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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, Mojo in the morning show your home of
War of the Roses. Second date update Dirty on the thirty.
This is a salacious title, family Picks with the Mistress.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Okay, so this is something that is happening to a
relative of mine right now. She's going through a really ugly,
messy divorce, poor thing, and her soon to be ex
husband ended up having an affair, and so it's all
just just fresh and confusing for the kids too. They
(00:34):
have three little ones, like little little ones. And on
top of everything that's going on with the divorce and
the holiday and you know, everybody's in therapy, her soon
to be ex husband decided it would be a great
idea if he and his mistress take family holiday photos
(00:56):
with his kids and her kids and post them all
over social media.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
Wow, he's not divorced yet.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Really, Well, the divorce has been going on for since
the spring.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
So she found out about the affair, I'm assuming yes,
just prior or longer than that about the affair.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Before they filed for they tried to work things out
and it just he was not willing to leave this woman.
Speaker 5 (01:23):
So is there any reason, like did he tell her, like, Hey,
the kids would really love this or something.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
No, and she I'm trying not to get involved, but
she said that the kids were very uncomfortable during the
photo shoot because the photographer kept calling the mistress cozy
up to Mommy, cozy up, and nobody corrected her.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
That's so awkward, mommy. It's kind of a weird thing
whenever people have an affair and then they stay together
for the family members, like, it's got to be really awkward.
Where if the you know, couple and I don't know
if you're ever in this, you got to call us
up or text us in ninety five five zero zero,
(02:05):
and if you do have a story that relates to
what I'm about to say, you can text call me
and Lydia will put you on. But when two people
have an affair while there's a marriage going on, and
then they stay together in a relationship and you have kids,
the kids are never going to look at that person
as somebody that they have any respect for, absolutely, because
(02:26):
they're going to show they're already probably showing lack of
respected in their dad for doing this, but now there's
even more lack of respect than the woman that knew
that he was married, you know, what I mean, I
think they're going to have a picture is amazing.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
I think my dad was cheating on my mom with
this lady and he got with her after they had
they divorce. I never respect her because, like looking at her,
the side of her was the image of why my
family had broken.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Up, you know what I mean, Like she can't stand
a chance. Yeah, they didn't do any pictures.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Did they do what a family photos and then post
them or And I said to my relative, you can't
control what he does or what he does with the
kids on his time for the most part, unfortunately, And
this sucks.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
And that's why I said, you know, you're.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
At this point, it's probably best because she can see
this woman's stuff. I'm like, just block block so you
don't see it for right now until you need to
have a relationship with her.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
But for your own peace. Insanity.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Sarah commented on this what's going on, Sarah.
Speaker 6 (03:32):
Hi, So to the comment of the relationship with the
kids and the mistress, My kids actually want me to
be friends with mistress, to the point where they were
(03:53):
actually okay with their dad being with both me and
the mistress at the same time.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Oh my gosh, how old are you kids, Sarah ten
and five. So this woman obviously must be doing some
things to suck up to the kids.
Speaker 6 (04:11):
Huh oh absolutely, So.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
The kids obviously are young. I mean, your kids are young.
I wouldn't take it out on your kids that they're
thinking this. They probably just want peace.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
That's what I was going to say. I don't even
know that they understand. They probably want everybody to go here,
get along.
Speaker 6 (04:24):
My ten year old, My ten year old understands, and
she they've had conversations and she has said, you know, Mom,
I just want you to be happy. And I know
that dad makes you happy, and you know, but I
can't share him.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Oh my god. That's well, listen, you should never have to.
And he stepped out with this woman. And how did
he meet her?
Speaker 6 (04:53):
They were apparently high school friends. But I was married
to him for even years and I have never met
her a day in our marriage.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Yeah, well I don't want Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Oh, I disagree with that. You want to know who's around.
You want to meet the person who's around your kids.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
Yeah, yeah, absolutely. I mean I've met her and she's
growing on me, but I could never be friends with
her knowing.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
That she did. She's the reason, well, he's no longer
marriage and in both cases, you know, with Shannon's family member,
the guys were responsible.
Speaker 7 (05:36):
One.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
He shouldn't be out there doing this. But it's amazing
though that they want the kids to get so involved
in this thing. Brie, you were the child of this. Huh, Brie, Hello, Hi,
how you doing? Yes, you were the child of this?
Speaker 8 (05:56):
Yeah. Actually, my parents divorced one. I was like for
seven but my it was because my dad was cheating
with somebody and he ended up marrying her buddy year
after they got divorced, and she's still my stepmom and
this was this is like almost forty years later.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Wow about her?
Speaker 6 (06:18):
Now, Uh, me and her are great.
Speaker 8 (06:21):
It was, it was, it was pretty bumpy for probably
fifteen years or so. Uh, because her youngest was like
eight years older than me.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
So did you guys?
Speaker 8 (06:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:42):
We did? You guys ever, when you were younger? Younger?
Did you guys ever have to do like family photos
with both families?
Speaker 6 (06:50):
No?
Speaker 8 (06:51):
Actually, my mom and my stepmom actually did not meet
to like graduated from college.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Oh my gosh, wow, was it at your graduate? They
m pardon what it was at your graduation?
Speaker 8 (07:05):
They met my college graduation.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Yeah, that's wild.
Speaker 8 (07:10):
Yeah, that they actually mention them in person.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Does your mom now as you are an adult woman,
does your mom like this woman or have cordial conversation
with this woman or does she still think that she's
a homewrecker?
Speaker 8 (07:22):
They, I mean, they don't really, they really don't talk.
I think the maybe handful of times if they've talked,
they I mean, it's they don't really get into conversations.
It's just like a high how you're doing. I don't
I think since so many years have gone by.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
I don't think there's any ill will now or you know,
any hard feelings now.
Speaker 8 (07:42):
But yeah, and my dad worked with her, so with
my stepmom, so.
Speaker 5 (07:49):
Yeah, so it you know, and you know, the the
you know, wedding photos. When my dad and her got married,
I was like eight years old, so that was but
I figured it out pretty quick.
Speaker 8 (08:01):
When I was that young, I had already kind of known.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Nobody told me, but I.
Speaker 6 (08:04):
Kind of figured it out.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
Wow. It's amazing to see how you know, over the years,
it can change things where you guys can actually be
nice with them because obviously they ain't going anywhere, you know. Uh,
And it's too bad that the kids got to get
involved in it. Initial b what's up? Hi, Good morning guys,
your voiceless guys. Good morning. What's going on?
Speaker 8 (08:25):
So?
Speaker 7 (08:26):
When I was like twelve, my mom she was actively
cheating on my dad and she was tacking up on
like vacations and the such with this guy. And like,
I remember being dropped off at like a camp and
(08:47):
turning to my roommate and being like, I think my
mom's cheating on my dad with this guy. She set
us down to tell us that she was dating him,
and I was just like, I know and walked out.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Wow, who did she say at the time? This guy?
Strange guy was that was going on vacations with you? Guys?
Speaker 7 (09:12):
Her friend? You're coming over like every weekend?
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Where was your daddy? My dad worked to night, so
dad was at work. That's crazy, It's amazing. So is
she still with this guy?
Speaker 7 (09:27):
No? He actually messaged me like a couple of years
after they broke up, just like apologizing to me on Facebook.
I started breaking up my family.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
And how old were you at the time.
Speaker 7 (09:41):
At the time that they started dating.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
No, that he messaged you, I was about eighteen.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
How did this affect your relationship with your mom growing up.
Speaker 7 (09:53):
Our relationship is still very strained.
Speaker 6 (09:57):
Wait.
Speaker 7 (09:57):
I woke up in the middle of the night to
her try to leave the house and move in with him.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Wowe man, that's un well. I mean, there's proof on
that one. Har It's not just the guys that are cheating.
The moms are cheating too. So let's not let me
make all guys look bad. Thanks Shannon uh Her busting
cheaters Nicole, Natalie Nicole, what's going on, julian Julianne.
Speaker 9 (10:30):
Oh, yeah, Sid, can you hear me?
Speaker 1 (10:33):
How you doing all right?
Speaker 6 (10:34):
I'm good. Yeah.
Speaker 8 (10:36):
This really struck to my heart because.
Speaker 9 (10:38):
My mom and dad were married twenty seven years and
then they divorced, and really quickly after. He was with
this woman and we think that they were probably dating
for about ten years of my parents' marriage. Yeah, and
then and then so I had to, you know, talk
my mom through a lot of different things, and then
this woman ended up.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Leaving my dad.
Speaker 8 (11:00):
I was saying, exactly.
Speaker 9 (11:01):
Think that was sake to my mom, to my dad,
but I was like, oh, he kind of deserved it,
if you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Yeah, it's wild. In the case with Shannon's family member
and stuff. That guy is not thinking at all about
the long term of his kids and how they're going
to think about him. He's thinking, honestly about just his packer,
you know what I mean, Like he's thinking about what
this woman brings to him excitement wise, and he's trying
(11:28):
to force family on these kids.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
But the time and the timing, like you are not.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
I'm so iicky the whole thing.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
Does a Courton look at something like that and say, like,
would a judge look at that and go, you know what,
that's bad decision making, you know, you.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Know, it's one thing like we've heard these stories from
people who just called of like Okay, if they end
up getting together and getting married down the road, like yeah,
that's your family. Okay, you're going to take family holiday photos.
It's just a timing right now.
Speaker 9 (11:54):
Well, let me just tell you this. My dad got remarried,
but we could never when we had kids, we never
could let her. We could We didn't want them to
say grandma to this lady. Like that's how strange it was,
because it was like this was the woman. And by
the way it was I was in my mid twenties
when the divorce was all happening, and it affected me deeply.
Speaker 8 (12:15):
So I don't care what age. It could be, five
to ten, mid twenties.
Speaker 9 (12:18):
It really does affect, especially all that added to the divorce,
you know, and then the mistress and the remarriage and
oh it was terrible.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
Julianne, thank you so much. I appreciate your call. Yeah,
no tuense, all right, Mojo in the morning,
All right, Mojo in the morning show your home of
War of the Roses. Second date update Dirty on the thirty.
This is a salacious title, family Picks with the Mistress.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Okay, so this is something that is happening to a
relative of mine right now. She's going through a really ugly,
messy divorce, poor thing, and her soon to be ex
husband ended up having an affair, and so it's all
just just fresh and confusing for the kids too. They
(00:34):
have three little ones, like little little ones. And on
top of everything that's going on with the divorce and
the holiday and you know, everybody's in therapy, her soon
to be ex husband decided it would be a great
idea if he and his mistress take family holiday photos
(00:56):
with his kids and her kids and post them all
over social media.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
Wow, he's not divorced yet.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Really, Well, the divorce has been going on for since
the spring.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
So she found out about the affair, I'm assuming yes,
just prior or longer than that about the affair.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Before they filed for they tried to work things out
and it just he was not willing to leave this woman.
Speaker 5 (01:23):
So is there any reason, like did he tell her, like, Hey,
the kids would really love this or something.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
No, and she I'm trying not to get involved, but
she said that the kids were very uncomfortable during the
photo shoot because the photographer kept calling the mistress cozy
up to Mommy, cozy up, and nobody corrected her.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
That's so awkward, mommy. It's kind of a weird thing
whenever people have an affair and then they stay together
for the family members, like, it's got to be really awkward.
Where if the you know, couple and I don't know
if you're ever in this, you got to call us
up or text us in ninety five five zero zero,
(02:05):
and if you do have a story that relates to
what I'm about to say, you can text call me
and Lydia will put you on. But when two people
have an affair while there's a marriage going on, and
then they stay together in a relationship and you have kids,
the kids are never going to look at that person
as somebody that they have any respect for, absolutely, because
(02:26):
they're going to show they're already probably showing lack of
respected in their dad for doing this, but now there's
even more lack of respect than the woman that knew
that he was married, you know, what I mean, I
think they're going to have a picture is amazing.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
I think my dad was cheating on my mom with
this lady and he got with her after they had
they divorce. I never respect her because, like looking at her,
the side of her was the image of why my
family had broken.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Up, you know what I mean, Like she can't stand
a chance. Yeah, they didn't do any pictures.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Did they do what a family photos and then post
them or And I said to my relative, you can't
control what he does or what he does with the
kids on his time for the most part, unfortunately, And
this sucks.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
And that's why I said, you know, you're.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
At this point, it's probably best because she can see
this woman's stuff. I'm like, just block block so you
don't see it for right now until you need to
have a relationship with her.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
But for your own peace. Insanity.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Sarah commented on this what's going on, Sarah.
Speaker 6 (03:32):
Hi, So to the comment of the relationship with the
kids and the mistress, My kids actually want me to
be friends with mistress, to the point where they were
(03:53):
actually okay with their dad being with both me and
the mistress at the same time.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Oh my gosh, how old are you kids, Sarah ten
and five. So this woman obviously must be doing some
things to suck up to the kids.
Speaker 6 (04:11):
Huh oh absolutely, So.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
The kids obviously are young. I mean, your kids are young.
I wouldn't take it out on your kids that they're
thinking this. They probably just want peace.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
That's what I was going to say. I don't even
know that they understand. They probably want everybody to go here,
get along.
Speaker 6 (04:24):
My ten year old, My ten year old understands, and
she they've had conversations and she has said, you know, Mom,
I just want you to be happy. And I know
that dad makes you happy, and you know, but I
can't share him.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Oh my god. That's well, listen, you should never have to.
And he stepped out with this woman. And how did
he meet her?
Speaker 6 (04:53):
They were apparently high school friends. But I was married
to him for even years and I have never met
her a day in our marriage.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Yeah, well I don't want Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Oh, I disagree with that. You want to know who's around.
You want to meet the person who's around your kids.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
Yeah, yeah, absolutely. I mean I've met her and she's
growing on me, but I could never be friends with
her knowing.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
That she did. She's the reason, well, he's no longer
marriage and in both cases, you know, with Shannon's family member,
the guys were responsible.
Speaker 7 (05:36):
One.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
He shouldn't be out there doing this. But it's amazing
though that they want the kids to get so involved
in this thing. Brie, you were the child of this. Huh, Brie, Hello, Hi,
how you doing? Yes, you were the child of this?
Speaker 8 (05:56):
Yeah. Actually, my parents divorced one. I was like for
seven but my it was because my dad was cheating
with somebody and he ended up marrying her buddy year
after they got divorced, and she's still my stepmom and
this was this is like almost forty years later.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Wow about her?
Speaker 6 (06:18):
Now, Uh, me and her are great.
Speaker 8 (06:21):
It was, it was, it was pretty bumpy for probably
fifteen years or so. Uh, because her youngest was like
eight years older than me.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
So did you guys?
Speaker 8 (06:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:42):
We did? You guys ever, when you were younger? Younger?
Did you guys ever have to do like family photos
with both families?
Speaker 6 (06:50):
No?
Speaker 8 (06:51):
Actually, my mom and my stepmom actually did not meet
to like graduated from college.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Oh my gosh, wow, was it at your graduate? They
m pardon what it was at your graduation?
Speaker 8 (07:05):
They met my college graduation.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Yeah, that's wild.
Speaker 8 (07:10):
Yeah, that they actually mention them in person.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Does your mom now as you are an adult woman,
does your mom like this woman or have cordial conversation
with this woman or does she still think that she's
a homewrecker?
Speaker 8 (07:22):
They, I mean, they don't really, they really don't talk.
I think the maybe handful of times if they've talked,
they I mean, it's they don't really get into conversations.
It's just like a high how you're doing. I don't
I think since so many years have gone by.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
I don't think there's any ill will now or you know,
any hard feelings now.
Speaker 8 (07:42):
But yeah, and my dad worked with her, so with
my stepmom, so.
Speaker 5 (07:49):
Yeah, so it you know, and you know, the the
you know, wedding photos. When my dad and her got married,
I was like eight years old, so that was but
I figured it out pretty quick.
Speaker 8 (08:01):
When I was that young, I had already kind of known.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Nobody told me, but I.
Speaker 6 (08:04):
Kind of figured it out.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
Wow. It's amazing to see how you know, over the years,
it can change things where you guys can actually be
nice with them because obviously they ain't going anywhere, you know. Uh,
And it's too bad that the kids got to get
involved in it. Initial b what's up? Hi, Good morning guys,
your voiceless guys. Good morning. What's going on?
Speaker 8 (08:25):
So?
Speaker 7 (08:26):
When I was like twelve, my mom she was actively
cheating on my dad and she was tacking up on
like vacations and the such with this guy. And like,
I remember being dropped off at like a camp and
(08:47):
turning to my roommate and being like, I think my
mom's cheating on my dad with this guy. She set
us down to tell us that she was dating him,
and I was just like, I know and walked out.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Wow, who did she say at the time? This guy?
Strange guy was that was going on vacations with you? Guys?
Speaker 7 (09:12):
Her friend? You're coming over like every weekend?
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Where was your daddy? My dad worked to night, so
dad was at work. That's crazy, It's amazing. So is
she still with this guy?
Speaker 7 (09:27):
No? He actually messaged me like a couple of years
after they broke up, just like apologizing to me on Facebook.
I started breaking up my family.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
And how old were you at the time.
Speaker 7 (09:41):
At the time that they started dating.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
No, that he messaged you, I was about eighteen.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
How did this affect your relationship with your mom growing up.
Speaker 7 (09:53):
Our relationship is still very strained.
Speaker 6 (09:57):
Wait.
Speaker 7 (09:57):
I woke up in the middle of the night to
her try to leave the house and move in with him.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Wowe man, that's un well. I mean, there's proof on
that one. Har It's not just the guys that are cheating.
The moms are cheating too. So let's not let me
make all guys look bad. Thanks Shannon uh Her busting
cheaters Nicole, Natalie Nicole, what's going on, julian Julianne.
Speaker 9 (10:30):
Oh, yeah, Sid, can you hear me?
Speaker 1 (10:33):
How you doing all right?
Speaker 6 (10:34):
I'm good. Yeah.
Speaker 8 (10:36):
This really struck to my heart because.
Speaker 9 (10:38):
My mom and dad were married twenty seven years and
then they divorced, and really quickly after. He was with
this woman and we think that they were probably dating
for about ten years of my parents' marriage. Yeah, and
then and then so I had to, you know, talk
my mom through a lot of different things, and then
this woman ended up.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Leaving my dad.
Speaker 8 (11:00):
I was saying, exactly.
Speaker 9 (11:01):
Think that was sake to my mom, to my dad,
but I was like, oh, he kind of deserved it,
if you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Yeah, it's wild. In the case with Shannon's family member
and stuff. That guy is not thinking at all about
the long term of his kids and how they're going
to think about him. He's thinking, honestly about just his packer,
you know what I mean, Like he's thinking about what
this woman brings to him excitement wise, and he's trying
(11:28):
to force family on these kids.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
But the time and the timing, like you are not.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
I'm so iicky the whole thing.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
Does a Courton look at something like that and say, like,
would a judge look at that and go, you know what,
that's bad decision making, you know, you.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Know, it's one thing like we've heard these stories from
people who just called of like Okay, if they end
up getting together and getting married down the road, like yeah,
that's your family. Okay, you're going to take family holiday photos.
It's just a timing right now.
Speaker 9 (11:54):
Well, let me just tell you this. My dad got remarried,
but we could never when we had kids, we never
could let her. We could We didn't want them to
say grandma to this lady. Like that's how strange it was,
because it was like this was the woman. And by
the way it was I was in my mid twenties
when the divorce was all happening, and it affected me deeply.
Speaker 8 (12:15):
So I don't care what age. It could be, five
to ten, mid twenties.
Speaker 9 (12:18):
It really does affect, especially all that added to the divorce,
you know, and then the mistress and the remarriage and
oh it was terrible.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
Julianne, thank you so much. I appreciate your call. Yeah,
no tuense, all right, Mojo in the morning,
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