June 26, 2024 • 14 mins
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Fletch, Vaughan & Hayley are back at it again with more cocktails, more episodes, and way more shenanigans; in this batch of Mid-Winter Cocktail Specials!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Polee born in Hailey's mid Winter Christmas Cocktail Special.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Hello and welcome to the Midwinter Christmas Cocktail Special, The
Big Pod. We'll be back on July fifteenth.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Now, last time this got out of control. I'm looking
at you, worn.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I'm an innocent CARDI are you either.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
We all have blackouts and lapses of how we got
home that night.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
But some of us have a scar to tell the
story still to this day.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
To fill in the gap.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Now, much like the podcast special at the end of
last year, the Christmas Cocktail Special, we will be reading
out messages from you, our dear listens, from all over
the world. And whilst we do this, we will be
indulging in cocktails.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Now we've cracked off with an alba. Yes, we harp
on about a lot coconut margarita. Coconut margarita.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Man only two of those, so I'm having a prosecco. Okay.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
So my friends say he's in the next room from
Argentina and I think he took a couple, which is
fine because I did say help yourself.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
But when you say help yourself to the Freid, you
don't mean that, you.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Don't mean booze. Theurs you mean you.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Mean apple from the ball hear that.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
He's sleepings. Sorry, okay, Falkland's War.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Yes, yes, Now there is something before we get underway.
Have you noticed Jared's brand new mixing This the road
Caster podcast twenty four thousand.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
That's Luck's pro two.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Look at the screen. It's got a screen protector who
wants to peel that off? Oh?
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Can I you may?
Speaker 4 (01:42):
You may?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
I was I'm missing out on a satisfying moment already.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
I'm missing out on a satisfier pro I am, yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Is it was it an option to be doing that instead?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
I always never presented that option before me.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
No, because I I we were just on a flight together,
and I have a pimple that's popped up over the hour,
and I was going to burst run out of time.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
So that's it's ready.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
It's two.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I know, I think it's to morrow.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
You'll be looking at him throughout the next couple of hours.
It'll be like.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Ready, I will say, ladies and gentlemen, the podcast must
now take a small break, so hey can go and
pop pimple and.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Maybe at the start of the podcast we can give
it up stop touching it can have you put make
up over it. Yeah, you see, it's not going to
help us identify if it's really.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
The wrong color because I didn't do the whole face.
I'm right. Okay, you guys, can I peel off the
protection and protection protection please permission?
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Please put the microphone this so it gets the sound. Yeah,
we're missing on some real folly opportunities here.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Really, I think if you boosts in and production and
post Jared, but I think the listener could hear that.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
That would be really anyway, It really gives some people
some goosey bumps.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
It was absolutely beautiful. Please start. Let's start.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Cheers, very Christmas, cheers, producers, cheers.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Isn't the year flying?
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Thank you God flying? Take me to my death Beard.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
You know, let's start with Rebecca.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
We asked people to to request maybe a shout out
to someone else, you know, listens to the podcast, and
we also asked some questions. You'll become familiar with those
questions over the course of this podcast because they're recurring.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Now we will say just before you do, read them
up more.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
And we didn't receive millions of submissions, millions, billion, hundreds
of billions of millions.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
There were a lot, so some we have just drawn.
We are us drawing these out at random.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
So I will say, dear listener, if you don't hear yours,
please don't end it.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Suck it, yeah, yeah, suck it.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
If you don't hear, and if you listen to all
of these episodes and you're like mine will surely be
the next episode and against to the end, and yours
hasn't been read out, it just suck.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
It, yeah. Or maybe we apologize that we couldn't get
to your because.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
That's what I meant, and will do you another one
at the end of the year.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Yeah, yeah, we will. Maybe we could have a box
at the end of the year. If mine wasn't read
out last time and I feel aggrieved, tick this box.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Yeah yeah, yeah. I had to suck it. I sucked
it and then I sucked it up and here I am.
I'm back, I'm a button.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Sucked it.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Please can I get my norm because I am not
sucking it twice.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
Firstly, Rebecca said she's not sucking at twice.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
In the year, but any birthdays this is every year.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Two.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
I was going to say, put that on the calendar
with a horse twice.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
I've already sucked it. I'm not going to suck at
the Yeah, if you've sucked it once, never sucked twice.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Rebecca Donald of Auckland says, we asked what's the most
exciting thing that happened to this year? And she said
the errors to her in Melbourne, that'll be that'll be
a lot of master quiet year for her.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
She's in the cold.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
And what is the greatest regret in life? This is
a question we just kind of like rough out there, Yeah,
getting was not expecting.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Then some deep responses that we've had when people think
that we're just laugh out loud, to laugh out louder joke,
Joe jokes, we can go deep.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Let's get deep.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Let's go deep.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
This could be dangerous because we're drinking and then at
the end, but.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
My life were emotional, you know, it could go that way.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
What's your greatest ride of life?
Speaker 4 (05:20):
For becaes are that I didn't move overseas with my
best friend when we were twenty two. I've only lived
in New Zealand and I wi should I attacking that
opportunity to have overseas.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Do you know what, though I've got a lot of friends,
I'm thirty four and you congratulations, thank you. Just a baby.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
I would never have known. Baby, you're a cold, cold baby.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
I'm a cold.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
A head full of rocks.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Yes, I'm showing off, and then you've got a bid.
A lot of my friends in their mid to late
thirties are still doing I'm just going. I didn't do
it when I was supposed to do it. Yeah, and
they're just going now. A couple of my friends have
just moved to London to do the work in a
bar and travel from.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Never too late unless you're like I guess, seventy and then.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Riddled with arth riders, that would be. But that's a
lovely time to just live on a cruise ship. Yes,
see you out your days, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
All the countryside, the English country side.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
And then when you when you run out of money
you can't afford the P and R or the you know,
the Norwegian Cruise Line or whatever, you.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Just jump jump back. Yeah, what a great idea.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Out to see costs it down. Yeah, that's a gift he.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Gives to your family. They never have your body to bury.
But yeah, yeah, what do you need advice on?
Speaker 4 (06:27):
We also asked I decided to be childless by choice,
and I need advice on dealing with friends having babies
in your relationships with them changing, which I know is selfish,
but hey, that's why I'm not having kids.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Block them any tips of kind or block them as
a good coping mechanism I had.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Well, you guys don't have children, fletch. I wish to
speak for your ovaries, but I don't.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
Believe you ever will. No, my overaries have dried up.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
To be careful, though, you need to wrap it up
when you're going out there. Yeah you know what I mean.
Babies is not aware of.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Some Okay, yeah right, I had children a little bit
before some of my close group of friends. I think
it's I don't know, they just I liked it, though
I was done by going out and getting shitty shitty
faced by then. Ye yeah, now I'm already entering my
getting ship faced era.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
We welcome you back.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
This happened to me because my best friend, who were
just grown up side by side since we were four,
she had her first get at twenty three, and I'm like, oh,
it's all over, Like you know, she's just gonna go away.
But you just adjust and you just change the way
you socialize. If they're real friends. Then you just it's
about quality time, not getting boozed. And then you just
find like a flitch in your life and you're like, oh,
(07:37):
he's my booze friend and you are my friend. Yeah,
real friendships will, they'll see it through, see it through.
You're changed, You're if you're a selfish friend.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
You know the selfish friends.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
When you have a baby and your selfish friends kind
of disappear a little bit, You're like, that's because they
liked being the center of your world.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
But you've got a new center. It would have been me,
but I had to work with you every day. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
so you had to see he's kind of forced to
see you.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
And you can look forward to being the cool auntie
that like picks them up from town and you know,
keeps the secrets.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
And give some drugs.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
By No, I don't don't don't do drugs. I was
a couple of couple of drinking poos.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Maybe yeah, well that.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
Is a drug, Haly alcohol drug. So it's coffee according
to the Morman, George down this drug? Lest are we
going christ?
Speaker 1 (08:22):
So it is pornography. Yeah, so I guess we're all
drug addicts. Let's move on.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Thinking Rebecca to Hamish, would you like who would you
like to give a shout out to? He said, shout
out to all the girl bosses. Live, love, laugh at love, laugh, loving.
Has he got that in the right order? Love, love laugh,
he's put live laugh loving.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
No, that's not do any of that in any putting.
Are you going laugh love love you you're crazy for.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
Laugh live love laugh, live, live laugh love laugh love, live,
laugh love love laugh. But you could make love love
twice and saying love love love.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Yeah, she's saying yeah now saying live, live, live, she
wants to live, live, live.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Love, live, Live, Live, Live, live wind Wind We're We're,
We're We're there there there, we are, we are.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
We're live as in Live Tyler live, as in Live
a Life, Live as in fliporhe and Hailey.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
Live live, laugh, loving it up in winter and me
of the Owen shout out to producer Jared from Hamish
bun there is that a bit of a.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Crush there, Well, I tell you what.
Speaker 4 (09:36):
Actually the next answer to his question might be ways
of giving producer Jared a shoutow. What's the juiciest thing
that happened to you this year? Hamer has been in
the middle of a three way between two guys. Maybe
at the end of the table.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
Wow, the mustache, the peckstock mustacher express.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
Jesus, Wow, what do.
Speaker 4 (10:02):
You need advice on Hamerschwanson how to make more friends
in your mid twenties.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Well, it sounds like maybe just have a chat to
these people you're having threesomes with. Maybe afterwards you could
go and do something like Tempin bowling.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Sorry, got hummus on the Mike cord Off.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
You don't know where that and you already So bowling
should be all good, the best shower between timp and
bowling and three.
Speaker 4 (10:24):
I would hope so, because then it wouldn't be all
good because you'd be seeing your dirty fingers in the
bowling bolt.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
It Tempin bowling, you went with the share balls. You
put your fingers in.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
There because we have Jery's been been. Sara's going to
shout out in this. But Jared, you made friends this year?
Don't you make new friends?
Speaker 4 (10:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (10:46):
I've made a few new friends.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
What's your advice?
Speaker 3 (10:49):
You rekindled friendships from school too, didn't you. Yeah, rekindled
a few, made a few. It's a very social year
for me.
Speaker 1 (10:56):
What's your advice for Hamish in terms of making new
friends as an adultrobably don't laugh.
Speaker 4 (11:02):
On the first but he's got a problem because he's
already torn through two of them already.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
Don't be afraid to make the first move like that
could also work well.
Speaker 4 (11:14):
I don't think making the first move is a problem.
Someone's going to Somebody had to, didn't they Someone had
to kick start it?
Speaker 3 (11:18):
Beautiful, thank you? How are you so shy? But you
can have a threesome?
Speaker 2 (11:23):
True?
Speaker 1 (11:23):
Ponder that he's in the middle.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
I think.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
There's that, the shy person in the threesome. I think
so because they're all mean. Are they like humans interpeting?
What's the.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
I don't know whether they're just taking turns I don't know,
or this threat I mentioned three bottoms like.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Someone in here knew.
Speaker 4 (11:47):
When he's in the middle, laugh at it like a Spirow.
Situations hard to make friends with your mouthful? Yeah, I
don't know, can only.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
My same, Vaughn, I can only we can only imagine
Hamish and I've ever done if you would obeye? Yeah, yeah, no,
I never ever had you never ever have ye foursome?
Also for me, he's going to see how I can go.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
An doctors ate some act.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
Not for you. Naha is next and she she is
from Would you like to give us shout out? She said,
shaded them a bitter in Stacey and Sam who listened
to every pod, and my dad who listens to.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
Sorry, I'm sorry you had to hear about Vaughan's lack
of threesome. And I wonder if I wonder if Natasha's
dad even had a threesome.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
Well maybe, and now she can ask maybe in the
seventies he was around. You know, that was the time
of free love. God.
Speaker 4 (13:04):
Yeah, yeah, shout out to dad and my sister as
she plays the podcast while she sleeps, and shout out
to the show and the producers.
Speaker 3 (13:11):
Such joy to have the company of you three on
meters every day.
Speaker 4 (13:14):
Thank you for the laugh and laugh, love and laughter
and love. So she had the three l's there, but
she structured a little bit differently, didn't she. What's the
most exciting thing to have happened to you? This year?
Went to RaRo for my thirtieth first time ever, going
fell in love with the place, people, culture, and food.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
You've been a couple of times for Arrow Rules.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
I haven't been since It's better than Fiji, And I
do apologize for gi but you know, Fiji, that's the
only one I've been to.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
Fiji.
Speaker 4 (13:41):
The islands of Fiji are really nice, but like that's yeah,
getting to them.
Speaker 3 (13:44):
It's very commercial. What do you need advice on. I've
been in my current workplace for ten years.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
Is it okay to stay if I'm happy and I
feel I'm growing comfortably or is it more important to
take a chance on something else.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
I'm learned to adapt to a different environment and push
myself a question.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
It's a good Literally, we were at a client of
even Yesterna and I was talking to this girl next
to me and she said, I've been at this workplace
ten years and I love it. And everyone's like, you
can't stand a job that long, And she's like, why not?
Speaker 3 (14:13):
I love it.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
I work with amazing people. I learned from them, Like yeah, rules,
unless you're not getting paid well, then jump to a
better job.
Speaker 3 (14:21):
And get paid.
Speaker 4 (14:21):
You feel a bit like unfulfilled, but so and don't
let them take advantage of the fact that you've got loyalty.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
I think it's a sad thing to stay there.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Fine, Yeah, happiness is the most important thing after all.
Love words love, laughter, love and looking oh worn
Polee born in Hailey's mid Winter Christmas Cocktail Special.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Hello and welcome to the Midwinter Christmas Cocktail Special, The
Big Pod. We'll be back on July fifteenth.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Now, last time this got out of control. I'm looking
at you, worn.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I'm an innocent CARDI are you either.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
We all have blackouts and lapses of how we got
home that night.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
But some of us have a scar to tell the
story still to this day.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
To fill in the gap.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Now, much like the podcast special at the end of
last year, the Christmas Cocktail Special, we will be reading
out messages from you, our dear listens, from all over
the world. And whilst we do this, we will be
indulging in cocktails.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Now we've cracked off with an alba. Yes, we harp
on about a lot coconut margarita. Coconut margarita.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Man only two of those, so I'm having a prosecco. Okay.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
So my friends say he's in the next room from
Argentina and I think he took a couple, which is
fine because I did say help yourself.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
But when you say help yourself to the Freid, you
don't mean that, you.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Don't mean booze. Theurs you mean you.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Mean apple from the ball hear that.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
He's sleepings. Sorry, okay, Falkland's War.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Yes, yes, Now there is something before we get underway.
Have you noticed Jared's brand new mixing This the road
Caster podcast twenty four thousand.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
That's Luck's pro two.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Look at the screen. It's got a screen protector who
wants to peel that off? Oh?
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Can I you may?
Speaker 4 (01:42):
You may?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
I was I'm missing out on a satisfying moment already.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
I'm missing out on a satisfier pro I am, yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Is it was it an option to be doing that instead?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
I always never presented that option before me.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
No, because I I we were just on a flight together,
and I have a pimple that's popped up over the hour,
and I was going to burst run out of time.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
So that's it's ready.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
It's two.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I know, I think it's to morrow.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
You'll be looking at him throughout the next couple of hours.
It'll be like.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Ready, I will say, ladies and gentlemen, the podcast must
now take a small break, so hey can go and
pop pimple and.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Maybe at the start of the podcast we can give
it up stop touching it can have you put make
up over it. Yeah, you see, it's not going to
help us identify if it's really.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
The wrong color because I didn't do the whole face.
I'm right. Okay, you guys, can I peel off the
protection and protection protection please permission?
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Please put the microphone this so it gets the sound. Yeah,
we're missing on some real folly opportunities here.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Really, I think if you boosts in and production and
post Jared, but I think the listener could hear that.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
That would be really anyway, It really gives some people
some goosey bumps.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
It was absolutely beautiful. Please start. Let's start.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Cheers, very Christmas, cheers, producers, cheers.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Isn't the year flying?
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Thank you God flying? Take me to my death Beard.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
You know, let's start with Rebecca.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
We asked people to to request maybe a shout out
to someone else, you know, listens to the podcast, and
we also asked some questions. You'll become familiar with those
questions over the course of this podcast because they're recurring.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Now we will say just before you do, read them
up more.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
And we didn't receive millions of submissions, millions, billion, hundreds
of billions of millions.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
There were a lot, so some we have just drawn.
We are us drawing these out at random.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
So I will say, dear listener, if you don't hear yours,
please don't end it.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Suck it, yeah, yeah, suck it.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
If you don't hear, and if you listen to all
of these episodes and you're like mine will surely be
the next episode and against to the end, and yours
hasn't been read out, it just suck.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
It, yeah. Or maybe we apologize that we couldn't get
to your because.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
That's what I meant, and will do you another one
at the end of the year.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Yeah, yeah, we will. Maybe we could have a box
at the end of the year. If mine wasn't read
out last time and I feel aggrieved, tick this box.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Yeah yeah, yeah. I had to suck it. I sucked
it and then I sucked it up and here I am.
I'm back, I'm a button.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Sucked it.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Please can I get my norm because I am not
sucking it twice.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
Firstly, Rebecca said she's not sucking at twice.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
In the year, but any birthdays this is every year.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Two.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
I was going to say, put that on the calendar
with a horse twice.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
I've already sucked it. I'm not going to suck at
the Yeah, if you've sucked it once, never sucked twice.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Rebecca Donald of Auckland says, we asked what's the most
exciting thing that happened to this year? And she said
the errors to her in Melbourne, that'll be that'll be
a lot of master quiet year for her.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
She's in the cold.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
And what is the greatest regret in life? This is
a question we just kind of like rough out there, Yeah,
getting was not expecting.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Then some deep responses that we've had when people think
that we're just laugh out loud, to laugh out louder joke,
Joe jokes, we can go deep.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Let's get deep.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Let's go deep.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
This could be dangerous because we're drinking and then at
the end, but.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
My life were emotional, you know, it could go that way.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
What's your greatest ride of life?
Speaker 4 (05:20):
For becaes are that I didn't move overseas with my
best friend when we were twenty two. I've only lived
in New Zealand and I wi should I attacking that
opportunity to have overseas.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Do you know what, though I've got a lot of friends,
I'm thirty four and you congratulations, thank you. Just a baby.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
I would never have known. Baby, you're a cold, cold baby.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
I'm a cold.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
A head full of rocks.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Yes, I'm showing off, and then you've got a bid.
A lot of my friends in their mid to late
thirties are still doing I'm just going. I didn't do
it when I was supposed to do it. Yeah, and
they're just going now. A couple of my friends have
just moved to London to do the work in a
bar and travel from.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Never too late unless you're like I guess, seventy and then.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Riddled with arth riders, that would be. But that's a
lovely time to just live on a cruise ship. Yes,
see you out your days, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
All the countryside, the English country side.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
And then when you when you run out of money
you can't afford the P and R or the you know,
the Norwegian Cruise Line or whatever, you.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Just jump jump back. Yeah, what a great idea.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Out to see costs it down. Yeah, that's a gift he.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Gives to your family. They never have your body to bury.
But yeah, yeah, what do you need advice on?
Speaker 4 (06:27):
We also asked I decided to be childless by choice,
and I need advice on dealing with friends having babies
in your relationships with them changing, which I know is selfish,
but hey, that's why I'm not having kids.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Block them any tips of kind or block them as
a good coping mechanism I had.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Well, you guys don't have children, fletch. I wish to
speak for your ovaries, but I don't.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
Believe you ever will. No, my overaries have dried up.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
To be careful, though, you need to wrap it up
when you're going out there. Yeah you know what I mean.
Babies is not aware of.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Some Okay, yeah right, I had children a little bit
before some of my close group of friends. I think
it's I don't know, they just I liked it, though
I was done by going out and getting shitty shitty
faced by then. Ye yeah, now I'm already entering my
getting ship faced era.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
We welcome you back.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
This happened to me because my best friend, who were
just grown up side by side since we were four,
she had her first get at twenty three, and I'm like, oh,
it's all over, Like you know, she's just gonna go away.
But you just adjust and you just change the way
you socialize. If they're real friends. Then you just it's
about quality time, not getting boozed. And then you just
find like a flitch in your life and you're like, oh,
(07:37):
he's my booze friend and you are my friend. Yeah,
real friendships will, they'll see it through, see it through.
You're changed, You're if you're a selfish friend.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
You know the selfish friends.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
When you have a baby and your selfish friends kind
of disappear a little bit, You're like, that's because they
liked being the center of your world.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
But you've got a new center. It would have been me,
but I had to work with you every day. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
so you had to see he's kind of forced to
see you.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
And you can look forward to being the cool auntie
that like picks them up from town and you know,
keeps the secrets.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
And give some drugs.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
By No, I don't don't don't do drugs. I was
a couple of couple of drinking poos.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Maybe yeah, well that.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
Is a drug, Haly alcohol drug. So it's coffee according
to the Morman, George down this drug? Lest are we
going christ?
Speaker 1 (08:22):
So it is pornography. Yeah, so I guess we're all
drug addicts. Let's move on.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Thinking Rebecca to Hamish, would you like who would you
like to give a shout out to? He said, shout
out to all the girl bosses. Live, love, laugh at love, laugh, loving.
Has he got that in the right order? Love, love laugh,
he's put live laugh loving.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
No, that's not do any of that in any putting.
Are you going laugh love love you you're crazy for.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
Laugh live love laugh, live, live laugh love laugh love, live,
laugh love love laugh. But you could make love love
twice and saying love love love.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Yeah, she's saying yeah now saying live, live, live, she
wants to live, live, live.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Love, live, Live, Live, Live, live wind Wind We're We're,
We're We're there there there, we are, we are.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
We're live as in Live Tyler live, as in Live
a Life, Live as in fliporhe and Hailey.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
Live live, laugh, loving it up in winter and me
of the Owen shout out to producer Jared from Hamish
bun there is that a bit of a.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Crush there, Well, I tell you what.
Speaker 4 (09:36):
Actually the next answer to his question might be ways
of giving producer Jared a shoutow. What's the juiciest thing
that happened to you this year? Hamer has been in
the middle of a three way between two guys. Maybe
at the end of the table.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
Wow, the mustache, the peckstock mustacher express.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
Jesus, Wow, what do.
Speaker 4 (10:02):
You need advice on Hamerschwanson how to make more friends
in your mid twenties.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Well, it sounds like maybe just have a chat to
these people you're having threesomes with. Maybe afterwards you could
go and do something like Tempin bowling.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Sorry, got hummus on the Mike cord Off.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
You don't know where that and you already So bowling
should be all good, the best shower between timp and
bowling and three.
Speaker 4 (10:24):
I would hope so, because then it wouldn't be all
good because you'd be seeing your dirty fingers in the
bowling bolt.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
It Tempin bowling, you went with the share balls. You
put your fingers in.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
There because we have Jery's been been. Sara's going to
shout out in this. But Jared, you made friends this year?
Don't you make new friends?
Speaker 4 (10:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (10:46):
I've made a few new friends.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
What's your advice?
Speaker 3 (10:49):
You rekindled friendships from school too, didn't you. Yeah, rekindled
a few, made a few. It's a very social year
for me.
Speaker 1 (10:56):
What's your advice for Hamish in terms of making new
friends as an adultrobably don't laugh.
Speaker 4 (11:02):
On the first but he's got a problem because he's
already torn through two of them already.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
Don't be afraid to make the first move like that
could also work well.
Speaker 4 (11:14):
I don't think making the first move is a problem.
Someone's going to Somebody had to, didn't they Someone had
to kick start it?
Speaker 3 (11:18):
Beautiful, thank you? How are you so shy? But you
can have a threesome?
Speaker 2 (11:23):
True?
Speaker 1 (11:23):
Ponder that he's in the middle.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
I think.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
There's that, the shy person in the threesome. I think
so because they're all mean. Are they like humans interpeting?
What's the.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
I don't know whether they're just taking turns I don't know,
or this threat I mentioned three bottoms like.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Someone in here knew.
Speaker 4 (11:47):
When he's in the middle, laugh at it like a Spirow.
Situations hard to make friends with your mouthful? Yeah, I
don't know, can only.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
My same, Vaughn, I can only we can only imagine
Hamish and I've ever done if you would obeye? Yeah, yeah, no,
I never ever had you never ever have ye foursome?
Also for me, he's going to see how I can go.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
An doctors ate some act.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
Not for you. Naha is next and she she is
from Would you like to give us shout out? She said,
shaded them a bitter in Stacey and Sam who listened
to every pod, and my dad who listens to.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
Sorry, I'm sorry you had to hear about Vaughan's lack
of threesome. And I wonder if I wonder if Natasha's
dad even had a threesome.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
Well maybe, and now she can ask maybe in the
seventies he was around. You know, that was the time
of free love. God.
Speaker 4 (13:04):
Yeah, yeah, shout out to dad and my sister as
she plays the podcast while she sleeps, and shout out
to the show and the producers.
Speaker 3 (13:11):
Such joy to have the company of you three on
meters every day.
Speaker 4 (13:14):
Thank you for the laugh and laugh, love and laughter
and love. So she had the three l's there, but
she structured a little bit differently, didn't she. What's the
most exciting thing to have happened to you? This year?
Went to RaRo for my thirtieth first time ever, going
fell in love with the place, people, culture, and food.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
You've been a couple of times for Arrow Rules.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
I haven't been since It's better than Fiji, And I
do apologize for gi but you know, Fiji, that's the
only one I've been to.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
Fiji.
Speaker 4 (13:41):
The islands of Fiji are really nice, but like that's yeah,
getting to them.
Speaker 3 (13:44):
It's very commercial. What do you need advice on. I've
been in my current workplace for ten years.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
Is it okay to stay if I'm happy and I
feel I'm growing comfortably or is it more important to
take a chance on something else.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
I'm learned to adapt to a different environment and push
myself a question.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
It's a good Literally, we were at a client of
even Yesterna and I was talking to this girl next
to me and she said, I've been at this workplace
ten years and I love it. And everyone's like, you
can't stand a job that long, And she's like, why not?
Speaker 3 (14:13):
I love it.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
I work with amazing people. I learned from them, Like yeah, rules,
unless you're not getting paid well, then jump to a
better job.
Speaker 3 (14:21):
And get paid.
Speaker 4 (14:21):
You feel a bit like unfulfilled, but so and don't
let them take advantage of the fact that you've got loyalty.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
I think it's a sad thing to stay there.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Fine, Yeah, happiness is the most important thing after all.
Love words love, laughter, love and looking oh worn
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