. I actually
like this guy. I like him because I think I
because you like him. I think that's probably it. I
I've met him, honestly only I think maybe once or
twice Lydia, I think twice, right, I met him one time,
didn't I? Did I meet him at your house once
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or I can't remember if it was your house? And
then I met him at the what was the Middle
Eastern restaurant? We were at that one time for the shindig? Yeah,
the shindig.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Wait, he was there. He was there that night of
your graduation party.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Yeah, with a sister.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
Did I meet him?
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Yeah, it's a nice guy. I like him. I know
him like that.
Speaker 8 (05:08):
I met him one time at a concert, but this
is the problem when you have friends who get their
heartbroken or go through situations where you don't see them
in the best light, and the relationship is the reason
why they're affected in a negative way. Because now I'm like,
why are we dealing with this dude? I don't see
you at your worst with him. I'm like, bruh, I
know it's okay. So that's and Lydia knows this. That's
where I am too.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
I feel like I need and I'm very protective of you, Lydia,
and you know this and that, so I am trying,
like I want to be so happy for you, but
I feel like I need to get over the the
like I know, I feel like I know some stuff
that I don't like still, so like I personally need
to get over that.
Speaker 5 (05:46):
This is because I.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Feel like, yeah, this is why you if you're fighting
with a boyfriend or girlfriend or husband or my case, wife,
you don't tell people close to you you guys are fighting.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
I know you're a smart girl, Lydia, and you're you're
not going to put yourself in a situation and that
like you know, would turn out bad or whatever. So
I know that you're being very cautious moving forward, and
I applaud you for that, but I feel like I'm
in Kevin's bowl. Was like, okay, my need.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
To When Chelsea and I had our last uh you know,
bad time, I talked to my family a little bit,
and I have a sister that was not really nice
to Chelsea for a little bit, you know, And uh
it was because she was trying to be protective sister
to me. Montana, what's going on?
Speaker 9 (06:26):
Okay, so he's my husband now, but I hit him
when we were going through a court case. Nobody knew
that we were still seeing each other throughout the whole
court case.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
What was the craziest hiding thing that you had liked?
Was he ever in your house and you had family
come over and you had to like tell him to
stay in the room.
Speaker 9 (06:49):
Bet and my probation officer came over.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
You had to hide him from the probation officer, which
is bad. Where did you hide him at exactly?
Speaker 2 (07:00):
He was under debate.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Thank god, he's not my size. Oh my god, that's crazy. Hey,
what's up, D. How you doing?
Speaker 6 (07:12):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Good morning, Good morning D. You kept not one, but
two a two year relationship from somebody?
Speaker 7 (07:20):
Yeah, Well, so I dated this guy for two years.
Oh but so the first year I kept it a
secret because my parents didn't think I should date as
a single mother. Yeah, so I didn't tell anyone in
my family, and every time my daughter went to her
dad's house is when I saw my boyfriend. And then
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after a year, obviously I started telling people that we
were dating. But it was really weird because they were like, oh,
how long hadn't been going out?
Speaker 10 (07:53):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Yeah, I was gonna say, how do you celebrate anniversaries?
Like that would have been a weird thing with Lydia.
Of all of a sudden, Lydia's like, I'm going out
on our five month anniversary. Of like five month anniversary,
I thought you just started dating gas station guy again.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Never had an anniversary.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Because so much secretive stuff going on. Brie, what's up, Bri?
Speaker 6 (08:15):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (08:15):
How are you good? Aren't you happy for Lydia?
Speaker 10 (08:19):
I am?
Speaker 11 (08:20):
I mean whatever makes her happy. I feel like, as
a woman who show have that choice to go back
as many times as you want, I'm just getting that's
terrible advice.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
I say, as long as there's no physical or mental abuse,
I say, go for it. Yeah, what's up?
Speaker 6 (08:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 11 (08:36):
Well, mine was mental and clearly you're going to understand
why because I'm you know, so, my daughter's dad and
I were dating for like one month. I got pregnant,
he bounced, I didn't hear from him. All of a sudden,
he came back saying, I want to be a dad again.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Blah blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 11 (08:55):
I hit that relationship, Andy did it again. So sometimes
don't go back.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Yeah, well okay, so yeah, you you, you, by the way,
need to uh you need to stay away from from
all that all that drama. That's not good.
Speaker 11 (09:12):
Oh yeah, he's completely blocked and.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Yeah, we're good. Hold on, let me grab Kaye. Kaylee,
are you there, Kaylee?
Speaker 2 (09:22):
I'm here, Hi, Kaylee.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
What do you think of Lydia's situation?
Speaker 10 (09:25):
Here?
Speaker 1 (09:25):
Kaylee?
Speaker 10 (09:28):
Well, I had two comments. Part one. I lost my
fiance last year to cancer, and I guess my thoughts
on it are is that you get very few opportunities
in life to find that deep seated love. And if
she's been feeling it and hasn't stopped thinking about him
for all this time, my vote is so, holl is
(09:50):
what people think it is your life? Get that love, girl, Yeah,
you only get one life.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
That's beautiful. That's beautiful. We're sorry to hear about your fiance.
That's all. It's just that horrible.
Speaker 10 (10:01):
You Well, yeah, I mean it's definitely something that's drastically
impacted my life. But you know, I guess my second
comment to this was, I actually do have a new boyfriend.
A lot of people with the winds about that.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
So are you keeping him secret because you don't want
people thinking you're moving on too fast?
Speaker 10 (10:24):
I'm you know, initially I did have that that feeling,
but now we've been very open and very public, like
I post him on my socials and like he's absolutely amazing.
He truly is. And on the side, no, it is
still okay to ask a girl to be your girlfriend
because I am thirty five. My boyfriend is now forty seven,
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and he asked me directly to be his girlfriend. But
that's still the thing.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Yeah, no, I agree, Yeah, I disagree on that one,
but that's okay. I think, you know, but I think
that you guys are dating. You guys are dating. I
think it's good you guys is as long as you
know there's not other people in there, you guys can
take that as dating. And I'm happy to see that
you're doing well. That's good for you. Get up on
that horse again. Okay, ride that thing absolutely, hold on.
(11:12):
I'm sorry I disconnected by it from you. I didn't
know what you're gonna say. But Kelly also, Kelly also
says that you have to have the exclusive talk.
Speaker 12 (11:19):
Is that right, Kelly, Yes, you have to have the
exclusive SoC especially with Lydia knowing what she wants and
he knows. I mean I remember hearing about their breaking
up last time. He knows what she wants.
Speaker 11 (11:34):
So as long as he's on board with it, maybe
he should call me and do it on the show.
Speaker 1 (11:42):
What do you think? Yeah?
Speaker 12 (11:43):
I think he should. Then we can really have conversations
and text yeah you know, yeah, no, he for sure,
especially knowing her family, he for sure needs to do that.
I mean, my husband and I broke up in a
one till oh eight. Well, he wasn't my husband, he
was my boyfriend. We broke up from one got together
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back together in nine, but I moved from Michigan back
to California, and so it took a lot before I
could tell my parents that we were dating again.
Speaker 10 (12:14):
And he had to.
Speaker 12 (12:15):
Come to my parents and say these are my intentions,
and I will not do what I did you know
which chapter one?
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Yeah? So yeah, maybe Lydia's gas station guy niece to
sit down with me and her dad at the same time.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I think he would.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
That would be kind of fun, wouldn't it. Your your
real dad and your your work dad. Let me sit down.
I'd be like sitting there, going, George, I don't know
what do you say?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
Can you understand what should wed?
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Should we take them out back? All of a sudden,
they're speaking caldy into each other, and I'm like, going,
I don't understand a word of what you guys are
saying right now? What's up? Barbara? Hi?
Speaker 9 (12:56):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (12:58):
What's going on? You wanted to make a comment on
Lydia's situation and why Lydia's uh boyfriend's sister's friends didn't
like Lydia.
Speaker 8 (13:09):
Yes?
Speaker 6 (13:10):
Yeah, Is it a possibility that he may have had
sex with one of her friends.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
And I don't like her he didn't.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
Let's not go there.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
I mean, I can see what you're saying because that.
Speaker 6 (13:25):
The siblings always talk to their friends or try to
talk to their friends first, or maybe he just you know,
may have had sex with one of the friends. I
never told them.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
Would that not be amazing?
Speaker 5 (13:37):
That would not You know what, at this point, past
is in the past. We're moving forward. We're only looking forward.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Probably. No, uh, he told you that didn't happen, Lydia.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Oh, that was never even a thought. He wouldn't touch
her with the tom football.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
God.
Speaker 6 (13:59):
All right, he's not a conversation here.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
No, we did actually yeah, oh all right.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
By the way, by the way, we've just put some
kind of thing in the mix here right now. I
don't know it's gonna I don't want to cause drama
for you, Lydia. Let's let's just move.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
Who cares, It's fine.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
We'll just have Lydia happy with gas station guy. We're
very excited about that.
So Lydia is going to do a topic this morning,
and this is one of those topics where you know
that Lydia is going to probably meant to start talking
and I'm going to ask her a bunch of questions
and she's going to feel like really nervous.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Isn't that all the time though?
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Pretty much? But this one deals with the fact that Lydia, again,
and this is the second or third time I think,
in the time that Lydia has been our executive producer,
has kept a relationship from all of us she is
secretly dating. But this time, wait to you hear who
she's dating, Lydia.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Okay, So for the past month, I've been seeing an
X of mine and as we know, I've been on
and off with gas station guy for probably like three years,
three or four years, and we kind of rekindled something
last month when I saw him at church and it's
been kind of a good thing ever since. And I
wanted to wait to tell all of you because my
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best friend and my mom didn't know for some time.
And this past weekend he had spent some time with
me and my best friend at church. We had a
church event and it went really well. So I thought
I could let more people know about it.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Gas Station guy is back.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
He is, Yeah, So remind everybody why you broke up
with him in the first place.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Well, he was breaking up with me because he didn't
see fit and oh that's getting married.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
He didn't know if he could match my timeline, and
we separated and I dated other people. He probably saw
other people during that time. I'm not really sure about
a full relationship because he told me he hasn't been
full on dating anybody. But now we are an item,
but we're not in a relationship because he has not
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asked me. He doesn't really think that asking.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
So what do you get? What do you guys call
each other?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Then we don't call each other anything.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
You're just hanging out at this point, just gas station game.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Yeah, but we're like exclusive.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Oh exclusive friends?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Can you play exclusive friends? No? Because he's not really
a boyfriend. You said, right, because he hasn't asked you.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
So he has the same mindset, is you Mojo that
he doesn't think that he has to ask a girl
in their late twenties to be their girlfriend or boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
I think I think that when once you first off,
I think that once you guys are together, and if
you're together and you're not going to see other people
you're together, you don't have to go. It's not like
gasking somebody to marry you. I don't think. I think
it's like, will you date me? That sounds like such
a middle school thing to do to me.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
It does, But I still want to have that conversation
of what we are.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
We need really clear, very clear understanding, because God forbid,
something happens and then they're like, oh, we weren't.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Really together, right, choking out? Do your parents know lydia?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
My mom knows, but my dad doesn't know.
Speaker 5 (02:42):
And his family are dagging a feel.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
I don't think he's going to be too happy. Yeah,
just because of the on and off stuff like. That's
also why I didn't say anything, because it's like when
you're on and off with someone so many times, everyone
around you, around you gets exhausted as right, They're like,
we don't want to hear about this anymore.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
So I thought, let me.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Just take some time think about what we're doing first
and then go from there.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
So did his timeline? Did he change this idea of
the timeline Because I know it is important to you
to get married, you want to start a family, and
if he wasn't into that, something must have changed.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
So during the time that we were apart, I think
he really realized, you know, how much I meant to him,
and I realized that too, with dating other people, this
is just the person that I love and Mojo, I
feel like you've always known that. Yeah, he is somebody
that I love. I've loved him for a really long time,
and he's someone who I've always wanted to be with.
I do think it took more time for him to
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realize that he wanted.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
To be with me.
Speaker 6 (03:37):
Is no.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
I Well, I was going to ask, what about the sister.
Is his sister okay with us? Because he's got to
get her sister?
Speaker 7 (03:44):
Sorry.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
When they were together before, the sister was not her friends.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
Her friends weren't really a fan of me. I think
there was some jealousy there. I'm going to be straight
up with that. I think that, you know, maybe they
had some feelings.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
To one of the friends.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Did Yeah, I mean they.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Listened to the show and they would send certain bits
to you know, other people and talk about me, and
it came back to me.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
So all right, I want to ask the question. I
got to do a solicit to the listeners because I
would like them to participate in this topic. I would
like to ask who hit a boyfriend the longest? I
think that could be one of them. We get to
ask that question, like how long did you hide? And
usually when you're hiding, you're hiding an axe. It's probably
for a reason. Why were you hiding the axe from
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everybody else? Eight four to four Mojo Live eight four
four six six five six five four eight. I actually
like this guy. I like him because I think I
because you like him. I think that's probably it. I
I've met him, honestly only I think maybe once or
twice Lydia, I think twice, right, I met him one time,
didn't I? Did I meet him at your house once
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or I can't remember if it was your house? And
then I met him at the what was the Middle
Eastern restaurant? We were at that one time for the shindig? Yeah,
the shindig.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Wait, he was there. He was there that night of
your graduation party.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Yeah, with a sister.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
Did I meet him?
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Yeah, it's a nice guy. I like him. I know
him like that.
Speaker 8 (05:08):
I met him one time at a concert, but this
is the problem when you have friends who get their
heartbroken or go through situations where you don't see them
in the best light, and the relationship is the reason
why they're affected in a negative way. Because now I'm like,
why are we dealing with this dude? I don't see
you at your worst with him. I'm like, bruh, I
know it's okay. So that's and Lydia knows this. That's
where I am too.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
I feel like I need and I'm very protective of you, Lydia,
and you know this and that, so I am trying,
like I want to be so happy for you, but
I feel like I need to get over the the
like I know, I feel like I know some stuff
that I don't like still, so like I personally need
to get over that.
Speaker 5 (05:46):
This is because I.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Feel like, yeah, this is why you if you're fighting
with a boyfriend or girlfriend or husband or my case, wife,
you don't tell people close to you you guys are fighting.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
I know you're a smart girl, Lydia, and you're you're
not going to put yourself in a situation and that
like you know, would turn out bad or whatever. So
I know that you're being very cautious moving forward, and
I applaud you for that, but I feel like I'm
in Kevin's bowl. Was like, okay, my need.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
To When Chelsea and I had our last uh you know,
bad time, I talked to my family a little bit,
and I have a sister that was not really nice
to Chelsea for a little bit, you know, And uh
it was because she was trying to be protective sister
to me. Montana, what's going on?
Speaker 9 (06:26):
Okay, so he's my husband now, but I hit him
when we were going through a court case. Nobody knew
that we were still seeing each other throughout the whole
court case.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
What was the craziest hiding thing that you had liked?
Was he ever in your house and you had family
come over and you had to like tell him to
stay in the room.
Speaker 9 (06:49):
Bet and my probation officer came over.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
You had to hide him from the probation officer, which
is bad. Where did you hide him at exactly?
Speaker 2 (07:00):
He was under debate.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Thank god, he's not my size. Oh my god, that's crazy. Hey,
what's up, D. How you doing?
Speaker 6 (07:12):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Good morning, Good morning D. You kept not one, but
two a two year relationship from somebody?
Speaker 7 (07:20):
Yeah, Well, so I dated this guy for two years.
Oh but so the first year I kept it a
secret because my parents didn't think I should date as
a single mother. Yeah, so I didn't tell anyone in
my family, and every time my daughter went to her
dad's house is when I saw my boyfriend. And then
(07:43):
after a year, obviously I started telling people that we
were dating. But it was really weird because they were like, oh,
how long hadn't been going out?
Speaker 10 (07:53):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Yeah, I was gonna say, how do you celebrate anniversaries?
Like that would have been a weird thing with Lydia.
Of all of a sudden, Lydia's like, I'm going out
on our five month anniversary. Of like five month anniversary,
I thought you just started dating gas station guy again.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Never had an anniversary.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Because so much secretive stuff going on. Brie, what's up, Bri?
Speaker 6 (08:15):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (08:15):
How are you good? Aren't you happy for Lydia?
Speaker 10 (08:19):
I am?
Speaker 11 (08:20):
I mean whatever makes her happy. I feel like, as
a woman who show have that choice to go back
as many times as you want, I'm just getting that's
terrible advice.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
I say, as long as there's no physical or mental abuse,
I say, go for it. Yeah, what's up?
Speaker 6 (08:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 11 (08:36):
Well, mine was mental and clearly you're going to understand
why because I'm you know, so, my daughter's dad and
I were dating for like one month. I got pregnant,
he bounced, I didn't hear from him. All of a sudden,
he came back saying, I want to be a dad again.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Blah blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 11 (08:55):
I hit that relationship, Andy did it again. So sometimes
don't go back.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Yeah, well okay, so yeah, you you, you, by the way,
need to uh you need to stay away from from
all that all that drama. That's not good.
Speaker 11 (09:12):
Oh yeah, he's completely blocked and.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Yeah, we're good. Hold on, let me grab Kaye. Kaylee,
are you there, Kaylee?
Speaker 2 (09:22):
I'm here, Hi, Kaylee.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
What do you think of Lydia's situation?
Speaker 10 (09:25):
Here?
Speaker 1 (09:25):
Kaylee?
Speaker 10 (09:28):
Well, I had two comments. Part one. I lost my
fiance last year to cancer, and I guess my thoughts
on it are is that you get very few opportunities
in life to find that deep seated love. And if
she's been feeling it and hasn't stopped thinking about him
for all this time, my vote is so, holl is
(09:50):
what people think it is your life? Get that love, girl, Yeah,
you only get one life.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
That's beautiful. That's beautiful. We're sorry to hear about your fiance.
That's all. It's just that horrible.
Speaker 10 (10:01):
You Well, yeah, I mean it's definitely something that's drastically
impacted my life. But you know, I guess my second
comment to this was, I actually do have a new boyfriend.
A lot of people with the winds about that.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
So are you keeping him secret because you don't want
people thinking you're moving on too fast?
Speaker 10 (10:24):
I'm you know, initially I did have that that feeling,
but now we've been very open and very public, like
I post him on my socials and like he's absolutely amazing.
He truly is. And on the side, no, it is
still okay to ask a girl to be your girlfriend
because I am thirty five. My boyfriend is now forty seven,
(10:45):
and he asked me directly to be his girlfriend. But
that's still the thing.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Yeah, no, I agree, Yeah, I disagree on that one,
but that's okay. I think, you know, but I think
that you guys are dating. You guys are dating. I
think it's good you guys is as long as you
know there's not other people in there, you guys can
take that as dating. And I'm happy to see that
you're doing well. That's good for you. Get up on
that horse again. Okay, ride that thing absolutely, hold on.
(11:12):
I'm sorry I disconnected by it from you. I didn't
know what you're gonna say. But Kelly also, Kelly also
says that you have to have the exclusive talk.
Speaker 12 (11:19):
Is that right, Kelly, Yes, you have to have the
exclusive SoC especially with Lydia knowing what she wants and
he knows. I mean I remember hearing about their breaking
up last time. He knows what she wants.
Speaker 11 (11:34):
So as long as he's on board with it, maybe
he should call me and do it on the show.
Speaker 1 (11:42):
What do you think? Yeah?
Speaker 12 (11:43):
I think he should. Then we can really have conversations
and text yeah you know, yeah, no, he for sure,
especially knowing her family, he for sure needs to do that.
I mean, my husband and I broke up in a
one till oh eight. Well, he wasn't my husband, he
was my boyfriend. We broke up from one got together
(12:04):
back together in nine, but I moved from Michigan back
to California, and so it took a lot before I
could tell my parents that we were dating again.
Speaker 10 (12:14):
And he had to.
Speaker 12 (12:15):
Come to my parents and say these are my intentions,
and I will not do what I did you know
which chapter one?
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Yeah? So yeah, maybe Lydia's gas station guy niece to
sit down with me and her dad at the same time.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I think he would.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
That would be kind of fun, wouldn't it. Your your
real dad and your your work dad. Let me sit down.
I'd be like sitting there, going, George, I don't know
what do you say?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
Can you understand what should wed?
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Should we take them out back? All of a sudden,
they're speaking caldy into each other, and I'm like, going,
I don't understand a word of what you guys are
saying right now? What's up? Barbara? Hi?
Speaker 9 (12:56):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (12:58):
What's going on? You wanted to make a comment on
Lydia's situation and why Lydia's uh boyfriend's sister's friends didn't
like Lydia.
Speaker 8 (13:09):
Yes?
Speaker 6 (13:10):
Yeah, Is it a possibility that he may have had
sex with one of her friends.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
And I don't like her he didn't.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
Let's not go there.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
I mean, I can see what you're saying because that.
Speaker 6 (13:25):
The siblings always talk to their friends or try to
talk to their friends first, or maybe he just you know,
may have had sex with one of the friends. I
never told them.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
Would that not be amazing?
Speaker 5 (13:37):
That would not You know what, at this point, past
is in the past. We're moving forward. We're only looking forward.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Probably. No, uh, he told you that didn't happen, Lydia.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Oh, that was never even a thought. He wouldn't touch
her with the tom football.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
God.
Speaker 6 (13:59):
All right, he's not a conversation here.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
No, we did actually yeah, oh all right.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
By the way, by the way, we've just put some
kind of thing in the mix here right now. I
don't know it's gonna I don't want to cause drama
for you, Lydia. Let's let's just move.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
Who cares, It's fine.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
We'll just have Lydia happy with gas station guy. We're
very excited about that.
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