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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, it is Mojo in the morning, Anna and Shannon, myself,
keV is out today. We've got Lydia, Bianca, Zach. Thank
you guys for being here with us. Anna. So he
doesn't take care of himself? Are we talking about It's
not my man. Let's just be clear when.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
We talk about taking care of himself, are we talking? Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Of course his mind goes there. So I was out
this weekend with a bunch of friends. We were vibing.
We were playing a little DJ round robin, so people
were picking different songs and every time it got to
one of my guy friends, he was picking the mouse
depressing music. I'm like, what the heck is going on?
And he's like, I'm in my feels. The girl I
was talking to just ended it with me. I'm like, okay,
(00:45):
what's going on. Let's talk about it then, let's let's
get you feeling better. He's like, I've never been told
this before, but she says I don't take care of
myself enough. And I'm like, oh, that's interesting because he
he's not like a terrible looking man, like I do
think dressing right now.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
I do think Let's describe.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Let's describe it he's not a terrible looking man, but
you do think he would.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
I think he could dress better. I'm gonna send you guys.
I think he could dress better. I think maybe he
could keep up with his hair a little more. But
like he's a very successful.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Man with his ex girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Yeah, but like to me, I don't know if is
that enough. I mean, I guess it's not attracted to him,
but she she cut it off with him because.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
She cut it off because because he wasn't uh, he
wasn't a trophy enough for her.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
I guess.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
Or Okay, but it might not even be that. What
if it's like he doesn't brush his teeth, he doesn't
wear and he doesn't shower regularly. You know, maybe it's
that that he truly doesn't take care of himself.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
I would understand if it was that, because I don't
think some of those you can fix. But like this,
this man has money. Take him to the store and
buy him some clothes, or like he can get a
hair cut, all.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
That's easily easily. The guy we talk in hair hold
like forties.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
So he's forties and he doesn't go get haircuts.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
He doesn't dress nice clothes.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Hey, this man's name on air.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Please are you gonna like show us a picture though?
Speaker 5 (02:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
I just said he you did, Okay, I want to
see what he looks like. All right, hold on a second,
I'm gonna check this out.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
I mean you'll see him and like, yeah he probably
could oh.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Yeah yeah yeah, yeah. He doesn't.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
This a r guy.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
He's a super nice guy, very successful.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
You know what he reminds me of. You know when
you see like those people that rescue dogs and they
take them in off the streets and they're like very
very overgrown, and then they.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
He looks like a dog groomer and then they.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
Look all spiffy and cute.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Yeah, like you do that with him.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
So he's he's a big dude. First off, this is
this is my favorite, the picture of him. Yeah, eating
sloppily eating a burger.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
He's cute, he could he he could be cuted.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
And personality, good job Shannon's being nice.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
He ain't cute.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
So where do we draw the line?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Because first off, what does he got hiding in his beard?
How much? Uh? When's the last time he's shampooed that thing?
Oh my god, he doesn't take care of him. Are
there any are there any listeners that have ever dated
somebody and they didn't take care of themselves.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Like in a hygiene kind of way. Well yeah, or
they they were horrible, they were horrible dressed.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
You finally were fed up, or maybe you're currently with
him and you're almost fed up with the way that
they are where you're like, I just want somebody that's
clean and nice, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
I'm not gonna lie, Like after that happened, I was
thinking in my head, like why doesn't he just go
get a haircut or something?
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Maybe he likes it? Like this, Are you attracted to
this guy?
Speaker 3 (03:49):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
I mean, but but like would you be attracted if
you didn't know him like by looks?
Speaker 5 (03:53):
Or no?
Speaker 3 (03:54):
I do like his personality, so he's got okay just
by looks? Yeah, but wouldn't you to see the hair?
I would need to see something done? And the clothes
are huge to me, Like I'm just big into guys
that have a really good style and like wear cool
shoes and stuff. And he doesn't do that.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
But what kind of shoes as he usually were?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Like air Force ones?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Okay, well are they clean or no? Yeah they are
they are clean of course? All right?
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Eight four four Mojo Live, or if you've got something
to add to this topic, or maybe you want to
give a comment on this guy that is having a
hard time keeping his girl because he doesn't take care
of himself, text call me to nine five five zero zero.
I think we've all gone through well, no, I don't
think you guys have. I've gone through stages where I
didn't take care of myself, and I always wondered why
(04:42):
my wife ever, you know, stayed with me. But I
don't think I ever smelled like I don't think it
ever came down to that. But I do think that
there's times where you just become a fat, sloppy pig.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
I was gonna say, why weren't you taking care of yourself?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
I think I was happy, I think, you know what
I mean.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Like, it's one of those things where I think that
when you're when you get comfortable, comfortability breeds, you know that.
But then I would look back on it and realize
I probably wasn't as happy as I thought I was.
You know, I probably at that time was going through
something where I was using an abusing myself.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
That's what I'm thinking with this guy, Like, is there
a deeper reason? That he just doesn't care.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Yeah, baby leg Jay is on with us right now?
Speaker 2 (05:22):
How much on the morning misfit? He know I called
baby leg Jay Anna.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Rob doesn't know well because he has got the unit
that's like a baby's leg.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
What's going on? Jay?
Speaker 5 (05:34):
Hey? Hey, how you doing?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Good day?
Speaker 5 (05:36):
Jay?
Speaker 2 (05:36):
What do you think about a guy that doesn't take
care of himself?
Speaker 5 (05:39):
Yeah, the guy folds always look presentable no matter what.
And if you and if y'all in the relationship, each
person is a representative of y'all relationship. Yeah, you get
what I'm saying. So I'm not going to go out
there looking raggedy, and I wouldn't expect her to go
out and look right. Yeah, you know, y'll supposed to
(06:02):
look good, you know, give the people to talk about.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
It does blow me away sometimes when I see a
woman that is out with a guy that is like
either way underdressed or kind of looks a little sloppy,
maybe doesn't have style, And I'm like, God, she must
love this guy for either a his money or his heart.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
I don't know, baby, like j is there ever a
world where a woman might not, you know, be taking
care of herself, but you liked her, so you would
give it a shot and help her take care of herself.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Of course, okay, like of course because because because because
I can.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
Sometimes it depends on a woman as well. If she
if you know, if I look like you know, okay,
let me help her out a little bit or whatnot.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
You know, it might be a good one. Would you
ever be with a woman baby like Jay that smelled
down there?
Speaker 5 (06:54):
Never?
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Okay? Because never?
Speaker 5 (06:57):
You want to know why? Because I'll be down there.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
I will, I get it, I understand it. Uh you know?
Uh well, I I will tell you that. That would
be an awkward conversation to tell somebody. I don't know
if anybody's ever had to. You'll have to call us page.
What's up?
Speaker 5 (07:13):
Hi Mojo?
Speaker 1 (07:14):
First time on time?
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Page Cav's out sick. So you were talking about dating
gross people and I just had to call in. My
ex boyfriend actually ate his iboogers. That's too much, y'all
pull take.
Speaker 5 (07:33):
Up in the morning, take them off and put him
right in his.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Mouse Like.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Great question for you. How long did you stay with
this guy? He's an ex now, but how.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
Long are you did he try to secretly do that
or he just didn't care? That you were watching him
do that. He was open about it.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
He'd pull him off and be like, ooh, this is
a good one and oh my.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
God, it's so gross. Should I be honest with you?
Speaker 1 (07:56):
I'd rather have him eat his eye boogers than his
booger booger, you know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (08:01):
I don't know, Mojo, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
That's pretty wild. What's up, Melissa? Oh? I lost a?
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Lissa oh Alyssa said it was on the callscreen board
that her ex didn't shower or wear deodorant for weeks.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
What did she say? Why they finally broke up? Uh
lydia or did we not get to that point? Breast
smelled so the breath was they? Can I tell you something?
Speaker 1 (08:31):
I know girls and their girls that are friends with
guy friends of mine where the guy's mouths smell so bad,
Like I have some guy friends that have like that
musty helatosis type smell and they're but well, no, I'd
rather have smoke. They literally smell like rotten a hole.
And the guys are good looking guys, like they're way
(08:53):
better looking than I am, but their breath smells like girls. No,
they have girlfriends and I sit there and I want
to myself. I'm like, why are you kissing that guy?
Like they're good, they're beautiful women. I'm like, why are
you doing this? But they're with them, don't know
All right, it is Mojo in the morning, Anna and Shannon, myself,
keV is out today. We've got Lydia, Bianca, Zach. Thank
you guys for being here with us. Anna. So he
doesn't take care of himself? Are we talking about It's
not my man. Let's just be clear when.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
We talk about taking care of himself, are we talking? Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Of course his mind goes there. So I was out
this weekend with a bunch of friends. We were vibing.
We were playing a little DJ round robin, so people
were picking different songs and every time it got to
one of my guy friends, he was picking the mouse
depressing music. I'm like, what the heck is going on?
And he's like, I'm in my feels. The girl I
was talking to just ended it with me. I'm like, okay,
(00:45):
what's going on. Let's talk about it then, let's let's
get you feeling better. He's like, I've never been told
this before, but she says I don't take care of
myself enough. And I'm like, oh, that's interesting because he
he's not like a terrible looking man, like I do
think dressing right now.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
I do think Let's describe.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Let's describe it he's not a terrible looking man, but
you do think he would.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
I think he could dress better. I'm gonna send you guys.
I think he could dress better. I think maybe he
could keep up with his hair a little more. But
like he's a very successful.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Man with his ex girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Yeah, but like to me, I don't know if is
that enough. I mean, I guess it's not attracted to him,
but she she cut it off with him because.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
She cut it off because because he wasn't uh, he
wasn't a trophy enough for her.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
I guess.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
Or Okay, but it might not even be that. What
if it's like he doesn't brush his teeth, he doesn't
wear and he doesn't shower regularly. You know, maybe it's
that that he truly doesn't take care of himself.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
I would understand if it was that, because I don't
think some of those you can fix. But like this,
this man has money. Take him to the store and
buy him some clothes, or like he can get a
hair cut, all.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
That's easily easily. The guy we talk in hair hold
like forties.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
So he's forties and he doesn't go get haircuts.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
He doesn't dress nice clothes.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Hey, this man's name on air.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Please are you gonna like show us a picture though?
Speaker 5 (02:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
I just said he you did, Okay, I want to
see what he looks like. All right, hold on a second,
I'm gonna check this out.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
I mean you'll see him and like, yeah he probably
could oh.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Yeah yeah yeah, yeah. He doesn't.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
This a r guy.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
He's a super nice guy, very successful.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
You know what he reminds me of. You know when
you see like those people that rescue dogs and they
take them in off the streets and they're like very
very overgrown, and then they.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
He looks like a dog groomer and then they.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
Look all spiffy and cute.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Yeah, like you do that with him.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
So he's he's a big dude. First off, this is
this is my favorite, the picture of him. Yeah, eating
sloppily eating a burger.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
He's cute, he could he he could be cuted.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
And personality, good job Shannon's being nice.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
He ain't cute.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
So where do we draw the line?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Because first off, what does he got hiding in his beard?
How much? Uh? When's the last time he's shampooed that thing?
Oh my god, he doesn't take care of him. Are
there any are there any listeners that have ever dated
somebody and they didn't take care of themselves.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Like in a hygiene kind of way. Well yeah, or
they they were horrible, they were horrible dressed.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
You finally were fed up, or maybe you're currently with
him and you're almost fed up with the way that
they are where you're like, I just want somebody that's
clean and nice, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
I'm not gonna lie, Like after that happened, I was
thinking in my head, like why doesn't he just go
get a haircut or something?
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Maybe he likes it? Like this, Are you attracted to
this guy?
Speaker 3 (03:49):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
I mean, but but like would you be attracted if
you didn't know him like by looks?
Speaker 5 (03:53):
Or no?
Speaker 3 (03:54):
I do like his personality, so he's got okay just
by looks? Yeah, but wouldn't you to see the hair?
I would need to see something done? And the clothes
are huge to me, Like I'm just big into guys
that have a really good style and like wear cool
shoes and stuff. And he doesn't do that.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
But what kind of shoes as he usually were?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Like air Force ones?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Okay, well are they clean or no? Yeah they are
they are clean of course? All right?
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Eight four four Mojo Live, or if you've got something
to add to this topic, or maybe you want to
give a comment on this guy that is having a
hard time keeping his girl because he doesn't take care
of himself, text call me to nine five five zero zero.
I think we've all gone through well, no, I don't
think you guys have. I've gone through stages where I
didn't take care of myself, and I always wondered why
(04:42):
my wife ever, you know, stayed with me. But I
don't think I ever smelled like I don't think it
ever came down to that. But I do think that
there's times where you just become a fat, sloppy pig.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
I was gonna say, why weren't you taking care of yourself?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
I think I was happy, I think, you know what
I mean.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Like, it's one of those things where I think that
when you're when you get comfortable, comfortability breeds, you know that.
But then I would look back on it and realize
I probably wasn't as happy as I thought I was.
You know, I probably at that time was going through
something where I was using an abusing myself.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
That's what I'm thinking with this guy, Like, is there
a deeper reason? That he just doesn't care.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Yeah, baby leg Jay is on with us right now?
Speaker 2 (05:22):
How much on the morning misfit? He know I called
baby leg Jay Anna.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Rob doesn't know well because he has got the unit
that's like a baby's leg.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
What's going on? Jay?
Speaker 5 (05:34):
Hey? Hey, how you doing?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Good day?
Speaker 5 (05:36):
Jay?
Speaker 2 (05:36):
What do you think about a guy that doesn't take
care of himself?
Speaker 5 (05:39):
Yeah, the guy folds always look presentable no matter what.
And if you and if y'all in the relationship, each
person is a representative of y'all relationship. Yeah, you get
what I'm saying. So I'm not going to go out
there looking raggedy, and I wouldn't expect her to go
out and look right. Yeah, you know, y'll supposed to
(06:02):
look good, you know, give the people to talk about.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
It does blow me away sometimes when I see a
woman that is out with a guy that is like
either way underdressed or kind of looks a little sloppy,
maybe doesn't have style, And I'm like, God, she must
love this guy for either a his money or his heart.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
I don't know, baby, like j is there ever a
world where a woman might not, you know, be taking
care of herself, but you liked her, so you would
give it a shot and help her take care of herself.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Of course, okay, like of course because because because because
I can.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
Sometimes it depends on a woman as well. If she
if you know, if I look like you know, okay,
let me help her out a little bit or whatnot.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
You know, it might be a good one. Would you
ever be with a woman baby like Jay that smelled
down there?
Speaker 5 (06:54):
Never?
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Okay? Because never?
Speaker 5 (06:57):
You want to know why? Because I'll be down there.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
I will, I get it, I understand it. Uh you know?
Uh well, I I will tell you that. That would
be an awkward conversation to tell somebody. I don't know
if anybody's ever had to. You'll have to call us page.
What's up?
Speaker 5 (07:13):
Hi Mojo?
Speaker 1 (07:14):
First time on time?
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Page Cav's out sick. So you were talking about dating
gross people and I just had to call in. My
ex boyfriend actually ate his iboogers. That's too much, y'all
pull take.
Speaker 5 (07:33):
Up in the morning, take them off and put him
right in his.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Mouse Like.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Great question for you. How long did you stay with
this guy? He's an ex now, but how.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
Long are you did he try to secretly do that
or he just didn't care? That you were watching him
do that. He was open about it.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
He'd pull him off and be like, ooh, this is
a good one and oh my.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
God, it's so gross. Should I be honest with you?
Speaker 1 (07:56):
I'd rather have him eat his eye boogers than his
booger booger, you know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (08:01):
I don't know, Mojo, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
That's pretty wild. What's up, Melissa? Oh? I lost a?
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Lissa oh Alyssa said it was on the callscreen board
that her ex didn't shower or wear deodorant for weeks.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
What did she say? Why they finally broke up? Uh
lydia or did we not get to that point? Breast
smelled so the breath was they? Can I tell you something?
Speaker 1 (08:31):
I know girls and their girls that are friends with
guy friends of mine where the guy's mouths smell so bad,
Like I have some guy friends that have like that
musty helatosis type smell and they're but well, no, I'd
rather have smoke. They literally smell like rotten a hole.
And the guys are good looking guys, like they're way
(08:53):
better looking than I am, but their breath smells like girls. No,
they have girlfriends and I sit there and I want
to myself. I'm like, why are you kissing that guy?
Like they're good, they're beautiful women. I'm like, why are
you doing this? But they're with them, don't know
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