Fletch, Vaughan & Hayley's Big Pod - 27th August 2024

Inter-generational Holidays  

Suitcase Ribbons  

Top 6: 2028 Celebrity Athletes  

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
The ZIM Podcast Network, The Fleetswawne and Haley Big Pod.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
Great things are brewing at mcafe, the perfect start to
every day.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
Good morning, Welcome to the show. Fletch, Fawn and Haleywood
down Born today. He is away until he'll be back Friday.
He's on an island, on a dock island. Yeah, where
he's going there today?

Speaker 1 (00:21):
Yeah? I believe he's down south, hitting out this morning
to hang out some guckapaul.

Speaker 3 (00:28):
On some kind of quarantined island. Doubtful. Sound must be
not miss some dearly well. Yeah, and we're also hoping
he doesn't die.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
Look at the weather.

Speaker 3 (00:38):
I don't think it's good helicopter weather.

Speaker 1 (00:40):
A few showers, seven.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
They'll be fine.

Speaker 1 (00:45):
Yeah. So I'm doing I'm doing the top six today.

Speaker 3 (00:49):
Okay, what's your top six?

Speaker 1 (00:50):
Well? Dr Dre has come out because you know, Snoop
Dogg was the greatest thing about the Paris Olympics. Doctor
Dre's come out saying he'd like to take part of
the twenty twenty eight Olympics, which is held in La Right,
but as a sportsman, Oh okay, he wants to do archery.
I believe that's not just like something you can know
you do it for most of your life, I believe. Yeah,

(01:12):
you've got to be really like your pinpoint acri accuracy. Yeah.
So I've got the top six other celebrities we want
to see performing as on the sports field in LA
twenty twenty eight. Love that.

Speaker 3 (01:24):
Plenty of chances during the show today to go in
the draw to see Sabrina Carpenter live NLA. Speaking of LA,
correct flights, tickets, accommodation. Just got to listen out for
the activator or the mother trucker in the song call
through and we'll put you on the callback list. That's
going to happen on Thursday too this week, so you
could be flying to LA to see her live. We'll
give you a chance before seven next on the show though.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
If you want to go on holiday, there's a new
way to do it that a lot of people are doing.
Could save you a bit of money, could drive your
mayor plays Fledgeborne and Hailey. Okay this may I'm like
a little like a sweet idea, a really nice chance
for you as as a Farno to bond because half
of Brits have said, like in the UK have said

(02:11):
that this year they've gone on an intergenerational trip, including
at least three generations of their family. So that would
be like your grandma, yeah, you and your mom, or
that would be quite hard because grand's dead. All my
grandparents are dead. You didn't wanted to bring it up
ring or say your parents, you and your kids? Which

(02:33):
is the main like the main one? If what was here?
Because they've they've done that.

Speaker 3 (02:38):
Yeah, the dad, his dad took them to Disneyland. Yeah,
that whole Yeah, like they needed a mini van.

Speaker 1 (02:44):
So you're like, oh my god, this is really anytime
you need a minivan and I'm out. Yeah. If like
I kind of get this that you're like, oh, that's
really sweet on holiday with your grandparents or you know,
if everyone going together. Here's the main reasons why. Two
main reasons why saving money because your grandparents will like
pay for everything. You're two free childcare. And it makes

(03:08):
so much sense when you think about it. If you
were like, say, if I went away with if I
had kids and I went away with my parents, I'm
off flitting around. I know some friends that did this
recently and then yeah, they're like stuck with kids on holiday.
It was terrible. I know, I would like I would
hate to be the one that's like looking after the
kids going on you're going on holiday.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
You're not baby, although some parents and grandparents absolutely love
it and they're happy to do it. Yeah, but so
the idea is what it's cheaper because you're all getting
an airbnb or you're all.

Speaker 1 (03:38):
Sharing accommodation and in general, like if you're the kid,
say I'm the kid, my parents will pay for a bit.
Like I just went on holiday with my parents were
kind of I stayed me, but we did a bit
of holidaying and definitely like they'll pay for bits. But
they're on like the superinnuation. No not yet, Oh they're
not yet, but they're not. So they're unemployed but they're
not working. But you're working and okay, so your work

(04:01):
you know more than they. Yeah, but shouldn't you have
been paying for a little bit? And I paid for
lots okay, but I like just a couple of drinks yeah,
like I did a round of drinks. Yeah, but there
was like I stayed at a couple of places with them,
and my mum had booked them, so the accommodations already, Like,
well she's paying for it. Yeah, I mean, there's no
way you could just give us some money for that.
There was no way. How would I even exchange the money?

(04:25):
How does it happen? Because we were in small towns,
Like I don't even know where an atm was, so
how would I help you exchange the money? And like
when we went to the market, my dad saw a
record that he wanted and my mum wasn't there, so
I bought it for him. So that was like twenty
year rs. Do you know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (04:42):
Right?

Speaker 1 (04:42):
Okay, chip down. But this is why people would be
doing it, because appearance and the grandparents would be paying
for most of us. And if I had kids and
I took them over to on holiday, they'd be like,
I'm going to go out. I'm going to go out
for dinner. I'm going to go do this.

Speaker 3 (04:56):
I'm going to go on this island, watch the kids
that little thing for a whole week while I go
to make an os.

Speaker 1 (05:02):
Yeah, we go, we go to the Greek islands together.
I got amazing, I'm going to pop to make an os.
That's not how it's working, Producers.

Speaker 3 (05:10):
Could you imagine anything worse than an intergenerational holiday?

Speaker 1 (05:15):
Yeah? No, it's not for me.

Speaker 5 (05:17):
I don't think my family would even be able to
agree on a location.

Speaker 3 (05:22):
Let you my I don't think my family would be
go to Raratonga for a week too bored, get bored?

Speaker 5 (05:28):
Yeah, you would, like my parents would. But then the
media and I would be like, oh I go Canada
or Japan.

Speaker 1 (05:35):
Yeah. Yeah, we don't have grandkids, so yeah, I guess. Yeah, okay,
she's got grandparents. Still, I've got one. I've got one.

Speaker 3 (05:43):
Thanks for rubbing that.

Speaker 1 (05:44):
Yeah, yeah, she's not going to make an os girlies.
Would you go on holiday with your family? Immediate family absolutely?
Anyone extended past that absolutely not okay me more, Yeah,
you got to pay for the trip twice over, I will,
you know for sure. But immediate family absolutely. I mean,

(06:06):
my family's quite small, so it would be pretty easy
to Actually, but don't you have free holidays for life?
Because you saw that guy die at a resort? It
was one holiday, a free holiday, remember that? Yeah, I do.
She saw someone die. I mean it was traumatizing. So yeah,
but did you sort out the trauma before the next

(06:26):
free holiday? Yeah? Sure, Okay, until it is it's likely
he would yet a little bit older. Yeah, well, I
mean I get it. If you've got kids again it
if you've got kids, yeah, but hey, calm them off.
A way to save some money Flitch Voorne and Hailey.

Speaker 3 (06:41):
This made me laugh so much when I saw it
last night. A politician, a minister in fact, and our
government has taken to social media to dispel a rumor,
a myth, and to take on the trolls that have
been trolling him online because the Minister of Transport, Simeon Brown,

(07:02):
who always looks like a tiny You know when high
schools do, like they send a representative to be in government.

Speaker 1 (07:09):
What do they call that, like GM ambassadors or something like, Yeah,
what is that called?

Speaker 3 (07:13):
It's like young persons, Yeah, youth youth parliament, Yeah, youth parliament.
And then like the kid goes along from high school
and he's in like dad's suit and he always looks
like it doesn't fit properly.

Speaker 1 (07:25):
He looks like he has never grown a beard in
his life, Like does he shave? He's got such a
fresh baby face.

Speaker 3 (07:33):
Don't know if he that might be the next room.

Speaker 1 (07:35):
Well, this is the rumor, is that Simon Brown, the
Minister of Transport, can't drive a car, doesn't ever license.

Speaker 3 (07:43):
Because this is the world we live in now the Internet.

Speaker 1 (07:45):
It's just so funny that someone's come out being like
this would be a really funny rumor. Simmy and Brown
can't drive.

Speaker 3 (07:50):
Well, Simon Brown and I will say he is not
filming while driving. Somebody is in the car with him.
But he did post this online to dispel the rumors.

Speaker 2 (08:00):
There's been some weird rumors been spread online by trolls
saying I don't have my driver's license, and even some
journalists have been pegging up on these rumors and asking
me some questions on the Ministry of Transport. Of course,
I've got my full driver's license.

Speaker 3 (08:14):
It looks like he's taking his first tears too, I know.

Speaker 1 (08:17):
Do you think he's got little pedal extenders? Is he short?
Was he just baby face?

Speaker 3 (08:23):
He's just baby faced.

Speaker 1 (08:24):
I think he's thirty three years old. I mean I'm
thirty four. We're very similar age.

Speaker 3 (08:29):
Although I will I get a lot of this because
I live in an apartment and haven't had a car
for like, oh.

Speaker 1 (08:35):
Yeah, twelve years.

Speaker 3 (08:36):
Yes, so people are just you can't try. And now
everybody teases me that I don't have a license, like
I've got one.

Speaker 1 (08:43):
Embarrassing. Oh, he's such a sweet little thing. Airport security
have come out once again reminding people not to use
ribbons on their luggage, and this is something that particularly
the girlies i'll say, have done for years to help
identify the bag. But the funny thing is everyone's done it.

Speaker 3 (09:03):
Everyone's I would love to know how it started, Like
it feels like it would have been one of those
I don't know, like Good Morning America TV totally and
they have someone on in their line morning, so here's
a little trick for you, and then that just kind
of took off.

Speaker 1 (09:17):
Yeah. I when I first started traveling the world as
a teenager, it was with a big marching team. So
we used to have all of our luggage and you
have your own individual luggage, and then we'd get three
ribbons red, black and white because those are our team colors,
and you tie them on. So they'd be like, there's
a lock eel bag. There's a lock eel bag, you know,
so that when we were offloading at the other end,

(09:39):
you could just grab bags, being like that's a team bag.
So that made sense, and then I think I just
sort of carried it on from there.

Speaker 3 (09:45):
But they're saying don't tie a ribbon on because they
get it gets caught.

Speaker 1 (09:49):
No, they're saying the one of the main reasons is
it can interrupt the scanning process as it's like going
through different parts of the machines. So and somehow like
impede a barcode on your you know what's it called sticker? Yeah,
the tag, baggage tag. The baggage tag it can make
it can actually stop the bag and then it could

(10:10):
get diverted, which meant it could actually end up arriving
at your destination late da da da da da. Because
if you had a little strand of ribbon and it's
covering a bar code, yeah, right, the bag's not going
to do it. And they say the safest way to
get your luggage without any like interruptions or delays or
whatever is to have no added features like no tags.

Speaker 5 (10:31):
No this.

Speaker 1 (10:31):
They also say remove all your old stickers because you
know how they pay no little barcodes on.

Speaker 3 (10:36):
Yes, people just leave their whole suitcase covered in them.
I'm like, what are the chances that after a year
or two, if it's still on there, that then is
being reused that barcode? Yeah, totally, and your bag ends
up in Madrid and you'll go into Queenstown exactly.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
And then so I was reading this article about this.

Speaker 3 (10:56):
Do you do you get embarrassed when you see another
suitcase come out that looks exactly same as yours, but
it's nice.

Speaker 1 (11:01):
I like it's newer. Yeah, and you're like, oh my god,
I thought that was mine. But then I realized I'm
a bit skanky. So they say, also put if you've
got a suitcase that doesn't have four wheels, just has two,
put them wheels up for less damage to the bag.
There's a little tip. The other one was whe would
I just see it? Oh? Don't don't ever pack marserpan,

(11:25):
you know, the like almon dy sort of because it
looks like candy C four. It has the same density
as some explosives. So if you scan it and you've
got a slab of mars a pan in your bag,
it can look like an explosive. Your bag will be
pulled off, searched. Da da da dah. Crazy. I knew that.
I've never heard that before. Ever, Well, I probably I
don't ever really when I'm packing my bag to go anywhere,

(11:47):
not for the cake decorating champs, consider MARSI pam, no,
you get it. There, so it's nice and fresh. I'll
have a marser pan, super super fresh play play blah
blah blah blah blah blah blah. This is the top

(12:08):
six vams away till Friday, so we've been left to
pick up the piecesah, basically to do the extra work,
to do all the extra workload. So the top six
is left to me today. And we want to talk
about the fact that doctor Drey has come out saying
that he would like to do archery in the twenty

(12:28):
twenty eight Olympics. He'd like to take part. Now, I
think he's just said this as like, oh, I'll just
pick a sport, I'll ever go. But then there is
a Californian archer called Justin who actually came out and said, well, listen,
he could do it because archery is a little bit
like golf. You can anyone can do it at any age.

(12:50):
This guy is going to be fifty when he's at
the Olympics, and he's like, you can be a bit older.
H Leticism is less important than it is about like
the skill, yep. And he said it really will come
down to whether or not doctor Dre would want to
put in six to seven hours a day from now
to them until you're really good at that, okay, and
if he wants to hit me up, I'll be there.

(13:11):
So like more achievable.

Speaker 3 (13:14):
If you come from say a country and I don't know,
one of these countries that's never won a medal, Yeah,
surely you didn't represent them an archery before. You could
represent one of the biggest countries in the world, America.

Speaker 1 (13:25):
Yeah, yeah, totally. Yeah, maybe he could go out because
he's fifty nine years old. Dr dre Right, Doctor dre
is keeping it tight. Fifty nine fifty nine. Well, so
he's like so rich, why does he care even need
a hobby? Go and buy an archery set and go
shoot stuff on your mansion. I think he's just achieved

(13:46):
so much in life, he said. Wouldn't it be amazing
to want a gold medal? Like, wouldn't it be amazing
to be an Olympic.

Speaker 3 (13:50):
I mean that's something you can't buy, right, he said.

Speaker 1 (13:52):
I feel like I can achieve anything in life. If
I I've got the determination to achieve anything, I could
do this. So you know, maybe I'll become an archer
at the Olympics. So I've got the top six other
celebrities that we want to see performing at the Olympics
in twenty twenty eight and their sports based solely on
how well I think they'd do it the sport and
definitely got nothing to do with their good lucks, nothing

(14:15):
to do. I didn't even consider that this was if
they're attracted on this list, I haven't even noticed. Okay,
number six on the list, Chris Hemsworth. I think that
he could do either the javelin or the shop pup
because he's really good at the him.

Speaker 3 (14:26):
Did you say he was drumming at the inch shearing?

Speaker 1 (14:30):
He got on the drums, so he's got good muscles.

Speaker 3 (14:32):
He's got good muscles.

Speaker 1 (14:33):
He likes to throw things around a lot. And also,
it just be nice to see the Olympics. It'd be
nice to see in the glistening la.

Speaker 3 (14:40):
Of course, the looks that having nothing to do with that,
and the muscles.

Speaker 1 (14:43):
I'm just like looking ahead on the list and it's
actually nothing to do with that. Okay, treated this is
not about me wanting to see hot people at the Olympics. Okay,
Number five on the list, Jason Moore in the swimming pool.
He's equaman. He can bring it underwater.

Speaker 3 (14:58):
Is that an unfair advantage being eman.

Speaker 1 (15:00):
Well, they're wasting their time going taking a breath. He
was like, Ohmquaman and he doesn't need to And have
you seen him swim under the water. Ya, it's amazing,
it's insane. Yeah, although you're you know that you get.

Speaker 3 (15:13):
Disqualified on a turn is it backstroke if you don't
come up? Oh, you're in a certain point, follow the rules, Okay,
so you'd have to still okay, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (15:23):
Those little tongs, do you know? Because that's the thing
with Equaman in that full suit.

Speaker 3 (15:28):
Yeah, it was just it wasn't very revealing. It wasn't okay,
not that.

Speaker 1 (15:32):
That's got anything to do with why I think he
would do well in the twenty twenty at Olympics. Yes, okay,
then before on the list of the other celebrities we
want to see at the Olympics in twenty twenty eight,
which is about how I think they do at the sport,
nothing to do with how attractive I think they are.
Henry cavill and the weightlifting gets so strong, you know
what I mean? When you see him in the Witcher,
he just gets so strong and it's like all that muscle.
What are we just looking at them, use them. He

(15:53):
lets use it, yeah, okay, do you know what I mean?
And then of course he'd be in the light cra
or were why bother is just going your neck when
you're okay? I think it's more freeing because sometimes I
what for me the warriors with the weightlifting that the
like lea has actually get in the way. Okay, yeah,
it's it's actually creating a bit of snag or lad

(16:16):
as it's going up the body. If it just rippled
over that sex pack, okay, I think it would be easier, right, Okay.
Number three on the list of other celebrities we want
to see at the Olympics in twenty twenty eight based
on how well I think they'll do it their sport,
Gerard Butler and the fencing, because you know, we've seen
him with a sword in three hundred and we've seen
the sort of physique that he can get, which is
not about esthetics, it's about how it wields the sword.

(16:39):
You want those muscles to be lunging the sword, you
are that sword coming forward like that. And I think
Jared Butler, right, we've never seen him better than he's
looked in three hundred.

Speaker 3 (16:48):
Yeah, I mean that was probably twenty years ago.

Speaker 1 (16:50):
But okay, yeah, he's bit older now, but he's still
got the scale fine wine, he's like a fine one.
He's aged well, he could get the physique back. And
again I think I think with the fencing in the
Olympic sports, I think tough and upper bit, get rid
of these little white suits and the electronic things. Get
a real sword on these men. That was two thousand
and seven, that movie three hundred yep. Because he had

(17:12):
been in his fifties now, right, Jared Butler. That's why
I find he's fifty four just right. Okay. Number two,
I know we're talking about the uh, the Summer Olympics,
but I am also Ford thinking of celebrity is gonna
get involved. I want to bring up an Olympic sport

(17:35):
so other celebrities want to see in the Olympics in general.
Number two in the list is Idris Alba, and I
think that he would be good at curling hem hemia.
I think the sport is severely lacking in sex.

Speaker 3 (17:52):
I think this sport is really not seen as a
sexy sport, right, and you're saying someone like him you
need to get in there, bring it to the four.

Speaker 1 (18:01):
And he was in there and he's had his little
tea beautiful mine and he was with his little brooming
the ice. Suddenly, I think, curly, if just album was
in that sport, suddenly there would be the sport that
you'd take it up.

Speaker 3 (18:15):
Yeah, he could.

Speaker 1 (18:16):
He could slide me on the ice. I'd be the
little bowler the slide.

Speaker 4 (18:21):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (18:21):
Number one on the list of the other celebrities would
like to see at the Olympics. In twenty twenty eight,
returned to the summer sports in the boxing. Why don't
we have Brad Pitt because of fight And again, I
don't think Brad Pitt has ever Brad pitted as hard
as Brad put Brad pitted in Fight Club. That was
a long time ago. That Phyzeke though. Really the v

(18:42):
it came down and I just think it's a really
great He's good with the first and it would just
be nice to watch.

Speaker 3 (18:48):
You're really thinking like a TV executive here, like viewership,
and I'm just.

Speaker 1 (18:53):
Looking back at the list I'm seeing upon reflection, it's
a it's six of the hottest men of all the
lamb Yeah, but for me, that's regardless. I'm thinking more
about their sporting skills. I think they do really well
at the That is today's top six play Ms Flecha
and Haley Fletch. Hold out your predominant hand, your dominant hand,

(19:16):
which is your right hand. Pinky. Yes, shoot, you've got it.
I've got a bad one. You do the bad one.
Mine's got a bit of a dip.

Speaker 3 (19:25):
You can notice it when you compare your pinky fingers.

Speaker 1 (19:28):
So if you hold I don't know that mine has
a dip, because all my fingers have that same thing.

Speaker 3 (19:34):
So this is the problem now that apparently a lot
of people are facing.

Speaker 1 (19:38):
Do you this will become part of evolution. It's called
phone pinky, and it's the act of if you hold
your phone, if you pick up your phone in general,
we rest our pinky underneath to kind of support its
bottom like that right we're holding exactly the same and
it's causing like a permanent dent in our in our fingers.

(20:00):
So if you were to look at your finger now,
humble listener, you might be able to if you can't
see it, prominantly, I can really feel mine bad, I
can really feel mine. Is this like ridge in the
middle between right in the middle, just above the knuckle
is this dent and it's where your phone sets.

Speaker 3 (20:19):
And on the next finger to look at.

Speaker 1 (20:21):
That that's bad. Yeah, yeah, so maybe you're doing that
a little bit produces. Are we suffering from this pinky finger?

Speaker 4 (20:28):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (20:29):
Mine's real bad, real bad.

Speaker 3 (20:33):
People that stick on those holder things on the back
of their phone. Do you think they've got one where
their finger, Because that's not your pinky finger that goes
under your it's your middle age, your middle so you've
probably got one on your middle finger if you use
one of those a lot.

Speaker 1 (20:46):
Yeah, mine's like real squishy too, like compared to the
other finger. Yeah, real feel it. It's strange squishy, Yeah,
you go. I think it's probably just the hours of
doom scrolling you do, Like my screen has gone up
so much recently. Yeah, do you know? I think it's
a winter thing as well, Like we're just a bit like, oh,
come on.

Speaker 3 (21:05):
Let's get out of us. Nearly only five more weekends
to daylight savings.

Speaker 1 (21:10):
Jeride, Do you have a pinky a pinky phone? Pinky? Yeah,
a little bit. I used to get the exam pen
the metoer a lot. I've still kind of got the
remnants of mine there on that it's like a big
kind of calloused bump with a little thing on on
your middle we rest the pen.

Speaker 3 (21:28):
Yeah, when you compare it to the other finger, there's
a bump there.

Speaker 1 (21:30):
And when you did exams a or if you had
like pencils and stuff, it used to like change color
and like things like rub onto it. Do you know?
I get this sometimes with sunglasses on my head, and
you probably get it maybe with headphones. A little bit
is if I put my sung glass on my head
for too long, you get a tiny little dent in
my head. Yeah, I think I've got that. Yeah, and
you gotta take off, take it off, and it kind

(21:51):
of refills.

Speaker 3 (21:52):
Back up half. Do you think people that wear glasses
all the time have a redge on the nose?

Speaker 1 (21:57):
Yeah? Yeah, I don't know. So what we do to
change us is get off our phones. Just phone down
or hold your phone like that. But then you've got
to do your one finger typing like a boomer oh yeah,
because if you're like that, Yeah, if you're holding with
two hands, the pinky automatically goes there. Wear gloves, padded gloves,
padded fat, padded gloves, but your thumbs and index fingers

(22:21):
are free.

Speaker 3 (22:21):
No, just a pinky glove, like a big fat condom
for your finger to stop your pinky.

Speaker 1 (22:27):
Okay, we'll be getting it. Solve the problem, plays fledged
Vorn and Haley. People are not happy with Lily Allen.
I like Lily Ellen. I used to love Lily Ellen.
I used to love her music a lot. But now
she's I don't know what she does. She's got a podcast.

Speaker 3 (22:44):
I think she's married to Yeah, married to the Stagati
things guy.

Speaker 4 (22:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (22:48):
Anyway, So she was talking on a podcast about the
fact that in twenty twenty one her and her husband
David adopted a dog from an animal sanctuary. And you
know our station stance of dop don't shop, yep, you
know I've supported it. Vaughn rescued, rescued yep, the Golden Retriever.
That's a rescue dog. That's my cat.

Speaker 3 (23:09):
I rescued my cat from a breeder.

Speaker 1 (23:11):
From a breeder for a thousand dollars. Absolutely the price
they paid to you know, rescue the rescue Major marrit Oh,
the life you would have lived. I know I hadn't
have saved them, thank you. I mean, my bag was
literally my cat was literally delivered in a plastic bag
to a sanctury, and I saved its life. So we've
all said similar, we're all animals. So she rescued a

(23:31):
dog in twenty twenty one, and then that dog proceeded to,
in her words, quote, ruined her life by eating her
passport and then the passport of her husband and her
child ate them all.

Speaker 3 (23:46):
Where were they living their passports, like on the bench
in a bowl or something.

Speaker 1 (23:50):
No idea, you put them in a safe place, so
she said, she took the dog back to the sanctuary. Okay,
she had met that, she said, and she's rich, right,
she said, I cannot tell you how much what pulls
her accent, she's a bit rough. I cannot tell you
how much money it costs me to get everything replaced

(24:10):
because it was in COVID and done it a logistical nightmare.
So she took the dog back. Wow, yeah, she said,
I couldn't like the father of my children lived in England,
so I couldn't get my kids back to see him
during this COVID time it was five months or because this,
in her words, effing dog. And she said, I just

(24:31):
looked at the dog and I was like, you've ruined
my life and so she took the dog back. She
returned the dog, and everyone was like, that's not how
it works. You rescue your dog and that's your dog now,
and you have to train it. You have to train
it to not eat things and all that kind of stuff,
And a lot of animal rescue people have come out
being like, this is appalling behavior. I know.

Speaker 3 (24:50):
I know people that have had animals, Zoe, and it
just hasn't been for them.

Speaker 1 (24:54):
I've had a couple of friends who, uh had an
animal and then had a baby and then got rid
of the dog. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (25:01):
Basically we were talking was it last week about let
Pete's basically become second the second classes and.

Speaker 1 (25:08):
They know it. They hate it. Yeah. Yeah, so my
friends and they genuinely sent their dog to a farm,
not a farm, like the dog's gone to a farm
and put down, like set the dog off to a
bigger property with all this kind of stuf because they
can't handle it, which is fair enough, but.

Speaker 3 (25:22):
Also people have been doing this because they just literally
can't afford to feed themselves, let alone a pit.

Speaker 1 (25:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (25:27):
So a lot of like rescue places have been inundated
with animals because people just can't afford them.

Speaker 1 (25:33):
Yeah, for sure. Anyway, we want to know today what
did you return and why? Because sometimes you just make
a big purchase and you're like, this is great, this
is exciting in the moment, I really want this.

Speaker 3 (25:44):
Because if you say, you buy a big thing, like
you can only take it back to most places if
it's faulty, or some places give you like a month.

Speaker 1 (25:55):
If you just change your mind. Yeah, you're allowed to
change your mind. Everything's different. Yeah, or maybe like I
always wonder, like if you bought a wedding dress and
then you suddenly went like, oh my god, because sometimes
you buy wedding dresses like six months in advance, and
then you see another one and you like, I don't
want to return it. Maybe, nob, you can't do that,
can you, because unless you've had to alter it, right, Okay, yeah,

(26:15):
if you bought off the ram, but you'd alter it
last minute, right, It depends because I'm still slimming down
a day, right, Okay, it's always the thing I'm sing.
I think, No, it's fine, our way a wait, because
I'm slimming down.

Speaker 3 (26:29):
Well, you buy buy a car and you decide I
just don't like it.

Speaker 1 (26:32):
It's an awful car. That's what we want to know
what did you Maybe you've returned a pit because they
were ugly, or they just ate everything and I can't
deal with this, can't handle it. Okay, I'll wait one
hundred DALs it and we want to take your calls.
You can text the as well nine six nine six
what did you get and then return right now. We
want to know what you returned, because Lily Allen rescued

(26:55):
a dog and it ate three passports and so she
returned earned the rest of doc. Now, so we've asked
you to tell us the things that you returned. And
I will say we've had five messages. I returned my
ex husband when I thought he when he thought he
could have more fun in more than just one household
my ex, I put him on a bus spec to

(27:17):
his mother. I returned a husband. I returned my ex
to his mother. Okay, guys, we've got some enraged there.

Speaker 3 (27:26):
Yeah, you know, get it off your chest and then
get on with your dame. I'd be happier, absolutely, because
we're forgetting about them.

Speaker 1 (27:33):
Yeah. What what a great returns policy? Yeah? Uh, some
message and saying my friend returned to rescue care after
one day because it mewed too much. I mean they
stopped me owing after a while. Yeah, I'm guessing as well.
It was a new place as well, and they were
probably just like, yeah, they did the craft rages some

(27:53):
my message. And I returned my wedding dress three months
before my wedding. I decided I hated the style of it,
and then I had to rush and find a new
one and get it tailored so.

Speaker 3 (28:02):
That they Okay, people are changing their minds on that.

Speaker 1 (28:05):
I mean I suppose they kind of like hold their value.
Like there if you've got bought a five thousand dollars dress,
and then is that.

Speaker 3 (28:12):
Much wedding dresses.

Speaker 1 (28:14):
Called I mean like a begownda Yeah duel Okay, I
was gonna say a beat that's that's different, slightly different.
I bought my book a boyfriend of PS five for
our one year anniversary, and then he had to move
overseas for work, and so we had to split up,
and I returned the PS five and now we got
back together with dating long distance overseas.

Speaker 3 (28:34):
Oh wait, but when they got she got the money
back for it. Yeah, it must have been within a.

Speaker 1 (28:39):
Month, right, Oh, someplaces can you just take them back? Well,
if it's in the box if it hadn't be opened. Yeah, yeah, maybe,
okay return my ex or returned my ex. I bought
a one thousand dollars nail gun from Bunnings, not a
builder or I didn't even have any need for it
at the time, but the idea of using Oh, I want.

Speaker 3 (28:59):
To fire one of the have never fired one. I
want to fire one so bad. I've got we've got one.
Come to our house, but you actually own one? Yeah, yeah, okay,
what can I put a nail one?

Speaker 1 (29:11):
We've got a shitty fence.

Speaker 3 (29:13):
I would love to nail your fence.

Speaker 1 (29:15):
And I would love to have you to come over
to my house and nail my fan. It would be
my honor to nail your Come on over. Yeah. They
come with these little things and it is really fun.
Wait is it like a budget one? No? No, no,
it is? And does it go on in air tank?
We've got a battery powered one that's for donk and
we've got one that like the tank goes. I want
that one.

Speaker 3 (29:34):
I don't want that. I don't want the battery powered one.
That sounds a little bay.

Speaker 1 (29:38):
I love that. I returned my engagement ring straight to
the I returned my engagement rings straight to the store,
got the cash back, and my chitting nick's got nothing.
So wait, he's whoever they wore you the ring and
you've just taken it back to Pascos. Let's say, yeah,
and you've said that I want a return for this ring.

Speaker 3 (29:59):
And I guess if your name, if you were involved
in the buying of it, yeah, your name would be
on fire.

Speaker 1 (30:05):
Right?

Speaker 3 (30:05):
Oh wow, okay on you?

Speaker 1 (30:07):
Someone said, doesn't count if I returned a dress back
to my best friend that I borrowed and didn't mention
the wine state at it. Sorry, Caesar, I used to I.
She'd address my best friend once and she put a
siggy burn in it and returned it. I just wore it,
returned my son's friend, my son's friend. Oh yeah, I
returned my son's friend back to his parents after he

(30:28):
drew on my walls. And that was the end of
the sleep over. I returned a library book after two
years later, only a forty five dollar fine. Just buy
the whole book, couldn't you? It is now I've actually
had a few messages and we've got a distracted audience
here today. Can we please see I have a video
of fletch when he nails your fence? Yes, are we

(30:50):
getting shoot off?

Speaker 3 (30:52):
There's no need for that, I think. I think, oh,
wear shorty shorts like builder shorts.

Speaker 1 (31:00):
With a little dinner, some workingmen's boots. I love this.
This is great. So many people been like, I just
want to see flitch no fence now.

Speaker 3 (31:07):
Okay, next time I'm over yea social media content of
me nailing the gun. Yeah, perfect fence.

Speaker 1 (31:15):
I love this. It's great.

Speaker 4 (31:18):
Play play.

Speaker 1 (31:24):
Well what do I have here?

Speaker 3 (31:26):
She is feeling pretty smug. You've been looking smug all morning.

Speaker 1 (31:30):
Yeah, so I've been. I've been having overnight oats for
the last sort of month and a bit.

Speaker 3 (31:35):
As painful as it is to watch you eat them,
and oh my god.

Speaker 1 (31:38):
We were just commenting about it because I'm following like
a food program with a trainer at the moment, and
you know, it's all the meals are broken down into
macronutrient's very boring. Yeah, way out my food and whatnot.
But I yeah, it's it's a lot. The oats are
a lot, and it takes me probably just over an

(31:59):
hour of.

Speaker 3 (32:01):
It's painful to watch I.

Speaker 1 (32:03):
Eat them with a tea spoon and I eat them
so slowly.

Speaker 3 (32:07):
It's because it's gluggy, so much like protein and yog.

Speaker 1 (32:12):
Like it's a lot, it's a lot. It's quite tasty,
but eat them slowly. But what is remarkable about my
oats today is it's in my new kitchen aid glass
container as part of the promotion with New World Non Spawn.

Speaker 3 (32:25):
By the way, I'm just he's finally collected the large container.

Speaker 1 (32:29):
No, this is actually the media. You know, this is large.
This is the large container with lid one point two liter,
and it's got the little vacuum pump hole on it,
and it's got a little rubber bott see that's silicon.

Speaker 3 (32:42):
Yeah, and it's around the glass and it's a glass cant.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
It's nice. So you can take the lid off, Shanon
said earlier. Does plastic not melt in the oven or something?
Or does plas it mount in the oven? Right? Yeah,
you can take the lid off, but you could put
that in the You can put the glass on your right.
It's so nice. And now I'm hoked, like I've got

(33:06):
I want to get more. And I've got my little
book clap because I cash and my last book clat
and I got I've got enough to get the vacuum
pumped today, right, But I don't want that. I'm going
to keep going, I think until I get another large container,
which is one to literally there. Nineteen sixteen.

Speaker 3 (33:24):
I was literally the yesterday and could have got you
maybe like four or five stickers.

Speaker 1 (33:29):
What you know, I'm not collecting us. No, but the
last time I.

Speaker 3 (33:34):
Got these stickers, you stop collecting them, but not this time.

Speaker 1 (33:37):
You're I know I'm hooked the pans or something. Well,
last time I'm hocked. Anyway, So I tune up with
my container today and I'm very pleased with that nice
tight seal, tight seal. I've put a bolonnaise in here,
and I chuck it into my bag, Willy Nelly, and
I feel happy. You'd be a strap. Yeah, listen to that.
You're not. Your bolognaise isn't tapping out in your handbag? No,
But then I was like, well, I did a grocery

(33:57):
shop yesterday. I have no need for food. So here
are my options. One. I could do a wine shop.
I could fill up the wine rag. We've got a
winerack with seventeen holes, and I think only five bottles
of wine in there at the moment. Okay, so that's
twelve bottles of Wiker buy a dozen bottles of wine.

Speaker 3 (34:13):
I mean we're in across the living crisis.

Speaker 1 (34:15):
Yeah, but I would shuffle the money from other needs, right,
like the mortgage, the mortgage, credit card payments. I jest. Anyway,
I could. I could do a wine shop to try
to get some more stickers or produce a Shannon keeps
trying to play me here and sell me her stickers
because she's she's collecting the stickers, but she doesn't want
the containers. I think your girl need some money. My

(34:37):
offer for you, it's gone up since I last offered
because of interest. Thirty dollars for eleven stiff got a second, Shannon,
you said to me just before twenty dollars for eleven
stick and you ghosted me. So the interest has gone up.
Thirty dollars in store. By the way, we get me
one and a half sticks. Okay, yeah, exactly.

Speaker 3 (34:57):
Do you know when we first talked about this promotion,
when it came out, like literally the first few days,
it was nothing on trade me.

Speaker 1 (35:04):
No one had gave me the stickers, and all of
these stickersges and pages of people like Shannon. Yeah, see
how many stickers do you have eleven? So someone's selling
eight here for ten dollars. Someone's selling twenty for twenty five.
If you if I got eleven stickers off of Shannon,

(35:26):
it hits me right on a medium container. Someone here
is selling eighty one stickers for sixty one dollars. Oh
get our yeah, okay, seventy seventy stickers for ninety six.

Speaker 3 (35:39):
By now, I'm not in the postage and then postage.

Speaker 1 (35:42):
Hearing the market value of Okay, final offer twenty five
dollars and a hug every morning for eleven sticks. How
how how long does the hug till it feels right?
How much did you say? Twenty five? I've gone down
because those were cheap. But I'm saving you the hassle

(36:02):
of dealing with widows on trade me. You are a weirdom. Okay,
you have Northland for this big book of stickers. I'm
going to hale. Okay, you agon, you can get it
down a bit more. I will give you eleven dollars. No, okay,
I will give you fifteen dollars and a hug every morning,

(36:28):
and I will also buy your coffee today. I don't
drink coffee. I will also buy you a hot chocky
from cafe show sponsor, but you're not paying for that
cafe coffee ongoing, I want them more siums, Fledgble and Haley.

Speaker 3 (36:57):
St It is so silly, silly, silly, that silly little pole, silly.

Speaker 1 (37:10):
Silly, Today's little silly, little Papa, Today's silly little poll
was your favorite show ruined because it went on too long?
Now you mentioned this because Welcome to Rixham No ted Lasso,
ted Lasso, the one.

Speaker 3 (37:29):
Ted Lasso is apparently set to return for a season four,
even after like season three kind of wrapped it up,
and for a lot of people, even season three was
a bit like we're done, We're done. It felt like,
come on, it's the same kind of stuff. Yeah, even
though I did like season three, I never watched it.

Speaker 1 (37:47):
You've never watched ted Lasso, No, I know, and even
went on about it and I tried. I watched a
couple of episodes and I was like, I feel it
was also during the lockdown on the pandemic, and it
was a feel good show that I think people liked
maybe because of.

Speaker 3 (38:00):
That, but it was very wholesome.

Speaker 1 (38:01):
Seeah, I was enjoying not feeling good. Do you know
what I mean? So I was watching Miserable Stuff instead. Yes,
So we asked, was your favorite show ruined because it
went on too long? Sixty two percent of people have
said yes, so the majority thirty eight percent people are
saying no. Some feedback. Car Oh sears it's still going
my show, O G. Shorty's fan pi.

Speaker 3 (38:23):
Oh yeah, although it's going to be cut back, isn't it.

Speaker 1 (38:26):
It is cut back three nights a week. Yeah. Yeah,
but it's still going. You'll still be able to follow
you your fabes in your favor storylines. I just want
to still there.

Speaker 3 (38:33):
But see that that's not really I guess that's kind
of not what we're asking really, because that's a drama
that a soap.

Speaker 1 (38:40):
That we've seen going forever, and we're talking about those
shows that you know, like after season three or four
you la yeah? Danny elsays, yes, pretty little liars. I
never saw it way too long. I don't even know
how it ended because I tapped out. Never seen the end.
Oh yep, I'm over it done. Hanna says. Riverdale was
so good for the first few seasons and then it

(39:00):
got weird and they started singing and there was Demons
of witchcraft and all this devil stuff. But I stopped
at the singing. Yeah, went on too long, Rosie says,
it's all I'm sorry. Rosy says, yes, it's always sunny
in Philadelphia. Too long, such a gym, but damn it
needed to end at least five years ago. Really, we
don't agree. We find it so funny, Okay, Melanie says

(39:23):
Dexter his sister falling in love with him.

Speaker 3 (39:27):
Oh yeah, Dexter. And the ending for Dexter was terrible.

Speaker 1 (39:30):
I never watched Dexter.

Speaker 3 (39:32):
It was good, but yeah, it just went on too long.

Speaker 1 (39:34):
Yeah right, you agree with that.

Speaker 3 (39:35):
It's been rebooted as well. Yes, like pre kind of
the prequel.

Speaker 1 (39:41):
Yeah, Stewart has said prison Break first few seasons were also,
but season four onwards it turned bad so fast really
tried to milk the fugitive story, which was done by then. Yeah.
I haven't watched prison Break, but I have been thinking
about it recently. Why just I guess I've heard it? Well, it.

Speaker 3 (40:01):
beIN says Actually, do you know it's had a resurgence
because like so many shows like from the past, people
are now finding on streaming and are loving them.

Speaker 1 (40:11):
Yeah, totally.

Speaker 3 (40:12):
Like there was a moment there's a head in a
box and you're like, Okay. Then they come back from
that and you're like what how.

Speaker 1 (40:21):
beIN says they needed to wrap up The Walking Dead
around season four. After this, we're just going through the
motions to look kind.

Speaker 3 (40:28):
Of the same same, right. Yeah, I've never watched Walking Dead.

Speaker 1 (40:31):
Though now someone said Connor said the one hundred turned
into some bullshat that Prison Breakers getting a reboot this year?
What have you heard, producer Jared?

Speaker 5 (40:43):
Because it was announced last year that the series would
get a reboot by Hulu. In November twenty twenty three,
it was confirmed and apparently it's coming out this year.

Speaker 1 (40:53):
Same cast, no word yet, but.

Speaker 3 (40:56):
Fresh cast or fresh cast and they'll do it properly
this time.

Speaker 1 (40:59):
Who knows, because what's his face? The Australian actor married
a Cyrus? Was that a thing he married?

Speaker 3 (41:08):
He married the older probably in Prison Break?

Speaker 1 (41:11):
Yeah, he married Syrius And I don't remember the actor's name,
but Lincoln was the Lincoln. Yeah, got to His House?
MD was the best show ever. Then in the final
season they changed almost the entire cast and effed with
key character arcs and plot lines. Furious still key.

Speaker 3 (41:27):
Character acts and plot lines, story their story writing.

Speaker 1 (41:31):
And finally, Kirsty says, for God's sake, Gray's Anatomy. Everyone
is dead and gone and they still keep making that thing.

Speaker 3 (41:37):
I know, is it up to like season? Like it
has literally been known for years? Yeah, it's And again,
all of those shows, American, the British.

Speaker 1 (41:48):
Make two seasons, like how many seasons of the Office
were there too? Although the American Office you love and
that went on from many seasons, ten seas, it's the
same thing. It didn't need to stop because it was
kind of commune and that you know, we're just pulling escapades.
But then the way they wrapped it up was perfection.
And then when you ask that cut because it's one
of the biggest shows and people are obsessed with the
US Office, you asked them to do a reunion like, no,

(42:10):
it's perfect finished, we know.

Speaker 3 (42:12):
And the Australian Office is in October heaps the kiwis
in that as well. Ah, very exciting something to look
out for.

Speaker 1 (42:17):
It plays Fledchborne and Haley. Now there are apps worldwide
that are connecting people who want to make friends, and genuinely,
I'm just here to make friends. And it doesn't mean
that I'm going to go back to your house afterwards
and we're gonna do hand stuff. Do you know what
I mean? Like we're gonna hang out and have a
nice time and just eat some food. Why are you laughing?

(42:38):
Carry on? Just nice platonic metaps. Yeah. Yeah. So one
of them is through a dating app that is such
a giant red flag, like could you imagine it? No,
but they're specific. So do you remember Bumble did this
for a bit. They were like, you can make friends
on it, and then they acquired an app called Geneva,
which is finding people through a common desire for books.

(43:06):
Carwen would love this. She's a book worm. Carwen's even
got it. You've even got a new Instagram page for
reading books. I sure do. Yeah. So this Geneva one,
which was like is owned by Bumble, is like you
you like share the books that you're reading. Then you
meet up and hang out and have lunch and like
talk about your books. Like that's fun, that's so fun.

Speaker 3 (43:25):
But you don't do you don't have any fun. You
don't do fun stuff, no fun stuff. Okay, so it's
not a dating app. Yeah, it's just a book friend
app books, right, but.

Speaker 1 (43:35):
Books get kind of saucy, you know. Okay, Well, I
don't know where you're tuning this, but it is it's
just like fine bookworms in your city and then you
meet up and you're like, oh my god, I read
this book. I absolutely love this. Oh my god, let's
be friends. Right, So that's one of them. Another one
is called the Breakfast and this is it's worldwide, but

(43:56):
it's not New Zealand yet, okay, And it's you meet
up with people like you like to have breakfast and
you meet up and you have brecky and it's just friends.
So there was a woman who was talking about this
and she's from Russia and she ended up with a
woman from Ukraine and they went had breakfast and she's
like it was amazing, like we were able to see
each other as people and just like talk about.

Speaker 3 (44:16):
This despite the countries being at war, literally at war.

Speaker 1 (44:20):
But being like we're not at war. We're just friends
in we're the same city. Just want to go out
with a stranger for breakfast. The other one is called
this is like another one which I kind of gets
called Creative Lunch Club. So these are all apps that
you could download, okay, especially if you're traveling, I guess,
but this is more for creative types like filmmakers, artist actors.

(44:42):
I guess. You could all meet up and like shear
creative ideas and it's over lunch. And this app actually
hosts a number of lunches with like a group like
you can't be part of like a dozen people are
meeting up here, like then someone's can steal your ideas.
Oh my god, I've got a movie idea I'm running out.

(45:03):
Yeah yeah, and then someone writes it down. Or if
you have an idea that comes from the discussion, maybe
you just keep it and you hit and write it
down and don't tell people. I don't know. It would
be different talking creatively with friends, Yeah, because you know strangers. Yeah,
because your friends are not gonna well I mean sometimes
they do, but yeah yeah yeah, So I mean I
kind of get this because I was like, I'm not

(45:24):
into this, but I also one to have too many friends,
so I'm not. I'm not. I don't feel that. Yeah,
and I don't struggle to make friends, so I wouldn't
need to like employ a service.

Speaker 3 (45:34):
But then I know people that, yeah, they they don't
want to travel by themselves, but this would be perfect
for them because it would help them to meet people.

Speaker 1 (45:41):
One of the main the main people that are using
this are people like freelancers, remote workers, people who work
from home who don't get that like daily social interaction
because they don't make friends at work, so they don't
make friends at work they're at home. Yeah, And it's
like all sorts of like worldwide research, multiple studies on
like the epidemic that is loneliness that were like lonely,

(46:03):
especially after COVID, we like shut our doors. We'll kind
of like and a lot of people like didn't come
out of it. So they're using these apps now to
go and meet friends. You go make some friends, make
some friends. You go on your dating apps to find
a lover. Yeah, and your breakfast club lunchtime apps. I
don't want anyone to see me eating, Yeah, neither, there's
a prime you know, like, you know how I handle

(46:24):
those browns, I'm very yeah, and you know how I
eat my oats. I mean we're already different and.

Speaker 5 (46:32):
Burps.

Speaker 3 (46:33):
But you don't need a stranger saying.

Speaker 1 (46:35):
That I didn't die play play I would call. I
would describe myself as a touchy filly person, any excuse
to touch people? All right? I love, I love to hug.
I love to be touched. I love to touch.

Speaker 3 (46:52):
I'll only let you hug me after a prolonged holiday,
like holidays, I let you have one hug or I
get one.

Speaker 1 (46:59):
And if we're in a big social situation and as
we're either arriving or leaving, everyone's hugging.

Speaker 3 (47:04):
Yeah, and I feelt forced out.

Speaker 1 (47:06):
You're sort of like you hug other people and it's like,
why would we skip each other even though we spend
so much time.

Speaker 3 (47:10):
And then sometimes I hug people and they're like, wow,
I feel lucky that I got a hard I was
like everyone.

Speaker 1 (47:15):
Else is doing it privileged few. Yeah, so I'm a touch,
a feeling person. I'm not. You are not. But it's
safe to say Drew Barrymore very much is so.

Speaker 3 (47:26):
Because she went viral for the way she was like
sitting so close to guests during her talk show.

Speaker 1 (47:31):
Yeah, so she sort of like tucks up in a
ball on the couch and shuffles right next to them
and will always grab the hand or every now and
then she sort of slips off the couch and gets
on her knees, sort of looking, you know, like holding
on to them as they tell a beautiful story. And
everyone was like, lady, it's a bit much. It's it's
a bit creepy. It's a lot for some people. So
she said she is trying to be like more sort

(47:55):
of reserved with people. She's trying to be less.

Speaker 3 (47:58):
Touchy feeling and put in some boundary and put in
some She's.

Speaker 1 (48:01):
Trying to be practicing physical distance, she says, because it's
her natural instinct to get that close to people. But
the feedback in general is it it's a bit much.
So people are saying you need to be less touchy fairly.
And I was reading this article and I was like, man,
that's like she's trying to work on something. I got
told recently by a very dear friend of mine that

(48:21):
I need to work on being softer. She said I
was being a bit hard a few things, so she
was to soften up and be a bit softer. So
I'm trying to be softer at the moment now. I
did mean straight last week, and so I think there
was an unfair comment to.

Speaker 3 (48:35):
Make After earlier years, I.

Speaker 1 (48:39):
Thought it was an unfair comment to make. But I
took the feedback on board, and this got me thinking,
I think we should get some calls and messages in
from our listeners. What are you trying to be at
the moment more or less something? Or maybe you're trying
to be more assertive in your life, or maybe maybe
you're trying.

Speaker 3 (48:55):
To be more frugal, Like what is the thing you're
working on at the moment now?

Speaker 1 (48:58):
What are you trying to be right now?

Speaker 3 (49:00):
Or can we take calls from people that try this
and that I'm just not a soft person.

Speaker 1 (49:04):
Yeah, maybe you were like I'm trying to be more
patient with my coworkers and it backfired. I have no patience.
I think we're all like working on something in any
given moment. And also it's like we're transseasonal at the
moment we were about to reach spring. Yep. Maybe people
in the head are like, right, some is coming. I'm
going to try to be more open minded to fun opportunity,

(49:28):
is it not? It's not like a physical thing like
I'm trying to be like skinnier, healthier, skinner, No, no, no, no,
I want to be like, what is the sort of
internal thing that you're trying to change in yourself that
you might do very more. She's trying to be more
mindful of people's physical boundaries, and you're trying to be soft,
and I'm trying to be softer with people, even though
I wish that we can move a little faster in life.

Speaker 3 (49:50):
You know, I know we're very similar like that. I
don't have the patience.

Speaker 1 (49:54):
We're like, let's do go go go someone here, just text.
And I'm trying to be more emotionally stable so I
can stop crying at work. Love. It is love, That's
what we're trying to be. Okay. Are they doing a
bit of the heavy lifting at work? It sounds like
they're doing a bit of hem. Sounds like they've got
a lot on their should We've got a lot a
lot going on at work.

Speaker 3 (50:12):
Okay, I'll wait hundred dollars it in give us a call.
You can text her as well. Nine six nine secks.
What are you trying to be more or less of
at the moment?

Speaker 1 (50:22):
I love this? What are you trying to be right now?
Are trying to be right now? Calm?

Speaker 3 (50:26):
Maybe trying to be calm.

Speaker 1 (50:28):
Literally as you said, calm. I'm trying to be really
calm today with my four teenagers. Good luck with that man,
our sit in family. We are growing and we are changing,
we are developing into better people. You know. Thank you
for everybody that's opening up and messaging and we're asking
for staff. What are you trying to be right now?

(50:48):
What are you trying to be right now? Because Drew
Barrymore has come out to say she's trying to be
less touchy feely, she's trying to be more aware of
people's physical boundaries.

Speaker 3 (50:57):
Because she has been wearing it for how she interviews people.

Speaker 1 (51:00):
She like, clings to people and leans on them and
grabs their face and their hands, and everyone's like, it's
a bit m's a bit much. Someone said, I'm trying
to be more graceful when am iut drinking.

Speaker 3 (51:12):
Yeah, okay, do they turn into a bit of a monster?

Speaker 1 (51:14):
Maybe a little bit? Yeah? Or can't read that one,
but I feel you're on that. I'm trying to be
more straight in my posture. Oh I said it. I
was like, no, just be your lovely gay self.

Speaker 3 (51:29):
Yeah, but your gay going after posture. Yeah that's an
important one, isn't it.

Speaker 1 (51:33):
Yeah? Very much. So I'm trying to just be functional
on like a basic level. Someone said, yeah, I'm trying
to listen more without giving my opinion, so trying to
be more attend to my guess. Yeah, I'm trying to
be cool. It's not working. I know, I know that feeling.
I think I grew up being cool and then in

(51:54):
my like early my early adult late teen years, I
think that was very cool and it gets less and
less as you get older, and I really hate I'll
try and be cool, okay, but then when you're trying
to be cool, you're not cool. Oh We've got so
many messages. I'm trying to be more adulty because I'm
not great at that and I'm forty three. I'm trying
to be better with my people skills. So I took

(52:15):
on a second job as a bartender and it's been
the best decision to what we're doing. The drinks now,
lovely take from Shane here. I'm just trying to be
better than the day I was before every day and
peace control in Southland. That's good. That's good now. I
don't know if you're trying to be better on yourself
or better at peace control in Southland, but we appreciate.

Speaker 3 (52:34):
It both, I guess both because you know less rats
and and personal development. Exactly.

Speaker 1 (52:40):
I'm trying to be less of a people pleasing person
and I'm currently getting walked over. Yeah. Yeah, I'm currently
practicing on my ex husband. I'm here coach at a
pony club. I'm trying to be patient with the people
who won't accept change. Bro, it's failing unless you keep
up with the times. Yeah. Ah, okay, I like that.

(53:03):
Oh I lost my job and I don't know what
I'm going to do for now. So I'm trying to
be more comfortable with the lack of control I have
in my life. Yeah. Like, get a little bit more
into the unknowns, go with the flow. Yeah. I'm trying
to be more motivated, pushing through and going to work
even though it's an awful place to be. I'm sorry
that meant to laugh. Maybe look for another job, yeah,

(53:23):
if you can. I'm trying to be more graceful understress
when it work. I'm a preschool teacher. Yeah, that would
be stressful. I'm trying to be social at work and
act interested in people when they tell me about their lives.
Oh my god, that is the worst. Yeah. I'm trying
to be more polite, more of a polite, girly girl

(53:43):
like one of my friends at school, as per my
mother's request. Turns out I cannot subdue my inner sweary man,
and said friend is now in prison. I'm sorry, what
is this? Oh I'm trying to be like this friend
that my mum said I should be more alike. But
now they're friends in prison.

Speaker 3 (54:01):
Oh okay, yeah, so don't be like them. Julia's Julia,
what are you trying to be at the moment, I'm.

Speaker 4 (54:08):
Trying to be more patient?

Speaker 1 (54:11):
Who are you trying to be patient?

Speaker 4 (54:12):
West myself? I broke my leg nine weeks ago.

Speaker 1 (54:18):
Oh my gosh, that would test me.

Speaker 3 (54:20):
So I've got like a sore shoulder, and I can't
do a lot of stuff with it, like I can't
swim at the moment. And it's like, I mean, it's
not a broken leg, but.

Speaker 1 (54:28):
Many sorry, I'm so sorry. Julia. You just caught up
saying that you broke your leg and fletch has a
little tinge, a little twing shoulder. There's just tiny little
little muscle, like a little bit, and to rub.

Speaker 3 (54:41):
It out and your leg in half and you've snapped.
You've actually broken a bone if.

Speaker 1 (54:46):
I three bones, oh my god.

Speaker 3 (54:49):
And so you're just want like hobbling around on crutches
and it's just horrible.

Speaker 1 (54:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (54:54):
I hate to be on bed rest basically for the
first eight weeks because of the swelling.

Speaker 1 (54:58):
That would drive me cra I would I would God
be like, cut it off and let's go, let's go.

Speaker 4 (55:05):
How long kids at home?

Speaker 1 (55:07):
Oh my god? How long is your your projected recovery time?

Speaker 4 (55:12):
Been a moan boot now for possibly another five ways.
Oh my god, I'm going to cast for eight weight.

Speaker 1 (55:23):
How do you break your legs so badly?

Speaker 4 (55:26):
Oh, it's not even a cool story. I stepped over
steps between the and a trailer, over the trailer drawber
and just tripped over just something you do every day.

Speaker 1 (55:36):
Right, it's not even a cool story. Like, it's not
like I was like powa lighting and we had a
rough landing. You're like, no, I just tripped over a trailer.

Speaker 4 (55:46):
I was dragging a deer out of the bush of
my nine year old shot and then this day I
just trip over a trailer.

Speaker 1 (55:51):
Jas crapers, Juliet, thank you for sharing. We go to
Laura and Laura, what are you trying to be right now? Oh?

Speaker 4 (55:58):
I'm trying lot to be a snack monster.

Speaker 1 (56:02):
I love I'm trying to be less of a snack
monster as well. I just want to I just want
to eat all day like this, cheese.

Speaker 3 (56:10):
Like cheeses, a cheese cheese snack.

Speaker 4 (56:13):
I joined this gym about four weeks ago. It wasn't gym.

Speaker 1 (56:18):
I've just net even more the you're burning the calories,
I know. But it's carrot sticks. I'm like, oh it
is a shag spat out the word carrotster.

Speaker 3 (56:35):
Yeah wow, Okay, I think that's a snack monster.

Speaker 1 (56:40):
We got a snack monster on the phone. Okay, well,
good luck, good luck with that, Laura. How's it? How's
it going though? Are you being good? We have we
have losses. You're not going to win them all? You
know on Fridays, Saturdays and half of Sundays doesn't count.

(57:01):
Well yeah, it's like girl math, right yeah yeah, and
as a third of the wake, that's when you're it's
the whole end of the week. It's called the weekend.
It's just a little tail, a little end. Look at
the end. Laura.

Speaker 3 (57:14):
Thanks, you call some more messages messages and what are
you trying to be right now?

Speaker 1 (57:18):
Rich? Someone just text I love that. I'm trying to
be more affectionate and less bossy with my husband. I
like that someone message in saying thank you for the
car therapy siation. We've got five children plus one adult
in the car currently, all bearing their hearts on what
they're trying to be right now. I love that. Trying
to be less savage. Someone said, no, I don't recommend
if you're being savage. I sort of like these. I'm

(57:40):
trying to put on my big girl undies and be
a boss bitch. I'm trying to listen to people without
sharing my experience and making it about me, not them.
That's a telltale sign of ADHD. I'm trying to be
more gooder at England. Yeah good. I like that. I'm
trying to be less late for everything I feel you.

(58:01):
Wish worm was here to hear that one. Oh yeah,
oh my gosh. Late. And someone said I'm trying to
be a doer, not a gunner anymore, okay, and our
family would call that gunner sprowld gunner sprowseye. I'm gonna
do it. I'm gonna do it. When are you gonna
do it? We're gonna do this. I'm gonna do that.
You're gonna be more of a doer and our family.

(58:22):
Now we say less whoey more do we? That's good
good saying so many messages, Thank you so many for
sharing play and Haley fact of the day, day day
day day do do do do do do? Okay, today's

(58:51):
back to the Day has been handed over to us,
of course, in Vaughn's absence and because he's away for
three days this week. He gifted us a theme that
he thought that we could get excited about, Fletch, which
has cat celebrations because we look cat cats, we cat people. Man,
how good are our cats smelling?

Speaker 5 (59:07):
In the.

Speaker 3 (59:09):
Next time around at my place, you can smell my cat.

Speaker 1 (59:12):
You can smell min where sniff? Where was snuff off?
Today I want to talk about the New York Cat
Film Festival. Okay, Now we know there are film festivals
all around the world. New Zealand's got a film festival.
There's the Calm Film Festival, sun Dance, huge festivals.

Speaker 3 (59:27):
And always have those little olive leaf things, the lobby posters.

Speaker 1 (59:31):
Out the laurels. So if you when you if you're
part of these festivals, you can you can have a
film about anything, a horror or a drama, a documentary,
a short film, a long film. But in the New
York Cat Festival, as you can imagine, it's all about cats.
So all of the films that you can be like,

(59:52):
that you can submit or that are selected, have to
be at the center of them about cats.

Speaker 3 (59:57):
About cats are the many film there are they A
Garfield the Garfield Movie.

Speaker 1 (01:00:03):
So just scrolling down. So this year in twenty twenty four,
in October, will be the seventh annual Cat Film New
York Cat Film Festival. Okay, containing one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten, eleven, twelve, thirteen, fourteen, fifteen, sixty, seventeen, eighteen,
ninety twenty films about cats. Oh wow, Okay, here's some

(01:00:26):
of the titles. Yeah, Trace of a Cat, Cat Kingdom,
Cat's Eyewitness News, The Battle for Swan Lake, King of Cats,
Mikey Hammer per private.

Speaker 3 (01:00:40):
Eye, What that's about a cat? That's a private Eye?

Speaker 1 (01:00:43):
Private Eye was with a cast of actual cats from
Paradise Ranch Cat Sanctuary who have the dialogue of a
nineteen forties film noir set in New Orleans. Mikey, the
private investigator is hired to find a stolen million dollar
cat collar. Okay, none of these sound great? Uh, Kitty Crusade,
a biographical documentary about a passionate T and R cat

(01:01:05):
rescuer Danny and the joys and heartbreak of for efforts.
That'll be a good watch.

Speaker 3 (01:01:10):
Do you have any IMDb ratings for any of these movies?

Speaker 1 (01:01:14):
No, because this is the this is their debut.

Speaker 3 (01:01:16):
Okay, right, so they haven't come out.

Speaker 1 (01:01:17):
Um here, this is a film called Nine Lives by
Jesse Davidson from California, a heartwarming documentary about a cat
who has an entire neighborhood fooled with several people believing
they are the only ones who love and look after
this cat.

Speaker 3 (01:01:32):
Okay, this is what cats do.

Speaker 1 (01:01:34):
This is good. A New Home for an Old Cat
is the name of another film from New Mexico, a
chronicle of the adventure of Gottaland, an older feline who
got a second chance when adopted from a shelter, just
like you rescued your cat and I rescued mine. Not
quite similar. Um and here's another one called Cat in
the Box, a short animated film by a Eleveneese student

(01:01:56):
filmmaker at NYU about a cat who hears noises coming
from box and decides to invest to go so there's
twenty films you can go. You can buy tickets in
New York into like one film or a whole cat
ladies there. And then if you have a film about
a cat, you can to our filmmaker listeners. If you
go on Catfilmfestival dot com sports slash submit a film

(01:02:19):
and you can submit a film to be part of
the New York City Cat Film Festival. So today's fact
the day is on Cat Celebration week, that there is
a whole film festival in New York that is dedicated
purely to films about cats. Fact of the day, day
day day day do do do do do do do

(01:02:41):
do do do do do do do do do do
do do do do do do do do do do
do do play play the gime. Yesterday, after my little sickness,
I took some time off to heel yep, and I

(01:03:02):
got told off somewhat a little bit of like a
sharp moment between myself and another member of my chime. Yeah,
now you know, I am I saying it wrong, just
in case people don't. Gymnasium, gymnaesium. Yeah, I watched the
gymnastics at the Olympics. I love someone on bar she's
the best at gime. Yeah right, yeah, sorry, okay, the gime, Yeah,

(01:03:24):
the Giant. I was at the Gime, and I always
work out in a smaller gym within my.

Speaker 3 (01:03:30):
Gym with the women's gym.

Speaker 1 (01:03:31):
Yeah, the women's gym. You work out in the big
in the co ed gym, yeah, everyone and anyone's allowed
in there. Yeah, but I prefer the small quietness of
the women's gym, which is upstairs. It's smaller, but it's
got everything you need. So I thought, and I'm following
a program at the moment, and so I'm not just
sort of like, oh, I'm just making it. I'll make
up my work and I'll go do something else. I'm

(01:03:52):
following a program. And at one point in the program,
I needed the Smith's machine, which was like a little
a raq with that's like aided by thingies polls. One
are those things hydraulics.

Speaker 3 (01:04:05):
Hydra Right, what do you do on it?

Speaker 1 (01:04:07):
Which one is this? I needed to but no, I
needed to do like push ups on the bar and
then pull ups on the bar, so like alternating. So
I used the smith Machine, a big weight rack. Okay, right, anyway,
so I went over to it and I there was

(01:04:28):
a towel sort of next to it, but not on it,
like claiming it, which pet peeve.

Speaker 4 (01:04:35):
I know.

Speaker 3 (01:04:35):
I hate when people do this.

Speaker 1 (01:04:36):
Yeah, you can't just unless you just going to the toilet.

Speaker 3 (01:04:39):
What do you want me to bring like five towels
to the gym and just put them on every machine?

Speaker 1 (01:04:43):
That's kind This is kind of what happened is I
was like, okay, well that's not really claiming it. So
I untwisted the bar to move it to where I
wanted to move it to, which is when I heard
a woman from far off in the distance, like she
wasn't even just like next to it, like oh, I'm
using it, Like she was like two machines along and
doing a completely different movement. And she said, no, excuse me,

(01:05:05):
you can't touch that. I'm using it. There's my towels there.
And I was like, what you're using it? No, you're
using that machine that you're using. Woman. I can see
you with some dumpbells in your hands and you're over there,
and I said, oh, are you using it? And she
was like, oh, yeah, it's part I'm doing a circuit.
At the moment, I was like what, So she was
using what like three or four different things four four.

(01:05:27):
I so you can't beg four things. And she was
moving around this whole like bigger than the studio. She
was like moving around, and I was like, and you
know what annoyed me is I chickened out. I didn't
do that thing where I should have just said, oh,
I'll be quick time you get back around to what
I'll be.

Speaker 3 (01:05:44):
Done, or say something like passag like, oh is this
your private gym? Okay, I'm sorry. I had no idea
this is your private gym.

Speaker 1 (01:05:51):
Oh, I'm so sorry. I thought I paid one hundred
dollars a month to a gymni gym, not your private gym.
And your home a great building? How did you secure
a property in Central Aukland like that? Yeah, that's that's
the kind of thing the time.

Speaker 3 (01:06:03):
It's the kind of thing you need to fire backward
next time.

Speaker 1 (01:06:05):
I didn't when I moved, and I did like something
that wasn't even in my program because I just chickened out.
We need to be more forceful. We just talked about
what we're trying to be more of. In that moment,
I should have been more less apologetic, and I should
have been more like, well, I'm going to use it. Question.
I think you've got it. Other people are using You've
just got to let people and just be flexible with

(01:06:26):
your program. I know I could have used it.

Speaker 3 (01:06:29):
She could all the sets on one machine then go
to the next.

Speaker 1 (01:06:33):
Anyway, someone just message in Jim go of several years here.
She is so in the wrong. You can only use
one machine at a time, and if you're if you're
doing a seat, you just have to wait till I'm done. Yeah,
or she just changes it exactly. I know she changes
Like when you're walking down the street and you're walking
towards each other and you're like, who's going to move?
She should have moved, and I moved and I shouldn't

(01:06:54):
have moved.

Speaker 3 (01:06:55):
Yep, you're being a people pleaser there.

Speaker 1 (01:06:57):
Yeah, I know I was being a people pleaser. Anyway.
I got a bit of a telling off from stranger.
How dare she plays Flitchborne and Haley? So we've all
heard of do you know? Like usually I don't really
pick up on these TikTok things because I'm not on TikTok.
But the other day I found myself saying very demure,
very mindful.

Speaker 3 (01:07:14):
So August the second is when this all started. Yeah,
and because of Jill's Lebron and American TikToker. Yeah, this
is why everybody now is saying very demure.

Speaker 1 (01:07:25):
Yeah, I've got a clap. You see how you do
may make up for work, very demure, very mindful. Yeah.
And then so everyone just like absolutely loved this.

Speaker 3 (01:07:37):
It was only twenty five days ago.

Speaker 1 (01:07:39):
Yeah, I know, and it's gone crazy now. If you
go on TikTok or even Instagram reels which is sort
of like the we like to call it as like
the well crafted, sort of curated you do you do?
Because he arrives on TikTok, it'll survive on Instagram.

Speaker 5 (01:07:53):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (01:07:54):
You see everyone now using this as like they're using
the clip, they're using the words demure. We were talking
today about demure would be a great name for a headdresses.
And then something's happened, right.

Speaker 3 (01:08:07):
Yeah, So Jills Lebron posted a tektok basically sobbing that
they did not trademark demure, and somebody else in America
has swooped in and has registered the trademark of demure
of demure, which means that they can make the money
from it.

Speaker 1 (01:08:25):
So if Jewels wanted to go and make a brand
now which she could like merchandise all of that kind
of stuff. A makeup line that is a set of
Demure makeup. The jewels get asked to do a makeup line,
it would be called Demure maker, verymindful, very sophisticated. And
she can't now because it's been trademarked.

Speaker 3 (01:08:47):
So it's ces TMZ reported this worth noting trademarks aren't
handed out on a first come, first term basis. Necessarily
there's a legal process allowing multiple parties to make their case.
This is also the same in New Zealand, having been
through this in.

Speaker 1 (01:09:01):
The past on another matter, that's another story for another
time outside. That's crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:09:12):
We just somebody don't have enough time to talk about
six minutes somebody else trademarking fletchenborn as a trademark anyway,
But I assurged the New Zealand Intellectual Property Office database
and website I'm also familiar with, and nobody in New
Zealand not a single person has trademarked Demure.

Speaker 1 (01:09:31):
So does a trademark only stand in the country that
it's registered in. I don't know. We couldn't open I mean.

Speaker 3 (01:09:42):
Yeah, but Amazon would be trademarked here, they would have
trademarked everywhere there are worldwide data.

Speaker 1 (01:09:49):
Yeah, but so we could buy it. But that is
also why Burger.

Speaker 3 (01:09:53):
King and Australia is called Hungary Jacks because the person
that years and years ago Burger King wouldn't sell it
to them and they couldn't get the trademark in Australia.
So that's why they traded something else in Australia. Little
little side fact.

Speaker 1 (01:10:08):
Yez, So what if we did it flit for? And
Hailey very very demure, very mindful. Well, I mean I'm imaginings.
I mean we're not using anyway and us talking about
it other people may I mean it costs a couple
of hundred bucks to do it and then every year
I think you've got to pay or is that for
a company? I don't know. I don't know. I don't
have many trade marks. Do you know who's also filed

(01:10:29):
a trademark? Tour our Girl has? Did she? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:10:36):
Man, she was quick because loathing.

Speaker 1 (01:10:38):
And entertainment purposes, so like branding merchandise.

Speaker 3 (01:10:41):
Because I knew someone that would swoop in and get
website domains things as soon as they became like a
thing so that other people couldn't get like whatever dot com.

Speaker 1 (01:10:53):
Just making sure Hailey sprail dot com IS's just sitting there. Okay,
that's good to know. How I put on a whibs.

Speaker 3 (01:11:00):
Alright, you feed your feet pictures. Oh my god, Hailey
sproutfeetpecks dot com.

Speaker 1 (01:11:07):
My website domain today in z's Okay, I'm gonna work
on this. Haley sproil dot com. Feetpecks coming, So shivers, guys,
ten out of ten podcasts, that one. Yeah, I think
two of us were ten out of ten and one
of us wasn't or who was that? Which one? We'll
just leave that. We'll just leave that there.

Speaker 3 (01:11:25):
Well, if you enjoyed today's podcast, give us a rating
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Speaker 1 (01:11:28):
And this is a bad one, don't know, don't bother?

Speaker 3 (01:11:31):
Yeah no, don't don't bother zid ms fletch Vaughnon Haley