March 25, 2025 • 51 mins
Heartfelt celebrations and serious conversations collide in this candid episode where we start by toasting Michael's first colonoscopy (yes, really!) and the clean bill of health that followed. It's a perfect reminder that sometimes the most uncomfortable moments become our greatest gifts to those we love - as Michael puts it, "I want to live longer for my family."
The energy shifts as we unveil our passion project: the Stucco Squad. This initiative for special needs children has consumed our hearts completely, with carefully crafted items from superhero bracelets that can be worn through medical procedures to "pocket hugs" for comfort during difficult moments. Drawing from Victoria's personal journey as both a special needs person and parent, every detail has been considered with extraordinary care. "Normal, ordinary - that's who wants it? Nobody does," Victoria shares, capturing the spirit behind this movement to celebrate what makes these children exceptional.
Our conversation takes a more serious turn as we discuss California legislation allowing minors to pursue gender reassignment surgery without parental consent - even permitting legal action against objecting parents. We wrestle with difficult questions about children's capacity for life-altering decisions, sharing perspectives that challenge conventional thinking while maintaining respect for everyone's journey.
Throughout it all runs a thread about genuine human connection in our increasingly digital world. We share how our family dinners remain sacred spaces without phones, where eye contact and conversation remind us what truly matters. "It's the happiness that I crave, it's the longing, it's the belonging," Michael reflects about these precious moments.
We'd love to hear your thoughts on any of these topics. Have you created tech-free family traditions? What do you think about the balance between protecting children and respecting their autonomy? Join our conversation and discover the power of unstoppable, unfiltered authenticity.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
howdy y'all.
Welcome to another episode ofcontagious smile unstoppable
with your lovely and sexy vixenover here that's so nice that
you talk about yourself that wayvictoria curé, who is a
outstanding published author of41 books.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
If y'all didn't know that, okay, they're not all on
amazon I didn't say they were onamazon she.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
She said howdy y'all.
So this is Unstoppable, it'sunfiltered and we just jaw jack
and take the mic.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
No, you can scoot a little bit.
I did take the mic.
It took me, you know, decades,but I have my mic.
Nuts, hi everyone.
So I just want to take a momentand go over a couple little
things.
And so I just want to take amoment and go over a couple
little things.
First, we're celebrating thatmy husband was.
He experienced his firstcolonoscopy today.
That's not called forcelebration it is because you
(00:53):
got a great report and I am sohappy.
Oh my God, it was hilariousbecause even it was Okay First
Faith and I went back and we, wehad to like put one thing at
ease and everyone told him thiswas a non-surgical, minor
procedure.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Huge surgery.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
No, if there's no cutting, no stitching, no.
So all of the doctors andnurses reminded him that it
wasn't a surgical procedure.
So everybody was having fun athis expense and laughing and
cutting up.
It was a riot.
So Faith, of course, had afield day, not to mention,
(01:34):
before we even go any further, Iam beyond thrilled.
And he did this for his family,which is so honoring.
So, men, put the excuse boatdown and do it, because he did
it for us, for his family.
Because why?
What was your reason?
You said you wanted.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
I want to live longer for my family.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
See.
So that means the world to us.
But, faith, I have to give alittle side note got a very
special treat from a new friendof a contagious smile, mr eric
winter.
Uh, don't say who that is.
(02:15):
Everybody who's ever watchedthe rookie knows who.
Yeah, whatever knows who therookie is.
It's sergeant bradford, and forthose who used to watch, or I,
he's not on it anymore.
Days of our lives.
He was on days of our lives,but he was on days of our lives.
So he sent a little note, um,thanking me for what I do and
(02:38):
how you know that's such aspecial cause to him.
He couldn't have been any nicer, like he could not have been
nicer.
And then he told Faith that heis the known prankster.
Anybody who ever watches Ericon TikTok knows he is the prank
master of the TV show the Rookieand he has said he will
(03:00):
collaborate with Faith onpranking her dad, my husband
it's going to be on.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Why don't y'all right now go to Eric Winter's TikTok?
Do that.
He's such a sweet guy.
Everyone go on there.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Let's not forget, you think his wife is just.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Oh Well, we're not talking about his wife.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
They've been happily married respect for him and his
wife.
Okay, then don't have people gosending him messages, because
that's just rude no, he, if he'sgonna prank me, he's gonna get.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Yeah, he better be able to take it.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
He can dish it out anyway, he's been married to her
for decades, they have gorgeouskids and he is just, he does
housework and he treats her likea princess, so anyway.
So Faith got Eric on her side.
That's kind of cool.
And then the Breakfast Club 16Candles actor friend now John,
(04:01):
sent a message he's going to beon the show.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
He pronounced his last name.
I'm sorry, kapilos.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Kapilos.
Yeah, I hope I didn't botchthat.
If I did, I'm so sorry.
It's my husband's fault.
He was so nice and he is goingto be on, like so many people.
You know, you see somebody andyou're like I wonder if the
perception is reality.
Are they going to be a stand-upseller person or are they going
(04:27):
to be like you know, likethere's people with a reputation
in Hollywood.
You could not give me money tointerview Jennifer Lopez.
If I had to pick betweenJennifer Lopez, mariah Carey, I
would go off air.
I just wouldn't do it.
And you know I've had people sayoh, would you go on the View?
No, would I go on Ellen?
No, and it has nothing to dowith Ellen being Ellen and you
(04:48):
know being that.
She, you know, is in thecommunity and I know some people
would ask me that I completelysupport the community.
I advocate for the community.
I have family in the communityand I openly accept whoever you
are, as long as whoever you'rewith loves you unconditionally
and doesn't put their hands onyou in an unwarranted manner.
We're good, that's all I careabout.
(05:09):
You want to go back to yourcolonoscopy, but you wouldn't go
on her show?
No, because I've heard from somany that she was so mean to her
employees, to her staff, andit's coming out now speculatory,
of course, whatever.
I have to say that little sidenote that she's been involved
(05:30):
with the whole P Diddy and thechild sex.
Whatever.
It's speculation, however,whatever, and you know how I am
about that.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
So Yep, you'll be getting hate mail for that.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Okay, but I'm gonna stand up for the right of the
kids and until proven otherwise,you know, there's a lot of
proof of it.
And then her show went offright after all this came out
and Twitch, who I thought wasjust the sweetest, coolest fun
guy ever, committed suicide.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
So so, fellas, fellas , let me talk to you.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Is this a haunted house?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
No, Okay, get the colonoscopy scheduled and done
and over with.
I'm proud of you.
If you're 45, 50, just get itdone for your family.
All right, knock it out.
You want to stay alive longer.
You want to live longer forthem.
Show your family you love themby getting this done.
I promise y'all he's a baby,he's a wuss.
Done, I promise y'all he's ababy, he's a wuss.
(06:25):
The hardest part is not eatingfor like two days.
Okay, two days, if you have itscheduled.
Schedule it on a Monday so youcan have Sunday to prep,
drinking, all that crap.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
That was hilarious.
The waddle Donald, what did Icall it?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Squattle waddle.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Yeah, my husband was squattle waddling.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
She made me laugh one time and I may have, you know,
pooped a little bit, skiddingthe bridges.
I may have, you know, putsomething in the bridges and I
had to squattle, waddle it washilarious To the toilet.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
You have a vision of what a squattle waddle is I know
, okay, squattle waddle is foryou, ladies, when your husband
sticks his booty butt out right,his torso is up and elongated,
his butt is out right and he iswaddling to keep the stuff from.
What do you call it?
(07:16):
What's it?
Cudging Right and he'ssquatting, waddling and his arms
are whacking around side toside as he's trying to, you know
, expeditiously get into thetoilet, and it is hilarious.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
So the process is not bad.
Ok, you ate mighty well today.
I did the invasive procedure,if you say it wasn't me.
I had some stranger going up mypoopershoot and what did faith
say?
Speaker 2 (07:48):
she was so proud of you for going into the community
to see what it would be like,and she was very unhappy because
what's right for some is notfor others.
But she was not proud that herdad decided to try out porn
because they took pictures andthere was video of you getting
you know.
(08:08):
And so she said, because it isactually you know, whatever,
this is faith y'all.
And she had the doctors andnurses on the ground laughing so
hard at this.
But then at the end she we havevideo.
She took IV out, which waspriceless, it was great, but
everybody was cracking up atthis.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
So yeah, so just knock it out y'all.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Then we had celebratory dinner, had a
fantastic new friend, mexican.
We had Mexican Mexican DinnerFood and we had the best server.
She was amazing.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Can we give a big shout out?
Speaker 2 (08:46):
to Daly yes, she was amazing and we're trying to get
her to come on Teen Talk.
Daly, come on the show, that'sright.
Yes, get your voice heard.
That's right, because itmatters.
She's very sweet.
She was very sweet.
She said oh, you guys are thebest.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
We love you and she's like you can.
Only let me wait on you fromnow on.
And then she said oh, wait aminute, I think I have something
to embarrass your husband with.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Oh, it was great.
I doubled her tip.
So she comes out with thesombrero.
I can't roll the R because ofmy metal in my face.
So she comes out.
Can you do it?
You can, you can.
And so they bring out the hatand they're singing and hooting
and hollering and it wasfantastic.
Well done, girl.
(09:30):
Fried cheesecake, awesomeStrawberry sauce.
Then he decided to almost beginto get in a food fight with me
and Daylin had my back and saidoh, you be nice boy.
Daylin jumped my skillet.
Yes, she did, and told me tobehave.
I know, isn't boy daily jumpedmy skillet?
Speaker 1 (09:45):
yes, she did I told me to behave.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
I know ain't that great, that's awesome yeah,
she's got a birthday coming upsoon next week happy birthday so
maybe she'll come on yeah, thatwould be a great gift so maybe
you can send this one to herwell, she said she was gonna
listen this is her episode thenyeah, well, not her episode.
her episode would be when shecomes on, right, so I have to
tell you well, I'm gonna let himtalk for a minute after.
(10:09):
I tell you all what we're doing.
We are getting ready to makeour little gift bags and gift
boxes of stuff for our StuccoSquad members and if you want to
join, we're going to set it up.
Even if you don't go throughthe academy the Stucco Squad
Academy and you go through,we're going to set it up where
you can still get all thebenefits of other stuff that
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we're going to do with theStucco Squad.
We have so many gifts and letme tell you, none of it is just
junk stuff.
Right, as a special needsperson myself and a special
needs parent, I know, becauseevery person is different.
So whether they have atracheostomy or a feeding tube,
or they have a version of coloror where they can't have the
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sparkles or you know someinversion to like things that
light up or things of thatnature, I have gone way above to
make sure all of our gifts aregood.
So we have nothing that'llstick, poke or prod.
We have that sounds like yourcolonoscopy.
We have the cutest stuff, thecutest gifts, even like charms
(11:14):
for shoes, charms for a bracelet, we have logo stuff, we have
key chains, pens, hearts,ornament stuff.
I can say this on air becauseit's recorded and my husband,
who would never do anything tome, wouldn't do anything anyway.
But there's like another, Idon't know 20 different objects
coming soon as well that will beincluded in these boxes, which
(11:36):
is so much fun because I've hadsuch a good time finding these
things and all of it is goingfor the Stucco Squad and I have
to figure out who gets what.
So then we have the dog boxesthat are going to be decorated,
then we have the cool bags, thenwe have all these.
I mean, the things are just.
I had to get a whole neworganizer cabinet thing just to
(11:59):
put some in, and I think I'malready outgrowing it.
But I'm so excited because I amyou don't understand.
I love the idea of Stucco Squad.
I love what it can do, I lovewhat it means, I love who will
be involved in it.
We have the best bracelets.
They are.
And what I love about thesethey're purple and black.
I'll let him talk about it, butwhat I love about them is that
(12:23):
they are not gonna be told.
These kids are not gonna betold they have to take them off.
If they're at the hospital godforbid they're impatient or
they're outpatient having aprocedure, they're getting an IV
, they're going through MRIimaging, whatever the case may
be, they do not have to come off, which I love, love, love, love
, love, because this is theirsuperhero, like honor, right, so
(12:43):
they have it on them at alltimes and nobody's going to tell
them that they're not asuperhero and it has to come off
.
Tell them how awesome these are.
My husband has taken one and hehas not taken it off since the
day that they were delivered.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
after I made these, I'm an official vip stucco squad
superhero, and on the back itsays a contagious smile right,
but you did.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
I mean it's not, it's multicolored, it's black and
purple, it's dark, purple andblack with an outlined puppy dog
on there.
Two, one on either side.
It's a little baby stucco andthe colors are not flashy.
They're not anything that you'dhave to worry about, even on
the spectrum they are, or ifyou're epileptic.
(13:27):
It's a very smooth transitionof color and I thought that
would be great to give it like alittle pop, and, you know,
maybe it'll happen.
The writing is in white, soit's nothing very bright, you
know.
So if their eyes are sensitiveto bright colors, this is not an
option that we have to worryabout either.
My husband is looking at melike I don't know what, what,
(13:47):
what, what Say it, say it, sayit.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
I'm just looking at you.
You're gorgeous.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Whatever, but I love this.
I love the Stuggo Squad.
Like it makes me so happy.
It shouldn't make me so happy.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Your phone can wait.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
It goes off 24 hours a day.
It's crazy.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
So we'll be giving out these little trinkets.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
I'm going to hand out this stuff while you're talking
and open it.
This will be a lot of noise, Iknow, but I want people to hear
it and get excited.
They hear the rustling.
I want them to hear it and getexcited.
Open this and then you can telleverybody what each thing is as
we open.
It's in clear paper.
I can see through the plastic.
Well, nobody else.
It's a bone.
(14:28):
Do you want a bone?
It's a pla-.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
I want a bone, it's a wooden bone, I want a bone, and
wooden pulp prints.
Can I have a bone, babe?
What?
Speaker 2 (14:38):
Snooker's right here and there is also.
These are done in wood, sizzletwine tied up, yes, and you can
make these into whatever youwant.
We can decorate them and wehave so many beautiful stucco
stickers, all sorts of cool funstuff.
This is never going to stayTruth Park in.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
May is the event.
Yes, and I don't know how youget accepted.
I don't know how you gettickets.
I don't know how you getaccepted.
I don't know how you gettickets.
I don't know how you getinvited, but I'm sure my wife
will find out or already knows.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
We also have the cutest.
Oh, these are so cute.
They came into all thedifferent.
We tried to get all stucco butI wanted them to look like
superheroes, so some of them I'mgoing to tell them.
Some of them, I'm gonna tellthem.
Some of them doesn't look likestucco but they look like
superheroes, so it could be partof superhero squad.
They are the cutest bookmarksthat do not tear, so you don't
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have to worry about getting that.
What do not tear do?
not be quiet.
Um, they won't give paper cutsor anything like that.
They have have smooth edges.
I wanted to make sure all theway around Tell them what those
look like.
They're so cute.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
It's a metal bookmark .
Speaker 2 (15:49):
Oh for the love, are you?
Speaker 1 (15:50):
serious With a little corgi dog on there.
How come it's not going overthe figure?
You're making a lot of noise onthere.
Oh my gosh woman.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Okay, I'm so excited.
Tell everybody what thesethings are.
More sisistle twine, butthey're not the same.
More hearts, more bones, morepulp, but they are not the same
design.
They're not.
If I'm losing my accent and I'mgetting more country for you,
oh my lord all right.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
So yes, how do people ?
Speaker 2 (16:24):
so, podcast, powerhouse, growth academy, all
of the links.
Give me about one more week.
In all fairness, I just had aprocedure.
My husband had a non-invasivesurgical.
Yes, I have another onetomorrow.
So the time y'all hear this, Iwill actually be.
These are different sizes,these are smaller.
(16:44):
I will be in the surgerytomorrow or today while y'all
are listening to this.
So you can give me a week and Iwill let y'all know on the next
podcast that it's up andrunning.
Website, social media platformsyou name it, there will be
links to it.
You can join the social mediaplatforms.
You name it, there will belinks to it.
You can join the social media,but until then, you can go to
(17:05):
facebook and join the stuccosquad.
On facebook, it's, uh, thegroup.
You just search for groups andit's the stucco squad, so you
join there seriously, y'all,y'all go in there.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
Molly's done a lot of work on this and there's a lot
of people involved.
I mean, look at the foundationthat we're going into Give kids
the world.
Make a wish, correct.
So do you need help?
Speaker 2 (17:36):
Yes, thank you.
So we are working with some ofthe best organizations.
It's great.
We're going to have all sortsof fun stuff.
Anybody who's seen the moviePatch Adams the actual Patch
Adams actually went through anamputation not too long ago.
Most people don't know that andhis sidekick, who is just so,
so sweet, has said he'd come on.
(17:57):
We have so many people who willcome on and do live things with
the kids we have.
Like it's so amazing I am.
We have coloring contests.
There are so many differentactivities and all of them are
built around to make sureeverybody knows how amazing you
are, how extraordinary you are.
Normal, ordinary, that's whowants it?
(18:18):
Nobody does, how you can.
Impossible.
Just make a little spacebetween I am put a little
apostrophe and you know what I'mpossible and there's nothing
you can't do, and we're going tomake sure you know that and
we're going to have funactivities.
If you color, go on StuccoSquad on Facebook and you pick
out any of the coloring pages,any Color it in.
(18:38):
I like it when it's not in thelines, because that's just my
favorite.
Take a picture, have anybodyyou know, upload it for us and
you're going to get a prize,like we're going to send you a
prize, and we're not talkingabout like something you don't
want.
These are really good prizes.
I'm going to color just to geta prize.
I think that's what I'm goingto do.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
I'm coloring to get a prize because I'm going to be
sitting there doing nothing fortwo and a half hours tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
What is in this bag, mr Solomon Bogeys?
Well, kind of, but let me tellyou, as a mom, of a special
needs miracle when she wasyounger, and I know a lot of
moms know about this.
When our kids are younger, wehave emergency bags.
We have, like, I had to carryan apnea machine, a CPAP, I had
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tracheostomy, I had an emergencybag, I had an oxygen tank, I
had the feeding tube bag, youname it, I had it.
Well, sometimes, when Godforbid, something happens,
sometimes you don't rememberwhat's what and where's where,
because you've got a plethora ofstuff and it's just you, more
than likely, because it was justme, and so these are awesome.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
And then of course.
So these are like a keychaintag.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
My husband should know me better than that by now
and we have got just the cutest,most amazing little catchphrase
, fun things about our puppiesto put on these tags, and I got
them in every color you canimagine.
So that's going to be super funand because I'm actually going
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to hand it to you, he gets tohim and Faith will get to put
all of them on the key rings.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
I like this sticker.
I work hard so my dog can havea better life.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
Let's talk about cute saying, shall we?
Because this is going to be youand Faith's project, besides
others that I have coming foryou right now.
So we very frequently playcards as a family.
So we very frequently playcards as a family, and last
night we were playing phase 10,right, we were playing phase 10.
(20:51):
And my husband's soulmate, loveof my life, actually, he was
doing pretty good and he won theround, and Faith is sitting
there.
I'm obviously sitting there,stucco's laid out on me, and my
husband looks at me and says, oh, you lost your hand there on
(21:14):
that one.
Huh.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
It was intended as in you lost a hand of phase 10.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
Well, that's not what you said?
Speaker 1 (21:22):
I said, yes, you lost your.
Well, that's not what you said.
I said, yes, you lost your hand.
That's not what you said.
Guys, my wife is a left arm MVPbelow the elbow.
Speaker 2 (21:31):
Right, but if I didn't have a good sense of
humor, woo?
Speaker 1 (21:35):
I made a shameless pun and yeah.
But, she can take it.
Speaker 2 (21:42):
So what did you just unwrap?
Uh, more balls.
But they're different shapes,they're all different designs
right, it's all revolving arounddogs it's no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no.
Let's make sure you're correct.
It's all around stucco, oh mygosh, you hear that stucco
that's my baby.
You better tread carefully.
(22:02):
And what is that?
You've got there, but we'reboth things more.
Now don't be saying anythingabout me making noise when
you're making all that noise bythere I'm sorry y'all, I'm
making all this you know, whenfaith was little, she loved that
sound, that, that plastic, allright.
Now, what's this?
These are so cute woodcardboard I was just gonna ask
(22:29):
that.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
So wooden cutouts with the word love and the o is
a paw print now, mr creative,what could kids do that would be
so cool with that they couldpaint it.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
Paint it, use it for a haunted house.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
You put magic marker on there, they could smear some
mud on there.
Oh lord, make it unique uniqueand we got it.
Give it to your mom, she'llhang it on the fridge.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
And then we've got all sorts of pens.
These are super cute.
They're soft.
What do you call this like?
How do you explain this pen?
I think these are so cute.
I don't know a little fidgetthing, no, well, yes, but it
also.
I think the parents mightactually keep this one and take
it.
Um, but it's got a little pawprint on it and it's so cute.
And then we got all differentcolor charms charms for the
(23:23):
shoes and for bracelets and Iknow as soon as I move my new
shelf it's going to flip in.
Everything of my organizationskills here will just make a
mess.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
So y'all keep my wife in your thoughts and prayers
tomorrow as she undergoesanother freaking surgery.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
No it won't be tomorrow, it'll be today,
because this gets released onTuesday and you release it in
the morning.
Every day this week we havesomething.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
We'll be en route to the hospital and y'all can
listen and just keep your mind.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
No, you keep these two in mind.
That's what I care about.
Now we get to other fun stuff.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
That's enough.
Speaker 2 (24:03):
This last one I like.
Come on, open up and telleverybody what this is.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
You can see it.
It's clear plastic.
You know what it's in a Ziplocbag.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
Tell everybody what these are.
These are so cute.
Lowered, lowered and lowered.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Again, there wouldn't cut out.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
There wouldn't cut out see, see what happens, uh
huh, uh little key fobs well,you gotta read them.
Hang on.
My husband's afraid to movebecause last time and well every
time today and yesterday he'smoved about a pile high of like
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the whole office.
As tall as he is in the chairhas just fallen everywhere.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
The little wooden disc with a heart cut out at the
bottom is I guess this is forlike a key chain, a key ring,
and it says a pocket hug.
Others say little pocket hug.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
And if you feel they all say something different, if
you feel the reason that wepicked these is because you can
hold on to it when you're havingsomething done, and either the
parents can hold on to it I planon putting one for the parents
and one for the kids in the bag.
They can hold on to it, you canhold on to it.
(25:34):
There's no sharp edges, no wayto get any splinters or any kind
of cuts of any way, and theycan just hold on to it.
That does not go there and youcan just have a little hug with
you whenever and that's soimportant we all need hugs.
Hugs are such good things Likehugs are great things.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
So, yes.
What else.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
Okay, I have to get serious oh.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
We received an email from a young man okay who wants
to come on our show?
We receive a lot of emails andvideos uh, so I want to express
that young man to respondpromptly to my email.
I just sent you tonight oryesterday, if you're listening,
(26:26):
and we'll get you on our show,buddy.
Speaker 2 (26:29):
So a topic I do want to talk about and I want to hear
, of course, what you think isin California now.
A law has passed.
Why do you put stuff where itdoesn't belong?
A law has passed.
Why do you put stuff where itdoesn't belong?
A law has passed.
You have to be 21 to drink.
You have to be of a certain ageto get a tattoo I believe
(26:52):
California is 18 but you don'tneed your parents consent if you
want to go and get your bitstaken off.
If you want to go and get yourbits taken off if you want to go
through gender reassignmentsurgery and if you, if the child
tries to go to court withagainst the parents, the parents
can be charged with child abuseand neglect.
(27:13):
Wow, how is that even possiblewhen you're, I mean, five, six,
eight, ten, eleven years old?
Speaker 1 (27:20):
This turned dark.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
Well, no, but listen.
But that's what we do.
We talk about things otherpeople don't or won't.
Right, when you're five, six,eight, ten, eleven, whatever the
case may be, you don't evenknow what kind of birthday party
you want.
They're going that young.
Oh yeah, people are starting atlike five and six.
Dressing is opposite sex now,and six dressing is opposite sex
.
Speaker 1 (27:40):
now they don't know if they want Cheerios or Froot
Loops at that age.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Right, that's what I'm saying.
You don't know what kind ofbirthday party you want, and
here's the thing Is that youknow.
The debate is well, if a man istransitioning into a woman, he
should be able to use a woman'srestroom, even during the whole
transition.
But what about our kids?
That's little girls that are inthere, you know.
Or boys, Right.
And here's the thing is thatyou know, if you identify as a
(28:06):
cat, then good for you foridentifying a cat.
Speaker 1 (28:10):
Don't get your shots.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
You need to have a rabies and you need to go to the
vet.
Speaker 1 (28:14):
A vet probably, 100% probably won't see you, I only
do rectal thermometers.
Speaker 2 (28:19):
Oh my God, You're all about this rectal thing, since
you had this experience today.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
Everyone needs this experience.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
I okay, Anyway, I got my hero cookie.
Did you enjoy the flavor?
Yes, ew, so anyway, that's whatI don't understand.
Like, if you want to identifyas a cat, fine.
That's what I don't understand.
Like, if you want to identifyas a cat, fine.
Our school systems are moreafraid of offending someone and
(28:47):
their pronouns than working onour education, and that is just
preposterous to me.
You know, at the end of the day, let's do this.
How do you explain what a manis?
What is a man in your opinion?
Speaker 1 (29:04):
A man is a male born with a penis and two testicles.
Speaker 2 (29:09):
Okay, but a man.
Speaker 1 (29:12):
A man is something different.
A man is someone who provides,protects his family, stands up
for what's right.
Speaker 2 (29:20):
Okay, and what do you identify as a woman?
Speaker 1 (29:24):
A woman is a female born a female with breastasis, a
vagina.
Okay, that's a female.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
What if you have a surgery, a reassignment surgery,
voluntarily, sure, and thenyou're dressing as?
A female you're taking alldifferent hormones.
You're a messed up woman now.
See the thing is.
But see, I play devil'sadvocate.
(29:57):
I'm gonna play devil's advocateabout.
It is if you are xx chromosome,right, that's your DNA.
Right, let's look at DNA and XXchromosomes right, then you are
a.
What are you with XX chromosome?
What are you?
What's XY?
You don't know.
No, are you kidding?
(30:18):
Did you sleep in this class?
Speaker 1 (30:20):
I did sleep in the class.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
Let's try it this way if you're able to bear children
, then people say, okay, thenyou're a woman.
But what about people who havehad a hysterectomy?
Speaker 1 (30:37):
right, or something else okay, but aren't they?
Speaker 2 (30:42):
what's the difference in a person who's had a
hysterectomy and a trans?
Because they can't produce achild and neither can a trans.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
Well, they're still opposites.
Speaker 2 (30:53):
How.
Speaker 1 (30:54):
If one's a trans, then that means they're the
opposite sex of the woman with ahysterectomy.
Speaker 2 (30:58):
What if they had reassignment surgery?
What if they had their peniscut off?
Speaker 1 (31:03):
Then there's still the opposite of a woman who's
had a hysterectomy.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Why do you say that?
Speaker 1 (31:10):
Because one is a woman born a female.
The other is a man born a male,turning into a woman or
attempting to.
I'm going to get flack for this, I don't care, y'all hate me,
michael.
Speaker 2 (31:28):
No, I mean, I just don't understand, like, hey, if
to each their own.
I have multiple people in my wedon't speak family that are in
the community and I support, youknow, as long as they're happy.
And I don't mean happy as gay,I mean happy as in mentally and
(31:48):
emotionally, you know, positive,I guess, quickly coming up with
something.
As long as they are, you know,in love or happy.
See, I keep going back to theword happy, but I don't mean
that in an offensive way as gay,right, I mean it like, as long
as they are.
Thank you, then.
More power to whomever andeveryone.
(32:09):
Everyone deserves be loved,everyone should be loved, right?
If you want to be loved by aman and you're a man, god bless
you.
If you're a woman and you wantto be loved by a woman, god
bless you.
You know, I have friends thatI've known all of faith's life
that are on both sides andthey're married with partners.
God bless all of you.
I have no problem with it.
(32:30):
I am a very straightheterosexual woman who is only
attracted to my husband.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
I'm thankful for that .
Speaker 2 (32:39):
But that doesn't mean that you know, I have an issue
with it, because I don't, I haveno issue with it at all.
But I don't understand how somepeople come out and say I
identify as a cat and then theschools are like, oh, let me get
you litter, cat, litter for thebathroom, right.
And now in California you areallowed to take your parents to
(33:03):
court for child neglect, childabuse, because they're
prohibiting you from doing thishormonal thing.
They want to stop puberty andthey want to.
But the thing is is thatthey're not keeping you from a
sleepover, right, and some ofthis is non-reversible.
You can't reverse some of this.
(33:24):
Well, a lot of it is done bythe state, if the parents you
know.
Speaker 1 (33:30):
But I mean, the problem is, so the state is
paying for their transfigurationit's very expensive.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
People in jail are getting them done and it's paid
by the taxpayers okay.
Speaker 1 (33:42):
So why do I have to go to the hospital and pay my
own bill for a surgery?
I can't dispute that why do youhave to go and pay for yours?
Speaker 2 (33:51):
I can't dispute that either.
Speaker 1 (33:52):
You got transformed.
You got an arm cut off.
Speaker 2 (33:57):
I'm bionic.
I have metal everywhere whichwe don't even want to talk about
that process.
Speaker 1 (34:01):
Why don't you take that?
Speaker 2 (34:01):
shit Right, like for insurance.
And here's where I'm glad youbrought that up, because for me
to get I'm getting an implanteddevice put in and it's not the
first and for me to haveinsurance approve the implanted
device, I have to have a fourhour session with a psychiatrist
(34:25):
and it's mandated that anybodywho gets this device has to go
and have a four hour.
It's mandated, like, like youhave to the prerequisite.
And when I was going throughthe uh, what do you call it?
Early check-in, e-check-in,whatever and I'm answering
questions for them to schedulemy appointment, I was like could
(34:46):
you tell me what is four hourslong?
Like what is taking four hours?
Well, they have to explain toyou that your life changes
dramatically once you have animplanted device.
And we were over the phone and Isaid ma'am, because I called
her by her name.
I said I say this with theutmost respect.
I do, um, I know you can'tphysically see me, but I'm
literally like the bionic womanmeets the, the toolbox, because
(35:12):
I have all this in my face, Ihave my shoulder, I have this
and I was like I'm also anamputee and so I'm recent, I'm
not born with, I am a recentamputee and I don't think that I
am going to be someone whoneeds a four-hour consultation
over this.
And I was like, not to mention,I can't even get imaging,
(35:34):
imaging and part of the wholerhetoric I'm going through is I
can't have imaging, I can't haveMRIs, because of the metal
right and it's in the chart.
That is the process of why I'mdoing some of what I have to do
and she's like yeah, but youhave to understand that we have
to go through and talk to youand prepare you for what it's
like when your body has aforeign object in it.
(35:54):
And I'm like was I muted?
Did I say something that shedidn't hear?
Because I mean, let's be real,you know, nothing is black or
white.
They don't leave any area forgray.
You know, it's like they'vealways said about when, when
faith has had any questions canshe eat everything by mouth?
That's not a yes or no.
(36:17):
Yes, she can eat everything shewants by mouth, but if you put
a hamburger or a steak in frontof her, she's gonna throw it at
your face, right?
She's not gonna eat it.
So what are you pointing to?
No, it's left field.
It's the point that when you goto the hospital, you go through
(36:37):
all of these hoops right whenyou know I have to have a four
hour session to know what it'slike to have a foreign object.
These kids don't have to gothrough this, that when somebody
asks questions about faith wehave to be very specific but
there's no room for anythingother than yes or no.
But then these kids can go tocourt against their parents
(36:59):
because they want to start beingTammy instead of Tommy, and if
the parents don't comply, thenthey're being abusive.
It's not left field.
I mean, the whole thing comesback around that people in this
country are losing their damnmind period.
You know what happens whenyou're 18 or 20 or 21, 25,
(37:23):
whatever, and you realize I madea big mistake, like I wanted to
dress up but I wanted to goback to who I was, and now I
can't.
Speaker 1 (37:35):
I think it would really start hitting home in
like 30s and 40s, when you'retrying to settle down in your
career and you're trying toestablish a relationship long
lasting and build a home.
And then maybe when you hit 50,you're like, oh wow, I really
effed up, right, because now,now look, maybe I have nothing.
Maybe that so called 20 yearold that I was dating at the
(37:56):
time left me because you know,they were just having fun too,
or I was just an experiment, Idon't know you know, maybe one
of our guests can come on andprove me wrong right.
Speaker 2 (38:08):
I did see a very long YouTube video where it was a I
don't know.
I caught the end of it and itwas at the hospital about a
month ago.
So I don't want to say thewrong way, but the person came
out as a boy and I don't know ifthey they said they had
(38:33):
transitioned.
They said they had had the sexaltercation surgery, the sex
reassignment surgery.
I didn't catch if it was.
He was a girl and went to a boy, or he was a boy and went to a
girl.
Now he's trying to go back to aboy and he says that he took on
his parents to go get this done.
His parents said no, he wasgiven permission to do it anyway
(38:55):
.
He did and now it's the biggestmistake of his life and he was
like.
I wish more people would fightand I don't have rights to the
video so I can't put it upanywhere.
I want to see if I can reachout and say, hey, can we play
this, because it's such a strongmessage.
And he was like and I hope I'mnot offending him if he's
transitioning the other way buthe, he came out as a guy, so
(39:17):
like, but he was like.
It was the biggest mistake ofmy life, because I'm a kid and
it's my parents' responsibilityto take care of me.
And they were.
And back then I was like whywon't you let me do what I want?
Why won't you let me do what Iwant, stomping feet.
And so I did whatever I couldand it was another adult that
told me to take him to court.
And it was another adult thatsaid pursue this this way.
(39:37):
And I did, and then I got allthis done and now I'm stuck and
it's not me.
And he was like I couldn'tdecide if I wanted to go play
baseball or ballet, and now I'mnot me.
I'm not who I am, and you know,the thing is is that you're put
here to be who you are andyou're put here for a reason and
it might not make any sense,but like, empower who you are,
(40:01):
embrace who you are.
You know I can't wrap both myarms and hands around my husband
, but I sure can give him almost300 pounds 270.
But I can get one arm all theway around and my arms can, my
arm and hand can touch.
Speaker 1 (40:18):
And it's the best hug .
Speaker 2 (40:20):
But I just I feel so bad for these kids that are
trying you know what I think itis.
I think these kids are tryingso hard to get the attention of
their parents that they'rewilling to do whatever it takes
to get either positive ornegative attention, because it's
still attention right andthey're hurting so badly because
in this society, in this timetoday, everything revolves
(40:41):
around electronics and videogames.
Here's that thing I say, youknow, telephones, things of that
nature, and when, if you tookall that away and you do what we
do, you know, when we sit downat a table, there's no
conversation about electronicsunless it's very quick, or
there's no electronics at thetable unless we're waiting on a
(41:02):
doctor or a hospital call orwhatever.
But we have conversations as afamily, like you have date night
, which is movie night withFaith every week and she looks
forward to it all week, and weplay card games together and we
do things like that, and it hasnothing to do with electronics.
I'm going to be totally honest.
When we had power outage and wedidn't have internet, I was
(41:27):
happy.
Now, in all fairness, myhusband will tell you I love
advocating.
It's what I love to do.
He'll tell you that all daylong.
I love helping others, I lovehelping kids and I love helping
women and men.
I love bringing hope back.
But when nobody could do theirvideo games, nobody could do.
(41:47):
And I'm not just saying myhusband and child, I'm saying in
general it was nice, it was anice detox, because it's what's
ruining everybody really.
I mean, you look at the videogames back then to now.
Crime in schools, crime createdby children, are through the
roof.
Right, the games are also onand kids are smart.
(42:10):
Like we have a timer on ourkid's phone and she's so smart
and she has no violent games onher phone, none.
But the minute that doggonetimer is up, she goes and gets a
tablet Because guess what, nowshe's back on again.
Well, that's about to change.
But this has been recent.
Within the last few days that'sgoing to change.
(42:31):
But it's the fact that thesekids are wanting attention so
badly.
That's why you have kids thatact out, because they're not.
They're getting totally ignored.
A lot of siblings of specialneeds kids get ignored and it's
not because their parents don'tlove them, it's not for that
reason at all.
It's because the other childrequires that special additional
attention and the other kidsfeel like they're left out or
(42:57):
they don't matter and that's nottrue, but I'm sure at that age
they feel that way.
And then you have kids that arebeing bullied because maybe
they have.
You know, when I was in schoolI got made fun of because I was
a redhead.
You're a sexy redhead.
Whatever you saw pictures of mein school, you would never you
were hot.
No.
School I got made fun ofbecause I was a redhead, because
you're a sexy redhead.
Speaker 1 (43:13):
Whatever you saw pictures of me in school, you
would never hot no yes, she wasthat hot nerd that you would not
think to go ask out on a date Ididn't date in school, ever
like ever I would have dated youyou dated anyone with a pulse.
Let's call it real easy, greasywrong here you did though right
(43:35):
or wrong?
Speaker 2 (43:36):
well, maybe, maybe you almost gave one of the
parents a heart attack.
Speaker 1 (43:43):
I sure did.
Let's change it.
So, dads, y'all sit down at thetable.
You know, make it a rule likewe do here no hats, be
respectful at the table likethey did.
A rule like we do here no hats.
Be respectful at the table likethey did in olden days.
Olden days, olden, who's olden?
Who is olden, us old guys.
(44:03):
Old days no hats, no cellphones.
Look each other in the eye, askeach other how your day is.
We were eating dinner at one ofour no cell phones.
You know, look each other and Iask ask each other how your day
is.
So we were eating dinner at ourone of our really only favorite
mexican restaurant here wherewe live, and another shout out
to daily thank you, um.
And I told my wife and daughter.
(44:25):
I said this is what I love,this is what I absolutely need
and want in my life Elaborate.
It's the happiness that I crave, it's the longing, it's the
belonging.
My wife's just smiling.
It's drama free.
So you know we had a goodconversation.
(44:47):
We joked, we talked, had alittle food fight yeah, threw
food at each other.
They embarrassed me, has beenwore.
A little food fight.
Speaker 2 (44:53):
Yeah, threw food at each other.
They embarrassed me.
Husband wore a little wet gravein public.
Speaker 1 (44:58):
Sombrero.
Speaker 2 (45:00):
I can't roll my R's.
Speaker 1 (45:02):
But yeah.
Speaker 2 (45:04):
They sang oh yeah, they sang.
You ate like.
I have no idea how you.
Speaker 1 (45:10):
Don't look at my picture on any Facebook.
Speaker 2 (45:12):
We took a picture, no we took a picture no, Faith
took a picture of you trying tomake her laugh like a walrus,
with straws in your nasalcavities and like you looked
stoned.
Speaker 1 (45:21):
I was doped up from that.
Speaker 2 (45:23):
You didn't get no.
No, what no?
You didn't get Verset, youdidn't get Propofol.
Speaker 1 (45:33):
None of that, so stick it in your rumpus.
Oh, they already did.
Yes, they already did.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Well, I enjoyed tonight's talk.
Speaker 2 (45:39):
Did you?
Which one?
This one, wait, wait, waitAbout everything.
Speaker 1 (45:43):
So what.
You like love.
No, I enjoyed this talk withyou, okay, uh-huh, I'm always
trying to get me to admit that Ilike podcasting with her.
Speaker 2 (45:55):
we've only been doing it for years um first week of
April will be three years areyou kidding me?
No, and Abby will be here.
Speaker 1 (46:05):
I can't wait for Abby to get here.
She's another pain in my buttthey pranked.
Speaker 2 (46:11):
I've already been told about some of the stuff and
I how many pranks y'all got?
No, it's not y'all, it's noty'all, it's not y'all, it's not
your daughter.
Hey say youse guys, youse guys,say youse guys.
Speaker 1 (46:23):
Youse guys, I got your niece.
Yeah, now you eric actor.
Speaker 2 (46:29):
I didn't.
Faith was behind every one ofthose every one of them.
Speaker 1 (46:33):
Eric, back off, buddy , I used to be a real cop.
Oh, now it's on.
Oh, it's not.
It's not a child loans ugly.
Is that a challenge?
Oh, I said he wasn't a real cop.
Is that what I insinuated?
Speaker 2 (46:48):
okay, I'm sorry, eric , I didn't even know you do know
that I have direct access tohim now seriously seriously and,
um, you forget that we're bothon what.
What are we both on?
Speaker 1 (47:05):
eric winders um my apologies, young man I want it
with meaning let's go.
Speaker 2 (47:13):
I am going to send him a message as soon as we're
done here.
After I tell faith what yousaid, I'm gonna tell abby what
you said and you're in big, bigtrouble you know what I saw?
Speaker 1 (47:26):
the one prank where he uh pranked the female officer
into the doing the actress.
Well, I just gave her morecredit than Eric, didn't I?
Speaker 2 (47:36):
You did.
Speaker 1 (47:37):
Again.
I'm sorry, buddy, he's going tokill you.
Yeah Well, thank y'all forlistening.
Speaker 2 (47:48):
You should give him his apology to Eric.
He is a fan of ours.
Speaker 1 (47:54):
He's very nice how am I going to prank Eric, unless
it's from right here?
Speaker 2 (47:59):
But you tried to, by telling everybody to like go and
like send messages out thewazoo to his TikTok account.
Speaker 1 (48:11):
Y'all give him a good follow on TikTok.
Eric Winters from the Rookie.
Speaker 2 (48:16):
Seriously.
You know Faith and Abby aregoing to jump your skillet for
this.
That's alright.
I can take it Like jump, Jump,Jump.
Speaker 1 (48:24):
I can take it Like I took it one night in Bandcamp.
I woke up and Faith had putpress on rainbow.
No they were yes they wereFingernails on both my hands.
We have pictures yes, they havepictures.
Speaker 2 (48:43):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (48:44):
And the sound effects too, of me snoring.
Yes.
Speaker 2 (48:47):
There's other things they've done too.
Yeah, it's great.
Speaker 1 (48:51):
So thank you all for listening.
Speaker 2 (48:52):
Hold on, we have one request From Hold on Uno momento
, por favor.
Isn't that what you say?
Speaker 1 (49:01):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (49:04):
Hi, abby, you're live on air with us right now.
I thought you would like to sayhi to everybody.
Hi, so you know your wonderfuluncle and your favorite Aunt,
victoria, here is.
See, he just made a comment toEric and I thought you'd like to
(49:27):
hear it first.
Oh, he says, eric, I used to bea real cop.
Um, oh, he says, eric, I usedto be a real cop, and not a very
good one wow, this is comingfrom a 12 year old she's not 12.
Well, we talk about you on airall the time and how I'm so
(49:51):
excited that you will be heresoon and that and I said we talk
about you on air all the timeand how I'm so excited that you
will be here soon and that Wait.
And I said that I would bereaching out to Eric.
He told everybody basically tosend pranks or stuff to his, to
Eric's TikTok, and I was like no, and Wait, my phone's going to
(50:13):
die, let's see.
Well, we're about to end theshow, but I just thought you
would like to know that youruncle said to Eric that he at
least used to be a real cop.
Like I said, not a very goodone thanks Abby, goodbye Abby
that's quite rude.
Speaker 1 (50:32):
Thank y'all for listening.
How many pranks are y'allplaying in with Faith Abby?
That's quite rude.
Thank y'all for listening.
Speaker 2 (50:35):
How many pranks are y'all planning with Faith when
you get here?
Speaker 1 (50:40):
Am I going to need to hear this?
Speaker 2 (50:42):
Well, the listeners are just curious if he's going
to be pranked, obviously, Joinus next week for another episode
from A Contagious Smile.
Speaker 1 (50:53):
We love you With a sexy, lovely Victoria.
The pain in the butt, abby,don't you call?
Speaker 2 (51:00):
her that.
Don't you call her that.
Speaker 1 (51:04):
And I'm just the guy in the background, the redneck
Michael.
Thank y'all, Good night or goodmorning.
howdy y'all.
Welcome to another episode ofcontagious smile unstoppable
with your lovely and sexy vixenover here that's so nice that
you talk about yourself that wayvictoria curé, who is a
outstanding published author of41 books.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
If y'all didn't know that, okay, they're not all on
amazon I didn't say they were onamazon she.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
She said howdy y'all.
So this is Unstoppable, it'sunfiltered and we just jaw jack
and take the mic.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
No, you can scoot a little bit.
I did take the mic.
It took me, you know, decades,but I have my mic.
Nuts, hi everyone.
So I just want to take a momentand go over a couple little
things.
And so I just want to take amoment and go over a couple
little things.
First, we're celebrating thatmy husband was.
He experienced his firstcolonoscopy today.
That's not called forcelebration it is because you
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got a great report and I am sohappy.
Oh my God, it was hilariousbecause even it was Okay First
Faith and I went back and we, wehad to like put one thing at
ease and everyone told him thiswas a non-surgical, minor
procedure.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Huge surgery.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
No, if there's no cutting, no stitching, no.
So all of the doctors andnurses reminded him that it
wasn't a surgical procedure.
So everybody was having fun athis expense and laughing and
cutting up.
It was a riot.
So Faith, of course, had afield day, not to mention,
(01:34):
before we even go any further, Iam beyond thrilled.
And he did this for his family,which is so honoring.
So, men, put the excuse boatdown and do it, because he did
it for us, for his family.
Because why?
What was your reason?
You said you wanted.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
I want to live longer for my family.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
See.
So that means the world to us.
But, faith, I have to give alittle side note got a very
special treat from a new friendof a contagious smile, mr eric
winter.
Uh, don't say who that is.
(02:15):
Everybody who's ever watchedthe rookie knows who.
Yeah, whatever knows who therookie is.
It's sergeant bradford, and forthose who used to watch, or I,
he's not on it anymore.
Days of our lives.
He was on days of our lives,but he was on days of our lives.
So he sent a little note, um,thanking me for what I do and
(02:38):
how you know that's such aspecial cause to him.
He couldn't have been any nicer, like he could not have been
nicer.
And then he told Faith that heis the known prankster.
Anybody who ever watches Ericon TikTok knows he is the prank
master of the TV show the Rookieand he has said he will
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collaborate with Faith onpranking her dad, my husband
it's going to be on.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Why don't y'all right now go to Eric Winter's TikTok?
Do that.
He's such a sweet guy.
Everyone go on there.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Let's not forget, you think his wife is just.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Oh Well, we're not talking about his wife.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
They've been happily married respect for him and his
wife.
Okay, then don't have people gosending him messages, because
that's just rude no, he, if he'sgonna prank me, he's gonna get.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Yeah, he better be able to take it.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
He can dish it out anyway, he's been married to her
for decades, they have gorgeouskids and he is just, he does
housework and he treats her likea princess, so anyway.
So Faith got Eric on her side.
That's kind of cool.
And then the Breakfast Club 16Candles actor friend now John,
(04:01):
sent a message he's going to beon the show.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
He pronounced his last name.
I'm sorry, kapilos.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Kapilos.
Yeah, I hope I didn't botchthat.
If I did, I'm so sorry.
It's my husband's fault.
He was so nice and he is goingto be on, like so many people.
You know, you see somebody andyou're like I wonder if the
perception is reality.
Are they going to be a stand-upseller person or are they going
(04:27):
to be like you know, likethere's people with a reputation
in Hollywood.
You could not give me money tointerview Jennifer Lopez.
If I had to pick betweenJennifer Lopez, mariah Carey, I
would go off air.
I just wouldn't do it.
And you know I've had people sayoh, would you go on the View?
No, would I go on Ellen?
No, and it has nothing to dowith Ellen being Ellen and you
(04:48):
know being that.
She, you know, is in thecommunity and I know some people
would ask me that I completelysupport the community.
I advocate for the community.
I have family in the communityand I openly accept whoever you
are, as long as whoever you'rewith loves you unconditionally
and doesn't put their hands onyou in an unwarranted manner.
We're good, that's all I careabout.
(05:09):
You want to go back to yourcolonoscopy, but you wouldn't go
on her show?
No, because I've heard from somany that she was so mean to her
employees, to her staff, andit's coming out now speculatory,
of course, whatever.
I have to say that little sidenote that she's been involved
(05:30):
with the whole P Diddy and thechild sex.
Whatever.
It's speculation, however,whatever, and you know how I am
about that.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
So Yep, you'll be getting hate mail for that.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Okay, but I'm gonna stand up for the right of the
kids and until proven otherwise,you know, there's a lot of
proof of it.
And then her show went offright after all this came out
and Twitch, who I thought wasjust the sweetest, coolest fun
guy ever, committed suicide.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
So so, fellas, fellas , let me talk to you.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Is this a haunted house?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
No, Okay, get the colonoscopy scheduled and done
and over with.
I'm proud of you.
If you're 45, 50, just get itdone for your family.
All right, knock it out.
You want to stay alive longer.
You want to live longer forthem.
Show your family you love themby getting this done.
I promise y'all he's a baby,he's a wuss.
Done, I promise y'all he's ababy, he's a wuss.
(06:25):
The hardest part is not eatingfor like two days.
Okay, two days, if you have itscheduled.
Schedule it on a Monday so youcan have Sunday to prep,
drinking, all that crap.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
That was hilarious.
The waddle Donald, what did Icall it?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Squattle waddle.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Yeah, my husband was squattle waddling.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
She made me laugh one time and I may have, you know,
pooped a little bit, skiddingthe bridges.
I may have, you know, putsomething in the bridges and I
had to squattle, waddle it washilarious To the toilet.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
You have a vision of what a squattle waddle is I know
, okay, squattle waddle is foryou, ladies, when your husband
sticks his booty butt out right,his torso is up and elongated,
his butt is out right and he iswaddling to keep the stuff from.
What do you call it?
(07:16):
What's it?
Cudging Right and he'ssquatting, waddling and his arms
are whacking around side toside as he's trying to, you know
, expeditiously get into thetoilet, and it is hilarious.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
So the process is not bad.
Ok, you ate mighty well today.
I did the invasive procedure,if you say it wasn't me.
I had some stranger going up mypoopershoot and what did faith
say?
Speaker 2 (07:48):
she was so proud of you for going into the community
to see what it would be like,and she was very unhappy because
what's right for some is notfor others.
But she was not proud that herdad decided to try out porn
because they took pictures andthere was video of you getting
you know.
(08:08):
And so she said, because it isactually you know, whatever,
this is faith y'all.
And she had the doctors andnurses on the ground laughing so
hard at this.
But then at the end she we havevideo.
She took IV out, which waspriceless, it was great, but
everybody was cracking up atthis.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
So yeah, so just knock it out y'all.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Then we had celebratory dinner, had a
fantastic new friend, mexican.
We had Mexican Mexican DinnerFood and we had the best server.
She was amazing.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Can we give a big shout out?
Speaker 2 (08:46):
to Daly yes, she was amazing and we're trying to get
her to come on Teen Talk.
Daly, come on the show, that'sright.
Yes, get your voice heard.
That's right, because itmatters.
She's very sweet.
She was very sweet.
She said oh, you guys are thebest.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
We love you and she's like you can.
Only let me wait on you fromnow on.
And then she said oh, wait aminute, I think I have something
to embarrass your husband with.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Oh, it was great.
I doubled her tip.
So she comes out with thesombrero.
I can't roll the R because ofmy metal in my face.
So she comes out.
Can you do it?
You can, you can.
And so they bring out the hatand they're singing and hooting
and hollering and it wasfantastic.
Well done, girl.
(09:30):
Fried cheesecake, awesomeStrawberry sauce.
Then he decided to almost beginto get in a food fight with me
and Daylin had my back and saidoh, you be nice boy.
Daylin jumped my skillet.
Yes, she did, and told me tobehave.
I know, isn't boy daily jumpedmy skillet?
Speaker 1 (09:45):
yes, she did I told me to behave.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
I know ain't that great, that's awesome yeah,
she's got a birthday coming upsoon next week happy birthday so
maybe she'll come on yeah, thatwould be a great gift so maybe
you can send this one to herwell, she said she was gonna
listen this is her episode thenyeah, well, not her episode.
her episode would be when shecomes on, right, so I have to
tell you well, I'm gonna let himtalk for a minute after.
(10:09):
I tell you all what we're doing.
We are getting ready to makeour little gift bags and gift
boxes of stuff for our StuccoSquad members and if you want to
join, we're going to set it up.
Even if you don't go throughthe academy the Stucco Squad
Academy and you go through,we're going to set it up where
you can still get all thebenefits of other stuff that
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we're going to do with theStucco Squad.
We have so many gifts and letme tell you, none of it is just
junk stuff.
Right, as a special needsperson myself and a special
needs parent, I know, becauseevery person is different.
So whether they have atracheostomy or a feeding tube,
or they have a version of coloror where they can't have the
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sparkles or you know someinversion to like things that
light up or things of thatnature, I have gone way above to
make sure all of our gifts aregood.
So we have nothing that'llstick, poke or prod.
We have that sounds like yourcolonoscopy.
We have the cutest stuff, thecutest gifts, even like charms
(11:14):
for shoes, charms for a bracelet, we have logo stuff, we have
key chains, pens, hearts,ornament stuff.
I can say this on air becauseit's recorded and my husband,
who would never do anything tome, wouldn't do anything anyway.
But there's like another, Idon't know 20 different objects
coming soon as well that will beincluded in these boxes, which
(11:36):
is so much fun because I've hadsuch a good time finding these
things and all of it is goingfor the Stucco Squad and I have
to figure out who gets what.
So then we have the dog boxesthat are going to be decorated,
then we have the cool bags, thenwe have all these.
I mean, the things are just.
I had to get a whole neworganizer cabinet thing just to
(11:59):
put some in, and I think I'malready outgrowing it.
But I'm so excited because I amyou don't understand.
I love the idea of Stucco Squad.
I love what it can do, I lovewhat it means, I love who will
be involved in it.
We have the best bracelets.
They are.
And what I love about thesethey're purple and black.
I'll let him talk about it, butwhat I love about them is that
(12:23):
they are not gonna be told.
These kids are not gonna betold they have to take them off.
If they're at the hospital godforbid they're impatient or
they're outpatient having aprocedure, they're getting an IV
, they're going through MRIimaging, whatever the case may
be, they do not have to come off, which I love, love, love, love
, love, because this is theirsuperhero, like honor, right, so
(12:43):
they have it on them at alltimes and nobody's going to tell
them that they're not asuperhero and it has to come off
.
Tell them how awesome these are.
My husband has taken one and hehas not taken it off since the
day that they were delivered.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
after I made these, I'm an official vip stucco squad
superhero, and on the back itsays a contagious smile right,
but you did.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
I mean it's not, it's multicolored, it's black and
purple, it's dark, purple andblack with an outlined puppy dog
on there.
Two, one on either side.
It's a little baby stucco andthe colors are not flashy.
They're not anything that you'dhave to worry about, even on
the spectrum they are, or ifyou're epileptic.
(13:27):
It's a very smooth transitionof color and I thought that
would be great to give it like alittle pop, and, you know,
maybe it'll happen.
The writing is in white, soit's nothing very bright, you
know.
So if their eyes are sensitiveto bright colors, this is not an
option that we have to worryabout either.
My husband is looking at melike I don't know what, what,
(13:47):
what, what Say it, say it, sayit.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
I'm just looking at you.
You're gorgeous.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Whatever, but I love this.
I love the Stuggo Squad.
Like it makes me so happy.
It shouldn't make me so happy.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Your phone can wait.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
It goes off 24 hours a day.
It's crazy.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
So we'll be giving out these little trinkets.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
I'm going to hand out this stuff while you're talking
and open it.
This will be a lot of noise, Iknow, but I want people to hear
it and get excited.
They hear the rustling.
I want them to hear it and getexcited.
Open this and then you can telleverybody what each thing is as
we open.
It's in clear paper.
I can see through the plastic.
Well, nobody else.
It's a bone.
(14:28):
Do you want a bone?
It's a pla-.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
I want a bone, it's a wooden bone, I want a bone, and
wooden pulp prints.
Can I have a bone, babe?
What?
Speaker 2 (14:38):
Snooker's right here and there is also.
These are done in wood, sizzletwine tied up, yes, and you can
make these into whatever youwant.
We can decorate them and wehave so many beautiful stucco
stickers, all sorts of cool funstuff.
This is never going to stayTruth Park in.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
May is the event.
Yes, and I don't know how youget accepted.
I don't know how you gettickets.
I don't know how you getaccepted.
I don't know how you gettickets.
I don't know how you getinvited, but I'm sure my wife
will find out or already knows.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
We also have the cutest.
Oh, these are so cute.
They came into all thedifferent.
We tried to get all stucco butI wanted them to look like
superheroes, so some of them I'mgoing to tell them.
Some of them, I'm gonna tellthem.
Some of them doesn't look likestucco but they look like
superheroes, so it could be partof superhero squad.
They are the cutest bookmarksthat do not tear, so you don't
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have to worry about getting that.
What do not tear do?
not be quiet.
Um, they won't give paper cutsor anything like that.
They have have smooth edges.
I wanted to make sure all theway around Tell them what those
look like.
They're so cute.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
It's a metal bookmark .
Speaker 2 (15:49):
Oh for the love, are you?
Speaker 1 (15:50):
serious With a little corgi dog on there.
How come it's not going overthe figure?
You're making a lot of noise onthere.
Oh my gosh woman.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Okay, I'm so excited.
Tell everybody what thesethings are.
More sisistle twine, butthey're not the same.
More hearts, more bones, morepulp, but they are not the same
design.
They're not.
If I'm losing my accent and I'mgetting more country for you,
oh my lord all right.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
So yes, how do people ?
Speaker 2 (16:24):
so, podcast, powerhouse, growth academy, all
of the links.
Give me about one more week.
In all fairness, I just had aprocedure.
My husband had a non-invasivesurgical.
Yes, I have another onetomorrow.
So the time y'all hear this, Iwill actually be.
These are different sizes,these are smaller.
(16:44):
I will be in the surgerytomorrow or today while y'all
are listening to this.
So you can give me a week and Iwill let y'all know on the next
podcast that it's up andrunning.
Website, social media platformsyou name it, there will be
links to it.
You can join the social mediaplatforms.
You name it, there will belinks to it.
You can join the social media,but until then, you can go to
(17:05):
facebook and join the stuccosquad.
On facebook, it's, uh, thegroup.
You just search for groups andit's the stucco squad, so you
join there seriously, y'all,y'all go in there.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
Molly's done a lot of work on this and there's a lot
of people involved.
I mean, look at the foundationthat we're going into Give kids
the world.
Make a wish, correct.
So do you need help?
Speaker 2 (17:36):
Yes, thank you.
So we are working with some ofthe best organizations.
It's great.
We're going to have all sortsof fun stuff.
Anybody who's seen the moviePatch Adams the actual Patch
Adams actually went through anamputation not too long ago.
Most people don't know that andhis sidekick, who is just so,
so sweet, has said he'd come on.
(17:57):
We have so many people who willcome on and do live things with
the kids we have.
Like it's so amazing I am.
We have coloring contests.
There are so many differentactivities and all of them are
built around to make sureeverybody knows how amazing you
are, how extraordinary you are.
Normal, ordinary, that's whowants it?
(18:18):
Nobody does, how you can.
Impossible.
Just make a little spacebetween I am put a little
apostrophe and you know what I'mpossible and there's nothing
you can't do, and we're going tomake sure you know that and
we're going to have funactivities.
If you color, go on StuccoSquad on Facebook and you pick
out any of the coloring pages,any Color it in.
(18:38):
I like it when it's not in thelines, because that's just my
favorite.
Take a picture, have anybodyyou know, upload it for us and
you're going to get a prize,like we're going to send you a
prize, and we're not talkingabout like something you don't
want.
These are really good prizes.
I'm going to color just to geta prize.
I think that's what I'm goingto do.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
I'm coloring to get a prize because I'm going to be
sitting there doing nothing fortwo and a half hours tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
What is in this bag, mr Solomon Bogeys?
Well, kind of, but let me tellyou, as a mom, of a special
needs miracle when she wasyounger, and I know a lot of
moms know about this.
When our kids are younger, wehave emergency bags.
We have, like, I had to carryan apnea machine, a CPAP, I had
(19:28):
tracheostomy, I had an emergencybag, I had an oxygen tank, I
had the feeding tube bag, youname it, I had it.
Well, sometimes, when Godforbid, something happens,
sometimes you don't rememberwhat's what and where's where,
because you've got a plethora ofstuff and it's just you, more
than likely, because it was justme, and so these are awesome.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
And then of course.
So these are like a keychaintag.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
My husband should know me better than that by now
and we have got just the cutest,most amazing little catchphrase
, fun things about our puppiesto put on these tags, and I got
them in every color you canimagine.
So that's going to be super funand because I'm actually going
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to hand it to you, he gets tohim and Faith will get to put
all of them on the key rings.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
I like this sticker.
I work hard so my dog can havea better life.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
Let's talk about cute saying, shall we?
Because this is going to be youand Faith's project, besides
others that I have coming foryou right now.
So we very frequently playcards as a family.
So we very frequently playcards as a family, and last
night we were playing phase 10,right, we were playing phase 10.
(20:51):
And my husband's soulmate, loveof my life, actually, he was
doing pretty good and he won theround, and Faith is sitting
there.
I'm obviously sitting there,stucco's laid out on me, and my
husband looks at me and says, oh, you lost your hand there on
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that one.
Huh.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
It was intended as in you lost a hand of phase 10.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
Well, that's not what you said?
Speaker 1 (21:22):
I said, yes, you lost your.
Well, that's not what you said.
I said, yes, you lost your hand.
That's not what you said.
Guys, my wife is a left arm MVPbelow the elbow.
Speaker 2 (21:31):
Right, but if I didn't have a good sense of
humor, woo?
Speaker 1 (21:35):
I made a shameless pun and yeah.
But, she can take it.
Speaker 2 (21:42):
So what did you just unwrap?
Uh, more balls.
But they're different shapes,they're all different designs
right, it's all revolving arounddogs it's no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no.
Let's make sure you're correct.
It's all around stucco, oh mygosh, you hear that stucco
that's my baby.
You better tread carefully.
(22:02):
And what is that?
You've got there, but we'reboth things more.
Now don't be saying anythingabout me making noise when
you're making all that noise bythere I'm sorry y'all, I'm
making all this you know, whenfaith was little, she loved that
sound, that, that plastic, allright.
Now, what's this?
These are so cute woodcardboard I was just gonna ask
(22:29):
that.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
So wooden cutouts with the word love and the o is
a paw print now, mr creative,what could kids do that would be
so cool with that they couldpaint it.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
Paint it, use it for a haunted house.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
You put magic marker on there, they could smear some
mud on there.
Oh lord, make it unique uniqueand we got it.
Give it to your mom, she'llhang it on the fridge.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
And then we've got all sorts of pens.
These are super cute.
They're soft.
What do you call this like?
How do you explain this pen?
I think these are so cute.
I don't know a little fidgetthing, no, well, yes, but it
also.
I think the parents mightactually keep this one and take
it.
Um, but it's got a little pawprint on it and it's so cute.
And then we got all differentcolor charms charms for the
(23:23):
shoes and for bracelets and Iknow as soon as I move my new
shelf it's going to flip in.
Everything of my organizationskills here will just make a
mess.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
So y'all keep my wife in your thoughts and prayers
tomorrow as she undergoesanother freaking surgery.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
No it won't be tomorrow, it'll be today,
because this gets released onTuesday and you release it in
the morning.
Every day this week we havesomething.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
We'll be en route to the hospital and y'all can
listen and just keep your mind.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
No, you keep these two in mind.
That's what I care about.
Now we get to other fun stuff.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
That's enough.
Speaker 2 (24:03):
This last one I like.
Come on, open up and telleverybody what this is.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
You can see it.
It's clear plastic.
You know what it's in a Ziplocbag.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
Tell everybody what these are.
These are so cute.
Lowered, lowered and lowered.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Again, there wouldn't cut out.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
There wouldn't cut out see, see what happens, uh
huh, uh little key fobs well,you gotta read them.
Hang on.
My husband's afraid to movebecause last time and well every
time today and yesterday he'smoved about a pile high of like
(24:50):
the whole office.
As tall as he is in the chairhas just fallen everywhere.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
The little wooden disc with a heart cut out at the
bottom is I guess this is forlike a key chain, a key ring,
and it says a pocket hug.
Others say little pocket hug.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
And if you feel they all say something different, if
you feel the reason that wepicked these is because you can
hold on to it when you're havingsomething done, and either the
parents can hold on to it I planon putting one for the parents
and one for the kids in the bag.
They can hold on to it, you canhold on to it.
(25:34):
There's no sharp edges, no wayto get any splinters or any kind
of cuts of any way, and theycan just hold on to it.
That does not go there and youcan just have a little hug with
you whenever and that's soimportant we all need hugs.
Hugs are such good things Likehugs are great things.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
So, yes.
What else.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
Okay, I have to get serious oh.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
We received an email from a young man okay who wants
to come on our show?
We receive a lot of emails andvideos uh, so I want to express
that young man to respondpromptly to my email.
I just sent you tonight oryesterday, if you're listening,
(26:26):
and we'll get you on our show,buddy.
Speaker 2 (26:29):
So a topic I do want to talk about and I want to hear
, of course, what you think isin California now.
A law has passed.
Why do you put stuff where itdoesn't belong?
A law has passed.
Why do you put stuff where itdoesn't belong?
A law has passed.
You have to be 21 to drink.
You have to be of a certain ageto get a tattoo I believe
(26:52):
California is 18 but you don'tneed your parents consent if you
want to go and get your bitstaken off.
If you want to go and get yourbits taken off if you want to go
through gender reassignmentsurgery and if you, if the child
tries to go to court withagainst the parents, the parents
can be charged with child abuseand neglect.
(27:13):
Wow, how is that even possiblewhen you're, I mean, five, six,
eight, ten, eleven years old?
Speaker 1 (27:20):
This turned dark.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
Well, no, but listen.
But that's what we do.
We talk about things otherpeople don't or won't.
Right, when you're five, six,eight, ten, eleven, whatever the
case may be, you don't evenknow what kind of birthday party
you want.
They're going that young.
Oh yeah, people are starting atlike five and six.
Dressing is opposite sex now,and six dressing is opposite sex
.
Speaker 1 (27:40):
now they don't know if they want Cheerios or Froot
Loops at that age.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Right, that's what I'm saying.
You don't know what kind ofbirthday party you want, and
here's the thing Is that youknow.
The debate is well, if a man istransitioning into a woman, he
should be able to use a woman'srestroom, even during the whole
transition.
But what about our kids?
That's little girls that are inthere, you know.
Or boys, Right.
And here's the thing is thatyou know, if you identify as a
(28:06):
cat, then good for you foridentifying a cat.
Speaker 1 (28:10):
Don't get your shots.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
You need to have a rabies and you need to go to the
vet.
Speaker 1 (28:14):
A vet probably, 100% probably won't see you, I only
do rectal thermometers.
Speaker 2 (28:19):
Oh my God, You're all about this rectal thing, since
you had this experience today.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
Everyone needs this experience.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
I okay, Anyway, I got my hero cookie.
Did you enjoy the flavor?
Yes, ew, so anyway, that's whatI don't understand.
Like, if you want to identifyas a cat, fine.
That's what I don't understand.
Like, if you want to identifyas a cat, fine.
Our school systems are moreafraid of offending someone and
(28:47):
their pronouns than working onour education, and that is just
preposterous to me.
You know, at the end of the day, let's do this.
How do you explain what a manis?
What is a man in your opinion?
Speaker 1 (29:04):
A man is a male born with a penis and two testicles.
Speaker 2 (29:09):
Okay, but a man.
Speaker 1 (29:12):
A man is something different.
A man is someone who provides,protects his family, stands up
for what's right.
Speaker 2 (29:20):
Okay, and what do you identify as a woman?
Speaker 1 (29:24):
A woman is a female born a female with breastasis, a
vagina.
Okay, that's a female.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
What if you have a surgery, a reassignment surgery,
voluntarily, sure, and thenyou're dressing as?
A female you're taking alldifferent hormones.
You're a messed up woman now.
See the thing is.
But see, I play devil'sadvocate.
(29:57):
I'm gonna play devil's advocateabout.
It is if you are xx chromosome,right, that's your DNA.
Right, let's look at DNA and XXchromosomes right, then you are
a.
What are you with XX chromosome?
What are you?
What's XY?
You don't know.
No, are you kidding?
(30:18):
Did you sleep in this class?
Speaker 1 (30:20):
I did sleep in the class.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
Let's try it this way if you're able to bear children
, then people say, okay, thenyou're a woman.
But what about people who havehad a hysterectomy?
Speaker 1 (30:37):
right, or something else okay, but aren't they?
Speaker 2 (30:42):
what's the difference in a person who's had a
hysterectomy and a trans?
Because they can't produce achild and neither can a trans.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
Well, they're still opposites.
Speaker 2 (30:53):
How.
Speaker 1 (30:54):
If one's a trans, then that means they're the
opposite sex of the woman with ahysterectomy.
Speaker 2 (30:58):
What if they had reassignment surgery?
What if they had their peniscut off?
Speaker 1 (31:03):
Then there's still the opposite of a woman who's
had a hysterectomy.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Why do you say that?
Speaker 1 (31:10):
Because one is a woman born a female.
The other is a man born a male,turning into a woman or
attempting to.
I'm going to get flack for this, I don't care, y'all hate me,
michael.
Speaker 2 (31:28):
No, I mean, I just don't understand, like, hey, if
to each their own.
I have multiple people in my wedon't speak family that are in
the community and I support, youknow, as long as they're happy.
And I don't mean happy as gay,I mean happy as in mentally and
(31:48):
emotionally, you know, positive,I guess, quickly coming up with
something.
As long as they are, you know,in love or happy.
See, I keep going back to theword happy, but I don't mean
that in an offensive way as gay,right, I mean it like, as long
as they are.
Thank you, then.
More power to whomever andeveryone.
(32:09):
Everyone deserves be loved,everyone should be loved, right?
If you want to be loved by aman and you're a man, god bless
you.
If you're a woman and you wantto be loved by a woman, god
bless you.
You know, I have friends thatI've known all of faith's life
that are on both sides andthey're married with partners.
God bless all of you.
I have no problem with it.
(32:30):
I am a very straightheterosexual woman who is only
attracted to my husband.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
I'm thankful for that .
Speaker 2 (32:39):
But that doesn't mean that you know, I have an issue
with it, because I don't, I haveno issue with it at all.
But I don't understand how somepeople come out and say I
identify as a cat and then theschools are like, oh, let me get
you litter, cat, litter for thebathroom, right.
And now in California you areallowed to take your parents to
(33:03):
court for child neglect, childabuse, because they're
prohibiting you from doing thishormonal thing.
They want to stop puberty andthey want to.
But the thing is is thatthey're not keeping you from a
sleepover, right, and some ofthis is non-reversible.
You can't reverse some of this.
(33:24):
Well, a lot of it is done bythe state, if the parents you
know.
Speaker 1 (33:30):
But I mean, the problem is, so the state is
paying for their transfigurationit's very expensive.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
People in jail are getting them done and it's paid
by the taxpayers okay.
Speaker 1 (33:42):
So why do I have to go to the hospital and pay my
own bill for a surgery?
I can't dispute that why do youhave to go and pay for yours?
Speaker 2 (33:51):
I can't dispute that either.
Speaker 1 (33:52):
You got transformed.
You got an arm cut off.
Speaker 2 (33:57):
I'm bionic.
I have metal everywhere whichwe don't even want to talk about
that process.
Speaker 1 (34:01):
Why don't you take that?
Speaker 2 (34:01):
shit Right, like for insurance.
And here's where I'm glad youbrought that up, because for me
to get I'm getting an implanteddevice put in and it's not the
first and for me to haveinsurance approve the implanted
device, I have to have a fourhour session with a psychiatrist
(34:25):
and it's mandated that anybodywho gets this device has to go
and have a four hour.
It's mandated, like, like youhave to the prerequisite.
And when I was going throughthe uh, what do you call it?
Early check-in, e-check-in,whatever and I'm answering
questions for them to schedulemy appointment, I was like could
(34:46):
you tell me what is four hourslong?
Like what is taking four hours?
Well, they have to explain toyou that your life changes
dramatically once you have animplanted device.
And we were over the phone and Isaid ma'am, because I called
her by her name.
I said I say this with theutmost respect.
I do, um, I know you can'tphysically see me, but I'm
literally like the bionic womanmeets the, the toolbox, because
(35:12):
I have all this in my face, Ihave my shoulder, I have this
and I was like I'm also anamputee and so I'm recent, I'm
not born with, I am a recentamputee and I don't think that I
am going to be someone whoneeds a four-hour consultation
over this.
And I was like, not to mention,I can't even get imaging,
(35:34):
imaging and part of the wholerhetoric I'm going through is I
can't have imaging, I can't haveMRIs, because of the metal
right and it's in the chart.
That is the process of why I'mdoing some of what I have to do
and she's like yeah, but youhave to understand that we have
to go through and talk to youand prepare you for what it's
like when your body has aforeign object in it.
(35:54):
And I'm like was I muted?
Did I say something that shedidn't hear?
Because I mean, let's be real,you know, nothing is black or
white.
They don't leave any area forgray.
You know, it's like they'vealways said about when, when
faith has had any questions canshe eat everything by mouth?
That's not a yes or no.
(36:17):
Yes, she can eat everything shewants by mouth, but if you put
a hamburger or a steak in frontof her, she's gonna throw it at
your face, right?
She's not gonna eat it.
So what are you pointing to?
No, it's left field.
It's the point that when you goto the hospital, you go through
(36:37):
all of these hoops right whenyou know I have to have a four
hour session to know what it'slike to have a foreign object.
These kids don't have to gothrough this, that when somebody
asks questions about faith wehave to be very specific but
there's no room for anythingother than yes or no.
But then these kids can go tocourt against their parents
(36:59):
because they want to start beingTammy instead of Tommy, and if
the parents don't comply, thenthey're being abusive.
It's not left field.
I mean, the whole thing comesback around that people in this
country are losing their damnmind period.
You know what happens whenyou're 18 or 20 or 21, 25,
(37:23):
whatever, and you realize I madea big mistake, like I wanted to
dress up but I wanted to goback to who I was, and now I
can't.
Speaker 1 (37:35):
I think it would really start hitting home in
like 30s and 40s, when you'retrying to settle down in your
career and you're trying toestablish a relationship long
lasting and build a home.
And then maybe when you hit 50,you're like, oh wow, I really
effed up, right, because now,now look, maybe I have nothing.
Maybe that so called 20 yearold that I was dating at the
(37:56):
time left me because you know,they were just having fun too,
or I was just an experiment, Idon't know you know, maybe one
of our guests can come on andprove me wrong right.
Speaker 2 (38:08):
I did see a very long YouTube video where it was a I
don't know.
I caught the end of it and itwas at the hospital about a
month ago.
So I don't want to say thewrong way, but the person came
out as a boy and I don't know ifthey they said they had
(38:33):
transitioned.
They said they had had the sexaltercation surgery, the sex
reassignment surgery.
I didn't catch if it was.
He was a girl and went to a boy, or he was a boy and went to a
girl.
Now he's trying to go back to aboy and he says that he took on
his parents to go get this done.
His parents said no, he wasgiven permission to do it anyway
(38:55):
.
He did and now it's the biggestmistake of his life and he was
like.
I wish more people would fightand I don't have rights to the
video so I can't put it upanywhere.
I want to see if I can reachout and say, hey, can we play
this, because it's such a strongmessage.
And he was like and I hope I'mnot offending him if he's
transitioning the other way buthe, he came out as a guy, so
(39:17):
like, but he was like.
It was the biggest mistake ofmy life, because I'm a kid and
it's my parents' responsibilityto take care of me.
And they were.
And back then I was like whywon't you let me do what I want?
Why won't you let me do what Iwant, stomping feet.
And so I did whatever I couldand it was another adult that
told me to take him to court.
And it was another adult thatsaid pursue this this way.
(39:37):
And I did, and then I got allthis done and now I'm stuck and
it's not me.
And he was like I couldn'tdecide if I wanted to go play
baseball or ballet, and now I'mnot me.
I'm not who I am, and you know,the thing is is that you're put
here to be who you are andyou're put here for a reason and
it might not make any sense,but like, empower who you are,
(40:01):
embrace who you are.
You know I can't wrap both myarms and hands around my husband
, but I sure can give him almost300 pounds 270.
But I can get one arm all theway around and my arms can, my
arm and hand can touch.
Speaker 1 (40:18):
And it's the best hug .
Speaker 2 (40:20):
But I just I feel so bad for these kids that are
trying you know what I think itis.
I think these kids are tryingso hard to get the attention of
their parents that they'rewilling to do whatever it takes
to get either positive ornegative attention, because it's
still attention right andthey're hurting so badly because
in this society, in this timetoday, everything revolves
(40:41):
around electronics and videogames.
Here's that thing I say, youknow, telephones, things of that
nature, and when, if you tookall that away and you do what we
do, you know, when we sit downat a table, there's no
conversation about electronicsunless it's very quick, or
there's no electronics at thetable unless we're waiting on a
(41:02):
doctor or a hospital call orwhatever.
But we have conversations as afamily, like you have date night
, which is movie night withFaith every week and she looks
forward to it all week, and weplay card games together and we
do things like that, and it hasnothing to do with electronics.
I'm going to be totally honest.
When we had power outage and wedidn't have internet, I was
(41:27):
happy.
Now, in all fairness, myhusband will tell you I love
advocating.
It's what I love to do.
He'll tell you that all daylong.
I love helping others, I lovehelping kids and I love helping
women and men.
I love bringing hope back.
But when nobody could do theirvideo games, nobody could do.
(41:47):
And I'm not just saying myhusband and child, I'm saying in
general it was nice, it was anice detox, because it's what's
ruining everybody really.
I mean, you look at the videogames back then to now.
Crime in schools, crime createdby children, are through the
roof.
Right, the games are also onand kids are smart.
(42:10):
Like we have a timer on ourkid's phone and she's so smart
and she has no violent games onher phone, none.
But the minute that doggonetimer is up, she goes and gets a
tablet Because guess what, nowshe's back on again.
Well, that's about to change.
But this has been recent.
Within the last few days that'sgoing to change.
(42:31):
But it's the fact that thesekids are wanting attention so
badly.
That's why you have kids thatact out, because they're not.
They're getting totally ignored.
A lot of siblings of specialneeds kids get ignored and it's
not because their parents don'tlove them, it's not for that
reason at all.
It's because the other childrequires that special additional
attention and the other kidsfeel like they're left out or
(42:57):
they don't matter and that's nottrue, but I'm sure at that age
they feel that way.
And then you have kids that arebeing bullied because maybe
they have.
You know, when I was in schoolI got made fun of because I was
a redhead.
You're a sexy redhead.
Whatever you saw pictures of mein school, you would never you
were hot.
No.
School I got made fun ofbecause I was a redhead, because
you're a sexy redhead.
Speaker 1 (43:13):
Whatever you saw pictures of me in school, you
would never hot no yes, she wasthat hot nerd that you would not
think to go ask out on a date Ididn't date in school, ever
like ever I would have dated youyou dated anyone with a pulse.
Let's call it real easy, greasywrong here you did though right
(43:35):
or wrong?
Speaker 2 (43:36):
well, maybe, maybe you almost gave one of the
parents a heart attack.
Speaker 1 (43:43):
I sure did.
Let's change it.
So, dads, y'all sit down at thetable.
You know, make it a rule likewe do here no hats, be
respectful at the table likethey did.
A rule like we do here no hats.
Be respectful at the table likethey did in olden days.
Olden days, olden, who's olden?
Who is olden, us old guys.
(44:03):
Old days no hats, no cellphones.
Look each other in the eye, askeach other how your day is.
We were eating dinner at one ofour no cell phones.
You know, look each other and Iask ask each other how your day
is.
So we were eating dinner at ourone of our really only favorite
mexican restaurant here wherewe live, and another shout out
to daily thank you, um.
And I told my wife and daughter.
(44:25):
I said this is what I love,this is what I absolutely need
and want in my life Elaborate.
It's the happiness that I crave, it's the longing, it's the
belonging.
My wife's just smiling.
It's drama free.
So you know we had a goodconversation.
(44:47):
We joked, we talked, had alittle food fight yeah, threw
food at each other.
They embarrassed me, has beenwore.
A little food fight.
Speaker 2 (44:53):
Yeah, threw food at each other.
They embarrassed me.
Husband wore a little wet gravein public.
Speaker 1 (44:58):
Sombrero.
Speaker 2 (45:00):
I can't roll my R's.
Speaker 1 (45:02):
But yeah.
Speaker 2 (45:04):
They sang oh yeah, they sang.
You ate like.
I have no idea how you.
Speaker 1 (45:10):
Don't look at my picture on any Facebook.
Speaker 2 (45:12):
We took a picture, no we took a picture no, Faith
took a picture of you trying tomake her laugh like a walrus,
with straws in your nasalcavities and like you looked
stoned.
Speaker 1 (45:21):
I was doped up from that.
Speaker 2 (45:23):
You didn't get no.
No, what no?
You didn't get Verset, youdidn't get Propofol.
Speaker 1 (45:33):
None of that, so stick it in your rumpus.
Oh, they already did.
Yes, they already did.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Well, I enjoyed tonight's talk.
Speaker 2 (45:39):
Did you?
Which one?
This one, wait, wait, waitAbout everything.
Speaker 1 (45:43):
So what.
You like love.
No, I enjoyed this talk withyou, okay, uh-huh, I'm always
trying to get me to admit that Ilike podcasting with her.
Speaker 2 (45:55):
we've only been doing it for years um first week of
April will be three years areyou kidding me?
No, and Abby will be here.
Speaker 1 (46:05):
I can't wait for Abby to get here.
She's another pain in my buttthey pranked.
Speaker 2 (46:11):
I've already been told about some of the stuff and
I how many pranks y'all got?
No, it's not y'all, it's noty'all, it's not y'all, it's not
your daughter.
Hey say youse guys, youse guys,say youse guys.
Speaker 1 (46:23):
Youse guys, I got your niece.
Yeah, now you eric actor.
Speaker 2 (46:29):
I didn't.
Faith was behind every one ofthose every one of them.
Speaker 1 (46:33):
Eric, back off, buddy , I used to be a real cop.
Oh, now it's on.
Oh, it's not.
It's not a child loans ugly.
Is that a challenge?
Oh, I said he wasn't a real cop.
Is that what I insinuated?
Speaker 2 (46:48):
okay, I'm sorry, eric , I didn't even know you do know
that I have direct access tohim now seriously seriously and,
um, you forget that we're bothon what.
What are we both on?
Speaker 1 (47:05):
eric winders um my apologies, young man I want it
with meaning let's go.
Speaker 2 (47:13):
I am going to send him a message as soon as we're
done here.
After I tell faith what yousaid, I'm gonna tell abby what
you said and you're in big, bigtrouble you know what I saw?
Speaker 1 (47:26):
the one prank where he uh pranked the female officer
into the doing the actress.
Well, I just gave her morecredit than Eric, didn't I?
Speaker 2 (47:36):
You did.
Speaker 1 (47:37):
Again.
I'm sorry, buddy, he's going tokill you.
Yeah Well, thank y'all forlistening.
Speaker 2 (47:48):
You should give him his apology to Eric.
He is a fan of ours.
Speaker 1 (47:54):
He's very nice how am I going to prank Eric, unless
it's from right here?
Speaker 2 (47:59):
But you tried to, by telling everybody to like go and
like send messages out thewazoo to his TikTok account.
Speaker 1 (48:11):
Y'all give him a good follow on TikTok.
Eric Winters from the Rookie.
Speaker 2 (48:16):
Seriously.
You know Faith and Abby aregoing to jump your skillet for
this.
That's alright.
I can take it Like jump, Jump,Jump.
Speaker 1 (48:24):
I can take it Like I took it one night in Bandcamp.
I woke up and Faith had putpress on rainbow.
No they were yes they wereFingernails on both my hands.
We have pictures yes, they havepictures.
Speaker 2 (48:43):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (48:44):
And the sound effects too, of me snoring.
Yes.
Speaker 2 (48:47):
There's other things they've done too.
Yeah, it's great.
Speaker 1 (48:51):
So thank you all for listening.
Speaker 2 (48:52):
Hold on, we have one request From Hold on Uno momento
, por favor.
Isn't that what you say?
Speaker 1 (49:01):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (49:04):
Hi, abby, you're live on air with us right now.
I thought you would like to sayhi to everybody.
Hi, so you know your wonderfuluncle and your favorite Aunt,
victoria, here is.
See, he just made a comment toEric and I thought you'd like to
(49:27):
hear it first.
Oh, he says, eric, I used to bea real cop.
Um, oh, he says, eric, I usedto be a real cop, and not a very
good one wow, this is comingfrom a 12 year old she's not 12.
Well, we talk about you on airall the time and how I'm so
(49:51):
excited that you will be heresoon and that and I said we talk
about you on air all the timeand how I'm so excited that you
will be here soon and that Wait.
And I said that I would bereaching out to Eric.
He told everybody basically tosend pranks or stuff to his, to
Eric's TikTok, and I was like no, and Wait, my phone's going to
(50:13):
die, let's see.
Well, we're about to end theshow, but I just thought you
would like to know that youruncle said to Eric that he at
least used to be a real cop.
Like I said, not a very goodone thanks Abby, goodbye Abby
that's quite rude.
Speaker 1 (50:32):
Thank y'all for listening.
How many pranks are y'allplaying in with Faith Abby?
That's quite rude.
Thank y'all for listening.
Speaker 2 (50:35):
How many pranks are y'all planning with Faith when
you get here?
Speaker 1 (50:40):
Am I going to need to hear this?
Speaker 2 (50:42):
Well, the listeners are just curious if he's going
to be pranked, obviously, Joinus next week for another episode
from A Contagious Smile.
Speaker 1 (50:53):
We love you With a sexy, lovely Victoria.
The pain in the butt, abby,don't you call?
Speaker 2 (51:00):
her that.
Don't you call her that.
Speaker 1 (51:04):
And I'm just the guy in the background, the redneck
Michael.
Thank y'all, Good night or goodmorning.
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