October 1, 2025 • 32 mins
A single phone call flipped our week, our plans, and our priorities—and taught us how “having a will” can still leave a family drowning in decisions. We open the door to our real-time experience of sudden loss: caring for Dad, sorting thirty years of collectibles, and navigating the awkward surge of relatives who appear for stuff but not support. From stocking a pantry to turning down sheets so a walker can slide in, we trace the small acts that bring dignity back, then get practical about the paperwork that actually reduces stress.
We break down the essentials: medical and financial powers of attorney, living wills, and clear beneficiary designations for accounts, cars, and property. We explain how probate gets triggered, why transfer‑on‑death (TOD) and payable‑on‑death (POD) tools matter, and how a simple conversation about cremation, ashes, and sentimental items can save months of conflict. The legal steps are straightforward once you know them; the relief of fewer forms and faster access is priceless when your family just needs time to breathe.
Our focus also turns to safety and resilience. October marks Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and we’re launching Dear Silence, You Lost—now we get the last word on Amazon, with proceeds funding scholarships for the Contagious Smile Academy. We share free survivor kits, Safe Home resources, and masterclasses you can download today, plus programs for caregivers, special needs families, and kids. Along the way we talk honestly about body image, confidence, and learning to ignore the stare that tries to shrink us. If you do one thing after listening, make a document, name a decision‑maker, or share a resource with someone who needs it. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s procrastinating on their paperwork, and leave a review to help more people find help when they need it most.
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SPEAKER_03 (00:02):
Good evening and welcome to another episode of
King David's Well Unstoppable.
My handsome, wonderful soulmatehusband, Erin here.
Hi babe.
SPEAKER_01 (00:10):
How do y'all?
SPEAKER_03 (00:11):
So I want to take a moment and say we apologize
again.
We've been really bad aboutgetting these out on time.
We had a death in the family,very unexpected.
And so we literally had to rushout of town to go and help.
(00:32):
And it's it's been a lot.
So please, you know, this wastotally unexpected.
If you don't have your affairsin order, your will, your living
will, your power of attorney,your medical power of attorney,
please, please get your affairsin order because what a
difference it makes.
And even if your affairs, whatyou think are in order, they
(00:55):
might not be because um thisperson had a will and a power of
attorney and a living will andall of that, but there were some
um independent documents thatmost people don't think about
that could have been done thatwould make things a little
easier.
I mean, everything is in there,but it can still be easier for
(01:18):
your loved ones, and it'ssomething to think about.
SPEAKER_04 (01:21):
So enough about that.
SPEAKER_01 (01:26):
No, keep going.
SPEAKER_04 (01:27):
What else would we say about it?
SPEAKER_01 (01:29):
What what else would we say?
Gar.
Love my life.
Give me the microphone.
There's plenty to say aboutthis.
I hope that somewhere theseindividuals are listed.
(01:56):
Because you pieces of shitcockroaches that only come out
after the crumbs have fallen,right?
That your mother has died, youcome out of the woodworks for
her stuff, for the stuff thatshe and her husband, which will
(02:17):
be my father, have gathered over30 freaking years.
You come out of the woodworksfor little scraps, but where
were you when they were alive?
SPEAKER_03 (02:28):
Well, your dad is still alive, they thought.
SPEAKER_01 (02:30):
Where were you during all this arrangements of
the hospital, the crimination?
Uh you know, you you've got allthis going on.
Where were you?
Oh, you're not there.
SPEAKER_03 (02:42):
It's not hey, how can I help?
It's what can I take?
I mean, and and that's been whatis so shocking.
I mean, we went down there andI've always loved your dad, even
though thank you for letting mevent.
We're not done, you're gonnahave at it.
SPEAKER_00 (02:59):
No, I'm done.
SPEAKER_03 (03:00):
But what I'm trying to say is, you know, I've always
loved your dad, even though hewas first introduced to me as a
I don't know, um, somebody thathe wasn't, a completely
different character than who heis.
And it was dumbfounding.
And then we get down there, andthey have 33 years of stuff, if
(03:27):
you want to say.
I mean, you know, she was ahoarder, safe to say, right?
He is a little bit of a hoarder,but they don't hoard like trash
and garbage and food and stufflike that.
It's collectibles, a lot ofChristmas decorations, right?
Like all year long Christmasdecorations.
There's beautiful things,there's just a lot of it, right?
(03:50):
So we spent the entire timewe've been there um helping
clean up, go to the store andget groceries because he didn't
have any food in the house, um,you know, taking care of him,
making arrangements, things ofthat nature.
And there are things that neededto get done.
And it's just, it was just myhusband and I and our daughter,
(04:13):
and then his half-brother camedown and helped for a couple of
days.
But he's right, like we couldn'tget other people um that lived
like 500 feet away to come andand support and help in any way,
but you know, now it's likecockroaches are coming out, you
(04:37):
know, about like what'shappening with this, and what
about this, and what about this?
And and you know, we're takingeverything to sell for him,
we're taking everything to helphim generate some, you know,
other money coming in to sellthese things.
We're not keeping them, we'rehelping him to what what am I
(04:58):
looking for here at T UI?
Help with the estate, I guess.
SPEAKER_01 (05:03):
We're helping him mentally also because we're
getting him out of the home thathim and his wife put together
for the past 30 years.
It is it it tears him up to bethere.
So he doesn't want to be therewithout her, which is
understandable.
So he's he's gonna live with us,and we're gonna make sure that
(05:25):
he has a a happy and right.
But you know, my wife was rightat the very beginning of this
podcast, she said, make sure youhave all your paperwork in
order.
There's a reason for this, guys.
It is so stressful trying togather all the signatures and
(05:48):
and acquire stuff.
Uh, you've got so much to doafter that you don't need to do
this and that at the same time.
SPEAKER_03 (05:57):
But I mean, her her fares were in order, right?
So that's not the problem.
The problem is is like thetedious little things, like
there's a few other cars thatshe had in her name, for
instance.
And so even though you know thewill states what it states, you
still have to probate certainthings in order to get that
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taken care of to her wishes,which instead of doing like a
you know, transfer of deed orsomething like that prior to.
I mean, yes, it still goes towho she named as the beneficiary
of each item.
However, if you did a transferof deed, it would it would cut
out a lot of the middleman, Iguess, is what we're trying to
say.
SPEAKER_01 (06:36):
So, I mean, get your stuff together and I mean it it
to me, it seems like one ofthose freaking movies where
where you've got you know eightkids and you know dad passes
away and all of them were atodds with each other, and then
once dad passes, they all cometogether and they say, Okay,
what's fine?
Okay, I'm firstborn, I shouldget the house.
(06:58):
I'm secondborn, I should get youknow the Ferrari.
And it's it's just where wereyou when they were alive?
Where were you helping clean upthe yard or helping after a
hurricane?
I had to go cut down severaltrees after a year and a half
after a hurricane passed throughuh my grandfather's property,
which is right next door to myfather's property, which is
(07:22):
being rented out to her son.
My stepmother's son is living onthat property, refused to clean
up, refused to help.
Whatever he is.
So you know what?
It just it irks me.
SPEAKER_03 (07:39):
Yeah, you know, here's the thing we're hours and
hours and hours, hours away.
It's not a five minute,10-minute, 20-minute, two-hour,
four-hour, whatever drive.
And when they lost power yearsago, we in the middle of the
night, the minute we found outabout it, we went right down
there and got them.
SPEAKER_01 (07:55):
Like before that night when they had no AC.
SPEAKER_04 (07:59):
They had no AC, we went right down and got them.
SPEAKER_01 (08:01):
And we understand from a medical standpoint, you
have to have AC.
SPEAKER_04 (08:05):
And then there was another time we went down there
and brought them back in themiddle of the night, and then um
it's just ridiculous.
SPEAKER_01 (08:15):
People don't appreciate their their loved
ones or family while they'realive, they just won't after the
fact.
SPEAKER_02 (08:22):
Well, some I understand, like some parents,
if you have nothing to do, ifthey're asshole narcissistic
tricks, then that's a wholedifferent ballgame, and that's a
different story.
SPEAKER_03 (08:32):
Your dad is didn't you write a book about that?
Last night, let's not go there.
Um, but you know, your your dadis sweet, even though the
perception of his character wasportrayed different.
Oh, it was awful.
It was awful.
And you know, we made it veryclear to him what our intentions
(08:54):
were, you know, when we weredown there, is we want him to
have an unconditional, loving,supportive family that is gonna
be there for him, that's gonnatake care of him, that's gonna
love him, and you know, givefaith a grandfather that she so
desperately cracking me up.
(09:15):
Oh, and needs, oh, oh, can Iplease they're they're joking
around now.
She has another ally on herteam, and he's hilarious, but we
have no doubt now where myhusband gets his nasty dirty
mind or math because grandpa isjust like that.
(09:35):
They are so much alike, it'seerie, it's eerie, and the
stories that he he shares, it iseerie, it's fun, it's funny,
it's eerie.
SPEAKER_01 (09:49):
And that's what he needs right now.
He needs he needs love, he needslaughter in his life.
Uh, he's ready to move on, youknow.
Even though this just happened,he's ready to move on.
SPEAKER_02 (09:59):
Not move on his head, but right so put the claws
back in, but to get rid of thehurt, right?
SPEAKER_04 (10:07):
And that's what we want to help him do.
SPEAKER_03 (10:10):
And it was so nice because he was just so like
appreciative.
Like we went down there and waslike, Come on, we're gonna go
get you something to eat, orlike we went and got him, you
know, a biscuit for breakfast.
And then I went to the grocerystore and I filled up his
kitchen and pantry with foodbecause he didn't have anything,
(10:30):
you know.
And then when I was like, Can Iget you a sandwich?
Can I get you a sandwich?
He's like, What?
And and it's just this likelittle things before we left,
you know, we had cleaned out hisbedroom.
Um, and before we left, I wentin there and I made his bed, and
I just had this little daddyMichael, Michael Dad on my
shoulder.
That was like, How the hell didyou expect me to get in the bed
(10:53):
if you made it like that?
So he he's older and he uses awalker.
So I was like, you know what,smart ass, I'll tell you what
I'm gonna do.
So I turned the bed down so hecould just get in it, right?
And so he was just in tears whenhe saw and he was like, You
didn't have to do that.
I'm like, you're right, I didn'thave to do that, but I did it,
(11:14):
you know, it's those little tinythings like my husband.
I love when he leaves me postingnotes.
It's the best, sweetest thingever.
Does he do it often?
No, but I love when he does, andit's the best, it's so sweet,
and it's just little things likethat that remind you that you're
valued and cherished and love.
(11:34):
It does, but oh my god, thestories, and and he's even said,
I'm gonna corrupt my mygranddaughter gone there, like,
oh, too late, too late, and youknow, she's on cloud nine, she's
so excited to have him coming,and you know, he he was just
(11:55):
enamored with her, and heoffered her this bracelet, and
you know, my our daughter, Iwill say my our daughter is so
sweet, she doesn't care likewhat it is or the value of it or
anything like that.
She was so taken that he thoughtenough to you know say, I want
(12:15):
to give you this.
She was so excited to have it,and it's you know, like she
didn't spend time with her heruncle when he came down to help,
and they were laughing andcutting up and having fun, and
you know, we were all sittingaround night after night after
night, just laughing and tellingstories and bonding and spending
(12:36):
time together, and just youknow, just doing things that
nobody does anymore, and andit's so critical that people do
those things, it's so critical,and so many people are more all
about their freaking electronicsthan they are about the people
that are in the room, and it'sjust irritating beyond measure.
SPEAKER_01 (12:59):
So, Victoria Posting.
I was hoping you were gonnaremember that.
SPEAKER_03 (13:05):
Let's not talk about the note we found while we were
there.
SPEAKER_01 (13:10):
So, what would help our listeners in this situation
as far as wills, power ofattorneys?
SPEAKER_03 (13:19):
Well, they need to make sure that they first of all
have one of the most crucialthings is power of attorney, a
medical power of attorneybecause they're completely
separate, right?
I'm not a lawyer, however, I docreate you know the power of
attorneys and the living willand the wills, and you can reach
out to me with the wholevictoria at a contagious
(13:40):
smile.com.
And it's I'm not a lawyer, but II do many, many of these.
I I was um and did go to schoolfor being a paralegal, but you
go and you have all these, andthat way you don't you don't
have to worry about burdeningyour family with oh my god, do
we put her on or him on afeeding tube because they are
(14:03):
incapacitated at the moment, ordo we put them on a ventilator?
Do we give them antibiotics ifthey do or do not want?
Do we let them be in a vegetatedstate?
How long do they stay in avegetated state?
These are, you know, I like I'mvery methodical.
I I want every question possiblebecause I don't want to put the
burden on a family, like forinstance, our family is very
(14:24):
medical, right?
So a family that's not, or youhave to sit there and think
about it.
I don't want my husband to belike, does my wife want a feedy
to?
You know, and then to carry theguilt of I have to make the
decision.
Is it the right one or is it thewrong one?
Am I making the right decisionfor my wife?
(14:46):
Is this what she would want?
Um, these are decisions that youknow you should make, and that
way you're not putting thisburden, even though it's really
not a well, it can be a decisionon the family.
You're not making them carrythis.
SPEAKER_00 (15:02):
It's already stressful enough.
SPEAKER_03 (15:04):
It is, and here's the thing we had no idea that
she was even that she was evensick.
I mean, we didn't have the firstclue, and then we get a phone
call that says she passed away,and that's you know what we got
(15:25):
with that phone call.
My husband's mouth is wide open.
SPEAKER_01 (15:30):
No, okay, so you advise uh first thing is medical
power of attorney.
Yes, you've got a will, thenyou've got you've got a living
will, you've got a last will andtestament.
Correct.
You've got um executor, thebeneficiaries, right?
SPEAKER_03 (15:50):
But then like if you're leaving your house and
your house is saying in onespouse's name, but not in both
spouses' name.
Do a transfer of deeds or um youhave to go through those things
and figure out why.
SPEAKER_01 (16:17):
Oh I'm sorry, we had a technical difficulty there.
Um, yeah, so um houses in inwhoever's name, vehicles, you
know, all this is very stressfulafter the fact because you you
may or may not have signaturesdone.
(16:38):
Um if you don't, then like mywife said, things go through
probate, and that could take acouple years.
So, y'all, for for your sake,for a peace of mind, uh get
these paperworks and thesedocuments done while your loved
one, your family member is stillin the right state of mind,
(16:59):
still have their faculties, andthey're able to do it.
Is it morbid?
Yes, it's it's very morbid.
Dad, let's sit down and have aconversation about your death.
Okay, let's talk about yourfuneral arrangements, your
burial.
You want to be cremated?
Uh you know, talk to me, Dad.
You know, that yes, it's morbid,but it's necessary.
SPEAKER_03 (17:19):
Where do you want your crucial?
SPEAKER_01 (17:20):
Absolutely necessary.
It's got to be done.
SPEAKER_03 (17:22):
These things we'll figure out.
The ashes, where do you wantthem?
You know, who do you want themto go to?
These are all questions that Ianswer.
And when I fill out thesedocuments, it's so important.
Refresh to go through and lookat everything and understand.
Um it's a lot going on, youknow, there's a lot to be done.
(17:44):
But also, I want to take aminute, and you know, I hate,
hate, babe, babes, I hate to usethis as a leeway, but to today,
as this releases, is October 1stand it's domestic wild.
SPEAKER_00 (17:58):
Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_03 (17:59):
And you know, a lot of people don't survive domestic
months, right?
And that's another reason tohave your affairs in order so
that anything you have set upfor your kids, god forbid, you
you have it taken care of.
You have no way of the assholeof the abuser taking what
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belongs to your children.
You know, we just today arelaunching uh the Dear Silence,
You Lost.
Now we get the last word.
It is a collection of the mostbeautiful survivors using their
voice, telling their story,using this for growth for other
people.
That is on Amazon, and right nowit's on special for 1899.
(18:43):
That book is also in an ebook.
You could also do it as anebook, but the 1899, that entire
you know, that entire amountgoes to the scholarships for the
Contagious Smile Academy.
And right now we have a$497masterclass about this abuse as
(19:05):
well that coincide with thebook, and it's free.
I'm doing it free, and then Ihave the I can already get
smell.
Then I have the dear silence.
If you go into the academy, yougo to a contagious smile dot M
as in Mary N as in Nancy dot coand join free.
(19:29):
Then you go to the Dear Silence,which is all under the Safe
Haven Phoenix Center collection.
So you have the$497 uhmasterclasses free.
I did a Dear Silence Survivorkit where it has all this
(19:49):
information on things that youcan do, how to start getting
stuff prepared for when ithappens, um, how to get yourself
safe.
That whole kit is free.
You can download that.
There's PDFs in there, you canphoto screen that and lock that
picture away in your phone.
(20:10):
That is done.
There's another one called SafeHome that is also under the Dear
Silence collection.
That was a$297 value course forfree.
These are all going together forDomestic Violence Awareness
Month.
And then if you go in there andyou have a hankering to say, you
know what, there's a lot ofstuff in here that can be very
valuable for anyone, not justmyself, but if you have$5, you
(20:35):
have$10 to offer a scholarshipfor somebody, you know, a child,
a teenager, an adult, um, asurvivor of narcissism, a
survivor of verbal, emotional,financial, physical, all of
this, sexual abuse, then weprovide the scholarship and
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waive the fees for everybodyelse.
And we are doing this forprofit.
We are doing this literally justto break even and be able to
support and pay for theplatforms to which we have to
carry it on.
I've never taken a paycheck.
My husband has never taken apaycheck, but we want to be able
to pay it forward.
And if we do not get donations,we will not be able to continue
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at this level to do what we aredoing.
So it's really imperative thatpeople see it's October, it's
domestic violence awareness.
And you know, I'm so proud tosay that it was eight years ago
this month, eight years ago thismonth that I released Who Kick
First.
And uh NBC did a story about it,and it was amazing.
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And uh I was honored to be apart of it, and our daughter got
an innate for her work.
Here goes our phones yelling atme for saying that.
Uh, but it is true, and it hasbeen eight years since that
release, and there's been manyanother book out since.
Um, and now to say that we'vegone from that to building this
academy, and right now there'sover 150 courses, most of them
(22:06):
are free.
Uh, we will only be able to dothat with the continuing support
of people who want to makedonations.
So please think about it.
Like we went on the drive, wewere exhausted and we went
through Starbucks, right?
And just one little coffee, onecoffee was$5.25 or something
like that for the coffee.
(22:28):
And we each got one.
So three of us, right?
And normally we would never dothat, but we're driving and
we're trying to be safe, and youknow, we're driving down there,
the three of us and the twodogs, and it was like$30 or
something crazy.
And it was because our daughterhas to eat.
Um, and so she ended up gettinglike a couple Danishes or
(22:49):
whatever it was with it,whatever the case may be.
And um that's what ended uphappening.
But if you can drive through andget a coffee for$5.25, you could
please, please, please thinkabout the fact that one in four
women, so you, your mom, yoursister, or your daughter.
Did I get four there?
I'm pretty tired.
(23:10):
You, your mom, your sister, yourdaughter.
Yeah, there's four.
Hello.
That there's one in four gothrough some type of abuse.
And what if it was your nextdoor neighbor?
What if it was your best friend?
What if it was your sister oryour daughter?
And they didn't have the means.
Well, guess what?
I've had women that say, andI've had men in the community,
(23:30):
I've had men, I've had people inthe LGBTQ community who have
said, I don't have five dollarsto pay for this.
I don't ask questions, okay.
I give them the code and theygo, because you know, here's the
thing if you're gonna lie aboutneeding a you know, a
scholarship for a course aboutsurvival of abuse, then I'm
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gonna give it to you regardless,right?
Right?
And if somebody's gonna lieabout that, it's five dollars,
and that's just that's a veryconscious right, it's a
five-dollar course or afive-dollar fee, and I'll waive
it for anybody.
You know, what are they gonna dowith the course?
They're gonna take it, and I seethat they take it, so it makes a
big difference.
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And anybody who needs to go inthere and and get that help, get
that support, and it's not justcourses in there about domestic
violence, you know.
A lot of people they don'trealize that when you've been
through abuse, you're inrecovery, and a lot of people
may not agree with that, but youare you are in recovery.
I'm in recovery, you're inrecovery, and so there are
(24:36):
courses in there all aboutrecovery as well.
And so there's something inthere for everybody.
And I'm sorry, I always have totalk about it because you're a
boy.
But we have the stucco squad forkids, special needs kids, so
flipping cute, so sweet, socute.
We have caregiver courses,special needs parents courses.
(24:57):
I've even done two courses thatare huge about special needs
families, how they can make endsmeet, how they can do side
hustles and do extra jobs on theside, how they can find the way
to do this, um, from starting itup to launching and everything
in between.
It's all on there.
I mean, and it's free to join.
(25:17):
So, what have you got to lose?
People will pay$500,000,$500 to$8,000 a month for these shots
to lose weight, but they'redoing so much harm to your body.
And people are doing all of thisstuff to change the look of
themselves on the outside (25:36):
baked nails, fake hair, fake tan, fake
eyelashes, botox, this,injections here, butt lifts
here, breast augmentation.
You know, you look at this andyou think this, hey, to each
their own.
Why can't you do something foryourself that helps your
insides, that helps your peaceof mind, that helps you realize
(25:58):
how amazing you are, and to helpyou get over those humps.
Everybody goes through it.
Everybody.
We didn't know a week ago thathis dad's wife, his stepmom, was
gonna pass away.
Like we had not a first clue.
It's a phone call, you know.
Think about it.
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You're having dinner,everything's great, or you're at
work and and everything is fine,and it's hold on a minute, my
dad's calling, and it's you'llnever believe what is that.
It's that fast, right?
And you just have do somethingfor yourself, do something for
yourself.
Who cares?
Oh, I'm about to eat this.
Who cares what everybody elsethinks?
(26:39):
And I'm being sorry.
I mean, who and I don't want letme trick my let me reward that
because right now I'm not beingsorry.
My husband's making me eat thosecorns.
It's it's literally why whywhat?
I have body dysphoria.
I will be the very first toadmit it.
I can't walk by a mirror and notbe grotesque by what I see, and
(27:01):
I'm the first to admit it, youknow.
SPEAKER_01 (27:04):
So they taste good.
SPEAKER_03 (27:06):
No, I'm not eating it.
But here's the thing (27:07):
I used to be told you used to turn heads,
now you turn stomachs.
SPEAKER_01 (27:12):
But you you said the word used to correct in the
past, correct, many, many yearsago.
Correct.
Okay, so why give a shit nowwhat other people think?
That's what all of our coursesare for, is to help well then
have somebody hypnotize you,have somebody teach you.
SPEAKER_03 (27:30):
Okay, as soon as I know what you said in that court
from that.
SPEAKER_01 (27:32):
Well, as soon as I get a hypnot hypnotism, a
hypnotism.
SPEAKER_02 (27:39):
I'm gonna make I'm gonna ask him to tell you.
No, let's keep the harping onthis.
Talk about we're always on thesame page.
SPEAKER_00 (27:44):
We're on the same page, right?
Right now, we're not gonna pageit.
SPEAKER_02 (27:47):
Like it's it's like ten times today.
I'll talk about our on the samepage there.
Please, thank you.
SPEAKER_01 (27:53):
We are on the same page, like right now.
No, talking about we don't, Idon't care what other people
think about me.
They don't like my scruffybeard, they don't like my
redneck t-shirts I wear, theydon't like my boots that I stomp
around in.
I don't give a fine two centshit.
Okay, you don't give a what Iwear what I want to wear.
SPEAKER_00 (28:15):
Right now, I dress how I like to dress.
SPEAKER_01 (28:19):
I like to feel comfortable, I like a nice,
slack, relaxed pair of jeans.
I don't like them butt huggersthat these tight short britches
wearing people wear.
SPEAKER_03 (28:31):
Yes, it's just uh you bend it over and split vote
badways.
SPEAKER_01 (28:36):
I'm not bending over anywhere in front of somebody
with tight breeches.
Regardless, don't worry aboutwhat other people think.
Y'all see how she is skirtingaround this subject.
SPEAKER_03 (28:53):
I don't wear split store now.
Listen, so and you don't knowthis, babe, we're at the grocery
store today, okay?
And as we're getting ready tocheck out, this person behind
me, who's probably 55, 60 yearsold, is staring at me like I am
like the serial killer comingafter, right?
(29:17):
Like staring at me hard.
And and I see it.
I get it.
I feel that you're staring atme, right?
Obviously, she needs a hug, it'snot coming for me.
And our beautiful child Fayegave her the best eat shit I've
ever seen.
It was great.
So what else does my daughterdo?
She walks up beside me and putsher arm around my dog and hugs
(29:42):
me.
I mean, and that is a big, youknow, eat crow kind of comment.
You know, I mean, seriously,that's just amazing.
See, this is how my husband islike All you gotta do is hit the
other thing on the right, babe,and it'll make it smaller.
(30:05):
My husband normally iscompletely and utterly involved
in this podcasting event.
Right now, he's all about likepersonalizing a card with our
face on it.
SPEAKER_01 (30:20):
It's my new Debit card.
SPEAKER_03 (30:21):
Okay, but right now this is your new podcast.
SPEAKER_01 (30:24):
Well, I've invented, I've said my piece, I've flipped
my switch.
You need to flip your switch.
Don't care about what otherpeople say.
SPEAKER_03 (30:32):
I'm still dead.
SPEAKER_01 (30:33):
Whatever.
SPEAKER_03 (30:34):
Would you please tell people because some people
don't know I've lost all hearingin the right time?
I have nothing.
Not uh there's a so you justtold them.
Okay, so yes, and you know what?
I don't even have one side of mybody that is completely correct
(30:56):
anymore.
Yeah, I I have to do the bread.
So Michael on one side.
SPEAKER_01 (31:04):
Why do you want to be with a woman who's scarred up
from stip to bottom?
Who's broken, who has one arm,no dear head, who has one
semi-decent ear.
I'm feeling like a van Gell.
Who has body dysphoriayesterday?
(31:28):
Because no, she has my heart.
Bye, Dr.
SPEAKER_03 (31:35):
Same page, always on the same page, all the way on
the same page.
SPEAKER_01 (31:40):
Y'all, this is my soulmate, the love of my life.
Give me a kiss.
And I will be with her forever.
And that's our show.
SPEAKER_05 (31:50):
Take a sec.
SPEAKER_01 (31:51):
I love you.
I love you most.
Good night, y'all.
Thanks, Felicita.
Contagious smile unstoppablewith Victoria and Michael.
SPEAKER_04 (32:01):
And go get our dear silence.
SPEAKER_01 (32:02):
Yeah, y'all go pick that up on Amazon.
SPEAKER_03 (32:05):
If you can't find it by the title, because it's a new
release, look it up under myname, Victoria Cure,
V-I-C-T-O-R-I-A-C-U-O-R.
SPEAKER_01 (32:16):
That sounds like the Beaky Mouse song.
unknown (32:18):
I tried.
SPEAKER_02 (32:21):
Thanks, guys.
Good evening and welcome to another episode of
King David's Well Unstoppable.
My handsome, wonderful soulmatehusband, Erin here.
Hi babe.
SPEAKER_01 (00:10):
How do y'all?
SPEAKER_03 (00:11):
So I want to take a moment and say we apologize
again.
We've been really bad aboutgetting these out on time.
We had a death in the family,very unexpected.
And so we literally had to rushout of town to go and help.
(00:32):
And it's it's been a lot.
So please, you know, this wastotally unexpected.
If you don't have your affairsin order, your will, your living
will, your power of attorney,your medical power of attorney,
please, please get your affairsin order because what a
difference it makes.
And even if your affairs, whatyou think are in order, they
(00:55):
might not be because um thisperson had a will and a power of
attorney and a living will andall of that, but there were some
um independent documents thatmost people don't think about
that could have been done thatwould make things a little
easier.
I mean, everything is in there,but it can still be easier for
(01:18):
your loved ones, and it'ssomething to think about.
SPEAKER_04 (01:21):
So enough about that.
SPEAKER_01 (01:26):
No, keep going.
SPEAKER_04 (01:27):
What else would we say about it?
SPEAKER_01 (01:29):
What what else would we say?
Gar.
Love my life.
Give me the microphone.
There's plenty to say aboutthis.
I hope that somewhere theseindividuals are listed.
(01:56):
Because you pieces of shitcockroaches that only come out
after the crumbs have fallen,right?
That your mother has died, youcome out of the woodworks for
her stuff, for the stuff thatshe and her husband, which will
(02:17):
be my father, have gathered over30 freaking years.
You come out of the woodworksfor little scraps, but where
were you when they were alive?
SPEAKER_03 (02:28):
Well, your dad is still alive, they thought.
SPEAKER_01 (02:30):
Where were you during all this arrangements of
the hospital, the crimination?
Uh you know, you you've got allthis going on.
Where were you?
Oh, you're not there.
SPEAKER_03 (02:42):
It's not hey, how can I help?
It's what can I take?
I mean, and and that's been whatis so shocking.
I mean, we went down there andI've always loved your dad, even
though thank you for letting mevent.
We're not done, you're gonnahave at it.
SPEAKER_00 (02:59):
No, I'm done.
SPEAKER_03 (03:00):
But what I'm trying to say is, you know, I've always
loved your dad, even though hewas first introduced to me as a
I don't know, um, somebody thathe wasn't, a completely
different character than who heis.
And it was dumbfounding.
And then we get down there, andthey have 33 years of stuff, if
(03:27):
you want to say.
I mean, you know, she was ahoarder, safe to say, right?
He is a little bit of a hoarder,but they don't hoard like trash
and garbage and food and stufflike that.
It's collectibles, a lot ofChristmas decorations, right?
Like all year long Christmasdecorations.
There's beautiful things,there's just a lot of it, right?
(03:50):
So we spent the entire timewe've been there um helping
clean up, go to the store andget groceries because he didn't
have any food in the house, um,you know, taking care of him,
making arrangements, things ofthat nature.
And there are things that neededto get done.
And it's just, it was just myhusband and I and our daughter,
(04:13):
and then his half-brother camedown and helped for a couple of
days.
But he's right, like we couldn'tget other people um that lived
like 500 feet away to come andand support and help in any way,
but you know, now it's likecockroaches are coming out, you
(04:37):
know, about like what'shappening with this, and what
about this, and what about this?
And and you know, we're takingeverything to sell for him,
we're taking everything to helphim generate some, you know,
other money coming in to sellthese things.
We're not keeping them, we'rehelping him to what what am I
(04:58):
looking for here at T UI?
Help with the estate, I guess.
SPEAKER_01 (05:03):
We're helping him mentally also because we're
getting him out of the home thathim and his wife put together
for the past 30 years.
It is it it tears him up to bethere.
So he doesn't want to be therewithout her, which is
understandable.
So he's he's gonna live with us,and we're gonna make sure that
(05:25):
he has a a happy and right.
But you know, my wife was rightat the very beginning of this
podcast, she said, make sure youhave all your paperwork in
order.
There's a reason for this, guys.
It is so stressful trying togather all the signatures and
(05:48):
and acquire stuff.
Uh, you've got so much to doafter that you don't need to do
this and that at the same time.
SPEAKER_03 (05:57):
But I mean, her her fares were in order, right?
So that's not the problem.
The problem is is like thetedious little things, like
there's a few other cars thatshe had in her name, for
instance.
And so even though you know thewill states what it states, you
still have to probate certainthings in order to get that
(06:17):
taken care of to her wishes,which instead of doing like a
you know, transfer of deed orsomething like that prior to.
I mean, yes, it still goes towho she named as the beneficiary
of each item.
However, if you did a transferof deed, it would it would cut
out a lot of the middleman, Iguess, is what we're trying to
say.
SPEAKER_01 (06:36):
So, I mean, get your stuff together and I mean it it
to me, it seems like one ofthose freaking movies where
where you've got you know eightkids and you know dad passes
away and all of them were atodds with each other, and then
once dad passes, they all cometogether and they say, Okay,
what's fine?
Okay, I'm firstborn, I shouldget the house.
(06:58):
I'm secondborn, I should get youknow the Ferrari.
And it's it's just where wereyou when they were alive?
Where were you helping clean upthe yard or helping after a
hurricane?
I had to go cut down severaltrees after a year and a half
after a hurricane passed throughuh my grandfather's property,
which is right next door to myfather's property, which is
(07:22):
being rented out to her son.
My stepmother's son is living onthat property, refused to clean
up, refused to help.
Whatever he is.
So you know what?
It just it irks me.
SPEAKER_03 (07:39):
Yeah, you know, here's the thing we're hours and
hours and hours, hours away.
It's not a five minute,10-minute, 20-minute, two-hour,
four-hour, whatever drive.
And when they lost power yearsago, we in the middle of the
night, the minute we found outabout it, we went right down
there and got them.
SPEAKER_01 (07:55):
Like before that night when they had no AC.
SPEAKER_04 (07:59):
They had no AC, we went right down and got them.
SPEAKER_01 (08:01):
And we understand from a medical standpoint, you
have to have AC.
SPEAKER_04 (08:05):
And then there was another time we went down there
and brought them back in themiddle of the night, and then um
it's just ridiculous.
SPEAKER_01 (08:15):
People don't appreciate their their loved
ones or family while they'realive, they just won't after the
fact.
SPEAKER_02 (08:22):
Well, some I understand, like some parents,
if you have nothing to do, ifthey're asshole narcissistic
tricks, then that's a wholedifferent ballgame, and that's a
different story.
SPEAKER_03 (08:32):
Your dad is didn't you write a book about that?
Last night, let's not go there.
Um, but you know, your your dadis sweet, even though the
perception of his character wasportrayed different.
Oh, it was awful.
It was awful.
And you know, we made it veryclear to him what our intentions
(08:54):
were, you know, when we weredown there, is we want him to
have an unconditional, loving,supportive family that is gonna
be there for him, that's gonnatake care of him, that's gonna
love him, and you know, givefaith a grandfather that she so
desperately cracking me up.
(09:15):
Oh, and needs, oh, oh, can Iplease they're they're joking
around now.
She has another ally on herteam, and he's hilarious, but we
have no doubt now where myhusband gets his nasty dirty
mind or math because grandpa isjust like that.
(09:35):
They are so much alike, it'seerie, it's eerie, and the
stories that he he shares, it iseerie, it's fun, it's funny,
it's eerie.
SPEAKER_01 (09:49):
And that's what he needs right now.
He needs he needs love, he needslaughter in his life.
Uh, he's ready to move on, youknow.
Even though this just happened,he's ready to move on.
SPEAKER_02 (09:59):
Not move on his head, but right so put the claws
back in, but to get rid of thehurt, right?
SPEAKER_04 (10:07):
And that's what we want to help him do.
SPEAKER_03 (10:10):
And it was so nice because he was just so like
appreciative.
Like we went down there and waslike, Come on, we're gonna go
get you something to eat, orlike we went and got him, you
know, a biscuit for breakfast.
And then I went to the grocerystore and I filled up his
kitchen and pantry with foodbecause he didn't have anything,
(10:30):
you know.
And then when I was like, Can Iget you a sandwich?
Can I get you a sandwich?
He's like, What?
And and it's just this likelittle things before we left,
you know, we had cleaned out hisbedroom.
Um, and before we left, I wentin there and I made his bed, and
I just had this little daddyMichael, Michael Dad on my
shoulder.
That was like, How the hell didyou expect me to get in the bed
(10:53):
if you made it like that?
So he he's older and he uses awalker.
So I was like, you know what,smart ass, I'll tell you what
I'm gonna do.
So I turned the bed down so hecould just get in it, right?
And so he was just in tears whenhe saw and he was like, You
didn't have to do that.
I'm like, you're right, I didn'thave to do that, but I did it,
(11:14):
you know, it's those little tinythings like my husband.
I love when he leaves me postingnotes.
It's the best, sweetest thingever.
Does he do it often?
No, but I love when he does, andit's the best, it's so sweet,
and it's just little things likethat that remind you that you're
valued and cherished and love.
(11:34):
It does, but oh my god, thestories, and and he's even said,
I'm gonna corrupt my mygranddaughter gone there, like,
oh, too late, too late, and youknow, she's on cloud nine, she's
so excited to have him coming,and you know, he he was just
(11:55):
enamored with her, and heoffered her this bracelet, and
you know, my our daughter, Iwill say my our daughter is so
sweet, she doesn't care likewhat it is or the value of it or
anything like that.
She was so taken that he thoughtenough to you know say, I want
(12:15):
to give you this.
She was so excited to have it,and it's you know, like she
didn't spend time with her heruncle when he came down to help,
and they were laughing andcutting up and having fun, and
you know, we were all sittingaround night after night after
night, just laughing and tellingstories and bonding and spending
(12:36):
time together, and just youknow, just doing things that
nobody does anymore, and andit's so critical that people do
those things, it's so critical,and so many people are more all
about their freaking electronicsthan they are about the people
that are in the room, and it'sjust irritating beyond measure.
SPEAKER_01 (12:59):
So, Victoria Posting.
I was hoping you were gonnaremember that.
SPEAKER_03 (13:05):
Let's not talk about the note we found while we were
there.
SPEAKER_01 (13:10):
So, what would help our listeners in this situation
as far as wills, power ofattorneys?
SPEAKER_03 (13:19):
Well, they need to make sure that they first of all
have one of the most crucialthings is power of attorney, a
medical power of attorneybecause they're completely
separate, right?
I'm not a lawyer, however, I docreate you know the power of
attorneys and the living willand the wills, and you can reach
out to me with the wholevictoria at a contagious
(13:40):
smile.com.
And it's I'm not a lawyer, but II do many, many of these.
I I was um and did go to schoolfor being a paralegal, but you
go and you have all these, andthat way you don't you don't
have to worry about burdeningyour family with oh my god, do
we put her on or him on afeeding tube because they are
(14:03):
incapacitated at the moment, ordo we put them on a ventilator?
Do we give them antibiotics ifthey do or do not want?
Do we let them be in a vegetatedstate?
How long do they stay in avegetated state?
These are, you know, I like I'mvery methodical.
I I want every question possiblebecause I don't want to put the
burden on a family, like forinstance, our family is very
(14:24):
medical, right?
So a family that's not, or youhave to sit there and think
about it.
I don't want my husband to belike, does my wife want a feedy
to?
You know, and then to carry theguilt of I have to make the
decision.
Is it the right one or is it thewrong one?
Am I making the right decisionfor my wife?
(14:46):
Is this what she would want?
Um, these are decisions that youknow you should make, and that
way you're not putting thisburden, even though it's really
not a well, it can be a decisionon the family.
You're not making them carrythis.
SPEAKER_00 (15:02):
It's already stressful enough.
SPEAKER_03 (15:04):
It is, and here's the thing we had no idea that
she was even that she was evensick.
I mean, we didn't have the firstclue, and then we get a phone
call that says she passed away,and that's you know what we got
(15:25):
with that phone call.
My husband's mouth is wide open.
SPEAKER_01 (15:30):
No, okay, so you advise uh first thing is medical
power of attorney.
Yes, you've got a will, thenyou've got you've got a living
will, you've got a last will andtestament.
Correct.
You've got um executor, thebeneficiaries, right?
SPEAKER_03 (15:50):
But then like if you're leaving your house and
your house is saying in onespouse's name, but not in both
spouses' name.
Do a transfer of deeds or um youhave to go through those things
and figure out why.
SPEAKER_01 (16:17):
Oh I'm sorry, we had a technical difficulty there.
Um, yeah, so um houses in inwhoever's name, vehicles, you
know, all this is very stressfulafter the fact because you you
may or may not have signaturesdone.
(16:38):
Um if you don't, then like mywife said, things go through
probate, and that could take acouple years.
So, y'all, for for your sake,for a peace of mind, uh get
these paperworks and thesedocuments done while your loved
one, your family member is stillin the right state of mind,
(16:59):
still have their faculties, andthey're able to do it.
Is it morbid?
Yes, it's it's very morbid.
Dad, let's sit down and have aconversation about your death.
Okay, let's talk about yourfuneral arrangements, your
burial.
You want to be cremated?
Uh you know, talk to me, Dad.
You know, that yes, it's morbid,but it's necessary.
SPEAKER_03 (17:19):
Where do you want your crucial?
SPEAKER_01 (17:20):
Absolutely necessary.
It's got to be done.
SPEAKER_03 (17:22):
These things we'll figure out.
The ashes, where do you wantthem?
You know, who do you want themto go to?
These are all questions that Ianswer.
And when I fill out thesedocuments, it's so important.
Refresh to go through and lookat everything and understand.
Um it's a lot going on, youknow, there's a lot to be done.
(17:44):
But also, I want to take aminute, and you know, I hate,
hate, babe, babes, I hate to usethis as a leeway, but to today,
as this releases, is October 1stand it's domestic wild.
SPEAKER_00 (17:58):
Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_03 (17:59):
And you know, a lot of people don't survive domestic
months, right?
And that's another reason tohave your affairs in order so
that anything you have set upfor your kids, god forbid, you
you have it taken care of.
You have no way of the assholeof the abuser taking what
(18:20):
belongs to your children.
You know, we just today arelaunching uh the Dear Silence,
You Lost.
Now we get the last word.
It is a collection of the mostbeautiful survivors using their
voice, telling their story,using this for growth for other
people.
That is on Amazon, and right nowit's on special for 1899.
(18:43):
That book is also in an ebook.
You could also do it as anebook, but the 1899, that entire
you know, that entire amountgoes to the scholarships for the
Contagious Smile Academy.
And right now we have a$497masterclass about this abuse as
(19:05):
well that coincide with thebook, and it's free.
I'm doing it free, and then Ihave the I can already get
smell.
Then I have the dear silence.
If you go into the academy, yougo to a contagious smile dot M
as in Mary N as in Nancy dot coand join free.
(19:29):
Then you go to the Dear Silence,which is all under the Safe
Haven Phoenix Center collection.
So you have the$497 uhmasterclasses free.
I did a Dear Silence Survivorkit where it has all this
(19:49):
information on things that youcan do, how to start getting
stuff prepared for when ithappens, um, how to get yourself
safe.
That whole kit is free.
You can download that.
There's PDFs in there, you canphoto screen that and lock that
picture away in your phone.
(20:10):
That is done.
There's another one called SafeHome that is also under the Dear
Silence collection.
That was a$297 value course forfree.
These are all going together forDomestic Violence Awareness
Month.
And then if you go in there andyou have a hankering to say, you
know what, there's a lot ofstuff in here that can be very
valuable for anyone, not justmyself, but if you have$5, you
(20:35):
have$10 to offer a scholarshipfor somebody, you know, a child,
a teenager, an adult, um, asurvivor of narcissism, a
survivor of verbal, emotional,financial, physical, all of
this, sexual abuse, then weprovide the scholarship and
(20:56):
waive the fees for everybodyelse.
And we are doing this forprofit.
We are doing this literally justto break even and be able to
support and pay for theplatforms to which we have to
carry it on.
I've never taken a paycheck.
My husband has never taken apaycheck, but we want to be able
to pay it forward.
And if we do not get donations,we will not be able to continue
(21:18):
at this level to do what we aredoing.
So it's really imperative thatpeople see it's October, it's
domestic violence awareness.
And you know, I'm so proud tosay that it was eight years ago
this month, eight years ago thismonth that I released Who Kick
First.
And uh NBC did a story about it,and it was amazing.
(21:41):
And uh I was honored to be apart of it, and our daughter got
an innate for her work.
Here goes our phones yelling atme for saying that.
Uh, but it is true, and it hasbeen eight years since that
release, and there's been manyanother book out since.
Um, and now to say that we'vegone from that to building this
academy, and right now there'sover 150 courses, most of them
(22:06):
are free.
Uh, we will only be able to dothat with the continuing support
of people who want to makedonations.
So please think about it.
Like we went on the drive, wewere exhausted and we went
through Starbucks, right?
And just one little coffee, onecoffee was$5.25 or something
like that for the coffee.
(22:28):
And we each got one.
So three of us, right?
And normally we would never dothat, but we're driving and
we're trying to be safe, and youknow, we're driving down there,
the three of us and the twodogs, and it was like$30 or
something crazy.
And it was because our daughterhas to eat.
Um, and so she ended up gettinglike a couple Danishes or
(22:49):
whatever it was with it,whatever the case may be.
And um that's what ended uphappening.
But if you can drive through andget a coffee for$5.25, you could
please, please, please thinkabout the fact that one in four
women, so you, your mom, yoursister, or your daughter.
Did I get four there?
I'm pretty tired.
(23:10):
You, your mom, your sister, yourdaughter.
Yeah, there's four.
Hello.
That there's one in four gothrough some type of abuse.
And what if it was your nextdoor neighbor?
What if it was your best friend?
What if it was your sister oryour daughter?
And they didn't have the means.
Well, guess what?
I've had women that say, andI've had men in the community,
(23:30):
I've had men, I've had people inthe LGBTQ community who have
said, I don't have five dollarsto pay for this.
I don't ask questions, okay.
I give them the code and theygo, because you know, here's the
thing if you're gonna lie aboutneeding a you know, a
scholarship for a course aboutsurvival of abuse, then I'm
(23:52):
gonna give it to you regardless,right?
Right?
And if somebody's gonna lieabout that, it's five dollars,
and that's just that's a veryconscious right, it's a
five-dollar course or afive-dollar fee, and I'll waive
it for anybody.
You know, what are they gonna dowith the course?
They're gonna take it, and I seethat they take it, so it makes a
big difference.
(24:13):
And anybody who needs to go inthere and and get that help, get
that support, and it's not justcourses in there about domestic
violence, you know.
A lot of people they don'trealize that when you've been
through abuse, you're inrecovery, and a lot of people
may not agree with that, but youare you are in recovery.
I'm in recovery, you're inrecovery, and so there are
(24:36):
courses in there all aboutrecovery as well.
And so there's something inthere for everybody.
And I'm sorry, I always have totalk about it because you're a
boy.
But we have the stucco squad forkids, special needs kids, so
flipping cute, so sweet, socute.
We have caregiver courses,special needs parents courses.
(24:57):
I've even done two courses thatare huge about special needs
families, how they can make endsmeet, how they can do side
hustles and do extra jobs on theside, how they can find the way
to do this, um, from starting itup to launching and everything
in between.
It's all on there.
I mean, and it's free to join.
(25:17):
So, what have you got to lose?
People will pay$500,000,$500 to$8,000 a month for these shots
to lose weight, but they'redoing so much harm to your body.
And people are doing all of thisstuff to change the look of
themselves on the outside (25:36):
baked nails, fake hair, fake tan, fake
eyelashes, botox, this,injections here, butt lifts
here, breast augmentation.
You know, you look at this andyou think this, hey, to each
their own.
Why can't you do something foryourself that helps your
insides, that helps your peaceof mind, that helps you realize
(25:58):
how amazing you are, and to helpyou get over those humps.
Everybody goes through it.
Everybody.
We didn't know a week ago thathis dad's wife, his stepmom, was
gonna pass away.
Like we had not a first clue.
It's a phone call, you know.
Think about it.
(26:18):
You're having dinner,everything's great, or you're at
work and and everything is fine,and it's hold on a minute, my
dad's calling, and it's you'llnever believe what is that.
It's that fast, right?
And you just have do somethingfor yourself, do something for
yourself.
Who cares?
Oh, I'm about to eat this.
Who cares what everybody elsethinks?
(26:39):
And I'm being sorry.
I mean, who and I don't want letme trick my let me reward that
because right now I'm not beingsorry.
My husband's making me eat thosecorns.
It's it's literally why whywhat?
I have body dysphoria.
I will be the very first toadmit it.
I can't walk by a mirror and notbe grotesque by what I see, and
(27:01):
I'm the first to admit it, youknow.
SPEAKER_01 (27:04):
So they taste good.
SPEAKER_03 (27:06):
No, I'm not eating it.
But here's the thing (27:07):
I used to be told you used to turn heads,
now you turn stomachs.
SPEAKER_01 (27:12):
But you you said the word used to correct in the
past, correct, many, many yearsago.
Correct.
Okay, so why give a shit nowwhat other people think?
That's what all of our coursesare for, is to help well then
have somebody hypnotize you,have somebody teach you.
SPEAKER_03 (27:30):
Okay, as soon as I know what you said in that court
from that.
SPEAKER_01 (27:32):
Well, as soon as I get a hypnot hypnotism, a
hypnotism.
SPEAKER_02 (27:39):
I'm gonna make I'm gonna ask him to tell you.
No, let's keep the harping onthis.
Talk about we're always on thesame page.
SPEAKER_00 (27:44):
We're on the same page, right?
Right now, we're not gonna pageit.
SPEAKER_02 (27:47):
Like it's it's like ten times today.
I'll talk about our on the samepage there.
Please, thank you.
SPEAKER_01 (27:53):
We are on the same page, like right now.
No, talking about we don't, Idon't care what other people
think about me.
They don't like my scruffybeard, they don't like my
redneck t-shirts I wear, theydon't like my boots that I stomp
around in.
I don't give a fine two centshit.
Okay, you don't give a what Iwear what I want to wear.
SPEAKER_00 (28:15):
Right now, I dress how I like to dress.
SPEAKER_01 (28:19):
I like to feel comfortable, I like a nice,
slack, relaxed pair of jeans.
I don't like them butt huggersthat these tight short britches
wearing people wear.
SPEAKER_03 (28:31):
Yes, it's just uh you bend it over and split vote
badways.
SPEAKER_01 (28:36):
I'm not bending over anywhere in front of somebody
with tight breeches.
Regardless, don't worry aboutwhat other people think.
Y'all see how she is skirtingaround this subject.
SPEAKER_03 (28:53):
I don't wear split store now.
Listen, so and you don't knowthis, babe, we're at the grocery
store today, okay?
And as we're getting ready tocheck out, this person behind
me, who's probably 55, 60 yearsold, is staring at me like I am
like the serial killer comingafter, right?
(29:17):
Like staring at me hard.
And and I see it.
I get it.
I feel that you're staring atme, right?
Obviously, she needs a hug, it'snot coming for me.
And our beautiful child Fayegave her the best eat shit I've
ever seen.
It was great.
So what else does my daughterdo?
She walks up beside me and putsher arm around my dog and hugs
(29:42):
me.
I mean, and that is a big, youknow, eat crow kind of comment.
You know, I mean, seriously,that's just amazing.
See, this is how my husband islike All you gotta do is hit the
other thing on the right, babe,and it'll make it smaller.
(30:05):
My husband normally iscompletely and utterly involved
in this podcasting event.
Right now, he's all about likepersonalizing a card with our
face on it.
SPEAKER_01 (30:20):
It's my new Debit card.
SPEAKER_03 (30:21):
Okay, but right now this is your new podcast.
SPEAKER_01 (30:24):
Well, I've invented, I've said my piece, I've flipped
my switch.
You need to flip your switch.
Don't care about what otherpeople say.
SPEAKER_03 (30:32):
I'm still dead.
SPEAKER_01 (30:33):
Whatever.
SPEAKER_03 (30:34):
Would you please tell people because some people
don't know I've lost all hearingin the right time?
I have nothing.
Not uh there's a so you justtold them.
Okay, so yes, and you know what?
I don't even have one side of mybody that is completely correct
(30:56):
anymore.
Yeah, I I have to do the bread.
So Michael on one side.
SPEAKER_01 (31:04):
Why do you want to be with a woman who's scarred up
from stip to bottom?
Who's broken, who has one arm,no dear head, who has one
semi-decent ear.
I'm feeling like a van Gell.
Who has body dysphoriayesterday?
(31:28):
Because no, she has my heart.
Bye, Dr.
SPEAKER_03 (31:35):
Same page, always on the same page, all the way on
the same page.
SPEAKER_01 (31:40):
Y'all, this is my soulmate, the love of my life.
Give me a kiss.
And I will be with her forever.
And that's our show.
SPEAKER_05 (31:50):
Take a sec.
SPEAKER_01 (31:51):
I love you.
I love you most.
Good night, y'all.
Thanks, Felicita.
Contagious smile unstoppablewith Victoria and Michael.
SPEAKER_04 (32:01):
And go get our dear silence.
SPEAKER_01 (32:02):
Yeah, y'all go pick that up on Amazon.
SPEAKER_03 (32:05):
If you can't find it by the title, because it's a new
release, look it up under myname, Victoria Cure,
V-I-C-T-O-R-I-A-C-U-O-R.
SPEAKER_01 (32:16):
That sounds like the Beaky Mouse song.
unknown (32:18):
I tried.
SPEAKER_02 (32:21):
Thanks, guys.
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