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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Alright, he is Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Anna's got an interesting situation and she's wondering if she
should say something about this one.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
What's going on?
Speaker 3 (00:08):
I need advice.
Speaker 4 (00:09):
So there is a woman that I wouldn't say I'm
like good friends with, but it's somebody that I would
like to become friends with. And at this point we're
very close online, so supporting each other's social media posts,
commenting back and forth on dms, all of that. She
(00:30):
is with a man, and the man is always in
my DMS. Oh, I don't know if he knows. He
probably doesn't know that we're building this relationship, but he's
liking my stuff, He's sliding into my DMS. I'm not responding,
and I typically in this situation probably would just stay
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out of it, not say anything. But because I want
to have a relationship with this woman, I don't know
if this is something I should tell her, because what
if we do? You become close and then this comes
out and she's like, why did you never see anything?
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Question about the back of these two? Are they married
or are they just.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
They're not serious dating?
Speaker 4 (01:10):
Serious dating and publicly publicly dated together?
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Yes, so what is he in your d ms doing.
Speaker 4 (01:18):
Mostly just liking things. I think he said something to
me one time and I just didn't respond.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Let me look, did he say something that was like inappropriate?
Speaker 5 (01:27):
And apros say, the liking doesn't bother me as much
as like, what is he saying?
Speaker 4 (01:33):
He he said a swear word, but he was saying
something very complimentary to one of my stories, like uh
am I allowed.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
To say d A M and oh.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Yeah, okay, okay, so like I'm so afraid to break
radio room.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Oh no, no, thank you for that way.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
It's nice that somebody it's nice that somebody over here
it doesn't like to push it to us lose a license.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Cab he said, damn girl looking good.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
And then like he's liking all of my stories when
I'm posting like Sophie's or something like that, and I'm like, okay,
I'm not responding, I'm not doing anything. But I still
feel like she would be mad if.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
You can't do it.
Speaker 6 (02:11):
I think your your question, well, how I looked at
it is you want to build a relationship with this
young lady and the situation sounds like it's messy already
and it would be even more messy if she found
out you were messing around with this guy. If you did, though,
what's what's their relationship?
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Though, Like, do you know their relationship? Are they together?
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Gotten that deep in it? But like I'm in her
close friends. She frequently posts about him, and they have
children together, and maybe.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
They have an open relationship and they're both trying to
to come at you.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
I don't think that's the case.
Speaker 5 (02:44):
Or maybe he thinks he's just giving you a compliment
and there's nothing wrong with that, which I personally disagree with.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
But we ain't doing that just compliments.
Speaker 7 (02:53):
Yeah, it's maybe it's more innocent you're saying, never into
the conversation, but absolutely don't insert myself into this.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
I think what's the benefit.
Speaker 6 (03:08):
It's how I look at it is the risk verse
reward in the situation. It seems like you're risking the
potential for a good friend, somebody that's already supportive in
your life.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
It seems like you're risking that for a guy that
I don't know. Do you like this guy? Like, do
you want to see something move forward? That makes it?
That makes the decision even clearer.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
So I should tell her.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
I don't know if you should tell her.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
But yeah, but this is someone that I would love
to have in my circle, Like I think she's so cool,
such a boss.
Speaker 6 (03:40):
No, I'm not saying I don't do that and don't
tell her and hopes that it'll bring y'all closer, because
that's just nasty work.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
No, I haven't told that because she'll side with him well.
Speaker 5 (03:51):
A million percent. Do not ever respond, don't not even
a thank you, not a like of him.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
I would.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
I would just stay as far away from morning.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
What's going on? Susan? Good morning, guys, Good morning Susan.
Speaker 8 (04:07):
So Lydia, I have a question. Does this make you
feel uncomfortable?
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Real quick?
Speaker 2 (04:11):
That's not Lydia, and I know it's a new voice
that is so sorry. No, that's Anna Rob Anna's the
newest member of the Mojo on the Morning Show.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Yeah, say hi to She's great.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
If you haven't seen what she looks like, go on
our Instagram or you can follow Anna.
Speaker 8 (04:24):
But she looks like Billie Eilis.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Yeah, I would say, by the way, I slid in
her d MS and said that exact same thing, and
she won't respond.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
She just friends with my wife. He'll go ahead.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Only I am uncomfortable because I know his relationship with this girl.
Like if I didn't know about that, I would just
be like, whatever, it's another guy, and I like.
Speaker 8 (04:46):
You should say something and just tell her like, so
this is making me feel uncomfortable because we are I
consider us friends. So and then she can take it
from there and tell him like hey, like if she
doesn't find it, you know, any type of eventive, then
she'll just be like, hey, my friend doesn't like that,
you know, stop doing that. Or if she does, then
that's you know, that's where it leads. It's her problem.
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It's their problem, really, But I feel like if you
feel like your friends, if you consider her an acquaintance
a friend, then I feel like it is kind of
your responsibility, especially if you want to build a relationship
with her. I would feel uncomfortable if my friend never
said anything to me about it.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
So you're saying say something trying.
Speaker 8 (05:26):
To build a relationship, Yeah, but I would just like
blame it on you, like, hey, I don't really like
that knowing that you guys are in a relationship. You know,
I don't know how you feel about it. I'm not
trying to cause issues, but you know, like you know,
you're my friend. I feel like, it's something I should
be telling you.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
They're not friends though, Yeah, they're trying to become friends.
That's what she's trying to do. Anne also says you
should say something or but you say say something to
him huh oh to.
Speaker 9 (05:51):
Him, Hi, good morning. I think you should tell him,
be like hey, your wife or whoever she is to him,
or just say hey, aren't you this person's husband boyfriend
and kind of like mention it to him and be
like if you don't you know, kind of lay back
a little bit. She will find out.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
I like that.
Speaker 5 (06:09):
I don't you don't even need the second part, aren't
you so and so his boyfriend?
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Question?
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Mark done? Don't respond again.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
Yeah, if you say anything, that's a great thing to say.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Sarah, what do you think Anna should do?
Speaker 10 (06:21):
My question is is why is he not blocked?
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Why is she not already blocked him?
Speaker 10 (06:28):
Yes, because if you already know that he is in
a relationship with this woman that you're trying to build
a friendship with, and you start seeing the lights and
maybe a few dms, I would have immediately blocked him.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
But Anna, also you have to understand it's not yourself.
She's not a normal person. That's on the Instagram or
on any social media platform.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
That's what she does for a living.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
She does like influencing stuff, constant creation, And can I
be honest with you, like, I think if it was
just the okay regular, you would just block. I think
if she starts blocking him right away, I think I
personally think he will go to her and go God,
that friend of yours blocked me, and I was just
trying to tell her, Damn she look good.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
He's also in the public.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
Eye, so he's also does this thing too.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
Yeah, so I try to I mean, not that I
need to keep up with him, but.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
I think you block him, it comes off red flaggy
to her of why are you blocking him so soon?
Speaker 1 (07:27):
And what did he really say?
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Because if he just said on a picture, damn you
look good, is he really saying something that is out
of line?
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Probably, well, we know that, we know that.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
But he could play it off to her like no,
and she'd probably believe him, Jamie, what's.
Speaker 11 (07:42):
Up, Hey, what's up?
Speaker 1 (07:45):
What's going on?
Speaker 6 (07:47):
Not much?
Speaker 11 (07:47):
And I listen, you gotta be a girl's girl. You
have to say something to her, and like, even if
you just make it like a joke, be like, yeah,
I've seen so and so come down my picture the
other day, and I didn't know how to respond because
the thing is this, relations and friendships are built on trust,
and going into this friendship without that, I feel like
it's going to hinder you later. If you guys are
hanging out and he makes a pass at you in person,
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that's gounna be even worse.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Yeah, be a girls girls girl? Yeah you hate that, keV.
Why do you hate that?
Speaker 6 (08:19):
I know I'm gonna get attacked for this and I
don't care, and uh, I need to have a well
thought out description of why I don't like girl code.
But my initial reaction is that a lot of times
women only have a girl code because she's another woman,
and it could be so many layers of it. But
it's like, at the time, you don't even know this
person just because she's a girl.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
You're like, I'm on the side, there's a code. Yeah,
It's like that's just weak to me. So you don't
think that girls being girl having girl code. It is
like bros before hose for the guys.
Speaker 6 (08:49):
I'm not doing that for no rando bro, just because
it's gonna be depending on our situation. Because it's there's
some people out here who don't deserve grace. Not to
say that, but it's some people out here who haven't
earned the right I don't live by.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Just because she's a girl doesn't mean I should like her.
Speaker 5 (09:03):
Honestly, so far, I think the best choice is what
the caller said about just asking.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Him, Hey, are you Although Sean's got a piece of advice,
what do you think?
Speaker 10 (09:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:16):
First of all, I don't think she used to say anything,
because usually the women is going to sad with her
man and he can twist the story. Yeah.
Speaker 11 (09:24):
And also when somebody says something on somebody's story, it
automatically goes into the dam.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Right, So what if he's not technically in your damn
that's true?
Speaker 9 (09:36):
What if he's just responding to your story?
Speaker 2 (09:39):
Sean brings up automatically go to thecality of yeah, when
you if you put post something and I like it
or heard it, or if I write a comment like
damn you look great. His damn you look great is
like damn you look great, not damn you look great?
And I want to what not do that?
Speaker 4 (10:00):
Only commenting on pictures or selfies of me? Like I
post a million stories and things, and you're only sliding
up or liking things where I'm dressed up or I'm
doing something cute or posting a selfie.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Maybe he's just not a big architecture. I don't know,
but honestly, I think Shannon's right, and I think that
that listener is right. I think that even just like, hey, hey,
if he does it again, just go, you know, I'm
friends with your girl. I hope you're very right.
Speaker 10 (10:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Period, And honestly, just move on like that.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
And once he knows that's the case, then the next
time that you do go and get to hang out
with her, he's going to feel very awkward.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Watch out.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
All right, thanks for the advice.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
I don't know if we really gave you any advice.
We kind of left it up in the air. But
we'll see what's in.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
That message you got it next time he's in the
too late?
Speaker 1 (10:52):
Now, how long ago did he put that in your DMS?
Speaker 3 (10:55):
Like a week ago?
Speaker 1 (10:56):
Yeah, you don't do it now, Now you look.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Like you're acting weird stuff. Yeah, you gotta wait till
he doesn't.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
The next time