why isolation isn't healthy & how to strengthen friendships through vulnerability

Loneliness leads to mind games. It shakes your faith and leaves you feeling worse than before. In this episode, Lily unpacks what isolation is and is not, explains why we need community, and shares ways to be the initiator in your friendships and relationships. This is episode #4 of the SURF series — Stop, Understand, Relationships, Faith — a five-week journey where we explore how to find joy and purpose in life's ups and downs. How are you riding the wave? Share with the crew over on Instagram @8020pod!  Download the SURF Guidebook: https://lilyrakow.myflodesk.com/surf  Listen to the previous SURF episodes: learn to ride the wave: an introduction to the SURF series  Stop chasing distractions: living with purpose in your 20s Understanding big emotions amidst life’s challenges: how to navigate your feelings when it’s chaotic, overwhelming, and confusing  Have three extra minutes to provide feedback on the show? Complete the 80/20 Audience Survey here: https://forms.gle/8rtjELKqFjR6MJdJ8 Connect with 80/20 https://instagram.com/8020pod Connect with Lily https://instagram.com/lilyrakow Submit to the 80/20 Advice Column https://forms.gle/L486EGDeX34CEVqX8 Join the newsletter https://lilyrakow.myflodesk.com/news Other Links Find Your People by Jennie Allen https://a.co/d/bkY2899  How to Find and Maintain Healthy Female Friendships in Your 20’s  Vulnerability, Friendships in Your 20’s, Navigating Transitions with Natalia Seliger Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices