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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Smo Joe in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
So on the We Don't podcast I do with Chelsea
this week, we talked about how I'm doing on giving
Chelsea my undivided attention. It got very real about Chelsea
feeling like she is second to a lot of things
in her life when it comes to me, and it
talks about how there's many times, in matter of fact,
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a very you know majority of the times she feels
underappreciated by me because I focus on work and I
focus on, you know, things going on that are not necessary,
like I take her for granted. And I think we
all do this in our relationship. We know that the
ones that we love and that love us will be
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there for us. We'll put up with the most, and honestly,
it's not fair and I get it and I feel
horrible about it. So long story short, if you go
listen to that podcast, it gets really amazing because I
cannot believe the response that we got. We got a
ton of people reaching out yesterday talking about how they
could relate to it. So last night I said to Chelse,
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I go, hey, what do you want to do? And
she goes, Hey, let's get together and let's do something good.
Like just the two of us get away from the
house for a few hours. Said okay, perfect. So we
decided that we were going to go out and we
were going to go to eat. So we go to eat,
and I don't know if this ever happens to you.
Have you ever been out to eat where you wanted
to have one on one time with somebody, either you
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were on a date or you were with like, you know,
a family member or whoever, and you constantly were getting
interrupted by the people that worked at the restaurant.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Have you ever had that happen to like, leave me
the hell alone.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
So we were on the date and the people at
the restaurant were really awesome, but it was our time together.
I put my phone literally away, I turned it off.
I didn't have it out at all. She had hers away.
We're just there talking and every time we'd get into
a conversation, the waitress would come up to us. Then
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another person would come up to us, and it would
get to a point and they started asking you how
you're doing, what's going on? You know, which is all
stuff that I normally would like if it was just
a regular date and not a specific date where we're
going to try to spend time together.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Were they talking to you because they knew you were
mojo or they were just being social?
Speaker 2 (02:20):
A couple of people just talked because they knew and
then a couple of people came up because they knew
that it was you know, they were I think they
were just being friendly, okay, and that's just how they
do it. But you notice it more absolutely when you're
in a situation where you're trying to actually spend time together.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
If it is someone you know, a waiter or a waitress,
is it bad form to like acknowledge why you're there
and if they could please like give you a little time.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
See, I don't know why I can't do that.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
I can't die, even though that is the right thing
to do, and like you want to do that, I
just can't.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Like it's not coming out. I could not say to them, hey,
we're on a date and we are.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
I wanted to say, hey, we did a podcast talking
about spending time together. No, you know what I mean,
and I would I couldn't do it, Like I am
not a confrontational person, and so I kind of just
let it go.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
And I looked over at Chelsea at one.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Point and I think she was kind of like, Okay,
well this is really not as good as it was
last week when we went out. And we went out
last week on a date, it was awesome. This staff
kind of like was awesome, Like they took our order,
they brought our order, we paid the bill. We didn't
see them at all the whole time, and they sat
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us in a it was kind of an empty restaurant,
so they sat us in a corner of the restaurant
where literally nobody was around us. So this time we're
there and there's a ton of people. You know, there's
a lot of people like, hey, what'd your order?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
What's going on?
Speaker 2 (03:51):
I thought it was almost kind of like a comedy
bit for a while. So I want to ask this question,
what interrupted the date? Eight four Mojo Live eight four
four six sixty five six by four eight. It can
be an over zealous, talkative waiter or waitress or server,
whoever it was. It could be the people that you
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were sitting by, you know, that were vocal. Could be
the kid in the booth next to you pounding on
the booth. It could honestly be like a friend or
a family member that shows up. I'm the worst at this.
We've had it before where we've gone out to go
eat and it's specific for us just to spend time
together like our anniversary, and neighbors will be there that
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we haven't seen it ever.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
They're like, oh my god, where did you guys come from?
You know? And then they're like should we do?
Speaker 5 (04:43):
Should we together?
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Yes? And you don't know how to say no.
Speaker 6 (04:48):
Man.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
I remember one time I was on a date. This
is like an early brunch type of vibe. We woke
up early, went out, grab some food, grab some mimosas.
The mimosas are are flowing. It's not the beginning of
the date, but it's kind of like we're not near
the inn at that point. The waiter is amazing. He's
come over, he's checked on us, all these types of things.
He switches out one plate, goes to grab another, and
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knocks my glass. The mimosas literally are spilling down my
pants and I'm just sitting there looking like I'm looking
at him looking at me like and he's apologetic, but
I'm like, brow gott to see her with the soggy draws.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
The rest of the time, it ruins the whole d Yeah,
what's up?
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Hi, Kelly, how you doing.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Hi Mojo? I was telling Lydia. I think it would
be great if they had like little do dot disturb
signs on the table and then he wanted a drink,
you could flip it over and it says need drinks
or need knee napkins or something. So then it's like
they come and they do your orders and then they
kind of leave you alone until you say you need
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them to, kind of like when they have the red
and green for those Mongolian.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Yeah, the Brazilian steak house. Yes, Yes, that's brilliant, Kelly.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
That is a great idea. That's really awesome. Yeah, Kiki,
what's up?
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Kiki?
Speaker 7 (06:04):
I first time, long time. So there's a brewery in
Ferndale that my boyfriend and I go to all the
time and it's a family friendly. But there was one
time where we hadn't had a lot of like alone time,
you know, life got busy.
Speaker 8 (06:24):
So we went out on a date.
Speaker 7 (06:26):
And there's kids like all throughout the brewery and this
one kid kept like bouncing up a loon like right
next to us, kind of kept like hitting our table
things like that, and like I love kids, but like
not when I'm trying to, you know, have like a date.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
Night after work.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
But yeah, that's kids can be a pain in the
ass at restaurants when they're not at your table, but
they practically are jumping on you, you know what I mean.
Speaker 7 (06:54):
Like sometimes parents use it as like, oh, we want
a date night, but don't want to get a babysitter.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
You're the babysitter.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Yeah, what's up, Mike, How you doing good?
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Good? What's going on?
Speaker 6 (07:08):
Oh?
Speaker 9 (07:08):
Not a lot.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
I was just listening to that.
Speaker 10 (07:10):
I listened to you guys every day.
Speaker 6 (07:11):
I'm a first time calling. But I was thinking about
what you were saying about the loon time in the restaurant.
It's a hospitality business. That's what they do, and it
might not be the best place to go for a
long time, just the thought.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Now, I get it, and I understand that they got
a business to run, But the problem is they sat
there and wanted to have not a hospitality thing.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
They just wanted to keep on talking. You know, I
get it.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Well, I understand that that's nice, and I should have
probably said something like Chelse would love for me. I
think Chelsea would love to be married to the guy
that goes Hey, excuse me. I'm trying to spend time
with my wife. We'll talk at another time. Like, I
think she would love if I stood up and did
something like that. The problem is I am such a
coward when it comes to that. It's just not my personality,
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you know. And I probably should have like Kevin would
have done that. Maybe no, you would, Kevin would have
done it in a way that would have made you go,
that guy's a jerk.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
But I kind of like it, you know.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
So Kay Sinnat, who's a streamer. I've seen him streaming
before and people approach him when he's eating and he'll
always say, like, I appreciate it. I would love to
talk to you when I'm done eating. Then we can
have a conversation. We can take pictures, which I think
is smart.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
He gets away with that being called out for that. Yeah, Kylie,
what's up?
Speaker 8 (08:36):
Hey?
Speaker 10 (08:36):
Sorry?
Speaker 11 (08:37):
Hold on, I texted it in and I was I'm
wondering if there's a way you guys can like call
the restaurant before him. I don't know what restaurants you
go to and ask for like a private booth or
an intnet.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Setting, you know what.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Listen, I sat in the wrong spot. I actually we
sat up against at the bar, but we did it.
We did it in a way of you got just
us sitting there and I could look at her, and
we sat in an area where there really wasn't anybody around.
But you're right, I probably should have done that. I
should have said, hey, do you have like a like
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a private area. The problem though with that is then
I think that they think we're going to do something
kind of weird do each other?
Speaker 5 (09:18):
Do you?
Speaker 6 (09:19):
Now?
Speaker 2 (09:19):
I don't know anything with a higher table? Yeah, excuse me?
Do you have like a separate room with a lock
on it?
Speaker 1 (09:25):
Hey? Jackson, what's going on? Hey? Guys?
Speaker 5 (09:31):
So I was out with this girl.
Speaker 10 (09:32):
I was taking her out, trying to break up with her,
and then the jack buad next to us decided to propose.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
To I don't know, wait, that's that's so funny. So
you're going to break up with her, and at what
point were you about to do it? When all of
a sudden the thing happened with them with the engagement.
Speaker 10 (09:52):
Uh, the witch just comes over and should take anything else.
And I was just going to be like, hey, can
I get like like two separate like the goat orders
that my I can't. Let's look last meal. But as
she comes over, this guy just gets down. I thought
he drops something and I saw him get on.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
His knee at Oh, so did you break up or
did you wait? Oh?
Speaker 10 (10:12):
I had to wait till I dropped her off.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Wait were you paying for the full bill? You better
have paid for it? You were breaking up with her?
Speaker 10 (10:22):
Of course, no bad reviews out here, That's.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
How he was going to break up with her views. Wow,
what's up star? How you doing?
Speaker 10 (10:32):
Okay?
Speaker 6 (10:33):
Good?
Speaker 8 (10:33):
How are you doing? Guys? So I was a server
for thirty years and sometimes I could just tell when
people are you know, for the conversation or they wanted
to be left alone, you know. So I to go
up and say, hey, you know, if you guys need something,
just you know, wait to me get my attention in
and I'll be happy to come over. And they absolutely
love that, and I would just leave him alone.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
That's actually great. It's really good on your part. You
understand what's going on.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
What's up? Geordian in? How you doing?
Speaker 8 (11:02):
Hi? I'm good?
Speaker 1 (11:03):
How are you good? The uninterrupted date?
Speaker 12 (11:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (11:08):
So I was I texted in because of the person
earlier saying like they do not disturb sign. They actually
do that at the Bubba Gumps restaurant.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
I've not been to a Bubba Gumps, but I've seen
a million of them. They have what do not disturb
sign there, So on.
Speaker 9 (11:26):
Top of where they're like napkins and condiments and stuff
would be, there's multiple signs and one will say like
stop for a stop and it's red and.
Speaker 11 (11:35):
Your server will come over, or if.
Speaker 9 (11:37):
You're good, it says like run Forest Run.
Speaker 12 (11:40):
It's really cool.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
Oh my god, that's actually awesome and very creative. Run
Forest Run, Chelsea, last call? What's up?
Speaker 8 (11:49):
Hie?
Speaker 12 (11:50):
So first time, long time? And one time I was
at Ching's Dearborn with my fiance, say, and I guess
the table behind us was also on a date, but
it was the husband and his side chick, and the
wife and her sister came in the middle and caused
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a whole scene and jumped the side chick in the
restaurant and then again in the parking lot.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Oh no, did they just happen upon them or they
were following these guys.
Speaker 12 (12:26):
It seemed like they were following them because she kind
of knew exactly. She came in really hot into the
restaurant all hot, so it seemed like they were following them.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Yeah, it's funny because I wanted to go to PF
Chang's yesterday. I was like, hey, let's go to PF Changs.
And the last time that Chelsea went to PF Changs,
it didn't sit well, so she was like not into.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
It at all. Yeah,