A Foster Kid's Tale

In Chapter 16 : Beavis and Butthead, I pull back the curtain on my teenage and early adult years with Jean and William—my life givers. These relationships were a non-stop rollercoaster of drama, conflict, and emotional turbulence. From fiery verbal sparring matches to the constant weight of their problems and financial burdens, it often felt like I was the parent in the equation. In this episode, I reflect on the chaos, the resilie...

In this episode, I dive deep into Attachment Theory and how it’s shaped my journey through life. From the impact of missing early attachments to learning how to trust and build relationships as an adult, I share my personal story and insights on emotional healing. Plus, with the holidays approaching, I reflect on the absence of a supportive village and how that impacts my connection with others. Tune in for a heartfelt conversatio...

In this episode, we dive into Chapter 14 of Pathway to Victory, where I share the raw journey of leaving home at 16. From stepping into college at a young age to experiencing my first round of homelessness at 18, these years were filled with intense life lessons. I also get real about the beginnings of my "daddy issues" and how they impacted my sense of self. Recording this episode on the very day that marks two decades since I fi...

This past year wasn’t just another trip around the sun—it was a game-changer. In this episode, I’m reflecting on 35, a year that pushed me to new heights, personally and professionally. From big wins to deeper self-awareness, I’m celebrating all the ways this year helped me grow.

But here’s the twist: birthdays haven’t always been easy for me, and I’m sharing why today, of all days, used to feel more like a burden than a celebrati...

In this episode of A Foster Kid’s Tale, I take an unexpected detour from my usual format to share some deeply personal reflections. I talk about my recent breakdown, which many of you saw on Instagram, and the emotional moment of finally saying goodbye to Jean—someone I refuse to call "Mom." I also open up about why I chose to use a pen name for my memoir, along with why I renamed everyone, including my abusers. Plus, a quick vent ...

Hey everyone! This is just a quick check-in to say hi and let you know what's been going on. Can you believe how fast this summer has flown by? I haven't had a chance to record a normal episode in a while, but I promise more content is coming soon! Also, apologies for the tinny sound quality in this episode—turns out I was using my computer mic instead of my podcast mic. Oops! Thanks for sticking with me, and don't forg...

In this episode, we explore Chapters Three and Five, delving into the magic and heartbreak of childhood friendships. Early best friends shape our social skills and emotional development, teaching us empathy and communication. 

But what happens when we lose these friends in the most traumatic ways? The abrupt loss can leave lasting scars, challenging our trust and security. Join me as I share the stories of my first and last best f...