A-Game Unfiltered

In this raw and powerful episode, Smith & Mayhew dive deep into the roots of behaviour, self-sabotage, and the impact of unresolved childhood trauma. They discuss the contrasting theories of Freud (cause and effect) and Adler (purpose and choice), all through the lens of real coaching experiences. With brutally honest storytelling, they explore how early abuse, gaslighting, and emotional manipulation can shape a man’s self-wort...

In this episode, Smith & Mayhew get brutally honest about the chase for validation — whether it's through shredded photo shoots, over-sharing on social media, or pretending a banana and water bottle make you better than everyone else in the gym. The lads dive into how ego and low self-esteem often masquerade as ambition, how social media fuels performative behaviour, and why that “perfect” body pic might just lead you straight ...

In this episode, Smith and Mayhew dive deep into some uncomfortable—but essential truths about becoming a better man. From Stoic principles like Memento Mori to redefining success beyond image and ego, they explore how real growth starts with hard choices, emotional honesty, and a willingness to confront your own excuses.

They break down how to respond (not react) to adversity, why self-awareness and self-perception are not the sam...

In this episode, Smith and Mayhew strip back the noise and get real about what it takes to be better — not perfect, not polished, just better. Doing all of that through the lens of Adolescence on Netflix

They dig into boundaries, being present with your kids, and the art of showing up as your best self — even when life’s a mess. You’ll hear about the ‘no rules’ approach to personal growth, why vulnerability isn’t weakness, and how ...

In this episode, Smith and Mayhew break down the key habits, mindsets, and strategies that separate those who coast through life from those who take charge. Whether it’s overcoming self-doubt, refining daily routines, or making smarter choices, this conversation is about progress—not perfection.

They cover the most common traps that hold men back, practical steps to develop resilience, and the overlooked details that make a massive...

In this episode, Smith and Mayhew dive into some of the big questions you’ve sent in, covering everything from why practicing gratitude feels awkward at first, to how to stop letting external events—like your football team losing—ruin your weekend.

They also discuss when it’s time to step back from toxic people (or just people who aren’t aligned with your goals anymore) and why making small shifts in mindset can have a huge impact ...

In this episode, Smith discusses a model called "The 6 Human Needs", highlighting each of the needs and why they're so important for people to obtain to have a happier, more healthy life.

If you want your question answered on a future episode, please drop the lads a line : hello@agameconsultancy.com

Adam Smith

From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he’s ever been, Adam Smith’s self-development journey hasn’t been...

In this episode, Smith and Mayhew dive into the Drama Triangle – a powerful psychological model that explains how people get stuck in toxic cycles of victimhood, rescuing, and blame. Whether it’s in relationships, at work, or even with your own thoughts, understanding these patterns is the first step to breaking free and communicating more effectively. We also introduce the Empowerment Dynamic, the game-changing alternative that he...

In this episode, Smith and Mayhew dive into the powerful lessons from The Courage to Be Disliked and why so many men hold themselves back because of fear—fear of judgment, fear of failure, and fear of not being ‘ready’. We unpack why waiting for the perfect conditions is just another excuse, how self-sabotage often hides behind good intentions, and why caring less about what others think is a game-changer for growth.

If you want yo...

In this episode of A-Game Unfiltered, Smith & Mayhew dive into the blurred lines between sacrifices and choices—are you really giving something up, or are you just making a decision based on what matters most? They also tackle the concept of self-obsession, exploring how it’s not just about vanity and six-packs, but can also manifest in a victim mentality.

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This episode dives deep into the excuses we tell ourselves—why we wait for the ‘perfect time’ to start, why we sabotage our own progress, and why so many men feel stuck without a clear sense of purpose.

Once again Smith & Mayhew, open the floor to answer your questions, today tackling:

• How can I repair my relationship when I feel distant from my partner?
• Why do I feel stuck in life? And how can I find my purpose?
• Why do I ...

Smith & Mayhew dive deep into the art of resilience, emotional control, and why getting triggered by Elon Musk might not be the best use of your energy. They discuss how anger is often a choice, the power of reframing emotions, and the importance of consuming content that serves your inner peace. From ultra-endurance races to dodgy Netflix choices before bed, the lads explore how challenging yourself physically and mentally bui...

This episode is all about breaking through the barriers that hold you back. Whether it’s feeling overwhelmed by too many goals, struggling to ask for help, or falling into the same old patterns of self-sabotage, we tackle the mindset shifts needed to move forward.

Expect real talk, practical strategies, and a deep dive into the psychology of decision-making. Plus, we unpack why people make ridiculous commitments in January, why Lin...

In this episode we get deep into the topic of forgiveness and self-compassion. From heart-wrenching personal anecdotes about helping others through tough times to the transformative power of forgiving yourself, they tackle the emotional complexities of growth and healing.

They also discuss the importance of maintaining standards in your daily life, like making your bed and not letting chaos creep into your world. Expect reflections...

In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of self-awareness and the pivotal role it plays in achieving peak performance.

From the importance of journaling and meditation to practical tips for staying present, Mayhew offers practical advice for meditation noobs, whilst Smith shares his own experiences with anger and overcoming setbacks and learning to laugh at life’s little hiccups—like an unexpected encounter with a sa...

This episode is all about breaking patterns, raising standards, and turning your goals into lasting habits. We discuss why tracking your progress matters, how micro-habits create big wins, and why your energy and confidence are directly tied to your boundaries and daily choices. Whether it’s smashing fitness goals, building self-esteem, or rethinking how you respond to setbacks, this episode is packed with actionable advice for the...

In this episode, we dive deep into the impact of your thoughts on your overall happiness and quality of life. From exploring Stoic wisdom with Marcus Aurelius to discussing the practical strategies for overcoming negativity, this conversation is packed with actionable insights. 

The show has been freshened up for 2025, and based around the questions Smith & Mayhew get from listeners.  Please drop us a line to get your question ...

In this episode, we dive into how to set achievable goals, develop healthier habits, and move past the mental blocks holding you back. Smith & Mayhew share powerful insights on turning negative self-talk into motivation, as well as their tried-and-tested "4x4 template" for effective goal-setting.

Along the way, we reflect on the lessons of the past year, from navigating setbacks to celebrating big wins, and discuss how small, m...

Smith and Mayhew discuss the importance of spending time with your family at Christmas but not dropping the ball for the entire month of December! (You know who you are!)

In this episode, you'll also hear some stellar singing ....and as a special Christmas gift you'll find out about the dictionary definition of the word "flare" 🎁🤣

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