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September 17, 2025 26 mins

Are we actually healing… or just rebranding our toxicity? 🤡 This week we dive into the messy, chaotic, clown-nosed reality of what “healing” actually looks like. Think journaling at noon and texting your ex at 12:05, blocking/unblocking cycles, and all the delusional little milestones that make growth feel ✨spicy✨



In This Episode We Discuss: 

• The most delusional “I’m healed” moments  

• Whether blocking is growth or just petty rebranding

• Can you date while healing or do you need to be alone?

• Petty “healed” boundaries we’ve set (and broken)

• Why healing isn’t linear… it’s messy, petty, and sometimes drunk

•Game of the Week: Villain or Visionary: Healing Edition 


💌 This one’s  for you if you’ve ever celebrated a week of no contact like a national holiday 


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 Timestamps:

1:02 – Most delusional “I’m healed” moment

6:01 – Is blocking growth or just toxic rebrand?

9:08 – Blocker or muter?

11:31 – When you learned healing isn’t linear

16:23 – Dumbest thing you justified as “healing”

17:44 – Does healing look different for hoes vs. housewives?

19:22 – Can you heal while dating, or need to be alone?

23:11 – Pettiest “healed” boundary you’ve set

24:54 – Game: Villain or Visionary (Healing Edition)



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