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Speaker 1 (00:01):
It's the second date update on Mojo in the Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
We're commercial free Mojo in the Morning and Caitlyn is
on with us. She's getting ghosted right now. Caitlyn, how
did you guys meet?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
We're not at a bar.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Okay went out on a date. Do you think there's
anything that you guys did on this date, or maybe
you specifically did on this date that potentially could be
the reason why he's not calling you back.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
I mean, I guess, like my friends were there, but
like because I told him I was going there, But
that's like.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Your friends hung out on the date, So no.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
No, no, they just like I just let them know I
was like going there.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Okay, did he know that your friends were there?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
I mean at the end, I guess, but like I
still am, like, just don't know. It was really a
good date.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
And then let's not Let's talk to Alex here. Say
hi to Alex. Caitlin, Hi, Hello, hey Alex. What's happening?
Uh Caitlin was wondering what's happening with you guys? And
will there ever be another date? Will there be a
second date?
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
No, I don't think so.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
And uh yeah, she's right, I thought it was weird
that her friends showed up to her date.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
So explain to me the friends thing, because of her
friends were just hanging out at the bar or came
to the bar where you guys were.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Yeah, it was like they were like spying on us
or something very weird, Kaitlyn.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Were they just there and it just.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
Happened to be I was letting them know where I
was headed, you know, like girl code, like I'm meeting a.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Guy at a bar, and so they came specifically to
watch you guys on your date.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Well, I mean we're just like there in case, like
in the background, you know.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
So could you see them from where you guys were?
Did you interact with them.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Or they just knew that I was there.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
And in them?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
How did you know they were her friends?
Speaker 5 (02:09):
Because they kept looking over at us and like she
was looking at them. They were like taking pictures.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
It was weird.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
At what part of the date did you guys say
these are her friends or she say that those are friends?
Speaker 5 (02:24):
Yeah, because she acted like they weren't for a little
which was I think is even weirder. She like admitted
it later on, so it made me feel like I
was crazy.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
So uh, yes, odd, So for a good portion of
the date. You guys are out doing your thing. You
guys are sitting together, what, having drinks and something to
eat or something, And then you started noticing that there's
another table full of girls that were paying attention to
you guys. And then what happened? Did you finally say
(02:53):
who are they? Or did she say those are my friends?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Yeah? I was like, do you know those people?
Speaker 5 (03:00):
Ex acting like she didn't for a little bit, which
I think is the weirdest part of it. And then
it just kept She was like text messaging a little
which is also weird when you're on a date with somebody.
I saw them on their phone. It looked like it
felt like they were like TMZ or something.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
It was weird. The paparazzi's sting U. Why didn't you just.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Like, I don't know. It was just one of those
things where you're like, you're meeting a guy at a bar,
just protecting yourself.
Speaker 6 (03:27):
You know.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Any have any of you guys ever gone out on
a date and told your friends and your friends showed
up at the same place.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Not me, I don't think so I showed up, but
I've told them all the time.
Speaker 7 (03:39):
I just know they're on standby, Like if I text
you to come here, get over here now?
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Yeah? Is it?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Is it weird that her friends Caitlyn's friends actually went
and were sitting there watching them?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
I think, so make me uncomfortable.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
If I enjoyed the date, it wouldn't matter though, but.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
But yeah, this didn't seem like he enjoyed it. Uh,
what's up?
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Maybe they like lingered a little too long, but I
mean again, like it wasn't such apeal and he would
have me, Amanda, what's up?
Speaker 8 (04:11):
Good morning? I feel like if her friends stowed up
without her knowledge and like without her saying like, hey,
I want you guys there, I feel like that's a
boundary issue with her and her friends, And like I
don't really blame him for being annoyed with that, because like,
if they don't know the boundaries of like let me
have me, like let me go on this state and
(04:31):
have my space, then like what other boundaries are her
friends going across?
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Caitlin, did they do this without you knowing about it?
Or you knew about it that they were coming?
Speaker 3 (04:40):
I mean I knew, I mean I knew that.
Speaker 9 (04:42):
They were going to come, but in your mind, well though, well,
did you have the conversation like, yeah, come but once
I feel comfortable enough, like you can leave, or did
you tell him I want you to stay the whole
time just in case, Like what was your conversation with them?
Speaker 3 (05:00):
So like it was one of those things where I
was like, Hey, I'm gonna to gay at the bar
and they were like, is you gonna be safe? And
I was like yeah, for sure, and then we're gonna
come and I was like okay, and I was like great,
But like you know, it was like one of those
things where it was just like, you guys stay over
there and.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
I'm gonna be on the state, Amanda, what do you think?
Speaker 10 (05:17):
I don't know.
Speaker 8 (05:18):
I feel like if you said to your friends, like
you guys stay over there and I'm gonna be on
the state, and then it became like an issue after
you told them like we're going to be doing this
like a separate thing, then I still feel like it's
like a boundary issue and they still up like respected,
like that you said that you were going to be
doing your thing and they were going to.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
Be doing their thing.
Speaker 8 (05:38):
I think like we see this a lot in like
you know, movies, and it's like a joke where it's like, oh,
my friends are gonna sit, you know, at the other
booths with like a newspaper and pretend that they're yeah,
you know, like just casually there and like fine. But
it's kind of like weird. I think it's one thing
to be like, hey, I'm going to this bar, like
I think Anna was saying, like, you know, just for
safety reasons, but for them to like act actually be
(06:00):
sitting there, I don't know. I feel like I'm a
little a little much.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
And sous so obvious that they are there, because she
obviously tipped off Alex into knowing that she was there.
Jason wants to make a comment, what's up, Jason, Hey,
what's up?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I feel like this is like you just pretty much
invited your parents to date.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Yeah, oh my gosh, that is so ridiculous.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
No, it's you don't understand what it's like to be
like a woman meeting a person out there in the world.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
It's called live your life public. It is out here.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
You go out in the universe and you live your life.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
You don't got to be scared about everything.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Well, I do think there is a difference between like
Anna said, hey, be on the lookout for my maybe
my location and having them show up watching you guys
the entire time, or.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
Even show up, go to another part of the bar,
pretend you don't know me, have fun.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Yeah that Bridget.
Speaker 7 (07:01):
Yeah, I was just calling to agree with Amanda, like,
your friends absolutely dropped the ball there and.
Speaker 8 (07:07):
We're completely conspicuous. Have you never seen any spy movies?
Speaker 7 (07:11):
Like? What is the problem being so obvious?
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Jamie? What did you want to say?
Speaker 7 (07:21):
I wanted to say that you need to stop blaming
the friends and you need to take accountability for yourself.
If you saw your friends there and it was gonna,
you know, intrude on the date, you get up, you
tell your friends to kind of go away, and you know,
be an adult about it. You seem like you're kind
of just whining.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Is whining?
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Oh my gosh, they were I don't need to tell
them to leave.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
They were fine.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
I think he's just overreacting.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
What's going on? Democratis what's up? Okay? Moo, what's up? Buddy?
Speaker 8 (07:55):
But a time?
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Uh, it's just her friends.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
Being there, that's not a problem.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
But taking pictures and stuff, that's that's weird. Yeah, and
a little much. And Alex do you think this is
a big thing?
Speaker 2 (08:13):
And I don't know, if you'll be honest and saying this,
do you think if the friends weren't there and they
weren't taking pictures, would you have been interested more in
Caitlin or were you just not interested?
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Also, I think, I.
Speaker 10 (08:27):
Mean, it's hard to know based off of the fact
that I didn't experience that, but not Yeah, I think that, uh,
it is possible that I would have definitely I would
have the date more if her friends weren't watching us
like we were.
Speaker 6 (08:40):
I'm trying to think of it. If the shoe was
on the other foot, like if I was out and
the guy that I was sitting across from had all
of his buddies and I knew that, I feel like
I would act differently. No, but I feel like I
would act differently because I would know I was being watched,
so I wouldn't be able to fully even be myself,
which would be in turn unfair to my date.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
So true, So I think there's there's a lot.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
There's a level of this could be played off like
it's cute, and it's a level of it could be
played off like it's creepy, and in this case, it
came across to Alex like it was creepy, and probably
to the rest of us that it was too. But listen,
I don't think he's into it. If I was really
into a girl, if I went out with a girl
and she was as cav says, fire and I, you know,
(09:23):
or cold, I would be like, you could bring her mother, her.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Heads, you know, you could bring her parole officer. I'd
probably be into her, you know what I mean.
Speaker 8 (09:33):
This is the hole of the dirty on the thirty
fro back fro down, a second date update, and more
than Roses.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
This is Mojo in the Morning.
It's the second date update on Mojo in the Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
We're commercial free Mojo in the Morning and Caitlyn is
on with us. She's getting ghosted right now. Caitlyn, how
did you guys meet?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
We're not at a bar.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Okay went out on a date. Do you think there's
anything that you guys did on this date, or maybe
you specifically did on this date that potentially could be
the reason why he's not calling you back.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
I mean, I guess, like my friends were there, but
like because I told him I was going there, But
that's like.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Your friends hung out on the date, So no.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
No, no, they just like I just let them know I
was like going there.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Okay, did he know that your friends were there?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
I mean at the end, I guess, but like I
still am, like, just don't know. It was really a
good date.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
And then let's not Let's talk to Alex here. Say
hi to Alex. Caitlin, Hi, Hello, hey Alex. What's happening?
Uh Caitlin was wondering what's happening with you guys? And
will there ever be another date? Will there be a
second date?
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
No, I don't think so.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
And uh yeah, she's right, I thought it was weird
that her friends showed up to her date.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
So explain to me the friends thing, because of her
friends were just hanging out at the bar or came
to the bar where you guys were.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Yeah, it was like they were like spying on us
or something very weird, Kaitlyn.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Were they just there and it just.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
Happened to be I was letting them know where I
was headed, you know, like girl code, like I'm meeting a.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Guy at a bar, and so they came specifically to
watch you guys on your date.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Well, I mean we're just like there in case, like
in the background, you know.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
So could you see them from where you guys were?
Did you interact with them.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Or they just knew that I was there.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
And in them?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
How did you know they were her friends?
Speaker 5 (02:09):
Because they kept looking over at us and like she
was looking at them. They were like taking pictures.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
It was weird.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
At what part of the date did you guys say
these are her friends or she say that those are friends?
Speaker 5 (02:24):
Yeah, because she acted like they weren't for a little
which was I think is even weirder. She like admitted
it later on, so it made me feel like I
was crazy.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
So uh, yes, odd, So for a good portion of
the date. You guys are out doing your thing. You
guys are sitting together, what, having drinks and something to
eat or something, And then you started noticing that there's
another table full of girls that were paying attention to
you guys. And then what happened? Did you finally say
(02:53):
who are they? Or did she say those are my friends?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Yeah? I was like, do you know those people?
Speaker 5 (03:00):
Ex acting like she didn't for a little bit, which
I think is the weirdest part of it. And then
it just kept She was like text messaging a little
which is also weird when you're on a date with somebody.
I saw them on their phone. It looked like it
felt like they were like TMZ or something.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
It was weird. The paparazzi's sting U. Why didn't you just.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Like, I don't know. It was just one of those
things where you're like, you're meeting a guy at a bar,
just protecting yourself.
Speaker 6 (03:27):
You know.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Any have any of you guys ever gone out on
a date and told your friends and your friends showed
up at the same place.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Not me, I don't think so I showed up, but
I've told them all the time.
Speaker 7 (03:39):
I just know they're on standby, Like if I text
you to come here, get over here now?
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Yeah? Is it?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Is it weird that her friends Caitlyn's friends actually went
and were sitting there watching them?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
I think, so make me uncomfortable.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
If I enjoyed the date, it wouldn't matter though, but.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
But yeah, this didn't seem like he enjoyed it. Uh,
what's up?
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Maybe they like lingered a little too long, but I
mean again, like it wasn't such apeal and he would
have me, Amanda, what's up?
Speaker 8 (04:11):
Good morning? I feel like if her friends stowed up
without her knowledge and like without her saying like, hey,
I want you guys there, I feel like that's a
boundary issue with her and her friends, And like I
don't really blame him for being annoyed with that, because like,
if they don't know the boundaries of like let me
have me, like let me go on this state and
(04:31):
have my space, then like what other boundaries are her
friends going across?
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Caitlin, did they do this without you knowing about it?
Or you knew about it that they were coming?
Speaker 3 (04:40):
I mean I knew, I mean I knew that.
Speaker 9 (04:42):
They were going to come, but in your mind, well though, well,
did you have the conversation like, yeah, come but once
I feel comfortable enough, like you can leave, or did
you tell him I want you to stay the whole
time just in case, Like what was your conversation with them?
Speaker 3 (05:00):
So like it was one of those things where I
was like, Hey, I'm gonna to gay at the bar
and they were like, is you gonna be safe? And
I was like yeah, for sure, and then we're gonna
come and I was like okay, and I was like great,
But like you know, it was like one of those
things where it was just like, you guys stay over
there and.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
I'm gonna be on the state, Amanda, what do you think?
Speaker 10 (05:17):
I don't know.
Speaker 8 (05:18):
I feel like if you said to your friends, like
you guys stay over there and I'm gonna be on
the state, and then it became like an issue after
you told them like we're going to be doing this
like a separate thing, then I still feel like it's
like a boundary issue and they still up like respected,
like that you said that you were going to be
doing your thing and they were going to.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
Be doing their thing.
Speaker 8 (05:38):
I think like we see this a lot in like
you know, movies, and it's like a joke where it's like, oh,
my friends are gonna sit, you know, at the other
booths with like a newspaper and pretend that they're yeah,
you know, like just casually there and like fine. But
it's kind of like weird. I think it's one thing
to be like, hey, I'm going to this bar, like
I think Anna was saying, like, you know, just for
safety reasons, but for them to like act actually be
(06:00):
sitting there, I don't know. I feel like I'm a
little a little much.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
And sous so obvious that they are there, because she
obviously tipped off Alex into knowing that she was there.
Jason wants to make a comment, what's up, Jason, Hey,
what's up?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I feel like this is like you just pretty much
invited your parents to date.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Yeah, oh my gosh, that is so ridiculous.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
No, it's you don't understand what it's like to be
like a woman meeting a person out there in the world.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
It's called live your life public. It is out here.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
You go out in the universe and you live your life.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
You don't got to be scared about everything.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Well, I do think there is a difference between like
Anna said, hey, be on the lookout for my maybe
my location and having them show up watching you guys
the entire time, or.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
Even show up, go to another part of the bar,
pretend you don't know me, have fun.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Yeah that Bridget.
Speaker 7 (07:01):
Yeah, I was just calling to agree with Amanda, like,
your friends absolutely dropped the ball there and.
Speaker 8 (07:07):
We're completely conspicuous. Have you never seen any spy movies?
Speaker 7 (07:11):
Like? What is the problem being so obvious?
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Jamie? What did you want to say?
Speaker 7 (07:21):
I wanted to say that you need to stop blaming
the friends and you need to take accountability for yourself.
If you saw your friends there and it was gonna,
you know, intrude on the date, you get up, you
tell your friends to kind of go away, and you know,
be an adult about it. You seem like you're kind
of just whining.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Is whining?
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Oh my gosh, they were I don't need to tell
them to leave.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
They were fine.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
I think he's just overreacting.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
What's going on? Democratis what's up? Okay? Moo, what's up? Buddy?
Speaker 8 (07:55):
But a time?
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Uh, it's just her friends.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
Being there, that's not a problem.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
But taking pictures and stuff, that's that's weird. Yeah, and
a little much. And Alex do you think this is
a big thing?
Speaker 2 (08:13):
And I don't know, if you'll be honest and saying this,
do you think if the friends weren't there and they
weren't taking pictures, would you have been interested more in
Caitlin or were you just not interested?
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Also, I think, I.
Speaker 10 (08:27):
Mean, it's hard to know based off of the fact
that I didn't experience that, but not Yeah, I think that, uh,
it is possible that I would have definitely I would
have the date more if her friends weren't watching us
like we were.
Speaker 6 (08:40):
I'm trying to think of it. If the shoe was
on the other foot, like if I was out and
the guy that I was sitting across from had all
of his buddies and I knew that, I feel like
I would act differently. No, but I feel like I
would act differently because I would know I was being watched,
so I wouldn't be able to fully even be myself,
which would be in turn unfair to my date.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
So true, So I think there's there's a lot.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
There's a level of this could be played off like
it's cute, and it's a level of it could be
played off like it's creepy, and in this case, it
came across to Alex like it was creepy, and probably
to the rest of us that it was too. But listen,
I don't think he's into it. If I was really
into a girl, if I went out with a girl
and she was as cav says, fire and I, you know,
(09:23):
or cold, I would be like, you could bring her mother, her.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Heads, you know, you could bring her parole officer. I'd
probably be into her, you know what I mean.
Speaker 8 (09:33):
This is the hole of the dirty on the thirty
fro back fro down, a second date update, and more
than Roses.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
This is Mojo in the Morning.
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