December 5, 2025 • 14 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Lydia is going to do a topic this morning, and
this is one of those topics where you know that
Lydia is going to probably meant to start talking and
I'm going to ask her a bunch of questions and
she's going to feel like really nervous.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Isn't that all the time though?
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Pretty much?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
But this one deals with the fact that Lydia, again,
and this is the second or third time I think
in the time that Lydia has been our executive producer,
has kept a relationship from all of us she is
secretly dating, but this time way to hear who she's dating, Lydia.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
Okay, So for the past month, I've been seeing an
ex of mine and as we know, I've been on
and off with gas station guy for probably like three years,
three or four years, and we kind of rekindled something
last month when I saw him at church, and it's
been kind of a good thing ever since. And I
wanted to wait to tell all of you because my
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best friend and my mom didn't know for some time.
And this past weekend he had spent some time with
me and my best friend at church. We had a
church event and it went really well well, so I
thought I could let more people know about it.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Gas Station guy is back.
Speaker 5 (01:05):
He is, Yeah, So remind everybody why you broke up
with him in the first place.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Well, he was breaking up with me because he didn't
see fit and oh he's getting married.
Speaker 6 (01:17):
That's right.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
He didn't know if he could match my timeline, and
we separated and I dated other people. He probably saw
other people during that time. I'm not really sure about
a full relationship because he told me he hasn't been
full on dating anybody. But now we are an item,
but we're not in a relationship because he has not
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asked me. He doesn't really think that asking So what.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Do you get? What do you guys call each other?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Then we don't call each other anything.
Speaker 6 (01:45):
You're just hanging out at this point, just gas station game.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Yeah, but we're like exclusive, Oh exclusive friends?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Can you be exclusive friends? No, because he's not really
a boyfriend, you said, right, because he hasn't asked you.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
So he has the.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Same and said, is you mojo that he doesn't think
that he has to ask a girl in their late
twenties to be their girlfriend or boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
I think I think that when once you first off,
I think that once you guys are together, and if
you're together and you're not going to see other people
you're together, you don't have to go. It's not like
gasking somebody to marry you.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
I don't think.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
I think it's like, will you date me? That sounds
like such a middle school thing to do to me.
Speaker 5 (02:24):
It does, But I still want to have that conversation
of what we are.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
We need really clear, very clear understanding, because God forbid,
something happens and then they're like, oh.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
We weren't really together, right, cooking up? Do your parents
know lydia?
Speaker 4 (02:39):
My mom knows, but my dad doesn't know, and his
family dagging a feel. I don't think he's going to
be too happy. Yeah, just because of the on and
off stuff like. That's also why I didn't say anything,
because it's like when you're on and off with someone
so many times, everyone arounds you around you gets exhausted
as right, They're like, we don't want to hear about
this anymore.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
So I thought, let me.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
Just take some time think about what we're doing first
and then go from there.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
So did his timeline? Did he change this idea of
the timeline? Because I know it is important to you
to get married, you want to start a family, and
if he wasn't into that, something must have changed.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
So during the time that we were apart, I think
he really realized, you know, how much I meant to him,
and I realized that too, with dating other people, this
is just the person that I love and Mojo, I
feel like you've always known that. Yeah, he is somebody
that I love. I've loved him for a really long time,
and he's someone who I've always wanted to be with.
I do think it took more time for him to
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realize that he wanted to be with me.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Is no.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
I Well, I was going to ask, what about the sister?
Is his sister okay with us? Because he's got to
get she.
Speaker 6 (03:42):
Knows what's the sister.
Speaker 7 (03:44):
Sorry.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
When they were together before, the sister was not.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Her friends. Her friends weren't really a fan of me.
I think there was some jealousy there. I'm going to
be straight up with that.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
I think that, you know, maybe they had some feelings.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Towards one of the friends.
Speaker 8 (04:01):
Did.
Speaker 9 (04:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
I mean they listened to the show and they would
send certain bits to you know, other people and talk
about me, and it came back to me.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
So all right, I want to ask the question I got.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
I got to do a solicit to the listeners because
I would like them to participate in this topic. I
would like to ask who hit a boyfriend the longest?
I think that could be one of them. We get
to ask that question, like how long did you hide?
And usually when you're hiding, you're hiding an axe. It's
probably for a reason. Why were you hiding the axe
from everybody else? Eight four four Mojo Live eight four
(04:31):
four six six five six five four eight. I actually
like this guy. I like him because I think I
because you like him. I think that's probably it me.
I've met him, honestly only I think maybe once or
twice Lydia, I think twice, Right, I met.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Him one time, didn't I? Did?
Speaker 1 (04:49):
I meant him at your house once or I can't
remember if it was in your house? And then I
met him at the what was the Middle Eastern restaurant
we were at that one time for.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
The shindig? Yeah, the shindign.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
He was there.
Speaker 6 (05:01):
He was there that night of your graduation party.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Yeah, with a sister.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (05:04):
Did I meet him?
Speaker 10 (05:05):
Yeah, it's a nice guy. I like him like that.
I met him one time at a concert. But this
is the problem when you have friends to get their
heartbroken or go through situations where you don't see them
in the best light, and the relationship is the reason
why they're affected in a negative way. Because now I'm like,
why are we dealing with this dude? I don't see
you at your worst with him.
Speaker 6 (05:23):
I'm like, bruh, I know it's okay. So that's and
Lydia is this That's where I am too.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
I feel like I need and I'm very protective of you, Lydia,
and you know this and that. So I am trying,
like I want to be so happy for you, but
I feel like I need to get over the the
like I know, I feel like I know some stuff
that I don't like still, so like I personally need
to get over that.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
This is because I feel like, yeah, this is why
you if you're fighting with a boyfriend or girlfriend or
husband or my case, wife, you don't tell people close
to you you guys are fighting.
Speaker 5 (05:56):
I know you're a smart girl, Lydia, and you're you're
not going to put yourself in a situation like you
know would turn out bad or whatever. So I know
that you're being very cautious moving forward, and I applaud
you for that, but I feel like I'm in Kevin's bowl.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Was like, okay, I need to When Chelsea and I
had our last you know, bad time, I talked to
my family a little bit, and I have a sister
that was not really nice to Chelsea for a little bit,
you know, And uh, it was because she was trying
to be protective sister to me. Montana, what's going on?
Speaker 7 (06:26):
Okay, so he's my husband now, but I hit him
when we were going through a court case. Nobody knew
that we were still seeing each other throughout the whole
court case.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
What was the craziest hiding thing that you had liked?
Was he ever in your house and you had family
come over and you had to like tell him to
stay in the room, bet and.
Speaker 7 (06:49):
My probation officer came over.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
You had to hide him from the probation officer, which
is bad. Where did you hide him at exactly?
Speaker 11 (07:00):
He was under the me.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Thank god, he's not my size. Oh my god, that's crazy. Hey,
what's up, D. How you doing?
Speaker 11 (07:12):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (07:13):
Good morning, Good morning D.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
You kept not one, but two a two year relationship
from somebody?
Speaker 11 (07:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (07:21):
Well, so I dated this guy for two years.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
Oh but so the first.
Speaker 11 (07:26):
Year I kept it a secret because my parents didn't
think I should date as a single mother.
Speaker 7 (07:32):
Yeah, so I didn't tell anyone in my family, and
every time my daughter went to her dad's house is when.
Speaker 9 (07:39):
I saw my boyfriend.
Speaker 7 (07:42):
And then after a year, obviously I started telling people
that we were dating.
Speaker 12 (07:46):
But it was really weird because they were like, oh.
Speaker 7 (07:49):
How long hadn't been going out?
Speaker 10 (07:50):
And I was.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Wow, Yeah, I was gonna say, how do you celebrate anniversaries?
Like that would have been the weirdest thing with Lydia. Of
all of a sudden, Lydia's like, I'm going out on
our five month anniversary. Of like five month anniversary, I
thought you just started dating gas station guy again.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Never had an anniversary.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Because so much secretive stuff going on. Brie, what's up?
Speaker 9 (08:13):
Brie? Hi?
Speaker 3 (08:15):
How are you good? Aren't you happy for Lydia?
Speaker 5 (08:19):
I am?
Speaker 12 (08:20):
I mean whatever makes her happy. I feel like, as
a woman, you Hi have that choice.
Speaker 13 (08:24):
To go back as many times as you want.
Speaker 11 (08:26):
I'm just getting that's terrible advice.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
I say, as long as there's no physical or mental abuse,
I say, go for it.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Yeah, what's up.
Speaker 12 (08:36):
Yeah, well mine was mental and clearly you're going to
understand why because I'm you know, so, my daughter's dad
and I were dating for like one month. I got pregnant,
he bounced, I didn't hear from him. All of a sudden,
he came back saying I want to be a dad again.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
Blah blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 12 (08:54):
I hit that relationship, Andy did it again.
Speaker 11 (08:58):
So sometimes don't go back.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Well okay, so yeah you you, you, by the way,
need to uh you need to stay away from from
all that all that drama.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
That's not good.
Speaker 12 (09:12):
Oh yeah, he's completely blocked and.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Yeah, we're good.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Hold on, let me grab Kayleie Kaylee, are either Kaylee?
Speaker 9 (09:22):
I'm here, Hi, Kaylee.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
What do you think of Lydia's situation? Here? Kaylee?
Speaker 11 (09:28):
Well, I had two comments. Part one. I lost my
fiance last year to cancer, and I guess my thoughts
on it are is that you get very few opportunities
in life to find that deep seated love. And if
she's been feeling it and hasn't stopped thinking about him
for all this time, my vote is to tell of
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what people think it is your life, Get that love, girl, yeah,
you only get one life.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
That's beautiful. That's beautiful. We're sorry to hear about your fiance.
That's awful. That's just that horrible.
Speaker 11 (10:01):
You well, yeah, I mean it's definitely something that's drastically
impacted my life. But you know, I guess my second
comment to this was, I actually do have a new boyfriend.
Then a lot of people with opinions about that.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
So are you keeping him secret because you don't want
people thinking you're moving on too fast?
Speaker 11 (10:24):
I'm you know, initially I did have that that feeling,
but now we've been very open and very public, like
I post him on my socials and like he's absolutely amazing.
He truly is. And on the side, no, it is
still okay to ask a girl to be your girlfriend.
Because I am thirty five. My boyfriend is now forty
(10:45):
seven and he asked me directly to be his girlfriend. Yea,
that's still of things.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Yeah, no, I agree, Yeah, I disagree on that one,
But that's okay.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
I think, you know, but I think that you guys
are dating. You guys are dating.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
I think it's good you guys is as long as
you know there's not other people in there, you guys
can take that as dating, and I'm happy to see
that you're doing well. That's good for you. Get up
on that horse again. Okay, ride that thing absolutely, hold on.
I'm sorry I disconnected by it from you. I didn't
know what you're gonna say. But Kelly also, Kelly also
says that you have to have the exclusive talk.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
Is that right, Kelly, Yes, you.
Speaker 13 (11:22):
Have to have the exclusive talk, especially with Lydia knowing
what she wants and he knows. I mean I remember
hearing about their breaking up last time.
Speaker 8 (11:33):
He knows what she wants.
Speaker 13 (11:34):
So as long as he's on board.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
With it, maybe he should call me and do it
on the show. What do you think?
Speaker 9 (11:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 13 (11:43):
I think he should. But then we can really have conversations. Yeah,
you know, yeah, he for sure, especially knowing her family,
he for sure needs to do that. I mean, my
husband and I broke up in a one till eight.
Speaker 8 (12:00):
Well, he wasn't my husband, he was my boyfriend.
Speaker 13 (12:02):
We broke up from one, got together back together.
Speaker 8 (12:04):
In nine, but I moved from Michigan back to California,
and so it took a lot before I could tell
my parents that we were dating again, and he had to.
Speaker 13 (12:15):
Come to my parents and say these are my intentions
and I will not do what I did, you know
which after one?
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Yeah, so yeah, maybe Lydia's gas station guy needs to
sit down with me and her dad at the same time.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I think he would.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
That would be kind of fun, wouldn't it your your
real dad and your your work.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
Dad sit down. I'd be like sitting there, going, George,
I don't know what do you say?
Speaker 9 (12:41):
George?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
Can you understand what?
Speaker 3 (12:43):
Should should we take them out back?
Speaker 1 (12:46):
All of a sudden, they're speaking cald into each other,
and I'm like, going, I don't understand a word of
what you guys are saying right now?
Speaker 3 (12:53):
What's up? Barbara?
Speaker 9 (12:55):
Hi?
Speaker 7 (12:55):
How are you?
Speaker 3 (12:57):
What's going on?
Speaker 1 (12:58):
You wanted to make a comment on Lydia's situation and
why Lydia's uh boyfriend's sister's friends didn't like Lydia.
Speaker 9 (13:08):
Yes? Yeah, is it a possibility that he may have
had sex with one of her friends.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
And I don't like her he didn't.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
Let's not go there.
Speaker 4 (13:21):
I mean, I can see what you're saying, because that
could have been a theory, but.
Speaker 9 (13:25):
Not siblings always talk to their friends or try to
talk to their friends first, or maybe he just you know,
may have had sex with one of the friends.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
I never told them would that, that would not.
Speaker 6 (13:39):
You know what, at this point, past is in the past.
We're moving forward. We're only looking forward.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
He probably no, uh, he told you that didn't happen, Lydia.
Speaker 4 (13:53):
Oh, that was never even a thought. He wouldn't touch
her with the tom football.
Speaker 9 (13:58):
My god, all right on a common cisere No we did.
Speaker 3 (14:03):
Actually yeah, oh all right.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
By the way, by the way, we've just put some
kind of thing in the mix here right now. I
don't know it's gonna I don't want to cause drama.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
For you, Lydia. Let's let's just who cares.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
It's fine.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
We'll just have Lydia happy with gas station guy. We're
Lydia is going to do a topic this morning, and
this is one of those topics where you know that
Lydia is going to probably meant to start talking and
I'm going to ask her a bunch of questions and
she's going to feel like really nervous.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Isn't that all the time though?
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Pretty much?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
But this one deals with the fact that Lydia, again,
and this is the second or third time I think
in the time that Lydia has been our executive producer,
has kept a relationship from all of us she is
secretly dating, but this time way to hear who she's dating, Lydia.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
Okay, So for the past month, I've been seeing an
ex of mine and as we know, I've been on
and off with gas station guy for probably like three years,
three or four years, and we kind of rekindled something
last month when I saw him at church, and it's
been kind of a good thing ever since. And I
wanted to wait to tell all of you because my
(00:50):
best friend and my mom didn't know for some time.
And this past weekend he had spent some time with
me and my best friend at church. We had a
church event and it went really well well, so I
thought I could let more people know about it.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Gas Station guy is back.
Speaker 5 (01:05):
He is, Yeah, So remind everybody why you broke up
with him in the first place.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Well, he was breaking up with me because he didn't
see fit and oh he's getting married.
Speaker 6 (01:17):
That's right.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
He didn't know if he could match my timeline, and
we separated and I dated other people. He probably saw
other people during that time. I'm not really sure about
a full relationship because he told me he hasn't been
full on dating anybody. But now we are an item,
but we're not in a relationship because he has not
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asked me. He doesn't really think that asking So what.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Do you get? What do you guys call each other?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Then we don't call each other anything.
Speaker 6 (01:45):
You're just hanging out at this point, just gas station game.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Yeah, but we're like exclusive, Oh exclusive friends?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Can you be exclusive friends? No, because he's not really
a boyfriend, you said, right, because he hasn't asked you.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
So he has the.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Same and said, is you mojo that he doesn't think
that he has to ask a girl in their late
twenties to be their girlfriend or boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
I think I think that when once you first off,
I think that once you guys are together, and if
you're together and you're not going to see other people
you're together, you don't have to go. It's not like
gasking somebody to marry you.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
I don't think.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
I think it's like, will you date me? That sounds
like such a middle school thing to do to me.
Speaker 5 (02:24):
It does, But I still want to have that conversation
of what we are.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
We need really clear, very clear understanding, because God forbid,
something happens and then they're like, oh.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
We weren't really together, right, cooking up? Do your parents
know lydia?
Speaker 4 (02:39):
My mom knows, but my dad doesn't know, and his
family dagging a feel. I don't think he's going to
be too happy. Yeah, just because of the on and
off stuff like. That's also why I didn't say anything,
because it's like when you're on and off with someone
so many times, everyone arounds you around you gets exhausted
as right, They're like, we don't want to hear about
this anymore.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
So I thought, let me.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
Just take some time think about what we're doing first
and then go from there.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
So did his timeline? Did he change this idea of
the timeline? Because I know it is important to you
to get married, you want to start a family, and
if he wasn't into that, something must have changed.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
So during the time that we were apart, I think
he really realized, you know, how much I meant to him,
and I realized that too, with dating other people, this
is just the person that I love and Mojo, I
feel like you've always known that. Yeah, he is somebody
that I love. I've loved him for a really long time,
and he's someone who I've always wanted to be with.
I do think it took more time for him to
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realize that he wanted to be with me.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Is no.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
I Well, I was going to ask, what about the sister?
Is his sister okay with us? Because he's got to
get she.
Speaker 6 (03:42):
Knows what's the sister.
Speaker 7 (03:44):
Sorry.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
When they were together before, the sister was not.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Her friends. Her friends weren't really a fan of me.
I think there was some jealousy there. I'm going to
be straight up with that.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
I think that, you know, maybe they had some feelings.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Towards one of the friends.
Speaker 8 (04:01):
Did.
Speaker 9 (04:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
I mean they listened to the show and they would
send certain bits to you know, other people and talk
about me, and it came back to me.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
So all right, I want to ask the question I got.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
I got to do a solicit to the listeners because
I would like them to participate in this topic. I
would like to ask who hit a boyfriend the longest?
I think that could be one of them. We get
to ask that question, like how long did you hide?
And usually when you're hiding, you're hiding an axe. It's
probably for a reason. Why were you hiding the axe
from everybody else? Eight four four Mojo Live eight four
(04:31):
four six six five six five four eight. I actually
like this guy. I like him because I think I
because you like him. I think that's probably it me.
I've met him, honestly only I think maybe once or
twice Lydia, I think twice, Right, I met.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Him one time, didn't I? Did?
Speaker 1 (04:49):
I meant him at your house once or I can't
remember if it was in your house? And then I
met him at the what was the Middle Eastern restaurant
we were at that one time for.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
The shindig? Yeah, the shindign.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
He was there.
Speaker 6 (05:01):
He was there that night of your graduation party.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Yeah, with a sister.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (05:04):
Did I meet him?
Speaker 10 (05:05):
Yeah, it's a nice guy. I like him like that.
I met him one time at a concert. But this
is the problem when you have friends to get their
heartbroken or go through situations where you don't see them
in the best light, and the relationship is the reason
why they're affected in a negative way. Because now I'm like,
why are we dealing with this dude? I don't see
you at your worst with him.
Speaker 6 (05:23):
I'm like, bruh, I know it's okay. So that's and
Lydia is this That's where I am too.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
I feel like I need and I'm very protective of you, Lydia,
and you know this and that. So I am trying,
like I want to be so happy for you, but
I feel like I need to get over the the
like I know, I feel like I know some stuff
that I don't like still, so like I personally need
to get over that.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
This is because I feel like, yeah, this is why
you if you're fighting with a boyfriend or girlfriend or
husband or my case, wife, you don't tell people close
to you you guys are fighting.
Speaker 5 (05:56):
I know you're a smart girl, Lydia, and you're you're
not going to put yourself in a situation like you
know would turn out bad or whatever. So I know
that you're being very cautious moving forward, and I applaud
you for that, but I feel like I'm in Kevin's bowl.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Was like, okay, I need to When Chelsea and I
had our last you know, bad time, I talked to
my family a little bit, and I have a sister
that was not really nice to Chelsea for a little bit,
you know, And uh, it was because she was trying
to be protective sister to me. Montana, what's going on?
Speaker 7 (06:26):
Okay, so he's my husband now, but I hit him
when we were going through a court case. Nobody knew
that we were still seeing each other throughout the whole
court case.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
What was the craziest hiding thing that you had liked?
Was he ever in your house and you had family
come over and you had to like tell him to
stay in the room, bet and.
Speaker 7 (06:49):
My probation officer came over.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
You had to hide him from the probation officer, which
is bad. Where did you hide him at exactly?
Speaker 11 (07:00):
He was under the me.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Thank god, he's not my size. Oh my god, that's crazy. Hey,
what's up, D. How you doing?
Speaker 11 (07:12):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (07:13):
Good morning, Good morning D.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
You kept not one, but two a two year relationship
from somebody?
Speaker 11 (07:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (07:21):
Well, so I dated this guy for two years.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
Oh but so the first.
Speaker 11 (07:26):
Year I kept it a secret because my parents didn't
think I should date as a single mother.
Speaker 7 (07:32):
Yeah, so I didn't tell anyone in my family, and
every time my daughter went to her dad's house is when.
Speaker 9 (07:39):
I saw my boyfriend.
Speaker 7 (07:42):
And then after a year, obviously I started telling people
that we were dating.
Speaker 12 (07:46):
But it was really weird because they were like, oh.
Speaker 7 (07:49):
How long hadn't been going out?
Speaker 10 (07:50):
And I was.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Wow, Yeah, I was gonna say, how do you celebrate anniversaries?
Like that would have been the weirdest thing with Lydia. Of
all of a sudden, Lydia's like, I'm going out on
our five month anniversary. Of like five month anniversary, I
thought you just started dating gas station guy again.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Never had an anniversary.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Because so much secretive stuff going on. Brie, what's up?
Speaker 9 (08:13):
Brie? Hi?
Speaker 3 (08:15):
How are you good? Aren't you happy for Lydia?
Speaker 5 (08:19):
I am?
Speaker 12 (08:20):
I mean whatever makes her happy. I feel like, as
a woman, you Hi have that choice.
Speaker 13 (08:24):
To go back as many times as you want.
Speaker 11 (08:26):
I'm just getting that's terrible advice.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
I say, as long as there's no physical or mental abuse,
I say, go for it.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Yeah, what's up.
Speaker 12 (08:36):
Yeah, well mine was mental and clearly you're going to
understand why because I'm you know, so, my daughter's dad
and I were dating for like one month. I got pregnant,
he bounced, I didn't hear from him. All of a sudden,
he came back saying I want to be a dad again.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
Blah blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 12 (08:54):
I hit that relationship, Andy did it again.
Speaker 11 (08:58):
So sometimes don't go back.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Well okay, so yeah you you, you, by the way,
need to uh you need to stay away from from
all that all that drama.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
That's not good.
Speaker 12 (09:12):
Oh yeah, he's completely blocked and.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Yeah, we're good.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Hold on, let me grab Kayleie Kaylee, are either Kaylee?
Speaker 9 (09:22):
I'm here, Hi, Kaylee.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
What do you think of Lydia's situation? Here? Kaylee?
Speaker 11 (09:28):
Well, I had two comments. Part one. I lost my
fiance last year to cancer, and I guess my thoughts
on it are is that you get very few opportunities
in life to find that deep seated love. And if
she's been feeling it and hasn't stopped thinking about him
for all this time, my vote is to tell of
(09:50):
what people think it is your life, Get that love, girl, yeah,
you only get one life.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
That's beautiful. That's beautiful. We're sorry to hear about your fiance.
That's awful. That's just that horrible.
Speaker 11 (10:01):
You well, yeah, I mean it's definitely something that's drastically
impacted my life. But you know, I guess my second
comment to this was, I actually do have a new boyfriend.
Then a lot of people with opinions about that.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
So are you keeping him secret because you don't want
people thinking you're moving on too fast?
Speaker 11 (10:24):
I'm you know, initially I did have that that feeling,
but now we've been very open and very public, like
I post him on my socials and like he's absolutely amazing.
He truly is. And on the side, no, it is
still okay to ask a girl to be your girlfriend.
Because I am thirty five. My boyfriend is now forty
(10:45):
seven and he asked me directly to be his girlfriend. Yea,
that's still of things.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Yeah, no, I agree, Yeah, I disagree on that one,
But that's okay.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
I think, you know, but I think that you guys
are dating. You guys are dating.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
I think it's good you guys is as long as
you know there's not other people in there, you guys
can take that as dating, and I'm happy to see
that you're doing well. That's good for you. Get up
on that horse again. Okay, ride that thing absolutely, hold on.
I'm sorry I disconnected by it from you. I didn't
know what you're gonna say. But Kelly also, Kelly also
says that you have to have the exclusive talk.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
Is that right, Kelly, Yes, you.
Speaker 13 (11:22):
Have to have the exclusive talk, especially with Lydia knowing
what she wants and he knows. I mean I remember
hearing about their breaking up last time.
Speaker 8 (11:33):
He knows what she wants.
Speaker 13 (11:34):
So as long as he's on board.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
With it, maybe he should call me and do it
on the show. What do you think?
Speaker 9 (11:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 13 (11:43):
I think he should. But then we can really have conversations. Yeah,
you know, yeah, he for sure, especially knowing her family,
he for sure needs to do that. I mean, my
husband and I broke up in a one till eight.
Speaker 8 (12:00):
Well, he wasn't my husband, he was my boyfriend.
Speaker 13 (12:02):
We broke up from one, got together back together.
Speaker 8 (12:04):
In nine, but I moved from Michigan back to California,
and so it took a lot before I could tell
my parents that we were dating again, and he had to.
Speaker 13 (12:15):
Come to my parents and say these are my intentions
and I will not do what I did, you know
which after one?
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Yeah, so yeah, maybe Lydia's gas station guy needs to
sit down with me and her dad at the same time.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I think he would.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
That would be kind of fun, wouldn't it your your
real dad and your your work.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
Dad sit down. I'd be like sitting there, going, George,
I don't know what do you say?
Speaker 9 (12:41):
George?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
Can you understand what?
Speaker 3 (12:43):
Should should we take them out back?
Speaker 1 (12:46):
All of a sudden, they're speaking cald into each other,
and I'm like, going, I don't understand a word of
what you guys are saying right now?
Speaker 3 (12:53):
What's up? Barbara?
Speaker 9 (12:55):
Hi?
Speaker 7 (12:55):
How are you?
Speaker 3 (12:57):
What's going on?
Speaker 1 (12:58):
You wanted to make a comment on Lydia's situation and
why Lydia's uh boyfriend's sister's friends didn't like Lydia.
Speaker 9 (13:08):
Yes? Yeah, is it a possibility that he may have
had sex with one of her friends.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
And I don't like her he didn't.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
Let's not go there.
Speaker 4 (13:21):
I mean, I can see what you're saying, because that
could have been a theory, but.
Speaker 9 (13:25):
Not siblings always talk to their friends or try to
talk to their friends first, or maybe he just you know,
may have had sex with one of the friends.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
I never told them would that, that would not.
Speaker 6 (13:39):
You know what, at this point, past is in the past.
We're moving forward. We're only looking forward.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
He probably no, uh, he told you that didn't happen, Lydia.
Speaker 4 (13:53):
Oh, that was never even a thought. He wouldn't touch
her with the tom football.
Speaker 9 (13:58):
My god, all right on a common cisere No we did.
Speaker 3 (14:03):
Actually yeah, oh all right.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
By the way, by the way, we've just put some
kind of thing in the mix here right now. I
don't know it's gonna I don't want to cause drama.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
For you, Lydia. Let's let's just who cares.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
It's fine.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
We'll just have Lydia happy with gas station guy. We're
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