502. How High Performers Build Resilience in Chaotic Times with Dr. Robyne Hanley-Dafoe

What if the ability to bounce back isn’t something you’re born with—but something you can build? This week, you’ll hear from Dr. Robyne Hanley-Dafoe, a behavioral psychologist and expert on resilience and stress. Robyne breaks down how resilience is not just about “toughing it out”—it’s about building habits that create consistent, calm comebacks even in the face of chaos. We talked about how high achievers fall into the “when-then” trap, why your family relationships are the glass balls you can’t afford to drop, and how naming your emotions for just 90 seconds can change your entire day—and maybe even your future. We also explore how chronic stress hijacks your brain, how to get back to shore when you’re overwhelmed, and why the answer isn’t in hydrogen water or another hype cycle. It’s in the basics—sleep, movement, quiet rituals, and trusted people who check your blind spots. Challenge of the Week: When you reunite with someone you love—your partner, your kids, a teammate—let your face light up. Let them feel how good it is to be seen, and how good it is to come home. *** To learn more, and for the complete show notes, visit: the1thing.com/pods. We talk about: How to recognize and interrupt the “when-then” trap The 90-second rule that can reduce long-term emotional distress Why showing up for your relationships is a resilience strategy Links & Tools from This Episode: Learn more: drrobyne.ca Follow Dr. Robyne on Instagram: @dr_robynehd Connect with Dr. Robyne on LinkedIn Free Resources Want to be a guest or share feedback? Email [e-mail] or send us an audio note at Speakpipe.com/the1thing. Produced by NOVA